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I am working in the same building as an aquarius man. We are not in the same department and can easily chose to avoid eachothers or see eachothers more.
We met eachothers 2 months ago, when he started working there. At first, we were just politely saying "hi" to eachothers whenever I'd see him in the building. Then last week, he randomly walked in my office (when he could have asked other people) and asked me if I could help him with the printer. I said yes, but couldn't fix the problem (hey, at least I tried..). Since then, he is passing more often infront of my desk, when he could go other ways. He always asks how I am. On Friday he came and wished me to have a great weekend. We chatted a little bit and he told me some personal stuff, that he was really sick before he got the job, where he studies, his impressions about the job (not sure if he liked it or not, but will see in a few months..). On Monday we had a chat about our weekends, he explained me some game he played and asked me if I knew what it was and asked me if I had plans for my vacations next week. Good thing is, I know he is interested in talking to me. I was thinking about inviting him for lunch, but I think he goes back home to eat (he lives near work).
I know he recently broke up with his girlfriend and moved out in a new apartment (he didn't tell me, but I heard the conversation as he was talking with a coworker) . I recently broke up with my boyfriend too, long term relationship. I am not in a rush to be in a relationship at all. I am independent, I don't need a man to live, pay my bills or be happy. I'd just like to get to know the guy better to see where it can possibly go. We are both in out late twenties.
Any tips? Should I wait for him to make a move, or should I try something?
We met eachothers 2 months ago, when he started working there. At first, we were just politely saying "hi" to eachothers whenever I'd see him in the building. Then last week, he randomly walked in my office (when he could have asked other people) and asked me if I could help him with the printer. I said yes, but couldn't fix the problem (hey, at least I tried..). Since then, he is passing more often infront of my desk, when he could go other ways. He always asks how I am. On Friday he came and wished me to have a great weekend. We chatted a little bit and he told me some personal stuff, that he was really sick before he got the job, where he studies, his impressions about the job (not sure if he liked it or not, but will see in a few months..). On Monday we had a chat about our weekends, he explained me some game he played and asked me if I knew what it was and asked me if I had plans for my vacations next week. Good thing is, I know he is interested in talking to me. I was thinking about inviting him for lunch, but I think he goes back home to eat (he lives near work).
I know he recently broke up with his girlfriend and moved out in a new apartment (he didn't tell me, but I heard the conversation as he was talking with a coworker) . I recently broke up with my boyfriend too, long term relationship. I am not in a rush to be in a relationship at all. I am independent, I don't need a man to live, pay my bills or be happy. I'd just like to get to know the guy better to see where it can possibly go. We are both in out late twenties.
Any tips? Should I wait for him to make a move, or should I try something?
I'm a cancer (scorpio). I chose scorpio. We'd be so vindicative it would hurt.
If I stop contacting someone/answering their texts/calls, it means I am done, for whatever reason. I might not tell you why, I'll probably just become more distant and disappear eventually. ESPECIALLY if I got what I wanted from the person. In this case it would be sex; he wanted sex, you gave it to him.
I have to find him attractive. I have non-traditional tastes also and like a wide variety of physiques. But I have to find him attractive.
Intelligence and loyalty are on top of my list tho.
Intelligence and loyalty are on top of my list tho.
Here: "To sum up the story,we both had (have) a crush on eachother but I was taking things too lightly as I'm daaamn slow."
Right there.
I am a cancer woman. I don't like things being taken "lightly" (I am not talking about marrying you after 5 dates, but don't play with me, no matter what the nature of the relationship is...). I like CLEAR things. You only want to be my friend? Let me know. You only want something casual? Let me know. You want to have something serious? Let me know. Don't lead me on.
I think the girl was interested...3 months ago. She was probably hurt by the fact that you were distant/slow, she may have felt led on or played; now she is mirroring to see how you will react. She was hurt. She probably still is. Once you hurt me, there is no way I'll be back. Maybe she is different.
Right there.
I am a cancer woman. I don't like things being taken "lightly" (I am not talking about marrying you after 5 dates, but don't play with me, no matter what the nature of the relationship is...). I like CLEAR things. You only want to be my friend? Let me know. You only want something casual? Let me know. You want to have something serious? Let me know. Don't lead me on.
I think the girl was interested...3 months ago. She was probably hurt by the fact that you were distant/slow, she may have felt led on or played; now she is mirroring to see how you will react. She was hurt. She probably still is. Once you hurt me, there is no way I'll be back. Maybe she is different.
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