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A. Paine

SwimmingHigh joined August 12, 2017
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In Other Universes I make You Happy
Sun Cancer/Leo Cusp
Moon Leo
Aquarius rising
Venus in Cancer Mars in Libra
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Posted by Miaou
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Posted by Unlucky-in-love
The problem with this cancerian guy is not just that he's married , but also his uncommunicative nature. The past 2.5 months, our interaction are only bushwalks and sex.

Sure, he's married.

He already does the "talking/communicating" with his wife....

& so.... when he wants sex or more sex well he has : you.

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^when people reply without reading the thread

*eye roll*

why bother?
I don't need to read the entire thread, the fact he's cheating on his wife ...its kinda evident he has communication problems. Otherwise you know - he'd leave his wife or he wouldn't have cheated.

But true, she got pregnant AFTER finding out he was married - which is truly unfortunate.


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I mean, if you dont wanna have anything relevant to say than sure, you do not need to read the thread but those of us who took the time to do so, before commenting know he did leave her/ended things.

I wish I had the time and energy some of you do, to spend my every waking moment on dxp, just so I could take a little of the sting out of the hurtful commentary some of you people give sad lonely people seeking advice.

I've been lurking around this place for many years and those of you with with bitter miserable lives who log into this place year after year and give mean nasty, bored, snark as replies to genuine earnest questions are absolutely pathetic.

I will counteract your nastiness but I simply cannot compete with your 7 hour a day dxp habits so I'll have to pick and choose.

See you on the boards, twats

Oh I know the answer to my own question.. because the chance to get in a snarky comment and or meme to hurt random OP's and amuse your friends with, is more important to you than actually giving relevant advice.

Pathetic.
Posted by Miaou
Posted by Unlucky-in-love
The problem with this cancerian guy is not just that he's married , but also his uncommunicative nature. The past 2.5 months, our interaction are only bushwalks and sex.

Sure, he's married.

He already does the "talking/communicating" with his wife....

& so.... when he wants sex or more sex well he has : you.

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^when people reply without reading the thread

*eye roll*

why bother?
Posted by tnmnt
Cancers can be quite hypocritical with their attachment. eg they could get nostalgic about someone who mistreated them but forget completely about someone who has always done them good but that was not "cool enough" for them.

Attachment to the past (and to the dead) is a childish feature. Letting go and moving on are key lessons to learn.

Mindfulness helps. Stoicism helps. Epicurus' Letter to Menoeceus has been for me useful to change perspective about some things.
This is spot on!! Really intuitive, excellent response.
Sorry about some of the people who reply to you OP, This place attracts a lot of bitter losers who spend most of their free time here year after year.

I pop in once every year or two and it's the same people giving the same snarky answers

*eye roll*

don't take it personal, they're literally miserable and long after you've moved on from this situation and are happy again, they will continue to reply to people on this website in a manner intended to bring them down to their level/make them as unhappy as they are.


That being said, I feel very much for your situation, and I'm so sorry you're going through this.

It is a terrible idea to have this baby but abortion is a difficult choice!

I was in a similar situation to you last year, although the man in question was not married he was crushing on another woman, I only realized after - who eventually realized he was into me, and made her move.

my 2 months of knowing him couldn't compete with his 2 years of being unfriended by her/crushing her/wanting her.

I was so stressed out about the situation I ended up miscarrying after deciding I would keep my child. It was devastating but a huge relief at the same time and then I felt so guilty about having felt relief and I still have a hard time coping with that guilt even today but i KNOW it was the best possible outcome.

raising a child is a lifetime commitment of epic proportion, if it is not something you plan and want very much, it is not something you should do.

Period.

Selfish is deciding to keep a child I wasn't prepared to raise properly with a man unable to give the time/attention to fatherhood. I made the selfish choice, but the choice was taken from me when the baby died.

I wish you the very best dear you seem like a lovely person and so patient with these cruel sadists.

I'm doing keto,

1300 cals high fat moderate protein low carb (20 grams net) Intermittent fasting, and fasted HIIT workouts almost daily. Burn up to 700cal on Elliptical. and yes, I lift bruh.

I checked my BMI yesterday and lets just say I'm one pound away from being chubby instead of fat lol and I'm not stopping until I'm rivaling Kim K!
Nope.
I have a Leo Moon.

Honestly I think I'd be scared to go to bed with another leo Moon..
I don't ever let go, not ever.

As far as I am concerned I am still dating every man who ever put his penis in me.

It's not stalking if they reply sometimes Sad

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