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Posted by drunkghost

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I was with a Leo man and it was great. Couldn't keep hands off each other and we did a lot of adventurous things plus we traveled a lot together. I think a Leo could deal with some crazy virgo tendencies.

Awe that sounds adorable! What happened between you two? If you don't mind me asking

It was. He ended up breaking my heart it was always on at first but as soon as he realized he had me he made me feel so invisible and I felt taken advantage of. He was also very controlling which I didn't realize because I was blinded by the love I felt for him. He also didn't make me a priority and didn't consider me when making choices after he clearly stated we were a team. In the end it was him moving to a different country that did it after countless of times of pushing me into the idea of being with him long term. He gave up on long distance in two weeks said it was futile. I'll never forget that word he used. Then he tried to be my friend seven months later and I just wasn't having it he was reminiscent about the times we shared and I just couldn't deal getting attached again. He was my first love so it made it all that much worse and he was five years older than I was. I don't regret it because I learned a lot but it was hell at first going thru the break up. We were just so attached like best friends.

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Posted by Astrology101
Don't you have an aries friend you can introduce him to?

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I have a very attractive Leo guy friend who is looking for a girlfriend and I had introduced him to my group of girl friends which are: Another Leo, a Virgo, a cancer, and a Capricorn.

He's been deciding between the Virgo and the cancer as he thinks the Leo is too much like himself (I lol'd at the irony) and the Cappy is too bossy.

Both my Virgo and cancer friends are gorgeous and they each seem to get along great with him and vice Versa.

What do you (Leo male or female) think is best for him? Or for Leo's in general between the two?

Getting the Virgo girl would be like dating his secretary or maid while getting the Cancer girl would be like dating his mom or a child

Up to him really, also no offense.

Haha I can Definitely see that!

But (and I know it's wrong as they are both my friends) I am secretly rooting for the Virgo as she has an inner sweetness to her that I can just see can push through to the Leo eventually.

I recently came down with a pretty bad cold and while the crab told me wonderful words and gave me hugs (which I DO appreciate), the Virgo came to my apartment and stayed with me and even baked me some cookies, bless her heart.

Haha maybe I'm biased from that but I'm not a Leo myself so maybe that would seem too yucky-sweet for him?

Seeing the dynamics between each of them is really cool though! I just don't want anyone to get hurt in the long run

Oh no, a Leo would just take the "yucky-sweet" stuff for granted like loyalty. I too think the Virgo has a better chance since Virgos serve others to get a sense of importance and recognition, and in a negative form it becomes nagging like a smart student to a stupid one. Leos would hate to be wrong hence arguments might break out from there.

That's the negative side. On the positive side, since the Virgo serves, and the Leo takes the serving for granted, so ideally it works out. It would work out even better if the Leo's a mastermind of something and Virgo's the right hand man or henchman though

For the Cancer, they will both want to lead eventually (Cancer is cardinal while Leo just wants to lead cuz royalty), fights are likely to break out, and since Cancer belongs to the Water element, the Leo risks his self esteem and optimism being drowned out by pessimistic Water.

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

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I would say the crab bc they seem happy go lucky at first glance whereas the Virgo, even w/ fire or air placements would relatively be pretty chill

He seems like a pretty chill guy also but both of my friends are very sweet but I will have to say that the Virgal is more shy compared to the cancer

As someone said he MAY be intrigued by the Virgos shyness but idk if the Leo has a lot of fire as you said he may not want to take the time to actually get to know the Virgo. But it also depends on her placements but as you said she's generally shyer so

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Posted by Chuckcem

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Depends on what he wants. There's no wrong answer here. Both women can be very intellectual and prone to bouts of sarcastic humor.

If he's looking for a more emotional connection, he should go with the Cancer woman. Cancer women are emotionally open once they see consistency from a potential partner. If he can handle her random mood swings from irritated to bubbly, the Cancer woman would be a solid match. He just needs to be prepared for her amount of cling. Once she's into the relationship, she's INTO the relationship. He just needs to be mindful of her emotional needs to keep her in a happy place. She will provide him with the emotional comfort all Leos crave.

If he prefers a woman who is more emotionally reserved, then the Virgo woman is the best option. The Virgo woman will allow him freedom the space Leos need. This is because she will take time to get to know him. Virgo women are fairly low maintenance emotionally and know how to handle business. They can be very down to earth, but sometimes a bit too practical, which can rub some Leos the wrong way. Once she's into the relationship, he won't need to worry. So if he's looking for a woman who will give him support, then the Virgo woman is a good choice. Virgo women also make good drinkiny buddies.

Dating another Leo can be fun, but exhausting if the two are too similar. Capricorns can be too stifling and business minded for a Leo. I find it's best if the Leo and Cap share similar goals if they wish to get a relationship off of the ground. Sonuds like the Leo has already figured this out though.

Haha thanks for the insight!

Although I'm still looking for their actual placements, we (the Virgo, cancer, and Leo and I) had went out last night to a bar. And I'm not exactly sure what has happened between then and last time we were all together, maybe a change of heart? But the Leo seems to be more open towards the Virgo, playful ¿ trying to get her out of her shell.

I feel like it's cute but I see a friendly playfulness myself but it's very vague bc it could be taken as light flirting as Leo's do flirt A LOT with everyone.

He and the cancer are also getting along well, but he doesn't have to put as much as work as trying to get to know her because she is generally pretty open from the start. I feel like she has many other water placements though as she can sometimes get very emotionally invested, but again, I'll have to check for sure. He had a glimpse of her crabby mood last night and I think it kinda pulled the rug from under him.

You're right about the cap and Leo haha, just wasn't for him!

Yeah he may find the Virgo stoicism intriguing at first. The only issue is if she slows down the pace when he wants to amp things up. Personally I've found that Virgos work best when there is no concern about labels and they are able to take their time and observe both up close and from afar. Since things are light and playful, the flirtation remains easy.

The only question is, how serious does he want to get. Once he's ready cranks up the heat, the Virgo may not be ready yet, wanting to analyze the situation longer. This will probably throw the Leo off (and ultimately turn him off if he doesn't feel there is an end goal).

That's where the openness of the Cancer woman wins out. As long as the Leo doesn't make the mistake of making the Cancer woman feel spurned (by choosing the Virgo too quickly), he may find her more willing to reciprocate his advances.

The only real question is can he pace himself for the Virgo woman? Can she hold his enthusiasm long enough to keep a slower pace exciting? If not, can he handle the more emotional nature of the Cancer woman?

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Posted by drunkghost
I was with a Leo man and it was great. Couldn't keep hands off each other and we did a lot of adventurous things plus we traveled a lot together. I think a Leo could deal with some crazy virgo tendencies.

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I have a very attractive Leo guy friend who is looking for a girlfriend and I had introduced him to my group of girl friends which are: Another Leo, a Virgo, a cancer, and a Capricorn.

He's been deciding between the Virgo and the cancer as he thinks the Leo is too much like himself (I lol'd at the irony) and the Cappy is too bossy.

Both my Virgo and cancer friends are gorgeous and they each seem to get along great with him and vice Versa.

What do you (Leo male or female) think is best for him? Or for Leo's in general between the two?

Getting the Virgo girl would be like dating his secretary or maid while getting the Cancer girl would be like dating his mom or a child

Up to him really, also no offense.

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Posted by Chuckcem
Depends on what he wants. There's no wrong answer here. Both women can be very intellectual and prone to bouts of sarcastic humor.

If he's looking for a more emotional connection, he should go with the Cancer woman. Cancer women are emotionally open once they see consistency from a potential partner. If he can handle her random mood swings from irritated to bubbly, the Cancer woman would be a solid match. He just needs to be prepared for her amount of cling. Once she's into the relationship, she's INTO the relationship. He just needs to be mindful of her emotional needs to keep her in a happy place. She will provide him with the emotional comfort all Leos crave.

If he prefers a woman who is more emotionally reserved, then the Virgo woman is the best option. The Virgo woman will allow him freedom the space Leos need. This is because she will take time to get to know him. Virgo women are fairly low maintenance emotionally and know how to handle business. They can be very down to earth, but sometimes a bit too practical, which can rub some Leos the wrong way. Once she's into the relationship, he won't need to worry. So if he's looking for a woman who will give him support, then the Virgo woman is a good choice. Virgo women also make good drinkiny buddies.

Dating another Leo can be fun, but exhausting if the two are too similar. Capricorns can be too stifling and business minded for a Leo. I find it's best if the Leo and Cap share similar goals if they wish to get a relationship off of the ground. Sonuds like the Leo has already figured this out though.

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What's his moon mars venus what's theirs?

I'm not sure of my girl friends placements but I know he has a Leo mars and Venus.

I'll have to look into it

Moon?

I'll have to look into it I think it may have been Aries? I don't remember but I DO remember he had two Leo placements (mars and Venus) other than his sun

Thats alot of fire. You don't have air sign friends

Unless his moon is earth or water

Both will get burned depending on their chart

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
I would say the crab bc they seem happy go lucky at first glance whereas the Virgo, even w/ fire or air placements would relatively be pretty chill

Posted by Nathan912
Plot twist: It should be you.

Posted by lionspark
virgos all the way