TheAviator joined August 13, 2017
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I turned off my phone because I was disappointed. I didn’t want to focus entirely on whether I will get a reply or not and refocus my happiness on my life. I did not want any negativity in my life pulling me down. So in this period, I have learned to be happy without him than rely on him for my happiness.
Really? I never had these past experiences with my exes, family or friends. So why does this happen with my current boyfriend? Does this mean we are in sync or something?
My boyfriend is in the military and he is deployed. We are currently in a LDR. We text back and forth every day until he suddenly disappeared. He has never disappeared for such a long and I got upset. I turned off my phone and used another phone to contact my family. Then, a week after his disappearance, I had recurring dreams about him desperately trying to get in contact with me. But I did not turn my phone on. Finally, today, I caved in and turned my phone on. And lo and behold, I had a few messages from him trying to get a hold of me after he went out in the field and had no reception. He was upset that I did not reply to him and those dreams of him texting me started on the day he contacted me after his disappearance.
Is this an eerie coincidence or could this be telepathy?
Is this an eerie coincidence or could this be telepathy?
LDR were longer than my local relationships. Those deteriorate so much more quickly, and guys want to jump into my pants before knowing me. They lie about wanting a relationship whem in reality, they don't.
I'm manipulating him? How?
Posted by ChrisxKodakHe's still willing to wait. And I did. I had a trap question where I made up a white lie for him. I told him I love him too much and I don't care whether he is virgin or not. I told him it's okay for him to lie to give us a chance (that I never regretted) and to put the pressure off sex. Then he said:Posted by TheAviatorYou can either
My boyfriend says he is a virgin. And he:
- Acts really shy and nervous around me.
- Doesn't know what to do about sexual things and is clueless.
- I almost always had to initiate something sexual.
- Gets embarrassed when he says "pussy".
- Respects my decision to hold off sex (I am also a virgin. I initiated the topic and everything).
- Says that he lies to his friends about his virginity so they would not pressure him to lose it by bringing him to a strip club.
But I have my doubts. Because he told me his ex girlfriend never kissed him on the neck and I found out he lied to me. He told me he lied because he didn't want to make me jealous and didn't want to talk or think about her. He just wants to think about me doing it. And when we sext, he's pretty good but that is because he watched a lot of porn. And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.
Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!
1) Get it out of him with lead in questions (trap him)
or
2) Just wait till marriage and see if he can play keepaway till then. If he forces the issue, then he's probably doesn't hold the same values then you have to make a decision.click to expand
I'm speechless.. I love you so much. I am honest with you... I've never done anything with anyone. The furthest I've gone was kissing and cuddling. Why would I lie about being a virgin... if anything I'd lie and say I wasn't. Being 21 and a virgin as a guy is highly embarrassing... people would think I'm gay or something
We have only been together for 3 months. And we're in a LDR waiting to meet, so that's why we can't get married at the moment.
Posted by sas0risaMaybe he needed a bit of space to think about things, because things became a little too intense. He may come back after he had space to think things over. He needs this space to grow and contemplate, don't worry about it.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWhat happened?
liars and extremely disloyal entities, death to them all
Mine has ghosted me after he asked me to be his wife after seeing eachother for two months..click to expand
My boyfriend says he is a virgin. And he:
- Acts really shy and nervous around me.
- Doesn't know what to do about sexual things and is clueless.
- I almost always had to initiate something sexual.
- Gets embarrassed when he says "pussy".
- Respects my decision to hold off sex (I am also a virgin. I initiated the topic and everything).
- Says that he lies to his friends about his virginity so they would not pressure him to lose it by bringing him to a strip club.
But I have my doubts. Because he told me his ex girlfriend never kissed him on the neck and I found out he lied to me. He told me he lied because he didn't want to make me jealous and didn't want to talk or think about her. He just wants to think about me doing it. And when we sext, he's pretty good but that is because he watched a lot of porn. And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.
Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!
- Acts really shy and nervous around me.
- Doesn't know what to do about sexual things and is clueless.
- I almost always had to initiate something sexual.
- Gets embarrassed when he says "pussy".
- Respects my decision to hold off sex (I am also a virgin. I initiated the topic and everything).
- Says that he lies to his friends about his virginity so they would not pressure him to lose it by bringing him to a strip club.
But I have my doubts. Because he told me his ex girlfriend never kissed him on the neck and I found out he lied to me. He told me he lied because he didn't want to make me jealous and didn't want to talk or think about her. He just wants to think about me doing it. And when we sext, he's pretty good but that is because he watched a lot of porn. And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.
Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!
I'm usually straight to the point and direct with my words. I don't really lie.
Posted by sas0risaHopefully it's not the same guy ? Is he in the military?
The Lion i've been seeing has said similar things, even the same things. It's like you are talking about the same lion!
I was very suspicious at first (i am a scorpio) and confronted him about his sweet mouth, his arrogant ass told me i wouldn't want it any other way
I've learned to enjoy his sweet nothings and not overthink them. They may or may not last. It doesn't matter, you only live once..
Him: Baby tbh I wish we could do this for real ? I really want you and wanna be apart of your life. I wanna wake up next to you. I want to wake up early and make you breakfast. I want to surprise you with hugs and kisses. I want to just be next to you all day everyday
Him: Yayy ❤❤ I love you baby !! I wish I could come steal you away tho and start a new life. With kids and everything. Just you and me. You could follow your dreams and I'll support you I'd take care of the kids and do everything to make you happy
Him: Baby my dream is to have a family. No job or anything I could do would make me happier then being with you and kids. I miss the feeling of having one and I really want it back.
Him: Yayy ❤❤ I love you baby !! I wish I could come steal you away tho and start a new life. With kids and everything. Just you and me. You could follow your dreams and I'll support you I'd take care of the kids and do everything to make you happy
Him: Baby my dream is to have a family. No job or anything I could do would make me happier then being with you and kids. I miss the feeling of having one and I really want it back.
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My boyfriend is in the military and he is deployed. We are currently in a LDR. We text back and forth every day until he suddenly disappeared. He has never disappeared for such a long and I got upset. I turned off my phone and used another phone to contac
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Leo
My boyfriend says he is a virgin. And he:
- Acts really shy and nervous around me.
- Doesn't know what to do about sexual things and is clueless.
- I almost always had to initiate something sexual.
- Gets embarrassed when he says "pussy".
- Respects
@TheAviator
Joined: Aug 13, 2017 · Topics: 4 · Posts: 48
Leo
I feel that they are all fake and I can't trust them. I don't know why, as a Sagittarius, that I seem to attract them. What my Leo says are overly exaggerated, flowery and fake. I prefer them to be genuine to me, and I want the truth rather than fake prom
@TheAviator
Joined: Aug 13, 2017 · Topics: 4 · Posts: 48
Leo
My current boyfriend and my ex boyfriend share the SAME birthday (but different year). I don't know if similar birthcharts have to do with it, but they act eerily similar, down to:
- The way they speak.
- The way they think.
- The way they act.
- Same
@TheAviator
Joined: Aug 13, 2017 · Topics: 4 · Posts: 48