I'm a scorpio who is quite happily in a relationship with my Leo (6-months now!). We get along fantastically, although he's really particular and we're both stubborn. So it's certainly possible.
However, as stated, I really believe that it depends a lot on the rest of the chart. Especially the moon signs. In my case, my Gemini moon allows me to be more actively social (though it's a pain, and he LOVES being social), and his Scorpio mon helps him to undersand and interpret my undercurrents.
Both!
Outwordly I want the guy to "think" that he's the one doing the pursuing. However I'm likely to be subtly hunting just as hard. Or at least trying to pull the strings so that things go along as I want them to.
@ianthepisces - Oh! He wasn't asking or even suggestion that I purchase the set for him. It jut came up in casual conversation while we were out.
Thank you both for responding.
@Jynja - I like the picture idea, I think I might incorporate that. Thanks!
Not too long ago I had a libra guy admit to loving me at first site. Barely a week into talking (hanging out over one weekend) he was full of I love yous and already talking marriage and babies and how we'd live at his grandparents old place.
I'll tell you, on one hand it was nice having such a seeming guarantee of everything I wanted in life. On the other hand it was also boring as all get out.
I dumped him and ended up with someone who still keeps me on my toes today.
So yes, you probably threw him for a loop, but he could have rolled with it depending on how you presented yourself and how much he already cared for you.
But it sounds like you took his inability to match the intensity of your feelings at the same pace badly. And it also sounds lime you pushed for more. I'd say this is here you went wrong.
No one likes being pressured.
So, August is fast approaching and with it my Leo's birthday. Now, I know that every person is an individual and the best presents are personalized to that person's tastes and personality. That said I have an idea for a present idea that I'm thinking about and I'd like to hear what you lovely Leo's think about it.
My guy likes to tinker and build stuff and we had a discussion a couple of month ago about how he especially likes the larger Lego sets. He even mentioned a specific one. The problem is that it's over $ 1000 for the set. Not being able to afford that I simply stored the knowledge away. Then one say I stumbled upon Pleygo (which is self-described as Netflix for Legos. Basically I can pay a monthly fee and rent sets. They even have the one that he was interested in.
I'm curious if ya'll think this might be a good idea. Or do you think the fact that he wouldn't be able to keep what he built would negate the pleasure, or even just lessen it.
I'm also open to any suggestions for ideas that I could supplement or add.
My sister is a Cap, so I'm not sure if it's her sun or other aspects but I've always found her to be a bit selfish, shady, and dramatic. But seeing as I know no other Capricorn ladies I can't pass judgement on the entire sign. My venus is in Cap though, so I really out to do some more research into the sign.
When I'm attracted to someone I want to be in constant contact with them. To the point of being clingy. Of course, since I realize this isn't always good behavior I will hide it and try to play it cool and act nonchalant. I like to see the other person chasing me and I will only put out as much as I think that I'm getting. No matter how infatuated I am. That being said, I will rarely if ever turn down the chance to spend time with the person I like.
I identify as a sexual submissive and have next to no desire to dominant another in the bedroom. That being said, it is usually only in relation to men. With woman I feel more naturally dominant, with some notable exceptions.
Outside of my sex life though it varies. With friends I tend to be the dominant one, with family I usually roll over unless I feel particularly strongly about something.
Yes, it sounds like you were being rather pushy. Even though you were joking around, he obviously thought that you were serious. This could have easily turned into an argument if he hadn't "given in" to it. Luckily he seems alright with you meeting his friends, so that's good at least.
I'd go if I were you, otherwise it's going to give a really bad impression of you.
I don't think that I'm any more superficial then the next person. Although I think my Scorpio sun probably gives me enough depth all on it's on.
I've certainly never been called superficial. Although I do prefer to keep things simple and not bother worrying about things that I can't do anything about.