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THANKS TO M&M GEM..u made my job easy..it's exactly what i am going thru wid my scorp guy india
Wow.. exactly the same feeling almost every line of it!!!! M&M Gem says ---
"I actually found out abt this beautiful message
board when i was at an all time low this sunday.. coz that was the day
i had a huge row with my scorp boyfriend... and i seriously felt
something was either wrong or totally confusing with me. During that
time... jus typed the words... "whats wrong with geminis" in google(at
this point i'd gladly explain myself to u, no offense meant at all to
all the gems that are proud to be one.. mee too, jus that my
depression got the better of me) and chanced upon this site.. Its too
small an expression to say.."i was delighted by my discovery".
People, I badly need advice abt this gem-scorp relationship... i'm a
pure gem.. with all the latent talents, n he's a pure scorp with all
his characteristics. N we're one luv-hit couple... truly madly deeply
in luv with each other.. right now its cherished across the
continents.. him being in India..n me here. I luv him with every ounce
of my brain that demands logic all the time, and he not only provides
that... even enhances it. I admire and adore him for all his ideals
and high self-esteem. (huh, this message board wudnt run out of mb or
gb, wotever it is, if i actually start yak-yaking abt all i like abt
him, including his... xxxxx...
). Anyways, coming back to myquestion... i've been trying to make head n tail of this relation...
sometimes... i feel we're soo good as a couple.. but sometimes, cud be
cz of my ever suspicious brain.. i keep wondering if he's
manipulating. I jus cant stand any kinda manipulation... especially if
words are used for an end result of actions....
.. we're soo much passionately attached to each other..
we fight like cats n dogs.. shout at each other.. and in the same
breath come back together... i bet if we were together that moment...
we wud even physically fight n make up in the same instant... its such
an ebb n tide of emotions... of energy...
I am a gemini woman and had a bad experience with a gemini man. He was just beginning to get close to me but soon, we had some issues and parted ways. We were not even goint out. But he went around publicizing that I madly loved him ( that happeend jsut when i was met my first guy) so he claimed that i liked him too, becoz i was so immature. How stupid.Just be cautious and careful with them. They often claim stuff which may not be true. But I have had other male gemini friends, who have been great. Perhaps it's only in a closer circle that they show their real colors. Geminis like smart people. Maybe i was too little,playful and impatient then, silly compared to way older and patient guy he was. I've observed that most gemini men are very calm and patient on the exterior. So long as you make them feel that you are realy precious, (by showing your talent, wit and everything else that they love about you), they will hold on to you loyally and dearly. The minute they feel superior to you ( most geminis always do actually think great about themselves), but when your actions convince them of that or when they feel they haven't really been happy with you, they ll leave that loose string they were holding on too when you didn't care to care for them properly.
I haven't read the other posts on this thread except the first one. I did the same thing, when a scorpio guy asked me out. In fact i checked long before he asked me out, whether we could be compatible. He doesn't look great, but has a great heart and is very passionate. All the sites said on our poor compatibilty, i didn want to show it to him when we wer just friends. But i showed it to him the day after he proposed and he got really angry as he thot it was really silly. Then i dug out a few more sites and got into one that said scorpio and gemini is air and water which is like an effervesent mix! It's just the way you think about it! All the best!
I haven't read the other posts on this thread except the first one. I did the same thing, when a scorpio guy asked me out. In fact i checked long before he asked me out, whether we could be compatible. He doesn't look great, but has a great heart and is very passionate. All the sites said on our poor compatibilty, i didn want to show it to him when we wer just friends. But i showed it to him the day after he proposed and he got really angry as he thot it was really silly. Then i dug out a few more sites and got into one that said scorpio and gemini is air and water which is like an effervesent mix! It's just the way you think about it! All the best!
No way. I am true gemini woman. And I am sure my life or any of my friends hasn't been that way. Seems like a few peoples personal experience that is being generalized. I am sure if u hid that gemini and asked other non gemini women to read, some would agree too. It's more like a type of personality than a type of sun sign.
Hey sexy gems
I have a scorpio boyfriend. Sometimes I feels he talks to me only when he's finished off all his other commitments,when i give up anything i got to do and give first priority for him, especially when i am in a more critical phase of my career now.
He does whatever he wants and at the end of which, these scorpio guys know how to talk and somehow say something that convinces me. So, I just told him to delete everything that he received from me and get over it.
But it isn;t the first time i'm telling him this, each time i tell him, he ll say something or the other and make it sound like nothing he did was wrong, and that i have a wrong way of comprehending. I am sure any gemini woman, will hate to think her boyfriend thinks she is dumb. No way!
I tell him to get over it with the conviction that he really loves me and will hence, do something to recitify any pitfalls in our relationship. Knowing scoprio;s ego, even if he doesn't do anything , i am sure he will feel bad.
I am pretty confused right now..
wil post later..
ps : some one asked how other scorpio/gems make out..So far, We met up in only in public places , so we've never made out much, except twice, once - in a corner couples'seat in a theater... when we just kissed and he was feeling and fondling me all over in the dark. The next time was a beach side late in the evening, under the moonlight and in the car and that was... ooommphhh... took my breath away..But I was only initiating most of the times. He was a bit concerned as it was a public place.
I have a scorpio boyfriend. Sometimes I feels he talks to me only when he's finished off all his other commitments,when i give up anything i got to do and give first priority for him, especially when i am in a more critical phase of my career now.
He does whatever he wants and at the end of which, these scorpio guys know how to talk and somehow say something that convinces me. So, I just told him to delete everything that he received from me and get over it.
But it isn;t the first time i'm telling him this, each time i tell him, he ll say something or the other and make it sound like nothing he did was wrong, and that i have a wrong way of comprehending. I am sure any gemini woman, will hate to think her boyfriend thinks she is dumb. No way!
I tell him to get over it with the conviction that he really loves me and will hence, do something to recitify any pitfalls in our relationship. Knowing scoprio;s ego, even if he doesn't do anything , i am sure he will feel bad.
I am pretty confused right now..
wil post later..
ps : some one asked how other scorpio/gems make out..So far, We met up in only in public places , so we've never made out much, except twice, once - in a corner couples'seat in a theater... when we just kissed and he was feeling and fondling me all over in the dark. The next time was a beach side late in the evening, under the moonlight and in the car
and that was... ooommphhh... took my breath away..But I was only initiating most of the times. He was a bit concerned as it was a public place.Hey sexy gems
I have a scorpio boyfriend. Sometimes I feels he talks to me only when he's finished off all his other commitments,when i give up anything i got to do and give first priority for him, especially when i am in a more critical phase of my career now.
He does whatever he wants and at the end of which, these scorpio guys know how to talk and somehow say something that convinces me. So, I just told him to delete everything that he received from me and get over it.
But it isn;t the first time i'm telling him this, each time i tell him, he ll say something or the other and make it sound like nothing he did was wrong, and that i have a wrong way of comprehending. I am sure any gemini woman, will hate to think her boyfriend thinks she is dumb. No way!
I tell him to get over it with the conviction that he really loves me and will hence, do something to recitify any pitfalls in our relationship. Knowing scoprio;s ego, even if he doesn't do anything , i am sure he will feel bad.
I am pretty confused right now..
wil post later..
ps : some one asked how other scorpio/gems make out..So far, We met up in only in public places , so we've never made out much, except twice, once - in a corner couples'seat in a theater... when we just kissed and he was feeling and fondling me all over in the dark. The next time was a beach side late in the evening, under the moonlight and in the car and that was... ooommphhh... took my breath away..But I was only initiating most of the times. He was a bit concerned as it was a public place.
I have a scorpio boyfriend. Sometimes I feels he talks to me only when he's finished off all his other commitments,when i give up anything i got to do and give first priority for him, especially when i am in a more critical phase of my career now.
He does whatever he wants and at the end of which, these scorpio guys know how to talk and somehow say something that convinces me. So, I just told him to delete everything that he received from me and get over it.
But it isn;t the first time i'm telling him this, each time i tell him, he ll say something or the other and make it sound like nothing he did was wrong, and that i have a wrong way of comprehending. I am sure any gemini woman, will hate to think her boyfriend thinks she is dumb. No way!
I tell him to get over it with the conviction that he really loves me and will hence, do something to recitify any pitfalls in our relationship. Knowing scoprio;s ego, even if he doesn't do anything , i am sure he will feel bad.
I am pretty confused right now..
wil post later..
ps : some one asked how other scorpio/gems make out..So far, We met up in only in public places , so we've never made out much, except twice, once - in a corner couples'seat in a theater... when we just kissed and he was feeling and fondling me all over in the dark. The next time was a beach side late in the evening, under the moonlight and in the car
and that was... ooommphhh... took my breath away..But I was only initiating most of the times. He was a bit concerned as it was a public place.Photos
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