scorpioncrab joined July 18, 2006
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The best lover I ever had was a Cancer (but so was the worst) Cancers like to take their time and they are not selfish,very passionate and tender until they decide they want to make you lose your mind, in which case something might get broken (renter's insurance anyone?) It is very hard to resist a Cancer b/c we (they) are very seductive (for us that's half the act). Cancers like to touch and get close enough for the skin to barely touch and then take you, unmercifully! To be honest, I believe that this and the romantic,vulnerable, sensuous side of Cancer male is why women end up falling for them and then getting hurt when he doesn't want to commit. Better off sticking w/ a Scorpio who can make your toes curl and still let you know he just a playa so you don't get attached. And from my experience and my friends', I think the word "persistent" is attached to Cancers for a reason...won't see them buying Viagra!
Me! Unless I'm suffering from PMS in which case I can be all of that in an hour! And then I just get hungry and whorny! And maybe even violent! But mostly just giggly! The most important thing for us to remember is that when we get that way we should just keep to ourselves or just hang around our other Cancer friends who understand and will help us laugh about it all.
Of course his friends know who you are-he's talked about you for sure. Why? B/c he needs reassurance that he is making the right decision (we research obsessively b4 making big and little decisions). What do you do? Continue to be nice and open (not pushy or aggressive, flirt as much as you want (think "it girl") and best of all be a good friend if it comes to that Cancers move very slowly,but persistently. Cancers do not usually enter relationships w/out developing a real friendship first (unless you don't mind him being a booty buddy).
Couldn't help but reply...long story short, after 5 years of not speaking to an ex b/c he wouldn't commit (after 5 years of listening to him tell me the same things your cancer tells you) he comes out and tells me and my friends he's never loved any other woman the way he loves me! Of course he was drunk (and whorny) but I thought, he must be insane! After everything we went through-and my years of crying,shutting myself off from any other guys, and giving him the freezing cold shoulder?! I'm sure he just needed that reassurance that he could still get my attention, but I couldn't help but think how truly selfish and cruel he must really be! I understand that Cancers like a challenge, but we also love to be in love-so if he is being this aloof, then something's up. Keep in mind that Cancers appreciate adoration and detest clinginess and smothering. I'm sure you'll do what you want, but remember-after prooving what a great catch you really are he may be getting the message that you're just trying to trap him or worse-that you are soo out of control that you don't really deserve his respect (extremely important to Cancers,too.) My advice is...leave why you still have your dignity-if he's really "into you" he'll come back and make a real committment. In the meantime you may find someone who really appreciates you-like a Virgo!
Depends on what you mean... in love relationships it would have to be Scorpios and Cancers (still recovering from those heartbreaks). When it comes to people in general I have the least tolerance for Leo,Gemini,and Aquarius. Meet a Libra on the wrong day and it's on for sure!
Thanks for bringing this up...it's why my name is Scorpioncrab-people always assume I'm a Scorp when they meet me and I've been accused of being very intense and scary! Me? I'm a sweet,sensitive Cancer! But my Scorp influence gets me into sooo much trouble (however, makes me a very interesting lover,for real!). When I just think I might be getting serious about a guy I ALWAYS check his entire chart! I really do believe the moon and ascendent play very vital roles in a persons personality.
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