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tznkitten joined November 02, 2006
46 years old female
"Rising Sign - Capricorn. Sun - Sagittarius. Moon - Gemini. Mercury - Sagittarius. Venus - Scorpio. Mars - Capricorn. Jupiter - Leo. Saturn - Virgo. Uranus - Scorpio. Neptune - Sagittarius. Pluto - Libra. Sagi Female, and most call me Kat."
"Rising Sign - Capricorn. Sun - Sagittarius. Moon - Gemini. Mercury - Sagittarius. Venus - Scorpio. Mars - Capricorn. Jupiter - Leo. Saturn - Virgo. Uranus - Scorpio. Neptune - Sagittarius. Pluto - Libra. Sagi Female, and most call me Kat."
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No one will ever know where a relationship will go unless you are willing to give it a go. There is a 50/50 chance that it will work out. I know couples who were suppose to be the best zodiac matches not make it past 2 years of marriage. I know other signs who were suppose to be the worst match possible and been together a long while. One such match was a Scorpio/Sagi. They have been married now for almost 20 yrs.
You will have your up and downs. Really recognize you're differences and learn to work through it rather then fight against one another's nature. Both Aries and Capricorn are great people and you will share a lot of traits and interest. As a fire sign and a woman, you will want to talk, share and discuss things. Capi men are not big on opening up, they are detached in a big way. They are independent, as are you. This will work, you both will understand and know instantly how to give the other space. You both are out spoken and frank. This can work with or against you. You will get things out from your Cap that he would rather keep locked inside. You're fire allows this to happen.. but it often happens in a fight, so have to learn how to keep emotions out of the way. It's hard, both signs are more sensitive and passionate then most realize.. even if in a strange way they both can be detached.
Have fun with it. Learn, grow and love. It could work out, or it could not. But being a fire sign married to a Capi myself, it's worth every heartache... I have learnt so much with this man and it's well worth it if you can hold your head high above the water .. even when he is gloomy as all get out. Your fire will help lead him out.
One of my best friends is married to a Leo woman.. I love how he dots and is with her in general. They have a very strong and loving relationship. He did however take 8 yr to propose to her!
I have found Leo's and Gemini's to be a very good match. Course like all couples, you will have your issues and you have to keep in mind, Gemini's are incorrigible flirts. It's just part of their nature. They tease women, children.. members of there own sex even sometimes. It's fun and harmless to them. However I have noticed once they are completely taken with someone (and ready to settle down.. they are like the Sagi in this sense) they are completely 100% loyal to there partner. They will still flirt like before but they run like a marathon running if the person actually takes them up on their teasing.
It's actually a fabulous match. One of the better ones, go for if anything I will promise you will have a lot of fun. Just remember, just as you.. Gemini's need space and independence. So do not get offended if you are not included in every aspect of his life.
Infatuated with him, yourself even. Sorry forgot to proof read that before hitting enter.
Any relationship is hard to pull away from once it is over. Regardless of the sign. And sometimes people in general can come across as cold and having no emotion. In the past before I had married I done this a lot to men I had dated. It was not because I hated them, but the fact they could not move on. It was the only way I knew how to push them forward and see that there are hundreds of other women out there, who were better for them than I was. Perhaps you're Capricorn is feeling this way? It is not that he hates you and being cold just to be an ass.. but rather he is seeing things in a different perspective then you are and is urging you to move on.
I see nothing wrong with sending him a happy birthday and merry Christmas, but as Capguy had mention, keep it casual.

Ldybug..
I have watched and observed the boards for sometime, and always stopped myself from replying to any of your threads. Going to do so now, and please do not take this as an attack. It's just a suggestion and you can toss it out the window, will not hurt my feelings one way or another.
Right now you are a little bit all over the place when it comes to men and what you want. There is no center or focus, chaos.. Very chaos. Before you can move on with any relationship you need to center yourself first. Worry about you. Take a good year to know you, what you want.. career.. schooling, taking in a hobby you have always dreamt about. But take a step back from the men, they are to much of your focus right now and it's making you blinded. You are strong, I am not saying that, but they are like blinders for you. Before anyone can proceed in a long and strong relationship you must really know yourself first. In a strange sense, once you become involved with someone, it is hard not to loose yourself in them. Especially with a Capricorn male. Second thing. Coworker or not, he is married and I have no doubt that you have kept it on a friendship bases. However, you are playing a game you do not want to. Playing with fire sort of situation. You know he is attracted to you, he is having problems with his marriage, and you might even be a little infatuated with himself.. those are grounds for something to happen. It's those innocent incidents you have to watch out for, because they sneak up on you. There is a saying about not tempting temptation...
Depends really how much you both are willing to put into the relationship. That is so for anyone. You can be the zodiac idea for perfect and still not work out. It's a desire of wanting to.
You have a case of water and fire coming together. You can sizzle or fan the flames, which you do is up to the two of you.
Aries demands a set amount of attention, and Cancers are moody, this is going to be the biggest obstacle to over come. You may unknowingly offend the Cancer and he wil pull back leaving you feeling cold and confused even. If you are both able to communicate and communicate well, you should do fine.
Sexually.. great match. Not sure what it is about water and fire signs when it comes to sex.. but they really bring out something in each other. But it is a love and hate relationship, just because you two are so drastically different. Keep the romance going and talk.. talk ... talk. Which is going to be easier said then done. Cancers really can pull inside there shell and no mount of probing is going to get them to open up until they are good and ready.
Good luck!
*laughs* the dark side of the Zodiac.. I love that book.. Especially the part about being marooned on a deserted island with 11 of people of the zodiac sign.. That part had me rolling!
Oh my, what you had said Bran was very accurate but wow, that made me cringe and I am use to harsh and blunt facts.
Sagi are hard to settle down. We are fun, adventures can talk about everything under the moon.. we can even talk about settling down but inwardly we are secretly plotting our escape route. We even know we have a great person with us and it will be unlikely we will find someone better.. but when we are not ready, we simply are not ready. No matter how you are, what you do.. it will not change this fact. I wish it were not so, boy do I... would save us all a bit of some heartache's, but that is just our quirky nature.
He maybe be 20, or 30's.. but his actions are screaming. Not ready to settle yet.. So now is the time for you to decide. Are you ready to handle a man who is going to go out and party all the time, will let you into a certain section of his life, on his terms and will show you two very drastic and different sides. One .. that charming, silly man that had you laughing til the wee hours in the morning.. then the next day he will be this silent.. glaring bugger who growls at you to just leave him be.. Hint, leave him be.
I am asking this because you have to accept the ugly just as you do the good. If you can hang in there, not get hurt when he avoids calling you over for family functions and can handle that emotional roller coaster then you will be set.. but this will be a long ride, longer then most.
My suggestion, that is if you want this guy. Do not demand anything from him, give him his freedom but also do not mope around if he is out. Go out with your girlfriends, take up a hobby.. show him you are just as independent as he is.. Even make sure he knows.. you do not want him taking up your own independence, and hold to your word. We have flattery tongues and we use it to our advantage. Speak up when he has upset you, make it blunt and to the point. We hate being nagged, we tune you out. Do not dwell on things and above everything... be equally as independent as he is. Make him work to get you...
A youthful, and sometimes naive, spirit characterizes those with a strong placement of Neptune in their natal charts.
On the up side, Neptune is associated with intuition and spiritual enlightenment. As well, it is a planet of mercy and compassion. The more negative manifestations of Neptune include deception, trickery, deceit, guilt, and addiction.
Pluto - Libra (Pluto is associated with renewal and rebirth. It represents endings and new beginnings, as well as spiritual growth and rebirth. Negative expression of Pluto is an obsessive desire for power and control and general destructiveness.)
Through Venus, we learn about our tastes, pleasures, artistic inclinations, and what makes us happy.
We look to Venus in the natal chart to see how we approach relationships of the heart, as well as what gives us pleasure.
Mars - Aries (Mars rules our animal instincts for aggression, anger, and survival. Our sexual desires come under the rule of Mars. Whereas Venus rules romantic attraction, Mars is most associated with basic body attraction. This is the planet of action rather than reaction. With Mars, there is no contemplation before action. The drive associated with Mars differs from that of the Sun in that it is self-assertion rather than assertion of the will; it is raw energy rather than creative energy.)
Jupiter - Gemini (Jupiter has generally been associated with good luck and bounty. Optimism and growth (including mental and spiritual growth) come under its rule. On the up side, Jupiter is associated with a sense of humor, good will, and mercy. The more negative manifestations of Jupiter include blind optimism, excess, and overindulgence. Irresponsibility that results from blind optimism, not ill will, can be displayed.
In the chart, the position of Jupiter by sign reveals how we express our generosity and tolerance. It shows how we go about trusting others and improving our lives. Where do we look for wisdom and understanding? Look to Jupiter's position by house and to the planets it contacts for answers.)
Saturn - Leo ( In astrology, Saturn is associated with restriction and limitation. Where Jupiter expands, Saturn constricts. Although the themes of Saturn seem depressing, Saturn brings structure and meaning to our world. Saturn knows the limits of time and matter. Saturn reminds us of our boundaries, our responsibilities, and our commitments. It brings definition to our lives. Saturn makes us aware of the need for self-control and of boundaries and our limits. )
Uranus - Scorpio (Uranus is associated with technology, innovation, discovery, and all that is progressive. On the up side, Uranus is associated with enlightenment, progressiveness, objectivity, novelty, and ingenuity. Negative expression of Uranus is rebelliousness without a cause and irresponsibility.)
Neptune - Sagittarius ( In astrology, Neptune is considered a planet of inspiration, dreams, psychic receptivity, illusion, and confusion. Neptune rules spirituality, and all things subtle. >>
Without the exact time he was born.. Some of this will change, so you really do need the time he was born hon.
Rising Sun - Leo ((The Ascendant (or rising sign) is often considered the mask one wears when meeting others. Perhaps it is most aptly thought of as the automatic responses to one's environment. The Ascendant shows our natural defenses and how we cope with day-to-day issues. The energies of the sign and condition of the Ascendant are most overt and obvious to others. The Ascendant shows an individuals first, natural reaction to new people and situations.))
Sun - Taurus (The Sun is so important in the chart, that the happiest people on this earth are those who identify (without over-identifying) with the Sun's expression. Though one might think that the traits of their Sun would come easy to them, the truth is, the Sun shows what we are learning to be. It is very important to remember that the Sun represents reason as opposed to instinct. )
Moon - Libra (The Moon represents our deepest personal needs, our basic habits and reactions, and our unconscious. For some of us, our Moons seem to drive our personalities more than the Sun does. This is particularly true if the Moon is in a water sign (Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces), or if it is conjunct an angle in the chart (near the Ascendant, Descendant, 4th house cusp, or 10th house cusp). For true happiness in life, it is wise to neither give your Moon too much nor too little importance in your life.)
Mercury - Taurus (Mercury is the messenger in Astrology as it is in Mythology. It is the planet of day-to-day expression and communication. Mercury's action is to take things apart and put them back together again. It is an opportunistic planet, decidedly unemotional and curious. Mercury not only rules communication, it represents coordination. Thought processes, ideas, and sensory information from both unconscious and unconscious sources all need to be coordinated and understood. Mercury analyzes, sorts, groups, and makes sense of things. How does we handle nervous energy? How do we express and convey our thoughts? How do we approach others and information in order to learn and exchange ideas?)
Venus - Aries (Venus represents two main areas of our life: love and money.
"Love and money" is actually a simplistic interpretation of Venus. Venus rules our sentiments, what we value, and the pleasure we take in life. Grace, charm, and beauty are all ruled by Venus.
Ohh.. that is frighting and accurate with my husband. Especially about the bit between commercials.. lol and he loathes porn.. his words exactly, that's just silly.. he rather the real thing.

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