scorpiobabe joined April 16, 2006
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yeah it doesnt mean anything. everyone has that in the bulletin. just a cute way to see what people say about you. so dont get jealous. although i know that myspace isnt a safe website if you are seriously dating. either deal with what is written on their, delete both the accounts if you dont want either to find other people, or dont read each ohters webpage..
Libra's and scorps relatinship that i have been in, is great in the fact that we think on the same lines. We can support in words and talk for ever. Its my intuition i know exactly how he/she feels. He's the best friend I would want to have on my back and suppport me thru my trouble times. As you are having problems in your marriage, it will always seem great that the scorp will be there and give you the answers you want to hear, but its jsut that online. we can say anything becuase we arent afraid online. its in person, that he may be different and that's where his true self lies. We can be anybody online, but in person, our true self shines thru and until you mean him, you really dont know how he really is. You also need to seperate the lines of finding yourself and what you want to do with this marriage before you do anything iwth this scorp becuase either way its going to be a rebound relatinship if you dont heal yourself first and give yourself atleast a year time alone, before you start in a relationship with a new guy or its just the fact of loneliness and it wouldnt last. Believe me I was in sort of the same boat. tho my husband is in Iraq for over a year now and legally I cant file when he's serving. I just decided I cant live my life not seeing him and the things the military life has made things difficult on top of the signs of two scorps together is a tremendous amount of stress and highs and lows constantly. Goodluck in your decision. Fnd yourself first, before you do anything irrational.
I have my nodes on my profile. Doesn't that mean what you are destined for where you are going to go in life direction? Your path of life.
Its states that mine is in Sag.
Its states that mine is in Sag.
well actually he said it pretty early with out saying it. I want to tell you something, but I dont want to scare you away. So I told him to take his time Cuz I dont want to be scared either, knewing what he was going to tell me. I think this was like 2 weeks after dating everyday of seeing each other. AFter a month he literally said it for real. I asked him if that is possible for it to be real love if he can say it that fast and not be lust, and he said its true becuase normally he doestn even last this long if it was just lust. Usually when he's dating, girls start to bother him and he ends things becuase they grow to bother him. With me, he didnt feel that way ever. It took me a week longer because I'm not the kind of person who just gives my heart and I dont say I love you back jsut becuase you say it to me. I know that people say it in the heat of the moment, or mix it up for really caring. I guess there's different levels of love. then the falling in love is completely different. You know? neither of us has ever said it so fast to anyone else. that's why i am in a whirlwind right now, becuase i never give my heart up so easily. But I'm trying to be different. Let fate be fate this time and not control so much. i realize that I value this relationship so much becuase we have so much in common (80% ) and what we dont we balance each other out (ying/yang). And if it doesnt work, I've cherished every minute of the day.
The marriage that I've been in for 10 yrs and seperated from my husband for almost 2 yrs now, it was best of friends first, Highschool sweetheart knew him for 4 yrs before I dated, we were attracted to each other, always hung in the same circles of friends but never dated until our senior year. he already joined the service and left after we graduated HS and then we went our own way. 3 yrs later, he contacted my family home and I called him back living on the other side of the states and we had a long distant relationship and saw him all the time on vacation when he came home to see me. We got married and the relationship grew. That's how I usually am. All about knowing and letting the relationship grow to be and then made the passiion happen since he's a scorpio as well. We had a rollercoaster of a ride. When it was great it was really great like 3 times great, when it was bad, its worst then wanting to die.Very high and lows. There was no middle ground for us. It was def friends first and make the relationship work and then we made the passion happen since we knew everything about each other, including our family lived like 6 blocks away from each other.
Where as my capricorn makes me stable and not so irrate and evens me out. We are building the hot fiery passion at the same time as the deep meaningful make this work out type as well so its an equal balance and I love it. I love living in the grays and not be so volitile good and bad.
The marriage that I've been in for 10 yrs and seperated from my husband for almost 2 yrs now, it was best of friends first, Highschool sweetheart knew him for 4 yrs before I dated, we were attracted to each other, always hung in the same circles of friends but never dated until our senior year. he already joined the service and left after we graduated HS and then we went our own way. 3 yrs later, he contacted my family home and I called him back living on the other side of the states and we had a long distant relationship and saw him all the time on vacation when he came home to see me. We got married and the relationship grew. That's how I usually am. All about knowing and letting the relationship grow to be and then made the passiion happen since he's a scorpio as well. We had a rollercoaster of a ride. When it was great it was really great like 3 times great, when it was bad, its worst then wanting to die.Very high and lows. There was no middle ground for us. It was def friends first and make the relationship work and then we made the passion happen since we knew everything about each other, including our family lived like 6 blocks away from each other.
Where as my capricorn makes me stable and not so irrate and evens me out. We are building the hot fiery passion at the same time as the deep meaningful make this work out type as well so its an equal balance and I love it. I love living in the grays and not be so volitile good and bad.
Thanks for you advice. I finally realized allthat. I had a long talk with him last night and everything is great. Yea we are in a relationship. he told me he loves me and vice versa. he is the one who wanted the exclusive relationship and I finally was able to talk aobut it and define it with him. Then after it was said, that's when he did his disappearing act. I told him how I felt and he finally undertstood how i felt and feel and ease my mind by calling me or texting me everyday even when he feelsl ike he needs to "disappear" on me. It wasnt like he was intentionally doing htat, he just was focused on one thing like you said. For me, I'm a multi-tasker and also my mind goes a million miles a minute and we compromise so that I feel safe and secure on our newly defined relationship that if he just says hey im safe and im good he can do his own thing and space with out me feeling like i need tocontrol things. just so that i feel like things are cool with us and he's not ignoring me and builds trust with me. Now that he's going to do that' I have no other issues with him. its so kosher now I can focus on my life and not worry that our relationship is going to disappear to nothing. I guess that's my fear. Of abadonment or someone leaving me regardless of a relatinship or just a friendship. Now I'm confident of the relationship and can talk to him about anything.
We dont ooz out the charm, the sexuality until one is worth giving. You have to already be in the "right" one for us to give you the special treatment. We dont give the gift of us on site. We arent players, we like to find the right person. If you are intelligent, attractive, and can deal with us - no nonsense and understand us, then you got the power and the pull to see the sexual side of us. Atleast it is for me. If you can walk the walk as much as talk the talk, it intrugues us. then you can come in a play with us. If not, then its not worth wasting either of our time. But then outside of a relatinship, give us a good topic and we can debate it for the long haul. whether thats about sex, love, relationship, politics, religion. We are open to what we feel. just dont be judgemental aobut what we say. Then its all cool and we arent so hot tempered to talka bout anything. We do actually open up with those people we think are cool, or hot and sexy.
If you tell the bad things before they meet, its not a good thing. Makes both parties suspicious and already prejudging each other and makes it difficult on the first introduction of each other.
yeah i agree, once you get married, all other friends or atleast sngle friends disappear.
yeah i agree, once you get married, all other friends or atleast sngle friends disappear.
So what fields of jobs is best for scorpios? What do you do and are you happy in it or is it just for the bacon and the roof over your head?
I'm in the business field - finance, accounting, analysing etc. Started in law but then disagree with the justice system and got out of there as much as I love criminal justice.
What about u?
I'm in the business field - finance, accounting, analysing etc. Started in law but then disagree with the justice system and got out of there as much as I love criminal justice.
What about u?
Scorps are friends for life As long as you keep them as your allie and not become an enemy. In a relationship, as long as you know their fear and can give them the respect and accountibility and trust, they would give the shirt off thier back, and then can give up the control/possessiveness that everyone says we are, but if you do them wrong, watch out.
Scorps are more open then you think - really intelligent, deep thinkers, provacatively so, so in-tuned with themselves and people watchers. tough on the outside, but a softie in the middle. Also, I do better on a one-on-one or a small group situation to be close and get to know each other than a big party or function. Unless its a meaningless thing, then a party is great fun.
Scorps are more open then you think - really intelligent, deep thinkers, provacatively so, so in-tuned with themselves and people watchers. tough on the outside, but a softie in the middle. Also, I do better on a one-on-one or a small group situation to be close and get to know each other than a big party or function. Unless its a meaningless thing, then a party is great fun.
I was once with a libra man. With the libra man he was really into horoscopes as well. We could talk for hours on end. To me he's a little soft for me. He's very romantic and true and have alot in personality and how we think about things. He's the friend I owuld want to have to support me and the troubles I am having. So yeah they are very caring, loveable. In the bedroom, they are passionate, but not as intense as us scorps. they give with their heart, but for me its not wild enough - a bit conservative. He says I scare him sometime in the bedroom. I like my man who knows what he wants with me and acts on it. If i wasnt with a Capricorn now, I'd def would settle for a libra for my second choice, its a very compatible match, but capricorns to me are everything I am looking for in and out of the bedroom. Good luck!
I think you should let him know that you have no interest in your ex and that he (scorp male) means alot to you. My scorpio (seperated) husband of 10 yrs loves to be doted on. Wanted to be praised and told that he was great and everything. tho he might have been shocked and pulled away, he would have taken a step back for a minute, but then would have opened up to you esp if you didnt go back to you ex and now you did, you have to explain that "lie" to him and make him understand and make him feel like you want to be with him or however it is that you feel about him at this time. If he's pissed he might not give you a chance if you wait around for him to come back if he thinks your a cheating type or into your ex again. jealousy is a big thing for a scorpio regardless if you do anything wrong or not. Goodluck Cancer!
Well he finally called and I had a long talk with my cap and everything is so great now. I explained to him how it makes me feel that he doesnt call me for a day or two because I either worry that he doesnt care about me, doesnt return my phone call/text or what not, and that he's alive and safe. I also told him what is important to me to in a relationship for trust, reliability, support of being there. I asked him if even if he feels like he needs to disappear if he can just call me or text me on a daily basis even its its like im alive, thinking of you or im busy but wanted to know that im here. He said that alot of people have asked him to do that like his friends (buddies), family (mom), etc etc and he's never done that before. I just explained to him that I can understand that. I do the same things I dont contact my family and friends on a daily basis, but now that we are in a relationship that I need to feel secure in it between you and I. That yes I love my family but I still need my space but with you, I'm in love iwth you as you are with me and its not for me to control you. Its just a way to settle my mind because I'm a worrier and it makes me feel good to know that you dont ignore me (or my calls/text), you and I are ok, and most of all that you are safe (becuase if i dont see you for a week/or hear from you for a few days, how am I suppose to know that something didnt happen to you? and if I dont hear from you on a daily basis then it freaks me out and/or makes me feel like I dont matter or makes my head think a million things a minute.
He said you really know how to make me smile huh? I said huh? and he said I'm in a bad mood its a monday and he's so busy, but he said I am very sweet and that nobody has cared about him in this way and explains it the way I did. I told him that I'm a control freak of my life, but I'm not here to control him or anyone elses. But to hear his voice to know that he's ok even if he doestn want to talk to me, he can just text "I'm alive and well or im busy and cant talk but am thinking of you or something to know your are ok" or even if we talk for 2 seconds just to say hi and miss you and got to run, then that's enough for me. I said that builds up my trust, the respect, the accountability, the support knowing you are there for me and makes me feel more positive about us. That that is just as important as being "exclusive" to each other in this relationship". So he finally said that that's very true and that i couldnt make him do anything he wouldnt want to do and this is a small request and that he would call or text me everyday even if he needs his space just to ease my mind.
Then we talked about religion and politics and life in general and no matter if we agreed or disagree we can talk and not argue. its a beautiful relationship!!
It made me so happy becuase this is the really only issue I have with him. I just wanted to share and update my progress. So I'm sorry if this is so long. Thanks for all the advice. I'm not going to stress out about us anymore. I feel content now and not on emotional overdrive.
He said you really know how to make me smile huh? I said huh? and he said I'm in a bad mood its a monday and he's so busy, but he said I am very sweet and that nobody has cared about him in this way and explains it the way I did. I told him that I'm a control freak of my life, but I'm not here to control him or anyone elses. But to hear his voice to know that he's ok even if he doestn want to talk to me, he can just text "I'm alive and well or im busy and cant talk but am thinking of you or something to know your are ok" or even if we talk for 2 seconds just to say hi and miss you and got to run, then that's enough for me. I said that builds up my trust, the respect, the accountability, the support knowing you are there for me and makes me feel more positive about us. That that is just as important as being "exclusive" to each other in this relationship". So he finally said that that's very true and that i couldnt make him do anything he wouldnt want to do and this is a small request and that he would call or text me everyday even if he needs his space just to ease my mind.
Then we talked about religion and politics and life in general and no matter if we agreed or disagree we can talk and not argue. its a beautiful relationship!!
It made me so happy becuase this is the really only issue I have with him. I just wanted to share and update my progress. So I'm sorry if this is so long. Thanks for all the advice. I'm not going to stress out about us anymore. I feel content now and not on emotional overdrive.
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