Posted by sunnygirl
I never introduced anyone I wasn't dead sure of to my parents. Its a big deal to most girls (and most boys) that are raised right, irrespective of nation or sunsign. Just remember, if she does something that is a deal breaker for you, she wasn't meant for you, nor you for her. You'll be surprised how much true love can endure.

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Posted by unknownlegend
My Girlfriend is a Gemini and I always have doubts about her and I'm a sagittarius... but she always tells me everything and who she's with and also sends pictures... now I'm trusting her more... Many people are saying Gemini Cheats... is it only Gemini Man who cheats? My Gemini Woman have many friends that are guys but she always calls me, text me, or send pictures to prove she's safe and not doing something... Sometimes, I hate myself for doubting her... Sometimes I don't ask where she is but she tells me like... "Hey, is it ok if I go with my friends? we're having dinner"... now I don't know if some horoscope-izm about gemini is true... because I really think she ain't cheating... what are you thoughts?

I haven't had time to read the whole thread but let me answer the question as a core Gem. Yes I have cheated. Twice. With the person I was in love with, I did it as revenge (we had a really bad month for a patch, I was 22, and he left the country for an urgent project without telling me and didn't return my call for weeks). But I was so in love with him I called him to tell him the very next morning and never really got over the guilt. He was a scorpio. He forgave me because he knew he was to blame for neglecting me (he is now in therapy for workaholism). I still believe years later that I am in love with him though we arne't really destined to be together. Perhaps in another life. The other man I cheated on I didn't care about but he was such an amazing boyfriend that I couldn't leave him, and I liked the feeling of being loved and taken care of. Yes, I judge myself for that one. The point I am making is this - Geminis are more honest and real with someone that they love than even they realize. That's what soulmates are. If she cheats on you and leaves you or hides it from you, she isn't the right girl for you, a true lifelong relationship requires complete honesty in these aspects, you need to be able to accept the good, bad and ugly sides of each other. So why would you try and hold on to her?
PS - These things happened years ago, I have made my peace with my actions, I offer them here as an honest look inside a 20-something Gemini that may help unknownlegend with his situation, not for open panel judgement from anyone else.

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Posted by ozzzy

Posted by unknownlegend
My Girlfriend is a Gemini and I always have doubts about her and I'm a sagittarius... but she always tells me everything and who she's with and also sends pictures... now I'm trusting her more... Many people are saying Gemini Cheats... is it only Gemini Man who cheats? My Gemini Woman have many friends that are guys but she always calls me, text me, or send pictures to prove she's safe and not doing something... Sometimes, I hate myself for doubting her... Sometimes I don't ask where she is but she tells me like... "Hey, is it ok if I go with my friends? we're having dinner"... now I don't know if some horoscope-izm about gemini is true... because I really think she ain't cheating... what are you thoughts?

Dude, don't be so naive. This young Gem that was with me was always saying to me when she will meet with her friends, but it doesn't mean anything. She said that she is always friend with her ex bf's, so imagine how it looks like? He texts her at 3 AM to come to his place, to watch a game. She said that to me, but she was in some miniskirt, and went to his place like that...come on man, I can imagine what it looked like...it was 9 PM, and they were also drinking. He bedded her for sure. I saw also a lot of sexy messages from her other guy "friends". She also said that when her "friends" get drunk, they call her to say how she is beautiful, and other stuff...and that is friendship? Plus, she only have male friends.
Maybe your situation is different, maybe she is more mature, but, only when their interest is really high on you, then they will not cheat, but I don't think that it lasts so long, they can easily switch to someone else, like you never had anything. It's normal to them.

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Posted by ashley1734
Yes if I get jealous I am definitely feeling some deeper feelings I'm probably not entirely comfortable with. If I liked a guy and he had a wandering eye or a lingering ex girlfriend I would be out of there FAST though.

Posted by retrogradexy
She is not interested bro

Posted by buyonegetone
Ehhh… let her relish in her silence. She may just need to recharge her batteries a bit, especially is she is secretly an introvert. Take the time to keep loving yourself and let her know you don't need her to be not-silent all the time. Buy her some fun colored duct tape and see what she does with it during Quiet Time.