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Posted by phEnyxBull876
This is what I see:
You told him he's awesome, but cant invest in seeing him (at least anytime soon).
And the you go on a trip to another city/country.
That sounds like a huge blow. I can see why he'd distance himself from that, it's a huge reality check and showed him his place. And perhaps, unfairly, is presuming you have time and money for things close by, but not him.
3 months is a really long time for a Taurus... I think its commendable that you reached out and apologized and were the bigger person. But he's taken his hurt and run with it, and the ball is in his court. You've done all you can. I hope he does grow out of it and reply to you soon!

True true! You've done all you can. Taurus tends to be like that sometime. Just give him some space and let him be for a while. From my experience, he will definitely accept the apology.
Good luck

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Posted by Starlight1234
Still no reply, no acknowledgment. Nothing. this is absolutely excruciating! As someone who's inquisitive and likes I know and have answers this is doing my head in big time!
Sorry, I just need to vent. I feel uncomfortable approaching our mutual friends about it to ask how he is, I don't like involving other people like that. But I do wonder about him, I hope he's ok

I know it is hard. I hate the shut out too. I think my best advice is to make yourself busy and occupy your thoughts with something else. What is an excruciating wait for you might be a blink of an eye for him. As they say 'a watched pot never boils'.

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Posted by bullbullgirl
Starlight1234, don't worry, you will be fine.
I'm worse than you, my guy, or should I called him ex-guy, told me indirectly to leave him alone and that he doesn't want a relationship with me, but I will go back and tap on him every now and then. He would still reply me. For me, I'm trying to restart it as friend, which is very hard because of our history.
You will be fine.

Posted by Wynter
Nice chart, by the way.

Posted by DMV
i bet you do come off as annoying aith all the sag in your chart.

Posted by size zero superhero
Negative Sadge traits, from personal observation:
Impatient--as HELL.
Poor judges of character. Sags see the good in people & dismiss the bad--though on some level they acknowledge the bad side too--'til finally, a catastrophe goes down at their expense & there's no room left for denial. Even if everyone else smells a rat, Sags are prone to get caught up with the worst characters; folks that don't have their best interest at heart.
Impulsive. Regrets things they did/said in the heat of the moment.
Tying in with the judge of character point; many are fatally attracted to incompatibility. They're drawn to those vastly different(not always in a "good way")from themselves. This can result in a series of dysfunctional relationships, suffering, affairs to cope & a revolving door of marriage/divorce/re-marriage if the particular Sag is extra-reckless.
Not the best w/keeping others confidentiality. AKA bigmouths. It's nothing personal since Sags generally don't make a point to keep their OWN secrets tightly under-wraps either. Yet they don't always realize that others will be MAJORLY butthurt if they accidentally spilt the beans on info that was supposed to be kept quiet.

On the bright side, among the reasons why others are likely to forgive 'em if they're in the wrong, moreso than other signs: for the most part, Sags are able to own their fvc.kups when applicable & apologize. Many handle it gracefully after getting called out, rather than making things worse by becoming defensive or trying to lie their way out of something.