tianping joined March 25, 2017
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So the astrology says, cancer and scorpios are very compatible because of our common habits. We tend to be very self protected, and loyal, and hence when we find someone, it's hard to let go. About a month ago, I met this cancer guy, and although we didn't hit it off, i figured he was just shy, and so I wanted to give some time to get to know him. Fast forward a few weeks after our first date, we met up a few more times, and still, I felt a lot of mystery surrounding his presence. I did a lot of research online to try and understand him for an astrological standpoint, and surely he fit all of the points I read up on. I last saw him about two weeks ago, and he has since ghosted me, no texts, no calls, and doesn't even bother to connect on social media. Many of my friends have said to move on, some have said to give it time and he will call, but I'm getting sorta sick of waiting. Should I make the move and reach out again, or will that only be stupid of me? A part of me just wants an answer as to why I got ghosted, why he suddenly ignored me, but a part of me knows that knowing the answer wont make things any better. I'm very conflicted, but my gut keeps telling me that this is nothing like past relationships that didn't work out.
I'm a scorpio female as well, and I encountered a very similar situation with a cancer male. We hung out for a very long time the first time, and although he struggled to keep the conversation moving, I just figured it was a part of his guarded personality, and maybe he was just shy the first time around. Fast forward two more dates, I still feel like I know very little about what he wants/sees between us, because at times he's very caring and sweet but other times he leaves me in the cold. For the past two weeks, he has completed ghosted me and hasn't reached out to me at all. A part of me is tempted to reach out, just so i can seek closure, but all of my friends have told me time and time again, it's not worth it and it's just time to move on. My intuition tells me there's something different about him hence the reason it's much harder for me to let go this time around. I thought being with a cancer as a scorpio would go much smoother. is it one of those things where we all say, good things don't come easy?
Girl, I want to know the same! I was seeing this cancer male for about three weeks. He would text at least once a day even when we were apart, and although I felt things kinda drifting between us, I felt he just needed some space, and wasn't really the type to express himself thoroughly over text. After our last hangout together, he has completely dropped off the face of this earth and hasn't sent a single text at all. Many of my friends have said he's just not worth it, and that I should just move on, but my intuition is telling me that he's hiding something, and there's a reason why he suddenly ghosted me. I've read about cancers so much at this point that I've accepted their flaws, and learned to take things slow, and even make the initiative to reach out first. I don't want to seem pushy, but I really want to see him again, even if it's just to sort things out between us. It's been nearly two weeks since i've last heard from him, and I'm kinda getting desperate, and needy. I know it's not healthy for either of us to be needy in this way, but I sense something different, and this time around, its much harder for me to let go.
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