scorpioswife joined January 18, 2005
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I will tell you one thing, I've noticed Scorpios like a quick transition from relationship to relationship without taking much of a breather in between.
Let me tell you this. Years ago I was madly in love with a fellow scorpio, we had a fight and he just dropped out of site, no word or anything...just left, no closure, no resolution.
Lo and behold, 11 years later I find out he has been married to this woman he met ~around then~, and has 2 kids with her!
So ok, he still feels the "old feeling" with me and his marriage is not happy---this jerk wanted to have me on the side!!!!!!!!!!HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The truth is it gets back to that scorps hate to be alone bit. They like to keep someone on the back burner when the current relationship hits a rocky point. I told him to "act like a man."(Well I meant a man of HONOR, not just another man-dog who thinks with his crotch.)
I told the same to my fellow scorpio ex hubby to his face "Act like a man, I know its a pretty tall order for you!"hahahahaha
Sorry but omg are these men are babies sometimes. The trouble comes in when they use all these snaky manevuers to hide it, instead of like..um..BEING REAL!
Let me tell you this. Years ago I was madly in love with a fellow scorpio, we had a fight and he just dropped out of site, no word or anything...just left, no closure, no resolution.
Lo and behold, 11 years later I find out he has been married to this woman he met ~around then~, and has 2 kids with her!
So ok, he still feels the "old feeling" with me and his marriage is not happy---this jerk wanted to have me on the side!!!!!!!!!!HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The truth is it gets back to that scorps hate to be alone bit. They like to keep someone on the back burner when the current relationship hits a rocky point. I told him to "act like a man."(Well I meant a man of HONOR, not just another man-dog who thinks with his crotch.)
I told the same to my fellow scorpio ex hubby to his face "Act like a man, I know its a pretty tall order for you!"hahahahaha
Sorry but omg are these men are babies sometimes. The trouble comes in when they use all these snaky manevuers to hide it, instead of like..um..BEING REAL!
What a relevant topic! I am a Scorpio woman who filed on my Scorpio ex 3 months ago. What am unethical, exploiting others for his own gain snake! He lived life as a facade, and so does my Scorpio ex flame from the past who is pursuing me now.
get this, this a-hole is MARRIED to yet another Scorpio woman! And he is pursuing me, gettind rid of him has been like trying to exorcise a demon.
I think scorpio-scorpio can be a good combo at times, but my, does it turn ugly. Frequently I see Scorpio men cheat, I think its the secret doublelife that attracts them.
Don't get me wrong, I am sure some scorp ladies out there are jerks, too...but the men don't seem to wear the sign very well in my personal opinion. Not in a relationship anyways.
get this, this a-hole is MARRIED to yet another Scorpio woman! And he is pursuing me, gettind rid of him has been like trying to exorcise a demon.
I think scorpio-scorpio can be a good combo at times, but my, does it turn ugly. Frequently I see Scorpio men cheat, I think its the secret doublelife that attracts them.
Don't get me wrong, I am sure some scorp ladies out there are jerks, too...but the men don't seem to wear the sign very well in my personal opinion. Not in a relationship anyways.
About the feeling that he may not be genuine part..listen to that feeling. While it is probably a good idea to let him know where you stand just in case there has been a miscommunication, one thing about us Scorpios, *especially the men*...is the ability to live in a masquerade so you never know when he is "real" or when he is not real.
Be careful, Capricorn...scorpio men sting.
Be careful, Capricorn...scorpio men sting.
You know, personally I believe in the Universe. If its meant to happen that 2 specific people hook up, nothing can stop that.
If you are having trouble hooking up with a certain person, despite your best, honest, true and authentic feelings and efforts...maybe the Universe is looking out for you.
Maybe despite the feelings, there is someone else out there for you. Love will come to you again, whether its a familiar face or a new one.
If you are having trouble hooking up with a certain person, despite your best, honest, true and authentic feelings and efforts...maybe the Universe is looking out for you.
Maybe despite the feelings, there is someone else out there for you. Love will come to you again, whether its a familiar face or a new one.
..that they never go back?hahahh who told yah that. Well ok it just may be my case..scorpios hang on to stuff with an iron grip, including old flames sometimes.
That is why an ex and I have been in such torment. I am closing the door, and yes, once a scorpio closes the door, it is forever. But may take awhile to get to that point. This man does not want to close the door and knows how final it is so he is fighting it like a demon.
But I guess not hard enough to leave his wife. sad huh
That is why an ex and I have been in such torment. I am closing the door, and yes, once a scorpio closes the door, it is forever. But may take awhile to get to that point. This man does not want to close the door and knows how final it is so he is fighting it like a demon.
But I guess not hard enough to leave his wife. sad huh
Well I am glad you moved on honee.....if he really loved you, he would make his feelings clear and direct within the form of physical communication.
Its true that pure scorpionic love is eternal, and that we, especially the men, hold back our innermost feelings sometimes.
But keeping someone in the dark and/or letting them dangle on a string means the person is not capable of authentic love. In my opinion. Such a person is too egocentric to truly love another.
Its true that pure scorpionic love is eternal, and that we, especially the men, hold back our innermost feelings sometimes.
But keeping someone in the dark and/or letting them dangle on a string means the person is not capable of authentic love. In my opinion. Such a person is too egocentric to truly love another.
Well sorry to say but some Scorpio men are just plain too insecure to act on their feelings and don't mind dangling you from a string as long as it suits their purposes.
Know what, he (scorpio man x) could have that Love there but not know how to handle it, and in fact, mistreat you.
There is this scorpio man floating around out there who scrawled my name across his chest with a knife and veers back and forth from expressing his intense love for me to not taking any action.
Like umm ah dumping the wife. No we have not even been physical so its not a sexual thing. My instincts tell he truly feels this unbridled love for me--but can't or won't act on it.
He is doing a great disservice to both his wife and myself, but hey, he is her partner not mine.
So I have stepped back, but the more I do that, the more I feel his energy coming at me. Know what I mean? Its psychic almost. He is married but says crap like "remember our love!!" and looks so tortured.
But my god the man is 28, if he wants me he has to come get me (as a divorced man)or put this demon of our so-called "Love" to rest. I mean that is what I am doing.
He feels so guilty as he should for loving another woman instead of his wife, but ah, isn't the solution for that to dump this woman? She too deserves an authentic relationship if he can't give it to her.
He can't give it to me so I gave him his walking papers, now he is pulling all sorts of strange stuff. He scares the hell outta me sometimes with his intensity and I am another scorpio.
Know what, he (scorpio man x) could have that Love there but not know how to handle it, and in fact, mistreat you.
There is this scorpio man floating around out there who scrawled my name across his chest with a knife and veers back and forth from expressing his intense love for me to not taking any action.
Like umm ah dumping the wife. No we have not even been physical so its not a sexual thing. My instincts tell he truly feels this unbridled love for me--but can't or won't act on it.
He is doing a great disservice to both his wife and myself, but hey, he is her partner not mine.
So I have stepped back, but the more I do that, the more I feel his energy coming at me. Know what I mean? Its psychic almost. He is married but says crap like "remember our love!!" and looks so tortured.
But my god the man is 28, if he wants me he has to come get me (as a divorced man)or put this demon of our so-called "Love" to rest. I mean that is what I am doing.
He feels so guilty as he should for loving another woman instead of his wife, but ah, isn't the solution for that to dump this woman? She too deserves an authentic relationship if he can't give it to her.
He can't give it to me so I gave him his walking papers, now he is pulling all sorts of strange stuff. He scares the hell outta me sometimes with his intensity and I am another scorpio.
Well personally I think its playing with danger to become sexually involved so soon..unless you are very clear about the boundaries. That sex is just sex and you are not in a relationship.
Or if you are in a relationship, that you are exclusive. But this kind of relationship does not happen from a one-night stand. You offered yourself to him right off the bat..hell yeah he is going to buy what you are selling.
Why did you expect to be treated any better? People don't appreciate what comes easy.
And there is clearly a type of Scorpio man that is very lowly developed who fits the character type you mentioned. I know a married Scorpio man who sleeps around with all these gals, and yes uses his cellphone rather frequently.
Its easy for him, even though they know he is married because he is so sexy and charming. Hence the flaw I see in scorpio men who have not gone beyond the crawling stage. Very magnetic to the ladies, charming..and capable of lying, hiding true feelings and leading doublelives. Its only the higher ones who devote their lives to making one mate happy in all ways, is my opinion based on too much direct experience.
Or if you are in a relationship, that you are exclusive. But this kind of relationship does not happen from a one-night stand. You offered yourself to him right off the bat..hell yeah he is going to buy what you are selling.
Why did you expect to be treated any better? People don't appreciate what comes easy.
And there is clearly a type of Scorpio man that is very lowly developed who fits the character type you mentioned. I know a married Scorpio man who sleeps around with all these gals, and yes uses his cellphone rather frequently.
Its easy for him, even though they know he is married because he is so sexy and charming. Hence the flaw I see in scorpio men who have not gone beyond the crawling stage. Very magnetic to the ladies, charming..and capable of lying, hiding true feelings and leading doublelives. Its only the higher ones who devote their lives to making one mate happy in all ways, is my opinion based on too much direct experience.
you know I think that ideally, that is the best exchange. However, I am single and have hormones. I don't expect myself to be an angel.
Well, I am so glad you are not married to other people. That would really suck.
The one who I thought was my "soulmate" did marry someone else, so did I. We each married fellow Scorpios to boot.
Only I have filed them divorce papers, and my "soulmate" Scorpio hasn't.
Sooooooooo....F him!!!!!!!!I am more than sure that someone more worthy will replace him and he knows it too.
The one who I thought was my "soulmate" did marry someone else, so did I. We each married fellow Scorpios to boot.
Only I have filed them divorce papers, and my "soulmate" Scorpio hasn't.
Sooooooooo....F him!!!!!!!!I am more than sure that someone more worthy will replace him and he knows it too.
well I think it is pretty natural for a human to generalize based on direct, repeated experience. As long as you allow for individual differences you are doing fine in my book.
I've been around the block with scorpio men(I am a scorpio woman so I know what they are all about)and must say, if you find a healthy, stable, emotionally mature one, you are in the same group as those who have made a yeti sighting.
I've been around the block with scorpio men(I am a scorpio woman so I know what they are all about)and must say, if you find a healthy, stable, emotionally mature one, you are in the same group as those who have made a yeti sighting.
Let me edit that, I actually filed divorce on him a few months ago. Of course he is being very vindictive and dragging the whole thing out. The only thing worse than being married to a lower Scorpio male in my book, is going through a divorce with one. But I'm Scorpio too, so he is actually somewhat afraid of me.
I just wanted to point out everything you said is right. These ladies just dating these magnetic Scorpio men (cause there is no shortage of women entranced by them) have no idea until and unless they marry one.
Once he realized that I saw through his mask and his manipulations failed to work on me, that is when it all blew up. Yes, any whispers of "something is not right here" only become screams after you tie the knot.
I just wanted to point out everything you said is right. These ladies just dating these magnetic Scorpio men (cause there is no shortage of women entranced by them) have no idea until and unless they marry one.
Once he realized that I saw through his mask and his manipulations failed to work on me, that is when it all blew up. Yes, any whispers of "something is not right here" only become screams after you tie the knot.
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