tmijones joined April 15, 2013
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Posted by Divinesun
My heart goes out to you, tmijones.
I can so totally relate to your post.
Sounds similar to my story with my ex Scorp, and it has been going on for five and a half years.
It has taken it's toll, for sure, but I miss him so, and am trying to move on, but it is hard.
Move on now if you can, otherwise, you will end up years down the road like me
It is very hard. The entire 3 months i thought about him everyday, but i did not allow myself to show to others that knew him how i felt. I kept it to myself. Never once did i ask about him. Out of site out of mind, right? With him it does not work.
Yesterday I told him that he is in the wrong and the next time he wants to reach out again he needs to think twice on how this will affect me, and that I am done playing his game. He did not respond to that. *sigh. Here I go again
Yes Melly Mel, i agree. For us to end this on going cycle i will have to completely block him from my life. As of yesterday i made that decsion. I blocked my facebook (he has admitted to going on my profile to see what i am up to) and i also blocked his number from my phone, but that does not stop text messages. I have to move on from this. Its to hard on my heart.
Good Morning,
I have been on here a few times *sigh regarding my ex scorpio. I will probably be completely judged but at this point I need to know what this man is thinking, so any insight will be much appreciated.
Okay so here it goes, for the last year i have had an on/off relationship with this scorpio man. If you have read my two previous post than you will see if been quite a rollar coaster ride. I care so much about this man but i continue to allow him to play with my emotions. I did not talk to him for three months, no contact, nothing. He started asking our mutual friends about me, what is she doing? How is she doing? ext. Then out of the blue he text me saying he thinks about me everyday, not a day does not pass where he does not think about me. I did not respond, the next day he text again stating that he was thinking about me and bought me some perfume and wanted me to have it. I text back stating that i would accept the perfume. The following day he text again saying that a part of him loves me and that I am in his pumping organ (his heart) but he knows he cant give it all to me. He has never told me he loved me before so I was kind of shocked. He asked me out to dinner. I agreed. We talked, held hands,and slept next to each other that night,(no sex) it was real nice. We continued to talk for a few days then out of the blue he gives me the silent treatment again! He text me on Saturday night and said, " I havent contacted you because i dont want to take advantage of your loyality towards me", I didnt expect to spend the night next to you (even though sleeping next to you is amazing) i just wanted to see you and to give you the perfume.
Huh?? I asked why even come back into my life, for what? you know how i feel about you, why do this to me? If i knew i couldnt commit to someone who really cared about me I would not continue to come in and out of their life, i would leave that person alone so they dont feel as if i am leading him on. He said i am putting to much into this, and he didnt mean to hurt me. I am so confused. but its expected from him, I know I am allowing this to happen.
But why does he like to hurt me?
I have been on here a few times *sigh regarding my ex scorpio. I will probably be completely judged but at this point I need to know what this man is thinking, so any insight will be much appreciated.
Okay so here it goes, for the last year i have had an on/off relationship with this scorpio man. If you have read my two previous post than you will see if been quite a rollar coaster ride. I care so much about this man but i continue to allow him to play with my emotions. I did not talk to him for three months, no contact, nothing. He started asking our mutual friends about me, what is she doing? How is she doing? ext. Then out of the blue he text me saying he thinks about me everyday, not a day does not pass where he does not think about me. I did not respond, the next day he text again stating that he was thinking about me and bought me some perfume and wanted me to have it. I text back stating that i would accept the perfume. The following day he text again saying that a part of him loves me and that I am in his pumping organ (his heart) but he knows he cant give it all to me. He has never told me he loved me before so I was kind of shocked. He asked me out to dinner. I agreed. We talked, held hands,and slept next to each other that night,(no sex) it was real nice. We continued to talk for a few days then out of the blue he gives me the silent treatment again! He text me on Saturday night and said, " I havent contacted you because i dont want to take advantage of your loyality towards me", I didnt expect to spend the night next to you (even though sleeping next to you is amazing) i just wanted to see you and to give you the perfume.
Huh?? I asked why even come back into my life, for what? you know how i feel about you, why do this to me? If i knew i couldnt commit to someone who really cared about me I would not continue to come in and out of their life, i would leave that person alone so they dont feel as if i am leading him on. He said i am putting to much into this, and he didnt mean to hurt me. I am so confused. but its expected from him, I know I am allowing this to happen.
But why does he like to hurt me?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by IrresistableScorp
I will admit to retreating upon realizing that actual love was involved. Caught me by surprise.
It usually goes along the lines of -
1. Head in the clouds, pure bliss, starry eyed, rose tinted glasses on with not a complaint in the world.
2. Realization of an emotion...possibly love? actually love? truly love? This leaves one scared shitless (for a lack of a better word).
3. Freeze and a total shut down, or worse, break down. At this point, nothing is function, retreat, retreat, retreat back into a hole of safety, of comfort, of what is known.
4. Slowly thawing, to see what on earth we have upon our hands; observe, dissect, analyze, and reflect.
5. Come to a conclusion, venture out to see what has happened since we left.click to expand
thanks Lady Scorp.
So what would be the best way to handle these types of situations? Leave him to his thoughts for as long as it takes?
i text him and explained to him how i feel when he pushes me away, and i will always be honest about how i feel... always. i just wish he would trust me and the way i feel about him is a reality.
Is there away to prove to a scorp you are in love with him/her?
Posted by IrresistableScorp
I will admit to retreating upon realizing that actual love was involved. Caught me by surprise.
i am having the most interesting relationship with a scorpio man, i am a Gemini with a Scorpio moon and i have never felt this deep about another man before ever. It has only been 9 months and we have already been through so much. i am constanstly confessing my emotions for him, he knows how i feel about him, and he says he feels the same. but as we speak will not speak to me because i said something that hurt his feelings. I say how i feel, when i feel it, and i forget sometimes how sensitive he really is. we are going on day 4 with no communication.... it is killing me inside.
do scorpios know how this silence really does affect the other person. its tourture for a Gemini.
Ok, so i am back with a question for all you scorps out there, he still has not spoke to me, i have text him a few times just to get my belongings back that i left at his house,no reponse. But he is telling mutual friends how much he misses me and LOVES me?? he has never told me he loved me, he has always said he has strong feelings but never love. when the mutual friend asked why he cant return my calls then he said that he cant continue to open that door between us? Im very confused. and i guess he has been calling around a few people asking about me, what have i been up to, what im doing? but he cant pick up a phone and ask him self? I dont understand this behavior at all. being the sign of communication, this is all so new to me.
continued, i think my message was cut off.... so much a human being can take. I am just confused, i told him i was scared he would hurt me again, he promissed me that he has so many feelings for me that is the last thing he would do.... and here i am again. why would someone tell u how much they care for you and how much love they have for you, but turn around and do these things, without even an explantaion, or even a simple response. just completely cut me off because the way i responded to an emotion that he created??
Posted by kalinPosted by tmijonesPosted by kalin
3 months at least, whenever someone really pissed me off, or hurt me.
3 months seems to be the number im hearing.... question? what stops a scorpio from communicating how you feel, why wait so long?
The first time was because my sag ex lied to me to hang out with someone I didn't approve. I lost my trust in him. I broke up with him. I had to ignore him because he didn't leave me alone. He sent me 200 text within a day.
The 2nd time was another sag. He cheated on me and then lied to me and to the other women (more than 1). I contacted the other women because they didn't know there's multiple women involved, then he told them I had mental illness--which totally pissed me off. If he dared to fuck around, he'd better have the gut to admit it. I dumped him and stopped talking to him. He texted me every day... I don't remember for how long... Anyways, we began talking because I got a call from King Soopers telling me the cantaloupe he bought was polluted by some kind of chemicals so I emailed him to tell him that (we shared the same King Soopers membership card.) I hated him but I didn't want him to be poisoned.
The 3rd time was my Leo ex. He lied to me and told me the woman he was seeing just didn't give up and he was indifferent about her blah blah and we were still on a stand... and he called me for a whole month just to get into my pants again... after we had sex, he told me he loved her. I was so pissed. So I changed my number and didn't talk to him for 3.5 months.
I think in those cases, they didn't even deserve an explanation of why I disappeared on them. I didn't want to waste my time communicating how I felt because if they cared about how I feel, they wouldn't have done those shit to me in the 1st place. (Sorry I still feel angry just thinking what they did to me.)click to expand
Ok, well that would make sense why you didnt want nothing to with them and ignored them. I wish i was as strong as to ignore some one like that, i always feed in, i always have one more thing to say.... but when he is silent like this, it drives me nuts! I really need to chop it up and move on, he is obviously not the one for me. I have been patient, understanding but there is
Posted by DMsilver
It is the same with me! I didnt know if it's a gem thing but i like to sleep with the window open! I just like the touch of a blowing/moving cool air on my skin and breath it. I also like to hear it blowing... In that condition i get to sleep well!
Yes! Even in the winter time i have to sleep with my fan on Full blast, not only do i like the breeze on me, it drowns out all the noise around me, i have a hard time shutting off my mind, so it is a comfort thing.
Posted by kalin
3 months at least, whenever someone really pissed me off, or hurt me.
3 months seems to be the number im hearing.... question? what stops a scorpio from communicating how you feel, why wait so long?
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Once trust is gone, that is the point of no return.
Waste no more time, move on dear Gem.
You can do it, frankly, this Scorpio man is not worth your time.
There are better, far better examples out in the sea.
Keep your eyes open, heart close by, and soul search
Thank you, i am trying to move on.... i tell my self everyday he is not worth it, but i still feel like crap. i finally opened up to someone, and this is how it ends. Blah....but trust me, i will talk my self out of this funk.
Posted by PurrrrrHisssss
Oh, I just read that he got back together with the mother of his two young children. He was still an asshole for treating you that way, so don't worry about his feelings. He's probably busy and not even concerned about your apology, honestly.
yep, you are probably correct, i know he hurt me bad, not sure why i feel inclined to spare his feelings.
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