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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 13
Hey TaurusBabe,
Im 33...my BF is 24. The one before this was seven years younger than me. And the one before that was six years younger.
21 year olds hit on me too. Younger men love older women because we are in control. They cant boss us around, they know we dont need them, and that turns them on.
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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 13
Personally, I wouldnt like the situation if I was his girlfriend either. I mean...your visiting him AND his family? And you have on mulitple occasions? I wouldnt like it either!
I mean, yeah, a friend is a friend is a friend.....but come on. He has to draw the line in the sand somewhere....when two people choose to start becoming more serious with each other...that involves some compromise and sacrifice on both parts. And it also means getting closer to each other's families, and for a female to be jaunting about with him and his family a few times a year is kinda over the boundary I would think. Plus, you have never met her, which means she has never met you, which means she owes you nothing. Perhaps, and this is just a thought, she knew you were coming and told him she wanted to meet you. He probably felt uncomfortable about this, considering he has been venting about her to you, and obviously it wasnt all peaches and cream. Plus, you do seem alittle too pissed off about his choice of girlfriend and his choice in general to choose HIS WIFE. Of course he should choose his wife. For whatever reasons he did this, it sucks, either ask him to explain, or move on.
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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 13
hiding comments now? bad boy.
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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 13
Im going back to work now....
I am blushing.
We will talk about our trashy wedding latas.
(Im gonna get a shirt that says "Mrs. Negative", cuz thats so hott...)
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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 13
Jesus..........
your good.
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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 13
whatevs Negative, I do what I want....
Just deal with it.
Trust me, I could make it up to you (bats eyelashes...)
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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 13
WTF?
Hey, I was replaced that fast?
The whole vegas and Elvis and handcuffs thing was getting me excited.
I think we should all hook up in Vegas, yeah!
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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 13
Hello LawLaw,
I dated an Aries man for a year and some. We fought alot in the beginning. Until I stood up to him and let him know his ridiculous bull headed antics were not going to be tolerated. Plus, he is/was a bit of a drama king and constantly needed re-assurance and attention.
Anyways, what I am trying to say, as a Scorpio, is, we do what we want. We dont mean to hurt others, its not our intention. You are pushing him away by being like this and "fighting" over it, yet being passive-aggressive and saying you dont want to make a big deal out of it. You and him are not the same people, so just because you would "never think" about doing something, doesnt mean you can make him think the same way.
Your best bet, especially with a Scorp, is to state your case in a calm manner. Be totally to the point. Tell him what you think about it, ask him to respect your feelings about it, and if this does not work, let him know there will be consequences by backing away from him. Dont be as nice, or as attentive, ignore him alittle and make him come to you. We hate being ignored.
Now, as a woman, dealing with a man, I would never tolerate that crap from a guy and worse yet, what he said to you? Oh hell no! You dont care if I sleep at another guy's house? Blah blah blahhhhhh......... Dont put up with that, and dont fight about it, just be like "oh yeah, really, ok sweetie...." and then do what you want when you want. Period.