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anyone with a pisces parent or is a pisces parent that can speak with experience on what kind of a mom/dad they are. I've always wondered this as I totally see mylself as the "big kid" dad who lets his kids get away with alot of things their mommy won't let them.
I could never see myself getting angry or scolding them unless they really did wrong, but it would take alot and I would defenitly be alot more passive in my discipline and teachings.
Defenitly the one they go to ask permission to go to the mall/movies. The one that showers them with the crap they ask for. Closest water sign parent i have is my mom who is a scorp and omg is she none of the above.
I could never see myself getting angry or scolding them unless they really did wrong, but it would take alot and I would defenitly be alot more passive in my discipline and teachings.
Defenitly the one they go to ask permission to go to the mall/movies. The one that showers them with the crap they ask for. Closest water sign parent i have is my mom who is a scorp and omg is she none of the above.
I personally can't stand Libra's. They are just too emotionally detatched for me and way too logical when it comes to certain things. Pisces and libra sounds like recipe for disaster to me. My dad is a libra and oh boy do we but heads on everything. If theres any one person I can say I've harbored hatred for in life it's him, but that's mainly because he treated my scorp mom like crap.
"I was just genuinely surprised, because I then started googling the compatibility between the two and most seemed to give very favourable results.
Instinctively, I can't understand why. I feel that a Piscean would be more suited to a gentle sign like another Piscean or a Cancerian."
Think of the pisces/scorp combo being a yin to her yang. You bring to the table what the other lacks and needs and she does for you as well. This combo just works. The pisces gets off by feeling needed and special, and the scorp needs this attention in the emotional department which is right up our alley. And in my case I have the ability to just make her laugh and constantly bring out her inner softness.
We're like the calming to their inner turmoil and they just wanna eat us up and keep us forever. That's our reward.
"I was just genuinely surprised, because I then started googling the compatibility between the two and most seemed to give very favourable results.
Instinctively, I can't understand why. I feel that a Piscean would be more suited to a gentle sign like another Piscean or a Cancerian."
Think of the pisces/scorp combo being a yin to her yang. You bring to the table what the other lacks and needs and she does for you as well. This combo just works. The pisces gets off by feeling needed and special, and the scorp needs this attention in the emotional department which is right up our alley. And in my case I have the ability to just make her laugh and constantly bring out her inner softness.
We're like the calming to their inner turmoil and they just wanna eat us up and keep us forever. That's our reward.
"Don't try to use your binoculars to spot the fish. Binoculars don't work in the deep."
Here's a quote from that link that I think describes it perfectly.
"With all this empathy, you'd think these two would have nary a problem area to their names. Unfortunately, this is not the case. Heaven on Earth, although growing ever nearer, has not quite yet been established. The first problem in the relationship between Fish and the Eagle is that of weakness and strength. Guess who usually wins that battle in the final inning - which is stronger, which is weaker? Don't be afraid to hazard a guess. You know enough about astrology now to be tested.
The Scorpio is stronger, the Piscean weaker? No, it's the other way around. Maybe you didn't notice the structure of the question, which included the phrase 'in the final inning.' Admittedly, Scorpio would seem at first to be the stronger of the two. They are both of the Water Element, and since water is the strongest of all the elements, for reasons I've told you elsewhere in this book, this means they both have the strength of endurance. In addition, Scorpio has all that Pluto power I've been writing about - or that you've read or heard about elsewhere. However, Pluto power is based, to a large extent, upon ego. Human ego. Neptune power (Neptune being the ruler of Pisces) is based upon a force no weapon in Heaven or on Earth, in any solar system, universe or galaxy, can conquer. It's name is? humility. It has a great deal to do with '? many that are first shall be last; and (many that are) last shall be first.' The message requires meditation.
On a human personality level, the Scorpion who starts out in a relationship with a Piscean believing that he or she can swallow this poor little Fish through the force of a stronger and more intense nature - is going to be surprised. You know how difficult it is to surprise a Scorpion. But it can be done. In a contest of wills or a contest of surprises, the Fish will spring the last surprise. And it will be a real shocker, quite unexpected.
Look at it this way. If you saw a Nature Scorpion in some sort of contest with a Nature Fish, which of the two could move faster and more unpredictably? You'd rather use the Scorpio Eagle as a symbolic example? Fine. You're on! Which can disappear more quickly, without leaving a sign or a trace - a fish in the water, or an eagle in the sky? Look. The fish is gone, but the eagle? well, see that speck over there behind that far cloud? Use your binoculars. Now you see the speck, right?"
"With all this empathy, you'd think these two would have nary a problem area to their names. Unfortunately, this is not the case. Heaven on Earth, although growing ever nearer, has not quite yet been established. The first problem in the relationship between Fish and the Eagle is that of weakness and strength. Guess who usually wins that battle in the final inning - which is stronger, which is weaker? Don't be afraid to hazard a guess. You know enough about astrology now to be tested.
The Scorpio is stronger, the Piscean weaker? No, it's the other way around. Maybe you didn't notice the structure of the question, which included the phrase 'in the final inning.' Admittedly, Scorpio would seem at first to be the stronger of the two. They are both of the Water Element, and since water is the strongest of all the elements, for reasons I've told you elsewhere in this book, this means they both have the strength of endurance. In addition, Scorpio has all that Pluto power I've been writing about - or that you've read or heard about elsewhere. However, Pluto power is based, to a large extent, upon ego. Human ego. Neptune power (Neptune being the ruler of Pisces) is based upon a force no weapon in Heaven or on Earth, in any solar system, universe or galaxy, can conquer. It's name is? humility. It has a great deal to do with '? many that are first shall be last; and (many that are) last shall be first.' The message requires meditation.
On a human personality level, the Scorpion who starts out in a relationship with a Piscean believing that he or she can swallow this poor little Fish through the force of a stronger and more intense nature - is going to be surprised. You know how difficult it is to surprise a Scorpion. But it can be done. In a contest of wills or a contest of surprises, the Fish will spring the last surprise. And it will be a real shocker, quite unexpected.
Look at it this way. If you saw a Nature Scorpion in some sort of contest with a Nature Fish, which of the two could move faster and more unpredictably? You'd rather use the Scorpio Eagle as a symbolic example? Fine. You're on! Which can disappear more quickly, without leaving a sign or a trace - a fish in the water, or an eagle in the sky? Look. The fish is gone, but the eagle? well, see that speck over there behind that far cloud? Use your binoculars. Now you see the speck, right?"
Well me being a Piscean male currently dateing a Scorp female I feel like this is a subject I can chime in on from personal experience. Before I tell you how it is for me I think you should read up on the matter here... http://songsdomain.tripod.com/scorpiopisces/index.html
IMO it defenitly hits it on the head when it comes to the bond these two signs can create.
Anyways for me personally I have never been in a deeper relationship than with her. Now, I can say as a pisces male, our strength comes from being there for the scorp female emotionally and understanding them like no other sign out there can. Scorps are probably the most misunderstood sign of the zodiac, and pisces are defenitly the sign that can see right through them and appreciate what others fail too. Understanding a scorp comes surpriseingly easy to us pisces or atleast from my experience (maybe its because my mom was a scorp)
This "understanding and seeing right through them" is EXTREMELY important to a scorp female judgeing from my observations. Scorp females will run into many relationships with males who simply see them as too brash,headstrong, or cruel, or even psychopathic in extreme cases. All of which the scorp can sometimes be, but underneath all that lies a softness, a gentle nature that just needs to be tamed and caressed. An appreciation that I believe can only truly be brought out by a pisces.
She is without a doubt my soulmate. Is she sometimes controlling and demanding? Hell yes. Is she brash and extremely direct? Most defenitly. Here's a secret though, they like to "THINK" they have the control in the relationship, but soon you begin to realize that in actuality the passive pisces is actually the one in control. When you can turn a scorp from a paranoid, brash headstrong woman into a soft, gentle snuggle bunny and bring out all her laughter, who's really in control?
This woman will simply die for you and realize no man out there can understand her on a level only a pisces can.
IMO it defenitly hits it on the head when it comes to the bond these two signs can create.
Anyways for me personally I have never been in a deeper relationship than with her. Now, I can say as a pisces male, our strength comes from being there for the scorp female emotionally and understanding them like no other sign out there can. Scorps are probably the most misunderstood sign of the zodiac, and pisces are defenitly the sign that can see right through them and appreciate what others fail too. Understanding a scorp comes surpriseingly easy to us pisces or atleast from my experience (maybe its because my mom was a scorp)
This "understanding and seeing right through them" is EXTREMELY important to a scorp female judgeing from my observations. Scorp females will run into many relationships with males who simply see them as too brash,headstrong, or cruel, or even psychopathic in extreme cases. All of which the scorp can sometimes be, but underneath all that lies a softness, a gentle nature that just needs to be tamed and caressed. An appreciation that I believe can only truly be brought out by a pisces.
She is without a doubt my soulmate. Is she sometimes controlling and demanding? Hell yes. Is she brash and extremely direct? Most defenitly. Here's a secret though, they like to "THINK" they have the control in the relationship, but soon you begin to realize that in actuality the passive pisces is actually the one in control. When you can turn a scorp from a paranoid, brash headstrong woman into a soft, gentle snuggle bunny and bring out all her laughter, who's really in control?
This woman will simply die for you and realize no man out there can understand her on a level only a pisces can.
I'm a sex addict. If I take a step back and think about it it's kinda scary. It's ok to not like sex at 48 though (wink)
"If her fears being voiced a minor fears but NOT being blown out of proportion, then she may just be trying to bring a dose of reality into the situation. You can limit this by showing her that you too have the ability to see the practical issues and are not ignoring them completely... It should limit her need to constantly voice them as some sort of reality check for the two of you."
You pretty much hit the nail on the head with this one. The day she voiced all her major fears about me going down there permenantly from the get go and let it all out she was surprised I did not get pissed off in any way shape or form. I simply told her what she was saying was quite logical and perhaps it will benefit us both in the long run (on the contrary unknowingly to her this was a burden lifted off my shoulders)
But your right about her bringing doses of reality into the situation. My downside is i'm a bit too much of a optimist and a dreamer, and I have a tendency to make people "believe". But she is someone who has known nothing but hurt and betrayal in her past relationships. To her this all seems too good to be true. She's the happiest she's ever been but she still has fears and a ton of insecurities.
I think her more realistic nature and my more unrealistic nature counteract eachother in a beneficial way. It's also what attracts us to one another and frustrates us all the same. But in the long run we compliment eachother in countless ways and that's why i'm optimistic this will work.
You pretty much hit the nail on the head with this one. The day she voiced all her major fears about me going down there permenantly from the get go and let it all out she was surprised I did not get pissed off in any way shape or form. I simply told her what she was saying was quite logical and perhaps it will benefit us both in the long run (on the contrary unknowingly to her this was a burden lifted off my shoulders)
But your right about her bringing doses of reality into the situation. My downside is i'm a bit too much of a optimist and a dreamer, and I have a tendency to make people "believe". But she is someone who has known nothing but hurt and betrayal in her past relationships. To her this all seems too good to be true. She's the happiest she's ever been but she still has fears and a ton of insecurities.
I think her more realistic nature and my more unrealistic nature counteract eachother in a beneficial way. It's also what attracts us to one another and frustrates us all the same. But in the long run we compliment eachother in countless ways and that's why i'm optimistic this will work.
Interesting about the "voicing her fears" part you said
She's CONSTANTLY voicing her fears and insecurities with me that it gets a tad overbearing as i'm always the one to have to "assure" her that she has nothing to worry about. So i guess she has alot of trust in me. In other words she's always the pessimist and i'm always the optimist in our relationship.
Anytime I voice any concern or have a pessimistic tone in what im saying, which is rare, she'll go "see, your starting to sound like me" which pisses me off inside.
She's CONSTANTLY voicing her fears and insecurities with me that it gets a tad overbearing as i'm always the one to have to "assure" her that she has nothing to worry about. So i guess she has alot of trust in me. In other words she's always the pessimist and i'm always the optimist in our relationship.
Anytime I voice any concern or have a pessimistic tone in what im saying, which is rare, she'll go "see, your starting to sound like me" which pisses me off inside.
Oh yeah and she's incredibly possesive. Basically a scorp by the book. What does her actions say about her nature?
Ok to start things off i'm your typical pisces male which is both good and bad (i'm not gonna lie) depending on how you look at it. Anyways, the most amazing thing just happened to me pertaining to my gf. She was out where I live for a couple months and that's how we met. We talked and saw each other often and immediately fell in love. We just clicked on that other level that you can't really describe you just feel it. She's a scorp.
Anyways she eventually went back to her home state and a couple months passed but we kept in touch over the phone on a daily basis. She's there to stay and was adamant about me going down there and staying for good starting the end of this month. Not just going and leaving then coming back. She wanted me to move in with her right off the bat. And that was the whole plan all along. I'm not gonna lie, the thought was a tad overwhelming because she lives in a small town as opposed to me living in the city. I would have to get a car, find work, and adapt to that enviroment which I am a stranger too, which I was more than willing to do because my love for her is so deep but i would have prefered to go there and test the waters for a bit, see what it's like to live with her, come home then eventually go there and commit. I was always leaning towards a roundtrip ticket as opposed to a one way all along but I was gonna swallow what i wanted and do what was gonna make her happy because she's important to me.
Well tonight, her sences kicked in, and over the phone she finally let out what i had been sensing the past 4-5 days but was waiting to see when she was gonna come out and say it. She got scared now that reality is only weeks away. She's scared I'll go and not like it or living with her but im stuck. She's scared of the stress her family is gonna put on her about some guy living with her off the bat without getting to know them. She's scared she might not like living with me but feel stuck because she had me 1 way it. As bad as she wants me to stay off the bat, she can deal with a few visits, like me going for a week then going back in 2-3 weeks. As long as she knows i'll eventually go there permenantly in a few months she can deal with it. She was afraid to tell me this because she thought i would get pissed off at her and drop her right then and there. Any other man would have dumped her, but this was like a huge burden lifted from my shoulders. Now I can go and test the waters like i wanted all along. My gf made me proud ;
Anyways she eventually went back to her home state and a couple months passed but we kept in touch over the phone on a daily basis. She's there to stay and was adamant about me going down there and staying for good starting the end of this month. Not just going and leaving then coming back. She wanted me to move in with her right off the bat. And that was the whole plan all along. I'm not gonna lie, the thought was a tad overwhelming because she lives in a small town as opposed to me living in the city. I would have to get a car, find work, and adapt to that enviroment which I am a stranger too, which I was more than willing to do because my love for her is so deep but i would have prefered to go there and test the waters for a bit, see what it's like to live with her, come home then eventually go there and commit. I was always leaning towards a roundtrip ticket as opposed to a one way all along but I was gonna swallow what i wanted and do what was gonna make her happy because she's important to me.
Well tonight, her sences kicked in, and over the phone she finally let out what i had been sensing the past 4-5 days but was waiting to see when she was gonna come out and say it. She got scared now that reality is only weeks away. She's scared I'll go and not like it or living with her but im stuck. She's scared of the stress her family is gonna put on her about some guy living with her off the bat without getting to know them. She's scared she might not like living with me but feel stuck because she had me 1 way it. As bad as she wants me to stay off the bat, she can deal with a few visits, like me going for a week then going back in 2-3 weeks. As long as she knows i'll eventually go there permenantly in a few months she can deal with it. She was afraid to tell me this because she thought i would get pissed off at her and drop her right then and there. Any other man would have dumped her, but this was like a huge burden lifted from my shoulders. Now I can go and test the waters like i wanted all along. My gf made me proud ;
Ok to start things off i'm your typical pisces male which is both good and bad (i'm not gonna lie) depending on how you look at it. Anyways, the most amazing thing just happened to me pertaining to my gf. She was out where I live for a couple months and that's how we met. We talked and saw each other often and immediately fell in love. We just clicked on that other level that you can't really describe you just feel it. She's a scorp.
Anyways she eventually went back to her home state and a couple months passed but we kept in touch over the phone on a daily basis. She's there to stay and was adamant about me going down there and staying for good starting the end of this month. Not just going and leaving then coming back. She wanted me to move in with her right off the bat. And that was the whole plan all along. I'm not gonna lie, the thought was a tad overwhelming because she lives in a small town as opposed to me living in the city. I would have to get a car, find work, and adapt to that enviroment which I am a stranger too, which I was more than willing to do because my love for her is so deep but i would have prefered to go there and test the waters for a bit, see what it's like to live with her, come home then eventually go there and commit. I was always leaning towards a roundtrip ticket as opposed to a one way all along but I was gonna swallow what i wanted and do what was gonna make her happy because she's important to me.
Well tonight, her sences kicked in, and over the phone she finally let out what i had been sensing the past 4-5 days but was waiting to see when she was gonna come out and say it. She got scared now that reality is only weeks away. She's scared I'll go and not like it or living with her but im stuck. She's scared of the stress her family is gonna put on her about some guy living with her off the bat without getting to know them. She's scared she might not like living with me but feel stuck because she had me 1 way it. As bad as she wants me to stay off the bat, she can deal with a few visits, like me going for a week then going back in 2-3 weeks. As long as she knows i'll eventually go there permenantly in a few months she can deal with it. She was afraid to tell me this because she thought i would get pissed off at her and drop her right then and there. Any other man would have dumped her, but this was like a huge burden lifted from my shoulders. Now I can go and test the waters like i wanted all along. My gf made me proud ;
Anyways she eventually went back to her home state and a couple months passed but we kept in touch over the phone on a daily basis. She's there to stay and was adamant about me going down there and staying for good starting the end of this month. Not just going and leaving then coming back. She wanted me to move in with her right off the bat. And that was the whole plan all along. I'm not gonna lie, the thought was a tad overwhelming because she lives in a small town as opposed to me living in the city. I would have to get a car, find work, and adapt to that enviroment which I am a stranger too, which I was more than willing to do because my love for her is so deep but i would have prefered to go there and test the waters for a bit, see what it's like to live with her, come home then eventually go there and commit. I was always leaning towards a roundtrip ticket as opposed to a one way all along but I was gonna swallow what i wanted and do what was gonna make her happy because she's important to me.
Well tonight, her sences kicked in, and over the phone she finally let out what i had been sensing the past 4-5 days but was waiting to see when she was gonna come out and say it. She got scared now that reality is only weeks away. She's scared I'll go and not like it or living with her but im stuck. She's scared of the stress her family is gonna put on her about some guy living with her off the bat without getting to know them. She's scared she might not like living with me but feel stuck because she had me 1 way it. As bad as she wants me to stay off the bat, she can deal with a few visits, like me going for a week then going back in 2-3 weeks. As long as she knows i'll eventually go there permenantly in a few months she can deal with it. She was afraid to tell me this because she thought i would get pissed off at her and drop her right then and there. Any other man would have dumped her, but this was like a huge burden lifted from my shoulders. Now I can go and test the waters like i wanted all along. My gf made me proud ;
If you ignore him like you THINK he is ignoring you, say goodbye. He will only then truly ignore you and move on like if nothing happened between you two. Don't start playing mind games with a pisces, it's futile. He'll see right through all that and it sounds to me he is not trying to hurt you in the slightest, so why be an a-hole to him? Your only triggering a game that comes natural to pisces. If he wanted to crush you mentally, he could.
and you said he wanted to be friends, well there you have it. You sound really brash, like you want him to fall in love with you NOW. Only been seeing eachother for about a month? It sounds to me like he wants to take it slow and test the currents while you want him to dive in all gung ho so soon.
or mayhaps he just wants a nookie buddy. And there you have it.
i like how this scorp at the end goes "i don't really care" yet the title is "pisces driving scorpio crazy!!!"
admit it, you do care. My advice is just do things at his pace and chances are, if he truly likes you and he is in love with you, everything will work out in due time. Quit rushing the man.
and you said he wanted to be friends, well there you have it. You sound really brash, like you want him to fall in love with you NOW. Only been seeing eachother for about a month? It sounds to me like he wants to take it slow and test the currents while you want him to dive in all gung ho so soon.
or mayhaps he just wants a nookie buddy. And there you have it.
i like how this scorp at the end goes "i don't really care" yet the title is "pisces driving scorpio crazy!!!"
admit it, you do care. My advice is just do things at his pace and chances are, if he truly likes you and he is in love with you, everything will work out in due time. Quit rushing the man.
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