scorpio740 joined May 15, 2010
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Posted by Beetleguese
Mirror him, he'll either understand how it feels to have someone say "no you don't" or he'll miss the lesson in considering the other persons feelings due to his actions in which case you should seriously consider if you want to be with someone like that. But I'd basically call him out on it,
YES on this.. a true scorp trait.. I say the same thing. give him the same medicine. see how he'll act. make him feel what you feel.. if he react, tell him everything you told us on this post. if he doesn't, he's obviously playing, its up to you if you want to play the same game or find someone serious.
good luck.
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Posted by scorpio_chic
It's very possible she went on a date or two with another guy but that doesn't mean that she fucked him.
OH NOES, you date another guy while you're with me? or even flirted/entertained another guy while you're with me? that means betrayal for me girlfriend..she fukced him or not.. life's not going to be easy on this woman if she's with me.. hmm..let's see how wills he react IF I swayed my feelings and Date another woman.. don't worry, I won't Fukc her.. I know better *smile* see if this girl will forgive you after that.. lucky her wagamama is a nice dude.
Posted by Asleep
Yeah..
Considering she doesn't want to talk about WHY they broke up! "Oh, you don't want to talk about it? Can take these ol' cheap ass chocolates back for a refund!"click to expand
High 5 asleep!!!! ^^^^
Posted by Asleep
Hmmmm
When you originally posted, I thought she may have dumped you out of a lack of security/long term commitment. So, she went celibate on you for 6 months, and finally dumped you? This was long distance, so when you visited nothing sexual happened at all?
It sounds like she hooked up with another dude, and came back when she realized it wasn't going to work or the dude was a prick.
I would say to find out what happened, and don't get terribly excited over an order she placed online for you. "I love you and miss you, sincerly your girl" I would've probably thrown the latter half of that message away until I knew what was up. Break up and then decide on your own you are back in? Naaaaah, don't work that way.
GL dude, I'm sure you have a better idea than any of us what the deal is!
yeah, I thought the same thing base from his story. It's like she was with someone while they were still together (or at least lost interest in him and dated other guys while they were still together) and finally broke it off 2 weeks ago. LOL.
Posted by wagamama
@scorpio740 really its only been two weeks we broke up. in the entire 4yrs we have been together this is the most "stir up my mind" she has put me thru.
should i give her a call?
well.. as a courtesy, I would say thank you at least. =) asking her back is a whole different story. but this is a good opportunity to make her explain everything..follow your heart.. you know her best. =)
4 years eh? hehe.. that's normal..she realized the relationship is too valuable to just throw away. she missed you and wants you back. that's all. 2 weeks for me is a long time you know especially if the person and I talk to each other everyday.
hahaa...
Well obviously, she missed you or realized you're still the one. She was prolly "trying out" other men but soon to realize that you're still the one. it's like shopping you know.. you go check out all the clothes..try them on.. pick the best one. she realized that her first choice was the best (YOU) so yeah..she's back.
easy! =)
now, the power is on you. use it wisely! =D
Well obviously, she missed you or realized you're still the one. She was prolly "trying out" other men but soon to realize that you're still the one. it's like shopping you know.. you go check out all the clothes..try them on.. pick the best one. she realized that her first choice was the best (YOU) so yeah..she's back.
easy! =)
now, the power is on you. use it wisely! =D
hahahaah... funny scenario...
yes.. CANCERS ARE THE MASTERS OF MANIPULATION. ZOMG..
I don't know what to say.. Like seriously. you know you're being manipulated by them yet you "fool" yourself that you'll get even one day so you succumb to their manipulation. Yet when the pay back day comes along. You can't do it. cos you feel sad for them.. you care for them.. you love them.. you say to yourself..they didn't mean what they did.. they're too weak that you're scared you'll destroy them permanently if you get revenge... so you let all the Fukced up stuff they did go. and the cycle goes on..
if you decide to get even, expect the worst guilt trip ever. wow. you'll actually feel it's all your fault when in fact, it's theirs! and you end up doing favors for them so they could "forgive you" and give you "another chance".
best bet is to let them go.. but if u do that, they'll come back..after disappearing for awhile..they'll win you back.(using their powerful intuition..they know your weakness) once you're won over, they'll bring back the abandonment they felt during stupid arguments that they themselves created just for the hell of it.. they'll whine about how you have hurt them.. how evil you were.. how you betrayed them...and so on and so forth.. so now, you'll feel guilty again.
I say this: TOO TIRING!!!!!!!!! it's game over! truly GAME OVER!! ice them out.. that's the only way to stop the cling..freeze the hell out of them, too cold they need to go to north pole just to defrost..
yes.. CANCERS ARE THE MASTERS OF MANIPULATION. ZOMG..
I don't know what to say.. Like seriously. you know you're being manipulated by them yet you "fool" yourself that you'll get even one day so you succumb to their manipulation. Yet when the pay back day comes along. You can't do it. cos you feel sad for them.. you care for them.. you love them.. you say to yourself..they didn't mean what they did.. they're too weak that you're scared you'll destroy them permanently if you get revenge... so you let all the Fukced up stuff they did go. and the cycle goes on..
if you decide to get even, expect the worst guilt trip ever. wow. you'll actually feel it's all your fault when in fact, it's theirs! and you end up doing favors for them so they could "forgive you" and give you "another chance".
best bet is to let them go.. but if u do that, they'll come back..after disappearing for awhile..they'll win you back.(using their powerful intuition..they know your weakness) once you're won over, they'll bring back the abandonment they felt during stupid arguments that they themselves created just for the hell of it.. they'll whine about how you have hurt them.. how evil you were.. how you betrayed them...and so on and so forth.. so now, you'll feel guilty again.
I say this: TOO TIRING!!!!!!!!! it's game over! truly GAME OVER!! ice them out.. that's the only way to stop the cling..freeze the hell out of them, too cold they need to go to north pole just to defrost..
fun quiz!!! couldn't stop laughing at the options! hahaha..
Intellectual Inferno
You have an intellectual sexiness factor of 83!
Who am I to give you advice? You already know everything you need to know, and if there's something you don't know, you're eager to check it out. You are among the few special minds in the world that are truly free, totally creative, and absolutely sexy. The downside is, it's hard to find partners who can keep up with your quick, vigorously sexy mind. You often find yourself bored with anything less than exciting sex, and only those who equal your intellect, your openess, and your creativity can provide that excitment. You're an avid reader, a deep thinking, and a sexually liberated person. You enjoy learning for its own sake just as much as you enjoy sex for pleasure's own sake. Your partner, if he or she is able to keep up with you, is extremely lucky to have you.
Intellectual Inferno
You have an intellectual sexiness factor of 83!
Who am I to give you advice? You already know everything you need to know, and if there's something you don't know, you're eager to check it out. You are among the few special minds in the world that are truly free, totally creative, and absolutely sexy. The downside is, it's hard to find partners who can keep up with your quick, vigorously sexy mind. You often find yourself bored with anything less than exciting sex, and only those who equal your intellect, your openess, and your creativity can provide that excitment. You're an avid reader, a deep thinking, and a sexually liberated person. You enjoy learning for its own sake just as much as you enjoy sex for pleasure's own sake. Your partner, if he or she is able to keep up with you, is extremely lucky to have you.
Posted by shellshockerPosted by scorpio740Posted by cheeky14u
what I am looking for is help in how I can rectify the situation????????
chat with leo men..(loyal, generous, and fix.. not like cancers who hurt and push people or run away all the time..no loyalty of what so ever!)
hahaha! Cancers suck!
They can see through bullshit... and people don't like it. Then we feel bad about it...
When people see through THEIR bullshit... they don't like it. Then we get angry about it...click to expand
ok too many pronouns..
who is THEY? who is THEIR and who is WE? (maybe THEY and We means cancers? )cancers see thru bs and people don't like it then cancers feel bad about it?
just want to know.. (^.^)
the answer if it's me is YES (personally). I need to be your most trusted friend before I could betray you. I needed to be the most important person in your life before I do my necessary action, otherwise, it would be useless.
but then again, I have to weigh the time and effort I need to waste versus the hurt you caused before I do that. Usually, simple stuff i let them go... as long as you won't give me the chance to get even. 'cos if I see an opportunity (without doing any effort), no matter how long it has been since the mistake was made.. i'd take it.. hahaha.. so yeah.. pray.
but then again, I have to weigh the time and effort I need to waste versus the hurt you caused before I do that. Usually, simple stuff i let them go... as long as you won't give me the chance to get even. 'cos if I see an opportunity (without doing any effort), no matter how long it has been since the mistake was made.. i'd take it.. hahaha.. so yeah.. pray.
Posted by cheeky14u
what I am looking for is help in how I can rectify the situation????????
NOTHING. don't do anything! patience is the answer. He will contact you again. 5 years of online friendship you said yes? HE will email you again. it will take time. but if you have him on facebook or MSN or skype. bridge is not yet burned.. He'll contact you again. (might not be for a romantic pursuit so don't have your hopes up.. but he will get in touch with you again for sure.)
I have Aries moon so I know how you feel.. take it to positive light and realize that aries let go of their negative feelings fairly quickly than cancer men.. so what, you're hurt.. lesson learned to never expose your feelings to that man ever again UNTIL HE DOES SO FIRST.
live life.. chat with leo men..(loyal, generous, and fix.. not like cancers who hurt and push people or run away all the time..no loyalty of what so ever!)
sags are good, too but they are too aloof.. and we don't have patience for these wild horses' love games
Posted by shellshocker
ohhhh... he's trying to get you to break up with him or preparing you for a 'separation' while he figures out what he wants.
It's going to get worse... My brother's a Cancer and he'd do this shit with girls.
when you do break up with him, mean it. Cold turkey...
if you try to 'work it out' he'll make your life a living hell and leave scars.
I actually got a feeling he wanted me out of his life... you must be right.
to OP: i think he's just angry. give him time. he'll be back.
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