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Wow TMV can you always reply to my posts? Lol that was so much great advice and honesty I appreciate it yes this my first time with a virgo and he's actually everything I could ever want in someone but that damn virgo in him lol "stop biting your nails" "your room is a bit cluttered" lmao and always follows with "I still love you" so the other criticism I just let slide off my back like water on a duck but sexually that hit me kinda hard cuz of my past.
No I wasn't gagging but I was for sure spitting all trying to get it lubed but I love your suggestion at smearing cause he does love when I do tongue action.
That was such an informative post you rock thanks!!! Any other tips n tricks let me know and now I know not to ask unless I want the whole truth 0.0 haha
Thanks Gemeliorist!!!! Are you a gem too? You seem to understand my plight easily hahaha
Thank you to everyone who helped me to see this situation clearly - p angel I don't have to validate myself for you but it would be wise for you to not make assumptions about people you don't know. I have a large history of domestic abuse and rape which attributes to my insecurities. I am far from a princess and I am an excellent girlfriend but clearly it IS insensitive to pull out an iphone to show someone oral sex tips DURING the act itself that's just uncalled for - everything else okay however you feel is however you feel but I wanted guidance from those who could shine a light on my situation and I got it.
Have a blessed day though, don't know what you're so upset about. And I never have been attracted to Pisces anyway. They're confusing to me.
Also Damnata LOL yes it was during t and no I wasn't biting I was sucking and licking and deep throating even but it became "too messy" for him at one point lol. Yet the pornstar he showed me slobbered everywhere so I'll just keep practicing since he's patient about it haha but damn isn't that harsh?? >_
Hey,
I'm a Gemini in a committed relationship with a Virgo male and everything has been nearly perfect and even the flaws are things I'm happy to deal with for long-term - but recently when we became intimate he became very critical of my technique, directing me all sorts of ways - now we have open communication and it's great when we can help each other get to know our bodies, but the way he did it seemed rather degrading to me and he's always been a gentleman to me (and still is). He grabbed his phone insisting on looking up some video vixen to show me her "technique" (this was during the act), and when I foolishly asked what my oral skills were on a scale he said a 6.5 (ouch).
I appreciate his honesty, and he insisted that he loved me and that it was just my lack of experience (I've only recently lost my virginity, I'm 22), but I can't help overanalyzing and freaking out about myself now. Sexually otherwise he said he's totally satisfied, and he's not even saying he's unsatisfied with oral I'm just not used to someone being so critical of me.
I know this is Virgo nature so is there a way I can deal with this? Or is this just way over the line?
I should note that we are fine now, he went out of his way to make me feel secure afterwards but I can't shake that nasty feeling of embarrassment >_
Aren't they? Such beautiful complex creatures smile anyway she hit me back and is talking to me like normal so I should've just said something before haha what would I do without my dxp board of scorpions to help me haha
Hahaha you guys are confusing but I can see how that works.
She's certainly more masculine, she dresses that way, she shoots guns, she plays sports, and she's quite emotionally harsh actually like she doesn't want anyone near her but I've seen a couple sides of her that show she's not all that bad lol.
I'm a rough tomboy so we kind of level out - but I have a softer feminine energy.
Okay I'll say something and see what happens lol
I would like to think I am but I have not heard back from her since our date? I don't think that's a good thing~ and it went so well I'm confused? Lol
Well we hung out today and to me it went incredibly well. She's certainly all scorpio, she would stare deeply at me as I spoke and whenever we touched, she lingered on, as did I.
She brought something from a bakery to give to me it was really sweet lol.
Then when she hugged me to go, our faces were centimeters apart but I was so flustered I giggled before a kiss could happen, I felt it though, my face got so hot.
Then we pulled back and literally her hand trailed down my arm slowly fffffffff it gave me chills lol
Scorpions!!! You seductive beasts!
Lol so I assume I'm going in the right direction? She loved my animals too haha smile
Thanks for all the replies!!
Things are goin' good so far. She asked me to attend something with her last night but I had a show and couldn't make it, so we are still set to meet next weekend.
We are communicating nearly every day now. Even if it's short, she says something to me out of nowhere in the middle of the day lol.
And also she's the second scorpio I've dated who's horrible with texting. Like an hour between replies it's awful to this gemini with an Aries rising lol *impatient*
Haha silent ghost I don't control who's in my dreams, and in my Nottoway culture dreams are important it sounds crazy but in my life they have always been significant, it is just my own beliefs.
I've said before I have dated one girl. It did not have an opportunity to go sexual because she pretty much fucked me over. In my lifetime I have also only had one boyfriend, so I'm very much on the fence and attracted to both.

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