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Actually the new way of pairing is with thinkers or feelers. Per the book Love and war between the signs.
Thinkers - are earth and air signs
Feelers - water and Fire So in essence the fire sign if Leo for instance pairs well with a Cancer. Moreso. Both are emotional affectionate. Feelers cope with their emotions better, which is foreign nature to a thinker of earth or air
sign. So believe it or not it's not about dating the same element anymore. Great book invest in it
Author is Amy Keehn.
Actually the new way of pairing is with thinkers or feelers. Per the book Love and war between the signs.
Thinkers - are earth and air signs
Feelers - water and Fire So in essence the fire sign if Leo for instance pairs well with a Cancer. Moreso. Both are emotional affectionate. Feelers cope with their emotions better, which is foreign nature to a thinker of earth or air
sign. So believe it or not it's not about dating the same element anymore. Great book invest in it
Author is Amy Keehn.
Hi all. I haven't been in here for a long time but recently have a reason to. I met a Leo widowed with a teen daughter, online. Hes been a widow/er for 4 yrs. Not dated anyone since his late wife and just raised his kid and took care of his business. From the first connection via email (I sent to him) he has been so taken by me I'm not sure what to do (plus I kinda remind him of his late wife blonde etc) but rem I contacted him first. Anyway I'm a cancer and not easily into open affection so soon and we have not met yet as he lives 3 hrs away. I'm not used to returning lovey dovey sentimental messages until I deeply fall in love or am falling. He is not the pushy leo type I hear about - more of a tame pussycat. My big question is what if we continue this dialog (phone txt email) then meet and he or I are dissapointed somewhat then what? It's like a love affair before the affair. If I bear my heart b4 meeting as
does he I will be heartbroken as will he if our expectations are lowered at meeting. Plus he has a daughter who lost her mother at 8 to contend with. I like him so much as hes the man I would describe as my dream man. I've bern married n divorced b4. I'm not sure what to think of his affectionate ways. He asks if I'm thinking if him - am I ready to hsve a serious relationship again, that he can't stop staring at my photos etc etc like he beefs reassurance I'm into him and he won't get hurt again. He actually got emotional on the phone last week talking about his late wife. I asked if he is ready for love he said he truly is. I'm afraid to get so involved so quickly but don't want to hurt his feelings or lose a chance to be with him. I'm confused about what this Leo is wanting or needing in me when we hvnt met yet. Help!!!!! Btw we are both 48 y o.
Might I add - Cappies are freaking awesome guys. Love them to death but they frustrate me terribly holding back emotions & feelings forEVER. You won't be getting matching tattoos that's for sure cuz they're never sure of you. Give him time and if you stick around you grow on him. He likes TIME on his side. Always trying to think of ways to SHOW he cares NOT tell you he cares. Watch for actions.
R24 He was vulnerable. I hope you recipocated or he's probably in the next state in a state. Never let a cappy come clean emotionally then rebuff, ignore or make light of his testimonies. He will be insulted n injured for life.... Well a very long time. Just getting a cappy to reveal his feelings took him longer than you think. Probably years lol. Call him up surprise him he will like that. Lick his wounds and anything else oooh la laaa. Good luck
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Hi ya all. I thankyou for all if responses. I know I have to be honest with him. He is too nice a guy for me not to be. Funny thing is my last guy was a Capricorn and he was the same way at first but I relished it with him. Maybe it's becuz I know what the scorpio male is like having dated two others. I also read how cappies hold back their feeling and emotions. So I was surpised when he didn't. He was very affectionate and loving, but having said that he never expressed feelings. Neither did I (being the Cancer that I am) so we drifted cuz no one would open up. I won't do that again. I list a man I cared for yet couldn't tell him. So I thought with thus new guy Scorpio I would be more open, that us until he turned me totally off with his fast approach. I guess thee one is still out there waiting. People come into our lives for a reason or a season. I truly believe they do yo teach us a lesson to take to the next person. With each day that goes by I talk less n less to Scorpio so I know it's a matter of time ......
Thx all for listening. smile
They like a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and their life, they are usually too busy to worry about you, its all about them, getting to the top, (the goat) but if you are wealthy, hold a top job, and keep busy, they think that is very 'sexy' in a woman and they will fall sooner rather than later. But if they fall too soon, its not good, they will fall too soon with anyone. They dont like when you're wanting to know when you're getting together again... (they like to plan and lead). They like variety.... so be forewarned, dont give up your heart too soon, cuz they usually dont... Caps are hard on the outside soft and needy on the inside. But you will never know. Good luck getting him to share feelings. But when they finally do, you have won them for life. Great conversationlsts, and can talk for HOURS.(you will be doing most of the listening, that said, they have interesting topics to tell you ALL THE TIME). Make sure you have enough minutes on your mobile plan if you arent with the same service provider...LOL Family is important, VERY important. They cant seem to let the past stay in the past, and it can turn to funny-angry moments when they recall (constantly) past lovers who wronged him or spurned him. Revenge is a sweet thing to a cap with an exe who wronged him (especially in the money dept). Did I mention they talk a LOT! Learn to listen, they hate when you look bored and will sulk. Trust me you wont be bored, unless you are vying for the spolight.
I met this Scorp (im a Cancer) several weeks ago, he lives in my town, which is nice, as I usually date guys who live in other cities. He is sexy, witty, youthful, damn handsome, funny, generous, happy, and has a great career. BUT, he was smitten the 1st date. He calls/txts/emails constantly, always pays when we go out and wont accept my offer to pay, we fight over the check when it arrives and he ends up winning. Sometimes he brings gifts, which I appreciate, but I have told him to please stop doing that, (in a nice way). He also wants to come over on nights when I have my Child (I share custody with her father)even tho Im not ready to introduce her to ANYONE, unless I know its the real thing. I dont want to tell him I dont want him to meet my child YET, (or EVER will let him). He introduced me to his young son one evening, it kinda felt weird as we have only been dating a few weeks. I tell him Im doing 'Mother and Daughter' things together, but it dosent register, he will txt, "can I come over with take out, Ice cream" etc... Arrrgh..
OKAY.. so you're saying "so what, he likes you, wants to share time and things with you, a lot of women would love that treatment, WHAT'S the problem". Problem is its TOO MUCH TOO SOON, and it turns me off. Im not taking his calls half the time, make excuses not to get togther, create faux lunch meetings, so he wont take me to lunch again for the 100th time. He tells me all the time, "You're special and wonderful" BUT I cant recipocate. I feel I want to break it off already, but know it will hurt him and I hate to hurt people, especially nice people. I think I speak for most females. I want to be a challenge to a man, not know EVERYTHING about him or he me, in 2 dates!!! Its a thrill to not hear off him sometimes... then Im curious where he is. How do I get him to back off without hurting his feelings? I cant keep ignoring his calls without seeming rude. Im not a rude person. Thing is, he is a great guy, I realy enjoy our time. I would hate to end it just becuz I dont feel the same for him YET, but I want to RUN AWAY.
H E L P Scorpio M A L E S.... whats going on here....? I know its a Scorpio trait, they act on their emotions and feelings without thinking, being water signs. I dated two other Scorps before and similar patterns ensued. This very NICE man, is becoming a leach. Im a Cancer (also water sign) but I DO NOT act this touchy feely too soon, in fact I hide my feelings early on to avoid being hurt.
Hi SB.... good question you posted here. I have been dating a Cap guy for 8 mos now, (im of course cancer) and sadly it may be coming to an end, (just today, was the worst day for me) and the reason being is BOTH of us not being able to share and communicate feelings. He is so emotionally guarded (emotionaly retarded if youi ask me..LOL) and so becuz of this we drifted and yet still could not come together and start the "Talk" convo. Its sad but probably the way we will always be "caps and Cancers" I retreat into my shell, he shiows no emotion or affection..... Im saddened by it now, but I do not believe we can repair the distance now created, I even think he is seeing someone else. Take my advice ALWAYS share whts on your mind with a Cappy, they need to her it OFTEN how you care about them, want them, need them, wnat their advice (they love to give it in bucketfulls) etc., Again sadly I learned too late..... Sad

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I met this Scorp (im a Cancer) several weeks ago, he lives in my town, which is nice, as I usually date guys who live in
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well, I did something I should not have done... all because I needed validation that he DID have his kids this weekend.
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Hey everyone, My first post here.. :-) Glad I stumbled on this forum, I have much to ask advice on with my Cappy BF.
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