TwistedTwin joined September 08, 2010
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Whewww... that's a relief to hear. Thanks for enlightening, Lilith!
Posted by Lilith
LOL no....nothing changed...you re still a gemini
Unless you follow the sidereal zodiac, in which you d probably wouldnt have been a gemini anyways...
Tropical zodiac is fixed on seasons not constellations.
What do you mean? Just then newborns from this year will have to follow this new zodiac change? I have to google sidereal zodiac now.. lol
Have you guys seen the new zodiac signs? Gemini now begins on June 22 up to July 20. This is crazy. I have always been a "highly complex gem" and now I'm a taurus. Not so far off because I have a taurus moon but this has me all confused. What do you guys think of the new zodiac signs?
Check out YOUR Zodiac Sign with the New Zodiac Signs 2011 or just look below.
Capricorn: Jan. 20-Feb. 16.
Aquarius: Feb. 16-March 11.
Pisces: March 11-April 18.
Aries: April 18-May 13.
...Taurus: May 13-June 21.
Gemini: June 21-July 20.
Cancer: July 20-Aug. 10.
Leo: Aug. 10-Sept. 16.
Virgo: Sept. 16-Oct. 30.
Libra: Oct. 30-Nov. 23.
Scorpio: Nov. 23-29.
Ophiuchus:* Nov. 29-Dec. 17.
Sagittarius: Dec. 17-Jan. 20.
Check out YOUR Zodiac Sign with the New Zodiac Signs 2011 or just look below.
Capricorn: Jan. 20-Feb. 16.
Aquarius: Feb. 16-March 11.
Pisces: March 11-April 18.
Aries: April 18-May 13.
...Taurus: May 13-June 21.
Gemini: June 21-July 20.
Cancer: July 20-Aug. 10.
Leo: Aug. 10-Sept. 16.
Virgo: Sept. 16-Oct. 30.
Libra: Oct. 30-Nov. 23.
Scorpio: Nov. 23-29.
Ophiuchus:* Nov. 29-Dec. 17.
Sagittarius: Dec. 17-Jan. 20.
Well, I was hoping to hear from the resident psychics or those who've had the same experience.
I did consult my long time psychic friend about this (she became my friend later on) and what she did say is that they can't edit what they see, so they have to tell it like they see it, but she did spot the conflict of interest and said that this could be avoided by recusing themselves from the reading.
That kind of makes sense. If they already take someone in for a reading, then they can't edit so their free will to balance the conflict of interest comes in before accepting the much later client.
I did consult my long time psychic friend about this (she became my friend later on) and what she did say is that they can't edit what they see, so they have to tell it like they see it, but she did spot the conflict of interest and said that this could be avoided by recusing themselves from the reading.
That kind of makes sense. If they already take someone in for a reading, then they can't edit so their free will to balance the conflict of interest comes in before accepting the much later client.
This is kind of bothering me. I had been going to a psychic because I needed advice on how to deal with certain people I was feuding with and then, I find out later on that she's also advising the very same people that I'm asking her advice on.
It bothers me because of the inherent conflict of interest involved. I mean, in my profession, when you have a client, you can't also take as a client the person opposing your client. It's just not done for ethical reasons.
I mean, do I have this all wrong? I know that being a psychic isn't regulated by a bar or board but for those who are in the business, is it whoever pays?
It bothers me because of the inherent conflict of interest involved. I mean, in my profession, when you have a client, you can't also take as a client the person opposing your client. It's just not done for ethical reasons.
I mean, do I have this all wrong? I know that being a psychic isn't regulated by a bar or board but for those who are in the business, is it whoever pays?
Posted by Cajunspirit
Doubts on fidelity... I could do without.
Told you our signs could get along well... it's just that with Gems, fidelity is not that easily assumed. You'll have to trust us the same way you Virguys want to be trusted. (and, oh yes, this is a speech I gave recently, haha)
Yeah, it works! Sometimes we tend to be .... mischievous and irreverent. And it's got to be real too. I mean, it shouldn't just be an act that's put on because we can see through all that. And sometimes, out of boredom, we may oblige you and let you call the shots but the problem with that is when push comes to shove, we will summon the evil twin and you should run for cover.
The "authority" should be innate and not affected. Kind of like the way dogs can sense if the human is just fucking around and doesn't really mean the threat (so the dog doesn't follow) but when Cesar Millan (Dog Whisperer) says the same things, the dog reacts differently and becomes submissive.
It's hard to box Gems since we're air but it can be done if the authority is authentic.
That being said, I miss my Virguy. He's the only one who came really close to reigning me in. I don't think he realized that though that he had accomplished something no other had done, lol. From our last conversations, I think he felt he wasn't getting anywhere... oh, but he was. That answer is not for me to give out though without the question being asked.
The "authority" should be innate and not affected. Kind of like the way dogs can sense if the human is just fucking around and doesn't really mean the threat (so the dog doesn't follow) but when Cesar Millan (Dog Whisperer) says the same things, the dog reacts differently and becomes submissive.
It's hard to box Gems since we're air but it can be done if the authority is authentic.
That being said, I miss my Virguy. He's the only one who came really close to reigning me in. I don't think he realized that though that he had accomplished something no other had done, lol. From our last conversations, I think he felt he wasn't getting anywhere... oh, but he was. That answer is not for me to give out though without the question being asked.
Wiseoldowl... LOL!!! I love your post. And it's true too. If the guy doesn't tell me/show me/continually remind me who is boss, I will just run circles around him, haha.
My last boyfriend was like that and I really loved every minute of it. He was the only one who really made me think twice before flirting with someone else for the sake of. Plus, even if I knew that I was smarter than him education wise, I'd let him have the honor of being the smartest one between the two of us, lol. At first, it wounded my intellectual pride but later on... who cares, I am not that insecure when it comes to brains anyway.
Cajunspirit -- you should try this. I mean, try to not be nice which I know you'll have a hard time doing because you are.
My last boyfriend was like that and I really loved every minute of it. He was the only one who really made me think twice before flirting with someone else for the sake of. Plus, even if I knew that I was smarter than him education wise, I'd let him have the honor of being the smartest one between the two of us, lol. At first, it wounded my intellectual pride but later on... who cares, I am not that insecure when it comes to brains anyway.
Cajunspirit -- you should try this. I mean, try to not be nice which I know you'll have a hard time doing because you are.
Oh, and to add a Virgo perspective on this -- remember I was with Virguy? He used to get so pissed whenever I'd talk to other guys and be friendly. For him, he knows that the other guys think I'm interested in them. For me, I was just being pleasant and friendly and, since I was with him, definitely knew I wasn't interested in them. The presumption (with Gems at least) is that they're just chatting me up; they haven't said/done anything to indicate otherwise so it's harmless.
My point being unless you push it up a notch with the Gem, you'll never know why she's talking to you or if she's truly interested. That's what makes us simple (if you ask) and complicated (if you don't ask but just analyze) at the same time.
My point being unless you push it up a notch with the Gem, you'll never know why she's talking to you or if she's truly interested. That's what makes us simple (if you ask) and complicated (if you don't ask but just analyze) at the same time.
Hi Cajunspirit! I've been thinking about your post. You say it's easy to approach gem girls but you hit a wall because you're mostly a listener and you want to know if she's interested or not.
It's true that we're easy to approach. You seem to have that down pat.
The thing you have to understand with Gem girls is that since we're naturally friendly and can relate easy with anybody is that everybody starts out on equal footing. Everyone is a potential friend until they give us signs that they're interested in that way. That's when our brain shifts gears and starts to consider and see you in a different light.
If we don't get those signals, conversation goes on simply because we like talking to different kinds of people. You talk. I talk. You don't talk. Maybe I still talk or maybe I don't. If I see that there is nothing to be "negotiated" further, I move on to others I can converse with.
Whenever you hit that wall, it's just a case of two observers observing each other. We kind of have to know what we're dealing with so we know how to position ourselves. She's waiting for more data from you. That's why sometimes the direct but light approach with us works best but you have got to express your interest in a more overt manner (but keep it light at first!! emphasis on this). If she's a gem, she's going to flirt back but you still won't know what it is for sure unless you press on but at least she knows that you're in business.
It's true that we're easy to approach. You seem to have that down pat.
The thing you have to understand with Gem girls is that since we're naturally friendly and can relate easy with anybody is that everybody starts out on equal footing. Everyone is a potential friend until they give us signs that they're interested in that way. That's when our brain shifts gears and starts to consider and see you in a different light.
If we don't get those signals, conversation goes on simply because we like talking to different kinds of people. You talk. I talk. You don't talk. Maybe I still talk or maybe I don't. If I see that there is nothing to be "negotiated" further, I move on to others I can converse with.
Whenever you hit that wall, it's just a case of two observers observing each other. We kind of have to know what we're dealing with so we know how to position ourselves. She's waiting for more data from you. That's why sometimes the direct but light approach with us works best but you have got to express your interest in a more overt manner (but keep it light at first!! emphasis on this). If she's a gem, she's going to flirt back but you still won't know what it is for sure unless you press on but at least she knows that you're in business.
Posted by livingit
Hello all, can anyone help me understand a certain situation I have a female gemini friend (Im aquarius)
this friend has spent the last 4yrs acting attracted then having a new boyfriend and not really wanting to
know me 2 mins later. I dont believe for one minute that she deliberately plays games and if I question her will
tell me she likes certain aspects of my personality but not others so we go back to being friends then she acts
attracted again. Because she is jealous when Im with someone and continues to say flirtatious things I dont think My personality can be that bad. Apparently Im really good looking but to short (Am 6 ft but not as tall as her boyfriends)
Cant seem to get her out of my head need to gain understanding otherwise will end up hating her and ending the friendship.
would prefer to deal with situation in a more enlightend way. Could some of the geminis out there help?
What exactly do you mean when you say you "question her"? I don't get it. Did you ask her what this push/pull attraction thing was about? Have you guys talked about leveling up your relationship? Kind of hard to give advice without knowing these specifics ... context, you know?
Generally though, we flirt and love attention. We will flirt at will until we know what it's all about. It will be lighthearted fun until we get clear signals from the other party that they want to take it serious. When she finally gets that in her head, you will notice a shift in gear.
Jealousy -- different levels for Gems. It can be jealousy because she's no longer the center of attention or it could be romantically based jealousy. Can't tell until you answer my first Q's about context.
Bottom line, until we know you're not kidding around, we're going to do a happy dance around you, just because we like being happy. If you don't like to dance anymore or it's making you miserable, sit her down, ask her directly. She has to know what she's dealing with, first and foremost, to react properly.
Hmmm... I don't know what you intend to achieve with this letter but if you want to keep the doors open for further communication or even him coming back, I'd suggest you leave out the i'm letting you go part.
I mean, if you want and feel the need to let go for your own sanity, go ahead and let go but no need to announce it to him. The letter reads to me like an ultimatum. IOW, it comes across as -- if you don't respond to this now, i'm going to let go.
I've gotten these types of letters before and even though I was really very close to getting back to getting it on again with them (yeah, bad timing on the letter sender's part. Their impatience didn't serve them well.) I changed my mind as soon as I got the letter even though it had the I still want you undertones because I felt like I was being railroaded into making a decision.
IDK if it will be the same for your Gem but let me tell you this -- we're big believers in self-autonomy and if you have decided for yourself that you will be letting go, then that's that. We will respect your decision.
OTOH, just being friendly in your letters or even not writing at all = OPEN DOOR. If by the time that he's ready and he knocks on your door, you're not available, he'll take it like a man and suck it up as part of the risk he took in keeping silent. But if you send that type of letter now, I'm not sure you will know if he'd want to come back at all or get the response you want even.
Just my two cents on this.
I mean, if you want and feel the need to let go for your own sanity, go ahead and let go but no need to announce it to him. The letter reads to me like an ultimatum. IOW, it comes across as -- if you don't respond to this now, i'm going to let go.
I've gotten these types of letters before and even though I was really very close to getting back to getting it on again with them (yeah, bad timing on the letter sender's part. Their impatience didn't serve them well.) I changed my mind as soon as I got the letter even though it had the I still want you undertones because I felt like I was being railroaded into making a decision.
IDK if it will be the same for your Gem but let me tell you this -- we're big believers in self-autonomy and if you have decided for yourself that you will be letting go, then that's that. We will respect your decision.
OTOH, just being friendly in your letters or even not writing at all = OPEN DOOR. If by the time that he's ready and he knocks on your door, you're not available, he'll take it like a man and suck it up as part of the risk he took in keeping silent. But if you send that type of letter now, I'm not sure you will know if he'd want to come back at all or get the response you want even.
Just my two cents on this.
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