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Posted by misslissaPosted by somethingclever23
Posted by misslissa
I'm a gem sun, cancer moon.... My only thought while reading your post is, "What are you waiting for....?" So, really, what are you waiting for? ASK HER OUT ALREADY......! Lol!
So glad to hear from another gemini with a cancer moon! I had hoped I would. I want to so bad I just need to find the guts to do it like get that little "it's okay" push. If that makes sense. I just don't want to mess anything up. But I guess in the process of not wanting to mess anything up, I'm just kind of torturing myself.
From what you have typed.... She's given you the "It's ok" several times... The only thing you're messing up right now, is the chance to be with her.... AND torturing yourself in the process..... It sounds like (and it's what I would do in the process of laying it all out on the table, upfront) the only reason she told you about her past relationships is so you're aware of what you will be facing with her insecurities... So you will have an understanding of her.click to expand
Very true! I guess I just overanalyze a little too much. That does make a lot of sense, as to her letting me know what I'll be dealing with when it comes to insecurities. Thank you so much for your input I really do appreciate it!
asking her to be my girlfriend. She has mentioned this is new to her because she's not used people being genuinely interested in her, but instead wanting her only for what she can give to them, where I am the opposite. When I drop her off we always hug and I look her in the eyes I can just kind of tell that she wants to kiss me too, but I stand off because in case I'm mistaken. I try and make her feel secure as much as I can when we get on certain topics, but then when I do it's like she kind of just retreats back into her own shell. I guess that could just be the whole not really wanting to talk about feelings, so when she gets what she needs to hear she's okay. Which is completely fine with me, too. I understand so it doesn't bother me.
Posted by Daydreamer35
It seems to me that the two of you have just been passively egging each other on, back and forth, but now rather than one person waiting and the other initiating, you've both gotten of sync and are waiting for the other to make the next move. You're a Pisces, we're not called the psychics of the zodiac for nothing. Use your Pisces intuition and make your move!
Yeah that sounds about right. I probably should have specified that I am a female too, so therefore I'm not really keen on making the first moves either....yet alone what first move to make. I probably should work on trusting my intuition more!
Posted by misslissa
I'm a gem sun, cancer moon.... My only thought while reading your post is, "What are you waiting for....?" So, really, what are you waiting for? ASK HER OUT ALREADY......! Lol!
So glad to hear from another gemini with a cancer moon! I had hoped I would. I want to so bad I just need to find the guts to do it like get that little "it's okay" push. If that makes sense. I just don't want to mess anything up. But I guess in the process of not wanting to mess anything up, I'm just kind of torturing myself.
Posted by Metoo
Your being confusing by being distant at times etc. and then she does the same.
Are you only telling her your feelings via text?
Have a talk face to face and if you really want to give it a try, make it exclusive.
She IS into you...big time.
She talks nervously when you drop her off cause she feels you getting closer but your actions are not getting more romantic ie. a kiss...but she s like you might kiss her and that's so intimidating when you want it to happen but at the same time not sure where your guy stands.
Open up to her, stop going back into your shell. Make her feel secure in where she stands with you, make her your girl and some of this roller coaster behavior will stop and a fun healthy relationship without all the guessing can bloom.click to expand
Yes this far I have only really told her my feelings via text. The last time we talked on the phone is when she was talking about why she is scared of relationships...but I was completely dumbfounded, so didn't really know how to react. By making it exclusive, I'm assuming you mean just ---
A few days ago she noticed I hung out with another girl and asked about that, to which I assured her we were just friends. Just the way she went about it made me think she was a little jealous. This is very jumbled and not well put together but I'm exhausted so I apologize for that. Basically I'm just REALLY CONFUSED here and would appreciate any and all input because I do really like her and feel that this could be a very good relationship.....if we can ever get there.
I have been lurking this site forever now and finally decided to make an account, since I can no longer deal with the stress this situation is causing me! I'm a pisces with a gemini moon, and I like a gemini with a cancer moon. It's stressing me out though because I feel like we both dance around the subject of what we are or will be constantly, never getting anything actually done. We've been hanging out for a couple of months now and it was obvious from the start that I liked her (instant connection), and I could pretty much sense she was feeling the same way too. She started being all cute with me and flirting a lot to which I would kind of respond to. I say kind of because I'm really shy and don't always know how to respond to stuff like that. Anyways fast forward to where we are now and she's said twice that she's interested in me (I asked), and will send me cute sappy poems to this day and post certain things on social media that I just assume are about me. Recently I started reciprocating but I always get mixed vibes. Somedays I'm a little more distant than others and she'll make comments about that like "you're not very talkative today" or "I feel like we haven't talked much today". Two weeks ago she actually told me she figured I was just doing me and how she has difficulty understanding me and wether or not I'm interested in her because I'm so passive. I told her straight up I'm interested in her and then we kind of got off the subject. We hangout multiple times a week, everytime we're done she's always making plans right away to see me again. I never put moves on her, although I really want to. I just don't because I'm always so confused! She does the whole nervous talking thing every time I drop her off, but I can't tell if she's doing it because she wants me to make a move or because she's a gemini and likes to talk a lot. She does the hot and cold thing occasionally but that's usually when she's stressed about other things. We've become a lot more open with eachother lately, to the point where she'll call me out of the blue just to ask for my opinion on something or just to talk. Even though we text 24/7. She's shared with me that she's scared to get in to a relationship because of work (long hours, used to people not liking that) and being hurt in the past, but I can never tell if she's telling me this because she likes me or because she sees us as just friends and is just saying.
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