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Posted by GC01Yea I know he won't change and that's why I ended mines but deep down I wanted him even though I knew he wouldn't change and I think that why with my situation he was able to talk to me only twice and have me chasing him as I did before smh but I've backed off since then we'll since 2 days ago lol..Posted by shellyBwellEverything happens for a reason. Maybe you knew in your heart he wouldn't change?Posted by GC01Honestly I feel like if I would've went the route you did in my last relationship instead of breaking up would've made a difference but since I took another route I guess I'll have to learn from this in my next relationship down the line.. happy yours worked out
I had the same problem with my libra when we first got together (5 years ago), being a cancer girl I was furious!!!! Some of the girls were girls he used to chase after (before me), and try to hang out with when we would argue, and talk about our problems with.
I swear when I found those msgs my head could have spun around.
I trust him completly now after us talking openly and honestly about respecting each other's boundaries, in fact I trust him more than ever.
A little trust and respect can go a long way with air signs.click to expand
Yea pretty much all the above ?
Posted by GC01Honestly I feel like if I would've went the route you did in my last relationship instead of breaking up would've made a difference but since I took another route I guess I'll have to learn from this in my next relationship down the line.. happy yours worked out
I had the same problem with my libra when we first got together (5 years ago), being a cancer girl I was furious!!!! Some of the girls were girls he used to chase after (before me), and try to hang out with when we would argue, and talk about our problems with.
I swear when I found those msgs my head could have spun around.
I trust him completly now after us talking openly and honestly about respecting each other's boundaries, in fact I trust him more than ever.
A little trust and respect can go a long way with air signs.
Posted by shellyBwellOh and by the way when I say I 'hurt' him I mean when I broke up with him not cheating just invade you want to be slick with a smart ass comment lol. I was very loyal and committed in that relationshipPosted by GemitatiYea, sure.. lol I know for a fact that it was a forever thing with me.. he got pissed I broke up with and after talking to you I have gained a full scope and understanding of it all now. My scorp doesn't plan on returning to be out of fear that I'll hurt him again. The main reason he reached out was because his heart didn't want to completely be separate from me not knowing whether I hated him or even looked at him funny after I left because of him flirting outside our relationship! Now that he knows I still love him and even think about reuniting this has boosted his ego and made him feel better about his self and the breakup so now in a sick way he wants me to feel some type of way but guest what I no longer care and in due time when it's hits him when he reaches out agin it will be a done deal... my ex scorp was there for years and even yelled at me how hurt he was that I left because this was forever for so I'm not worried about what your saying you don't know shyt about my life lol...✌️Posted by shellyBwellI'd Scorpio doesn't love you - you can't keep him happy. A lot of men of all signs just park anywhere until closer parking spot will become available. If he is with you at the moment it doesn't mean he is with you forever.Posted by GemitatiYou talk as if it's a sure walk in the part when it surely is not. I pretty much went above and beyond for my ex scorp to keep him happy 24/7 but the moment he started holding grudges and allowing his bad vibes and extremely high expectations for no reason to control how he interacted with me pushed me away. If She continues to do that towards him he will become even more defensive towards her. I honestly can't speak if he'd cheat but it will push the room and space for him to fantasize outside their relationship because this will make him miserable to be around herPosted by shellyBwellIt's easy to keep Scorpio happy.Posted by GemitatiYes, scorps tend to be too freaking serious! She's upset at him messaging other women which I'm not saying is wrong at all! She has a right to feel that way but she also needs to let it go if it has been addressed and he understood that that was and never will be acceptable.once it has been addressed,talk to him about the real root of the issue which Is not those women but why he feels like he has to reach out to other women the way he has. Every action in a relationship causes a reaction and it's about how you communicate to fix it. Scorps hold grudges which cause even more issues which leave us aquas confused as to why you are acting as if you hate us. We make mistakes just like y'all do.. only difference we know when to let go when y'all don't. He didn't cheat on her and I'm pretty sure he realizes it was wrong esp. if he loves her. Like a said aquas once committed arebvery loyal.When a scorp and Aquarius get together the sparks fly positively and negatively because we hold different pov's in everything.Posted by shellyBwellOh, really? Scorpios are fun killers?
As a female aqua I can tell you now you need to communicate your true feelings to him. My ex scorp and I had problems in this same area because he didn't want me having or even thinking to befriending any firends of the opposite sex while we were together. I can honestly tell you that aquas once commited are very loyal. We are very sociable people and enjoy having a good time. I can tell you from my point of view you scorps definitely have a tendency to create a buzz kill when you come off so serious when you don't have to be at times. We love you with all our hearts but we just want you guys to be more welcoming to some great fun. even if its just the two of us just add some fun and i promise seeking this outside of it won't be the case. I can tell you he was seeking what was lacking.. friendship wise.
Only when someone rips their skin off!
It's no fun because it hurts!!!
Aqua need to find another 'fun loving' Aqua who will be happy to find a real date while he is on FB befriending women.
When he wakes up - I hope they'll have a laugh together!!!
Just love them. And you will get more than you give. 24/7click to expand
Posted by GemitatiYea, sure.. lol I know for a fact that it was a forever thing with me.. he got pissed I broke up with and after talking to you I have gained a full scope and understanding of it all now. My scorp doesn't plan on returning to be out of fear that I'll hurt him again. The main reason he reached out was because his heart didn't want to completely be separate from me not knowing whether I hated him or even looked at him funny after I left because of him flirting outside our relationship! Now that he knows I still love him and even think about reuniting this has boosted his ego and made him feel better about his self and the breakup so now in a sick way he wants me to feel some type of way but guest what I no longer care and in due time when it's hits him when he reaches out agin it will be a done deal... my ex scorp was there for years and even yelled at me how hurt he was that I left because this was forever for so I'm not worried about what your saying you don't know shyt about my life lol...✌️Posted by shellyBwellI'd Scorpio doesn't love you - you can't keep him happy. A lot of men of all signs just park anywhere until closer parking spot will become available. If he is with you at the moment it doesn't mean he is with you forever.Posted by GemitatiYou talk as if it's a sure walk in the part when it surely is not. I pretty much went above and beyond for my ex scorp to keep him happy 24/7 but the moment he started holding grudges and allowing his bad vibes and extremely high expectations for no reason to control how he interacted with me pushed me away. If She continues to do that towards him he will become even more defensive towards her. I honestly can't speak if he'd cheat but it will push the room and space for him to fantasize outside their relationship because this will make him miserable to be around herPosted by shellyBwellIt's easy to keep Scorpio happy.Posted by GemitatiYes, scorps tend to be too freaking serious! She's upset at him messaging other women which I'm not saying is wrong at all! She has a right to feel that way but she also needs to let it go if it has been addressed and he understood that that was and never will be acceptable.once it has been addressed,talk to him about the real root of the issue which Is not those women but why he feels like he has to reach out to other women the way he has. Every action in a relationship causes a reaction and it's about how you communicate to fix it. Scorps hold grudges which cause even more issues which leave us aquas confused as to why you are acting as if you hate us. We make mistakes just like y'all do.. only difference we know when to let go when y'all don't. He didn't cheat on her and I'm pretty sure he realizes it was wrong esp. if he loves her. Like a said aquas once committed arebvery loyal.When a scorp and Aquarius get together the sparks fly positively and negatively because we hold different pov's in everything.Posted by shellyBwellOh, really? Scorpios are fun killers?
As a female aqua I can tell you now you need to communicate your true feelings to him. My ex scorp and I had problems in this same area because he didn't want me having or even thinking to befriending any firends of the opposite sex while we were together. I can honestly tell you that aquas once commited are very loyal. We are very sociable people and enjoy having a good time. I can tell you from my point of view you scorps definitely have a tendency to create a buzz kill when you come off so serious when you don't have to be at times. We love you with all our hearts but we just want you guys to be more welcoming to some great fun. even if its just the two of us just add some fun and i promise seeking this outside of it won't be the case. I can tell you he was seeking what was lacking.. friendship wise.
Only when someone rips their skin off!
It's no fun because it hurts!!!
Aqua need to find another 'fun loving' Aqua who will be happy to find a real date while he is on FB befriending women.
When he wakes up - I hope they'll have a laugh together!!!
Just love them. And you will get more than you give. 24/7click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneYes, he's financially irresponsible and currently playing games.. he was very loyal.. its when the financial problems came into play that he started the innocent flirty. I didn't have intuition of him cheating but my intuition of him being fixated elsewhere was real as I found out.. I guess you can call me blind but he had great qualities as well as bad. He wasn't all bad, I guess that's why I've entertained all this being hopeful things would work back out I guess ?Posted by shellyBwellSo he cheated. Or was intending to cheat...depending on your definition of cheating.Posted by LadyNeptune
Why did you dump him?
I was already overwhelmed by the financial burden alone while I was waiting on him to get on his feet and he was very disconnected emotionally and we weren't having sex so I ended up finding text messages of him flirting with other women so that sent me over the edge and I got tired of it and ended it one day hoping he'd get his stuff together one day. I just go tired of being unappreciated
Why are you pursuing someone who isn't bringing anything to the table?
Plays games.
Financial irresponsible
No loyalty
Sounds like a winner ?click to expand
Posted by GemitatiYou talk as if it's a sure walk in the part when it surely is not. I pretty much went above and beyond for my ex scorp to keep him happy 24/7 but the moment he started holding grudges and allowing his bad vibes and extremely high expectations for no reason to control how he interacted with me pushed me away. If She continues to do that towards him he will become even more defensive towards her. I honestly can't speak if he'd cheat but it will push the room and space for him to fantasize outside their relationship because this will make him miserable to be around herPosted by shellyBwellIt's easy to keep Scorpio happy.Posted by GemitatiYes, scorps tend to be too freaking serious! She's upset at him messaging other women which I'm not saying is wrong at all! She has a right to feel that way but she also needs to let it go if it has been addressed and he understood that that was and never will be acceptable.once it has been addressed,talk to him about the real root of the issue which Is not those women but why he feels like he has to reach out to other women the way he has. Every action in a relationship causes a reaction and it's about how you communicate to fix it. Scorps hold grudges which cause even more issues which leave us aquas confused as to why you are acting as if you hate us. We make mistakes just like y'all do.. only difference we know when to let go when y'all don't. He didn't cheat on her and I'm pretty sure he realizes it was wrong esp. if he loves her. Like a said aquas once committed arebvery loyal.When a scorp and Aquarius get together the sparks fly positively and negatively because we hold different pov's in everything.Posted by shellyBwellOh, really? Scorpios are fun killers?
As a female aqua I can tell you now you need to communicate your true feelings to him. My ex scorp and I had problems in this same area because he didn't want me having or even thinking to befriending any firends of the opposite sex while we were together. I can honestly tell you that aquas once commited are very loyal. We are very sociable people and enjoy having a good time. I can tell you from my point of view you scorps definitely have a tendency to create a buzz kill when you come off so serious when you don't have to be at times. We love you with all our hearts but we just want you guys to be more welcoming to some great fun. even if its just the two of us just add some fun and i promise seeking this outside of it won't be the case. I can tell you he was seeking what was lacking.. friendship wise.
Only when someone rips their skin off!
It's no fun because it hurts!!!
Aqua need to find another 'fun loving' Aqua who will be happy to find a real date while he is on FB befriending women.
When he wakes up - I hope they'll have a laugh together!!!
Just love them. And you will get more than you give. 24/7click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune
Why did you dump him?
I was already overwhelmed by the financial burden alone while I was waiting on him to get on his feet and he was very disconnected emotionally and we weren't having sex so I ended up finding text messages of him flirting with other women so that sent me over the edge and I got tired of it and ended it one day hoping he'd get his stuff together one day. I just go tired of being unappreciated
Posted by GemitatiYes, scorps tend to be too freaking serious! She's upset at him messaging other women which I'm not saying is wrong at all! She has a right to feel that way but she also needs to let it go if it has been addressed and he understood that that was and never will be acceptable.once it has been addressed,talk to him about the real root of the issue which Is not those women but why he feels like he has to reach out to other women the way he has. Every action in a relationship causes a reaction and it's about how you communicate to fix it. Scorps hold grudges which cause even more issues which leave us aquas confused as to why you are acting as if you hate us. We make mistakes just like y'all do.. only difference we know when to let go when y'all don't. He didn't cheat on her and I'm pretty sure he realizes it was wrong esp. if he loves her. Like a said aquas once committed arebvery loyal.When a scorp and Aquarius get together the sparks fly positively and negatively because we hold different pov's in everything.Posted by shellyBwellOh, really? Scorpios are fun killers?
As a female aqua I can tell you now you need to communicate your true feelings to him. My ex scorp and I had problems in this same area because he didn't want me having or even thinking to befriending any firends of the opposite sex while we were together. I can honestly tell you that aquas once commited are very loyal. We are very sociable people and enjoy having a good time. I can tell you from my point of view you scorps definitely have a tendency to create a buzz kill when you come off so serious when you don't have to be at times. We love you with all our hearts but we just want you guys to be more welcoming to some great fun. even if its just the two of us just add some fun and i promise seeking this outside of it won't be the case. I can tell you he was seeking what was lacking.. friendship wise.
Only when someone rips their skin off!
It's no fun because it hurts!!!
Aqua need to find another 'fun loving' Aqua who will be happy to find a real date while he is on FB befriending women.
When he wakes up - I hope they'll have a laugh together!!!click to expand
As a female aqua I can tell you now you need to communicate your true feelings to him. My ex scorp and I had problems in this same area because he didn't want me having or even thinking to befriending any firends of the opposite sex while we were together. I can honestly tell you that aquas once commited are very loyal. We are very sociable people and enjoy having a good time. I can tell you from my point of view you scorps definitely have a tendency to create a buzz kill when you come off so serious when you don't have to be at times. We love you with all our hearts but we just want you guys to be more welcoming to some great fun. even if its just the two of us just add some fun and i promise seeking this outside of it won't be the case. I can tell you he was seeking what was lacking.. friendship wise.
I mean do I need to honestly just relax and give him time? I'm very confused. I really feel like he's just trying to make me feel bad for breaking up with him.
So my ex scorpio and I have been in communication here and there over the past month and broken up 3 months. I think he is playing me literally. I was the dumper and he was reaching out to me expressing how much he loves me and wants to be by my side. The moment after i noticed his efforts twice I reciprocated the same because i do still very much love him.
The moment I did he became so called "busy" that he stopped initiating contact over the past 2 weeks so i reached out a couples time with no response or return of contact. Not realizing i was calling his imessage (which he was calling me from and it only works over wi-fi) I started to become aggy and texted his imessage telling him i was done with the game and I will stop trying to contact him and i will close it here, 2 hours later he responds and apologizes that it seems like he ignored me but he never got the calls and he would call me in a few...
Well he calls, says I shouldve called his phone( keep in mind i deleted his number after the B/U and he was calling me from the imessage so thats what i was using to contact him). We ended up having a heart felt conversation about our miscommunications and he laughed and said I need to stop jumping off the handle.
But heres the nonsense. He follows my sister on instagram right? well being that we've been broken up for a while he has remained he friend but recently my sister posts a pic and I comment on it joking about cant wait for our trip out the country not even thinking about him seeing it(I am dead serious) my sister ends up contacting me to relay the message a hour later that he unfollowed her and she thinks its because he got jelous of my comment because he is aware i am going out the country on vacay soon. When I asked he said no everybody in relation to me friend or foe where being deleted. -__- but to me i feel like thats messaed up because I thought we were working towards getting back together so why now would he do that?
We had another conversation and ended up having a spat because I told him to tell me what he wants and he still doesn't know!??! What should I do.. I dont want to wait and see him moving on but I fear completeing moving on and here he comes.. What do you think?
The moment I did he became so called "busy" that he stopped initiating contact over the past 2 weeks so i reached out a couples time with no response or return of contact. Not realizing i was calling his imessage (which he was calling me from and it only works over wi-fi) I started to become aggy and texted his imessage telling him i was done with the game and I will stop trying to contact him and i will close it here, 2 hours later he responds and apologizes that it seems like he ignored me but he never got the calls and he would call me in a few...
Well he calls, says I shouldve called his phone( keep in mind i deleted his number after the B/U and he was calling me from the imessage so thats what i was using to contact him). We ended up having a heart felt conversation about our miscommunications and he laughed and said I need to stop jumping off the handle.
But heres the nonsense. He follows my sister on instagram right? well being that we've been broken up for a while he has remained he friend but recently my sister posts a pic and I comment on it joking about cant wait for our trip out the country not even thinking about him seeing it(I am dead serious) my sister ends up contacting me to relay the message a hour later that he unfollowed her and she thinks its because he got jelous of my comment because he is aware i am going out the country on vacay soon. When I asked he said no everybody in relation to me friend or foe where being deleted. -__- but to me i feel like thats messaed up because I thought we were working towards getting back together so why now would he do that?
We had another conversation and ended up having a spat because I told him to tell me what he wants and he still doesn't know!??! What should I do.. I dont want to wait and see him moving on but I fear completeing moving on and here he comes.. What do you think?
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So my ex scorpio and I have been in communication here and there over the past month and broken up 3 months. I think he is playing me literally. I was the dumper and he was reaching out to me expressing how much he loves me and wants to be by my side. The
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