shorty1978 joined September 20, 2013
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THanks sooooooo much everyone. a little big of encouragment went a really long way..... was almost instant... not only is he his cheerful happy self its almost like we just started dating again! Fire is burning hot... very loving and great!! almost 3 years later and im more in love now then ever.
LOL at just a leo.. i would a couple times a day however we both work a lot have have 3 kids at home so probably not possible but that would be no problems with me at all. im going to try just brining him a coffee and dinner tonight. i also just text him to tell him out of the blue that I am thankful for him and i know how hard he works for us and that i know things are hard right now but im along side in all the way.
Thanks everyone. you are right lol he gets blow jobs a couple times a week because he is so awesome. the past few weeks when i compliment him he tells me to stop pandering to his ego however i dont think i have encouraged him by telling him i know how hard he works and that i am with him on this path 100% . i will try some nice words of encourgagment and see if that helps him bounce back. Im going to suprise him tonight at work with a coffee and dinner. he is going from one job to the next today for a 20 hour day!!! so i hope that helps him feel supported.
Hey, My Leo has been down the past couple of weeks. We have been having a hell of a year with home renos and finances then recently both our cars broke down at a very bad time as we are both already working 60+ hours a week to afford the renos on our new home. This has been a real stress for him. I have noticed his positive outlook has turned into regret and doubt and he feels like everything is going wrong and its just not going to get better. I hate seeing him like this. I want to do something for him to try and help him get a bit of hope back that everything is going to work out in the end. Our relationship its self is doing ok we don??t fight and argue or make things harder on each other however I just want to remind him of why we started this path together and that the house the cars the money are all just ???stuff?? and there is so much to be grateful for. Any suggestions as to what a leo would like to hear or see or receive to get a bit of that hope back?
and......HEY EASHA!! How you doing girl!!
The worst thing leos do to a sag is ignore them. im a sag and when my leo does that stuff it makes me want to hit the road! if your angry say something!!!!!!!! all it takes is that upset me and i need some space to think... silence is terrible to a sag and only pushes us away IMO. if you care for this man give him the respect he deserves... just because he pissed you off in the moment doesnt take away all the other wonderful things im sure he does.
You need to just be forward and say it how it is and how you feel. I hate when people expect me to read between the lines and honestly if I am busy with life and someone is (imo) pushing me for time i dont have. i ignore the issue not because i dont like them but because i just cant deal with it at the moment. Not that im stupid but people need to say what they mean to me me or i have no idea what they are talking about or thinking and I just cant waist my time trying to figure that out.
when i was young i spent way to much money! but im not into the "in" items. when im not at work im in Yoga pants. I now enjoy paying my bills on time and if i have a little extra left over i might treat my self to something on the discount rack.
Ex's are Ex's for a reason.. move along and enjoy your Leo. My Leo would lose it if i was hanging out with or talking to an Ex.... and i would as well if he was... unless your Leo and you have agreed to a open relationship, nothing serious for now then Bang Bang! have fun!
ARoarLikeThunder.... with me is with me we do not cuddle he doesnt like to at all.. he will sometimes because he knows its what i like but he will not just reach out to me will not wrap his arms around me or kiss me out of the blue... the very rare occation like im talking once ever few months or so if we are cooking together he will walk past n rub my back.. one day last week when we past each other in the hall he did lean to give me a kiss on the forehead that was odd lol. he doesnt hold my hand maybe once or twice in the past 3 years lol He just isn??t the affectionate type said he never has been. HOWEVER when we are intimate he is very attentive, tender, caring.
No one said Self-completion LOL.
For me what ever it is it involves music! but ya my best time of day is right after work when i hit the gym... no work not kids just my headphones on and feeling great!!
For me what ever it is it involves music! but ya my best time of day is right after work when i hit the gym... no work not kids just my headphones on and feeling great!!
Everyone here knows my situation pretty much??_ my leo is a wonderful man however very shy with emotions??_ (my nice way of saying commitment issues lol)
If ever we talk about those issues for a while after he becomes so affectionate and sweet, text message during the day wishing me the best day telling me he is proud of me yada yada all that great stuff??_ I respond to this behavior by being full of smiles, tender kisses all that good stuff??_.. after a while he clams up.. could be weeks could be months??_. In my opinion he pulls back cause it gets to close for him
Is this all leo behavior or the behavior of a leo still recovering from a broken heart? I know its been 5 years since he was hurt badly in his last relationship??_. He may never recover and that??s ok by me im really just curious if this is a leo trait or a hurt leo trait.
My best friend who is a Leo??_ I have noticed she is the same way in relationships??_
If ever we talk about those issues for a while after he becomes so affectionate and sweet, text message during the day wishing me the best day telling me he is proud of me yada yada all that great stuff??_ I respond to this behavior by being full of smiles, tender kisses all that good stuff??_.. after a while he clams up.. could be weeks could be months??_. In my opinion he pulls back cause it gets to close for him
Is this all leo behavior or the behavior of a leo still recovering from a broken heart? I know its been 5 years since he was hurt badly in his last relationship??_. He may never recover and that??s ok by me im really just curious if this is a leo trait or a hurt leo trait.
My best friend who is a Leo??_ I have noticed she is the same way in relationships??_
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