TORQUED joined May 20, 2009
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"Back in black I hit the sack I've been too long I'm glad to be back [I bet you know I'm...] Yes, I'm let loose From the noose That's kept me hanging about I've been looking at the sky 'Cause it's gettin' me high Forget the hearse 'cause I never d
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Do you achieve orgasm? Do you need additional stimuli or is just the anal penetration enough for you?
If you don't like the question, hit the back button on your browser and fuck off, the rest of you mature people....wow the room emptied quick as fuck eh?.....Discuss.
If you don't like the question, hit the back button on your browser and fuck off, the rest of you mature people....wow the room emptied quick as fuck eh?.....Discuss.
That's a good trait to develop, you can learn so much by stepping into another's shoes instead of upon their toes.
Posted by xtina
I'm in no way attacking you, I just hope my blob of a paragraph makes sense.
I know, you used common sense and logic in your response, a rarity here on dxp, thanks for showing me that there are some reasonable people around here.
Posted by xtina
Wouldn't you agree Torque that men can more easily detach themselves from a relationship than a woman can?
No, it's just that women are allowed to express that feeling while men are not, unless they want to be laughed out of the bar or their buddies house or what have you.
I can tell you that I had one that I was so madly in love with which took a good while to get over, even while having sex with other women she was always on my mind, I just could not forget her and to this day she still haunts my memory once in a while. I've told women about this and discussed it with them and gotten their support as well as tough love, how many guys have I told? None, their answer would be to man up and fuck another chick, lol.
It's all about perceptions and misconceptions between men and women. Men just hide their feelings better because we are taught to in order to be a 'man'
xtina I can understand and tolerate differing points of view more than a great many people that I know of. I believe in complete equality for all, I am a libertarian through and through. I hold everyone to the same standard I set for myself and I respect people that can discuss and debate intelligently, and I will mercilessly demean those who attack me without cause.
These women that responded so vehemently in my thread on anal sex did not have to respond at all. It's not like I asked a question in person and put them on the spot, they had the option of not even reading let alone responding. Their posts in that thread are a great indication as to their lack of tolerance which leads to hatred. No different than homophobes hating homosexuals or good ole boy rednecks hating Muslims, etc, etc.
Btw I am never surprised by any reactions on the net and especially on dxp. One thing I do know; it's one in a million that will dare to have the balls and stick by their principles and say the same thing to someone in the flesh as they do online, keyboard commandos are a dime a dozen.
These women that responded so vehemently in my thread on anal sex did not have to respond at all. It's not like I asked a question in person and put them on the spot, they had the option of not even reading let alone responding. Their posts in that thread are a great indication as to their lack of tolerance which leads to hatred. No different than homophobes hating homosexuals or good ole boy rednecks hating Muslims, etc, etc.
Btw I am never surprised by any reactions on the net and especially on dxp. One thing I do know; it's one in a million that will dare to have the balls and stick by their principles and say the same thing to someone in the flesh as they do online, keyboard commandos are a dime a dozen.
Maybe I'm just lucky, I get them to buy me dinner and drinks. I don't play that bullshit game that so many guys do, I'll buy sometimes but not every time. I'm not mistaken or disillusioned about these women absolutely loving and craving sex itself and being total freaks, because it's what they want, not what I'm asking for. Like I said I don't claim this to be true in the majority of cases but I do believe that if men would stop pandering to women like they have centuries that there could be more understanding and equality between the sexes. Not likely to happen but one can dream. Not every woman I meet is like this, and so she's not compatible...next.
So what's the problem here? You say that like it's a bad thing. A Scorpio looks out for number one...rule number one in the animal kingdom, those that don't become extinct. The world is rough and cruel, deal with it or die.
Posted by P-Angel
Women sleep with men .... just to be held.
And the more he holds her, strokes her hair, snuggles in her neck, wraps his big arms around her and tells her he would never let anything happen to her and pulls her into his chest ............... then the freakier she gets in bed.
It has absolutely nothing to do with the enjoyment of sex on the woman's part, although, I'm quite sure she would argue this point because people really have no clue about anything that goes on outside of their comfort zone, as xtina said .... but, it's the truth.
Try it ..... push your Miss Kinky woman away when she needs to be held and see how fast she decides she HATES to have sex.
I've pushed my freaks away many times, I'm not speaking from text books here, I'm talking real life experiences. I can text them with a simple "wanna fuck" and I get a response in minutes with something like "hell yeah" and we meet and fuck and they might want to kiss but I have to really be in the mood for that type of intimacy so usually I say no and they keep right on fucking and enjoying and they're always on tap for a booty call knowing that they aren't going to get the intimacy. No holding or spooning afterward, unless I'm in the mood and this is where I differ from most guys that I know; they feel that they must do what the woman wants and I feel that they must do what I want, if it's wrong for me to feel that way then it's just as wrong for them to feel that way also.
In my own personal experience this is the norm but it's not like I've sampled tens of thousands of women to be able to claim it as such with any authenticity.
I'm well aware of the need, but seriously I've met quite a few that really just want to get laid, though I'm sure your take on the percentages is quite true. Now I'll also admit that even of those that just want to get laid good and proper, after a while they start developing that need and express it more and more, and that is when it becomes irritating for some men.
Posted by xtina
I think it's really hard for people to step outside their own world... in other words stop thinking the way they think because than they would have to face/accept some truths they don't want to accept.
Now that is truth. Denial is a popular past time amongst people in relationships.
P A You're not taking into account the women that just love pure sex, now I will admit that a great many would also like to be held and feel wanted (other than as a pure fuck) But just as women do not need to orgasm every time, neither does the enlightened man. I'm fine with it if I don't, as long as it's pleasurable for all parties involved it's all good. Admittedly few if any men that I know have come to see this but I surely can't be the only one on the planet.
I think that when a woman feels very comfortable around her partner she can express her animalistic desires of wanting to be fucked hard, hair pulled, nipples pinched, ass smacked, etc and not need any intimacy until afterwards, not that many are cool with just getting dressed and moving on as that is definitely an area where men and women are on different terms...for the most part as there are always exceptions, though a woman that can do that might appear to cold to a man, so she's damned if she does and damned if she's doesn't.
I think that when a woman feels very comfortable around her partner she can express her animalistic desires of wanting to be fucked hard, hair pulled, nipples pinched, ass smacked, etc and not need any intimacy until afterwards, not that many are cool with just getting dressed and moving on as that is definitely an area where men and women are on different terms...for the most part as there are always exceptions, though a woman that can do that might appear to cold to a man, so she's damned if she does and damned if she's doesn't.
That's only fair though P A; most men are lost on sex and women. I'm still amazed by guys that feel like they were lucky if they got oral or anal from their girl, (hell even straight sex in some cases) they have no clue that women enjoy it as much or more, so they are doomed to be beggars when it comes to sex which is rather unappealing I would think.
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