ursorad joined October 07, 2011
36 years old female from Texas
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Thank you ariesvirgo for the advice. He's said that will not be together but his actions do speak differently. I guess only time will tell
Keep hope alive sancho. Dreams DO come true.
Oh! Yes, I'm still in college. 1yr and a half left until I'm done _???
25. Had the little guy 4 months ago at 7 months pregnant
Okay so I'm an Aries/Taurus cusp (apr 20) and he's Taurus (may 15). Dated for a few months and I became pregnant >_< he told me he loved me and wanted to make me the happiest girl in the world but dumped me 2 weeks later when I said I was keeping my baby.
Fast forward months and after a hell of a time dealing with him dating another girl, lying about it, and not believing my baby was his... He finally comes around. He suddenly wants to be dad and has even offered help me pay for school to finish up my degree. He's let go of the other girl completely. He says things were moving too fast between us and when he said he loved me months earlier, he says he meant it. Even with all of my anger and picking fights, I foolishly still love him and he knows it. He still stays relatively patient and always comes back after I push him away. I've made it undeniably clear that his and my relationship has nothing to do with our son and I will never speak ill of him nor will I stand in the way of a father-son relationship.
I guess what I'd like to gain insight on is if I should just move on...
I feel like I should...
I may have just needed to vent...
Fast forward months and after a hell of a time dealing with him dating another girl, lying about it, and not believing my baby was his... He finally comes around. He suddenly wants to be dad and has even offered help me pay for school to finish up my degree. He's let go of the other girl completely. He says things were moving too fast between us and when he said he loved me months earlier, he says he meant it. Even with all of my anger and picking fights, I foolishly still love him and he knows it. He still stays relatively patient and always comes back after I push him away. I've made it undeniably clear that his and my relationship has nothing to do with our son and I will never speak ill of him nor will I stand in the way of a father-son relationship.
I guess what I'd like to gain insight on is if I should just move on...
I feel like I should...
I may have just needed to vent...
Well that's unfortunate but good to know!
Thanks for the insite
Thanks for the insite
Ok so I've come to understand that saturn is an important factor in understanding a couples synastry. What I'd like to know is does is matter who's Saturn is contacted as opposed to who's doing to contacting? Would both parties feel the same depth or is more of the Saturn person being the "restrictive" one... This is all so confusing! Lol
I'd greatly appreciate some insight
Maybe a visual?
Thanks in advance!!
20/04/1988 Aspect. 12/01/1984 Orb/Value
Sun Trine Mercury 0.05 237
Sun Opposition Mars 0.05 -158
Sun Trine Jupiter 2.09 88
Sun Trine Neptune 0.50 83
Sun Opposition Pluto 1.21 -72
Mercury Trine Mercury 0.03 158
Mercury Opposition Mars 0.14 -117
Mercury Trine Jupiter 2.00 71
Mercury Trine Neptune 0.42 71
Mercury Opposition Pluto 1.30 -60
Venus Opposition Venus 1.20 -100
Venus Opposition Uranus 3.23 -46
Saturn Conjunction Mercury 1.57 129
Saturn Sextile Mars 1.46 45
Saturn Conjunction Jupiter 4.00 74
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 2.42 73
Saturn Sextile Pluto 0.30 49
Uranus Conjunction Mercury 0.24 140
Uranus Sextile Mars 0.14 70
Uranus Conjunction Jupiter 2.28 86
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 1.09 83
Uranus Sextile Pluto. 1.03 39
Pluto Conjunction Saturn 3.20 63
?? 1559 -553 1006
I'd greatly appreciate some insight
Maybe a visual?
Thanks in advance!!
20/04/1988 Aspect. 12/01/1984 Orb/Value
Sun Trine Mercury 0.05 237
Sun Opposition Mars 0.05 -158
Sun Trine Jupiter 2.09 88
Sun Trine Neptune 0.50 83
Sun Opposition Pluto 1.21 -72
Mercury Trine Mercury 0.03 158
Mercury Opposition Mars 0.14 -117
Mercury Trine Jupiter 2.00 71
Mercury Trine Neptune 0.42 71
Mercury Opposition Pluto 1.30 -60
Venus Opposition Venus 1.20 -100
Venus Opposition Uranus 3.23 -46
Saturn Conjunction Mercury 1.57 129
Saturn Sextile Mars 1.46 45
Saturn Conjunction Jupiter 4.00 74
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 2.42 73
Saturn Sextile Pluto 0.30 49
Uranus Conjunction Mercury 0.24 140
Uranus Sextile Mars 0.14 70
Uranus Conjunction Jupiter 2.28 86
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 1.09 83
Uranus Sextile Pluto. 1.03 39
Pluto Conjunction Saturn 3.20 63
?? 1559 -553 1006
I completely understand how you feel... I'm lost on cap men myself but from what I've heard from friends is that sex is incredibly important to them in a relationship but they can definitely seperate the two :/
My cap fwb is a total sweetheart when we're together, and even sends me messages the next day on how great of a time he had but according to his bestfriend, he just has a way with words. He's a charmer and incredibly good at it... He does seem to open up to me sometimes but i've learned that you can't take they're words for face value. They can lie with the best of them :/
My cap fwb is a total sweetheart when we're together, and even sends me messages the next day on how great of a time he had but according to his bestfriend, he just has a way with words. He's a charmer and incredibly good at it... He does seem to open up to me sometimes but i've learned that you can't take they're words for face value. They can lie with the best of them :/
Taurusbelle:
Good point lol the boyfriend actually stepped back bc of our blowout and doesn't speak to either of us together or seperatly on our arrangement lol...
I realize that the closeness is crossing the line immensely but I keep a level head only bc I automatically assume that any guy I'm with like this is being manipulative (be it true or not).
He's told me about his "3-month theory" where basically a FWB relationship can and has led him into a real relationship... I am by no means counting on it but if I hold potentional with him then i feel that it would be worth it to stick around for a bit. On the other hand, I'm contiplating backing out entirely. Having his bestfriend and my bestfriend in a relationship means we will undoubtably see each other... Apparently, I'm one of the best he's ever had haha and hes stated a few times that he thinks the only reason he thinks we'll "break-up" is when I get tired of him lol.
I guess my question is if I cut off the physical aspects, are there any chances that he could see as dating potential or will I always just be "a great lay" hahaha
Good point lol the boyfriend actually stepped back bc of our blowout and doesn't speak to either of us together or seperatly on our arrangement lol...
I realize that the closeness is crossing the line immensely but I keep a level head only bc I automatically assume that any guy I'm with like this is being manipulative (be it true or not).
He's told me about his "3-month theory" where basically a FWB relationship can and has led him into a real relationship... I am by no means counting on it but if I hold potentional with him then i feel that it would be worth it to stick around for a bit. On the other hand, I'm contiplating backing out entirely. Having his bestfriend and my bestfriend in a relationship means we will undoubtably see each other... Apparently, I'm one of the best he's ever had haha and hes stated a few times that he thinks the only reason he thinks we'll "break-up" is when I get tired of him lol.
I guess my question is if I cut off the physical aspects, are there any chances that he could see as dating potential or will I always just be "a great lay" hahaha
Hi guys! I need some advise... My best friend and her boyfriend (with whom I'm also close too) introduced me to the boyfriends bestfriend. We hit it off immediately. He's quite the player and was blunt about wanting a fwb arragement. Being incredibly attracted to him physically and in a dry spell lol, I agreed.
Now I've been in a situation like this before. I've been told by every guy I've dated that I'm not "girlfriend material" because it seems that I don't care. Not entirely true but, I digress.
It's been a month or so and we meet often. We also talk a lot more than what is considered "normal" for fwb. We get pretty deep like talking about family, aspirations, childhood, etc. I get tons of eye contact from him and even catch his eye in group conversations...
As of 2 days ago, the boyfriend sensed that I may be getting attached and warned him so now his messages are short and direct.
He continuously tells me how I'm "going to make ur future husband really happy one day." and has mentioned twice that I caught him off the rebound... I'm sure he noticed our unconventional closeness long ago but decided to only act after being told.
Also, did I mention, the boyfriend doent want us to hook up? Yes, the fwb agreed along with the boyfriend to seperate from me after a blow out we all had but the fwb continued to speak to me without the knowledge of the boyfriend.
I would like to have a relationship and I must admit I'm rather fond of him but I'm also quite capable of walking away. I have needs lol but I would like to know if he sees me as potential or strictly as fwb??
Btw his birthday is jan 12, 1984 and mine is April 20, 1988
Now I've been in a situation like this before. I've been told by every guy I've dated that I'm not "girlfriend material" because it seems that I don't care. Not entirely true but, I digress.
It's been a month or so and we meet often. We also talk a lot more than what is considered "normal" for fwb. We get pretty deep like talking about family, aspirations, childhood, etc. I get tons of eye contact from him and even catch his eye in group conversations...
As of 2 days ago, the boyfriend sensed that I may be getting attached and warned him so now his messages are short and direct.
He continuously tells me how I'm "going to make ur future husband really happy one day." and has mentioned twice that I caught him off the rebound... I'm sure he noticed our unconventional closeness long ago but decided to only act after being told.
Also, did I mention, the boyfriend doent want us to hook up? Yes, the fwb agreed along with the boyfriend to seperate from me after a blow out we all had but the fwb continued to speak to me without the knowledge of the boyfriend.
I would like to have a relationship and I must admit I'm rather fond of him but I'm also quite capable of walking away. I have needs lol but I would like to know if he sees me as potential or strictly as fwb??
Btw his birthday is jan 12, 1984 and mine is April 20, 1988
Hahaha!!! My best friend is a pisces...
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