seniormontana joined August 21, 2013
48 years old male
a Taurus from the north Africa
a Taurus from the north Africa
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I think that non of you would understand any of this.
We are all human, we all make mistakes, but the most important is to forgive.
Don't make the characteristics of a sign blinds you of the most important part of us as human which is the true love. And by true love I am not talking about myself, I am talking about my wife love to me.
Forgiveness always come along with true love.
With regard to my communication with the other woman, sure it will end soon, but gradually.
I don't expect anyone to understand, and I am ok with that.
Over and out
We are all human, we all make mistakes, but the most important is to forgive.
Don't make the characteristics of a sign blinds you of the most important part of us as human which is the true love. And by true love I am not talking about myself, I am talking about my wife love to me.
Forgiveness always come along with true love.
With regard to my communication with the other woman, sure it will end soon, but gradually.
I don't expect anyone to understand, and I am ok with that.
Over and out
Yes we are slow but not when we find the one, it will not take that long to say "She is the one" if we really find her unless we had a complicated serious situation. All you can do is simply comforting us by the positive reactions and existence. If we are appearing and disappearing it means either we are so hesitating to step forward or we really don't care personally about you. If we are hesitating, it means that there is something holding us back, mostly being unsure about our own feelings.
But simply, If we are sure that "She is the one" we will pursue he no matter what it takes to get either Yes or No from her, and even it is a No we usually not give up unless it is a big clear and loud "NO"
But simply, If we are sure that "She is the one" we will pursue he no matter what it takes to get either Yes or No from her, and even it is a No we usually not give up unless it is a big clear and loud "NO"
Hi Dear Fellows,
I am not re-opening the topic, I am just want to tell all those who truly care and help me about the new beginning.
After my beloved wife and you guys helped me to make up my mind, I decided to openly speak to the other scorpion about our lust and that we can't do it anymore. The surprise was that she totally agreed with me and that was such a huge relief for both of us, as if an unbelievable burden have been left. We agreed to be friends when we need to talk, and since that meeting we are having so nice phone conversations joking and laughing, we spend one night together with our friends in a bar and it was such an amazing nigh, we blended in get to know each other friends and it was real fun without any emotional conflicts or anything, and its so cool now.
With regard to my beloved wife, few days back our son got really sick and I had to travel back home to be with them, he got better the same day I arrived, and give me the chance for me and my wife to spend some time together.
One of my wife dreams was that we drink together (because she stopped drinking when she was pregnant with our elder daughter 6 years back). So, we left the kids with my wife parents, and go out with her younger sister and brother. We drink together, we laugh together we dance together and it was amazingly awesome, and you know for sure how that night ends it was also amazing
I told her about the confront with the other girl she feel blended happiness and sorrow at the same time, and she told me that it's her fault that she stayed away from me for such long time, and I replied her that she should never ever try to justify a selfish stupid mistake of mine by holding herself part of the responsibility, when I told her that she was so happy and no more pain was there.
the next couple of days was also amazing, we had so much fun together and with the kids as well.
I came back to work, and they will follow me in 3 weeks, and everyday we keep texting and chatting like a boyfriend and girlfriend and it's so sweet to have this refreshment of our relation again.
with respect to the other scorp girl, as I told you we are definitely not in lust anymore neither close friends as well but we like to text every couple of days or something.
Thanks again fellows, I am so happy and stable now, and I really wish that all of you to have such amazing relation with your partners like me and my wife -The love of my life and my shield-
I am not re-opening the topic, I am just want to tell all those who truly care and help me about the new beginning.
After my beloved wife and you guys helped me to make up my mind, I decided to openly speak to the other scorpion about our lust and that we can't do it anymore. The surprise was that she totally agreed with me and that was such a huge relief for both of us, as if an unbelievable burden have been left. We agreed to be friends when we need to talk, and since that meeting we are having so nice phone conversations joking and laughing, we spend one night together with our friends in a bar and it was such an amazing nigh, we blended in get to know each other friends and it was real fun without any emotional conflicts or anything, and its so cool now.
With regard to my beloved wife, few days back our son got really sick and I had to travel back home to be with them, he got better the same day I arrived, and give me the chance for me and my wife to spend some time together.
One of my wife dreams was that we drink together (because she stopped drinking when she was pregnant with our elder daughter 6 years back). So, we left the kids with my wife parents, and go out with her younger sister and brother. We drink together, we laugh together we dance together and it was amazingly awesome, and you know for sure how that night ends
it was also amazing I told her about the confront with the other girl she feel blended happiness and sorrow at the same time, and she told me that it's her fault that she stayed away from me for such long time, and I replied her that she should never ever try to justify a selfish stupid mistake of mine by holding herself part of the responsibility, when I told her that she was so happy and no more pain was there.
the next couple of days was also amazing, we had so much fun together and with the kids as well.
I came back to work, and they will follow me in 3 weeks, and everyday we keep texting and chatting like a boyfriend and girlfriend and it's so sweet to have this refreshment of our relation again.
with respect to the other scorp girl, as I told you we are definitely not in lust anymore neither close friends as well but we like to text every couple of days or something.
Thanks again fellows, I am so happy and stable now, and I really wish that all of you to have such amazing relation with your partners like me and my wife -The love of my life and my shield-
Hi Dear Fellows,
I am not re-opening the topic, I am just want to tell all those who truly care and help me about the new beginning.
After my beloved wife and you guys helped me to make up my mind, I decided to openly speak to the other scorpion about our lust and that we can't do it anymore. The surprise was that she totally agreed with me and that was such a huge relief for both of us, as if an unbelievable burden have been left. We agreed to be friends when we need to talk, and since that meeting we are having so nice phone conversations joking and laughing, we spend one night together with our friends in a bar and it was such an amazing nigh, we blended in get to know each other friends and it was real fun without any emotional conflicts or anything, and its so cool now.
With regard to my beloved wife, few days back our son got really sick and I had to travel back home to be with them, he got better the same day I arrived, and give me the chance for me and my wife to spend some time together.
One of my wife dreams was that we drink together (because she stopped drinking when she was pregnant with our elder daughter 6 years back). So, we left the kids with my wife parents, and go out with her younger sister and brother. We drink together, we laugh together we dance together and it was amazingly awesome, and you know for sure how that night ends it was also amazing
I told her about the confront with the other girl she feel blended happiness and sorrow at the same time, and she told me that it's her fault that she stayed away from me for such long time, and I replied her that she should never ever try to justify a selfish stupid mistake of mine by holding herself part of the responsibility, when I told her that she was so happy and no more pain was there.
the next couple of days was also amazing, we had so much fun together and with the kids as well.
I came back to work, and they will follow me in 3 weeks, and everyday we keep texting and chatting like a boyfriend and girlfriend and it's so sweet to have this refreshment of our relation again.
with respect to the other scorp girl, as I told you we are definitely not in lust anymore neither close friends as well but we like to text every couple of days or something.
Thanks again fellows, I am so happy and stable now, and I really wish that all of you to have such amazing relation with your partners like me and my wife -The love of my life and my shield-
I am not re-opening the topic, I am just want to tell all those who truly care and help me about the new beginning.
After my beloved wife and you guys helped me to make up my mind, I decided to openly speak to the other scorpion about our lust and that we can't do it anymore. The surprise was that she totally agreed with me and that was such a huge relief for both of us, as if an unbelievable burden have been left. We agreed to be friends when we need to talk, and since that meeting we are having so nice phone conversations joking and laughing, we spend one night together with our friends in a bar and it was such an amazing nigh, we blended in get to know each other friends and it was real fun without any emotional conflicts or anything, and its so cool now.
With regard to my beloved wife, few days back our son got really sick and I had to travel back home to be with them, he got better the same day I arrived, and give me the chance for me and my wife to spend some time together.
One of my wife dreams was that we drink together (because she stopped drinking when she was pregnant with our elder daughter 6 years back). So, we left the kids with my wife parents, and go out with her younger sister and brother. We drink together, we laugh together we dance together and it was amazingly awesome, and you know for sure how that night ends
it was also amazing I told her about the confront with the other girl she feel blended happiness and sorrow at the same time, and she told me that it's her fault that she stayed away from me for such long time, and I replied her that she should never ever try to justify a selfish stupid mistake of mine by holding herself part of the responsibility, when I told her that she was so happy and no more pain was there.
the next couple of days was also amazing, we had so much fun together and with the kids as well.
I came back to work, and they will follow me in 3 weeks, and everyday we keep texting and chatting like a boyfriend and girlfriend and it's so sweet to have this refreshment of our relation again.
with respect to the other scorp girl, as I told you we are definitely not in lust anymore neither close friends as well but we like to text every couple of days or something.
Thanks again fellows, I am so happy and stable now, and I really wish that all of you to have such amazing relation with your partners like me and my wife -The love of my life and my shield-
Frankly, I have never experienced such emotional conflict in workplace cuz I always avoid that. But if you want to confront him, just choose the right moment when he is weak or tired and confront him with the same meaning as robyn suggestion but in softly way (sure not begging or showing weakness) just don't be rude, just be straight forward. this might shorten the period of his backing off.
I am saying that because Robyn draw my attention to a very important factor which is (TIME), yes he might keep doing this for a relatively long time, because he will be the one who feels emotionally intimidated by your existence around.
Thanks for the hint Robyn
I am saying that because Robyn draw my attention to a very important factor which is (TIME), yes he might keep doing this for a relatively long time, because he will be the one who feels emotionally intimidated by your existence around.
Thanks for the hint Robyn
Posted by InsilverPosted by seniormontana
6- Simply be his home that he feels safe and relax in. Be his shores when he is drowning and let him swim to you but don't bull him. Be his sky that he flies freely in it when he needs to fly. Be his mother when he is weak. Be his daughter when he is protective. Be his lover when he is playful. Be his best friend when he needs to talk (be careful of judging him. And all the time be so confident and show him that you are his and only woman, and he is yours and only man.
Thank you for posting this. I resonated with the entire post but I liked ^ this the most. Beautifully said. At the end of the day, what's between one and their other is sacred and between them alone.click to expand
You are welcome, and totally agree with you Insilver.
By the way guys and girls, Taurus loves his home to be confidential. Yes he might talk and accept that you talk with your friends about normal situations. but he hates that his partner reveals a secret even it's for the sake of advice specially the things that he don't want others to know about him.
Posted by ari0x823
Ignore and only speak if you need something important to do with work, it will slowly get rid of the immature treatment.
Yes
Posted by shortiiPosted by seniormontana
Don't worry, he is just so stressed, give him the space and let him face his problems. Don't encourage him to talk about his problems. You just need to be there for him, to cheer him up, change the subject to something funny if you feel he is ready for it and simply while he start to be relax you may tell him "I am so proud of you, you are always strong enough to overcome any obsticle without any help, and I am sure that you will get over this as well. I love you"
This will make a diffrence.
Good luck
I do all of those things already senior..:-)
You mentioned without help. .what kind of help do you mean? I encourage him and make him laugh by cracking jokes and try to keep him in positive spirits.
I do tell him how proud I am of him and that I do brag about him because he's turned his life around so quickly and so far away from where he was 8 years ago.
So, the best thing is to just wait for him to get in touch again?click to expand
Yes, just wait and be patient
No Biker, I will not feel any better if I get to know that you recently get out of hell - Lil devil 
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An I Promise you that if i did that mistake again I will come and admit it here.
after second though, I will admit it to you in a private message, and if you want to spread it out here it's up to you.
hehehe
Please Biker cheer up, really. Not all men are bad as I am or him. trust me there are a lot of very good people will kiss the dirt that you step on with your feet to win your consent to accompany you.
just get raid of the grudge cuz it will keep burning you only. he is just another man and he don't deserve that you hold all this against him. mostly he is enjoying his life now. So, Be the strong girl who pulled me up the other day and go on with your life cuz life will not wait anyone.
Take care dear friend
-An I Promise you that if i did that mistake again I will come and admit it here.
after second though, I will admit it to you in a private message, and if you want to spread it out here it's up to you.
hehehe
Please Biker cheer up, really. Not all men are bad as I am or him. trust me there are a lot of very good people will kiss the dirt that you step on with your feet to win your consent to accompany you.
just get raid of the grudge cuz it will keep burning you only. he is just another man and he don't deserve that you hold all this against him. mostly he is enjoying his life now. So, Be the strong girl who pulled me up the other day and go on with your life cuz life will not wait anyone.
Take care dear friend
I will not accept you to bow down to me, it's me who will bow down, I am not only bowing down to you, I am kneeling down to you and bowing my head for the sake of your pride, dignity, and femininity.
lol, No my dear, and I am so sorry, and I will not remove you from my favorites cuz you still are.
but very simple dear Biker, we all make mistakes, but the most important is to admit it and learn from it, and if we can't get over it we should ask for help.
And yes, I have no authority over you and no one does dear biker.
But also words hurts a lot, it hurts even more than actions. cuz usually we don't see the actions that hurt us, we hear about it. And what i will say will hurt you so much, and will put you in front of things that you are hiding and avoiding it. and I am too hurt to be able to hurt anyone who already helped me once.
Dear Biker, I will not play along with you in this word game, and just remember that i used to be with a gem for 9 years, and I know how sensitive you are. and I hate to hurt you.
So, It's OK, I surrender *raise the white flag* and back off.
You win Biker
OK!
but very simple dear Biker, we all make mistakes, but the most important is to admit it and learn from it, and if we can't get over it we should ask for help.
And yes, I have no authority over you and no one does dear biker.
But also words hurts a lot, it hurts even more than actions. cuz usually we don't see the actions that hurt us, we hear about it. And what i will say will hurt you so much, and will put you in front of things that you are hiding and avoiding it. and I am too hurt to be able to hurt anyone who already helped me once.
Dear Biker, I will not play along with you in this word game, and just remember that i used to be with a gem for 9 years, and I know how sensitive you are. and I hate to hurt you.
So, It's OK, I surrender *raise the white flag* and back off.
You win Biker
OK!
Posted by BikerCh1ckPosted by xygeneration
Oh okay. Well I guess we all make mistakes.
It seems he did the same mistake lots of times
Don't be naive xyclick to expand
Don't start making up stories Biker, I have nothing to hide here. And no, I didn't did any mistake while I was with my ex-gem I was so loyal to her for 9 years.
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