VannaBomb joined February 24, 2014
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Posted by aqulibini
also, what i simply hate about them and it totally puts me off in an instant is their ways of pricking you for no reason, i mean it has no aim or purpose...a virgo picking on u has some good intention, its for a reason, they want u to improve. but a gemini does it for the fun of it..to prick u and then laugh. its the most idiotic thing abt them. and i have hardly come across gems with actually a good sense of humour. they are better off at laughing at good jokes rather than cracking themselves.
I know right???? They seems to get a kick out of pissing people off. >.< There's no reasoning with someone who wants to do that.
Posted by ChocolateAries
Wow! I am an Aqua mooner, which I think my Aqua Moon (29 degrees) outshines my Aries sun (11 degrees), but anyway, I don't know if your the Gem or the Aqua but I have the same problem with the Gems in my life. They always want YOU to apologize when ANYTHING happens, very on and off, and always stuck in what I did or said 20 days ago, when we were busting a gut laughing and having a good time 20 minutes ago lol (Gotta love 'em)!! One thing I have accepted though is that is just who they are, and if I don't wanna deal with them, I won't be around them. I'm sure I have things they don't like about me, so if it's not too bad of a situation, I just brush it off, could be worst.
I'm an Aquarius sun Libra moon & Pisces rising. I guess as have some water sign traits I expect stability
Posted by Xel1337Posted by VannaBomb
****no offense in advance****
Why is it that Gemini & Aquarians are supposed to be compatible? I generally do not get along with them. Too wishy-washy, petty, everything is about them, always wanting to rehash the past, they seem to be a sucker for apologies instead of letting bygones be bygones. Even when they're wrong they expect you to apologize or if something happened years ago they will want an apology. I'm not above saying sorry to someone, but I rarely do because I act accordingly & know when someone is just trying to manipulate. I mean...seriously...how is the most loyal sign supposed to get along with lest loyal sign? Do Aquarian females go better with Libra males and male Aquarians go better with Gemini? Or does my Pisces rising have something to do with it?
PS- When someone does apologize to them, they still act like assholes. It's like they see apologies as a form of weakness & like to rub it in your face. Dx
Bitch please.. you are no Gemini
You are just a big pretender who has the sun sign of Gemini... probably may too
You probably have mercury in taurus/cancer With Earth/water/libra moon sign + Ascendant + mars... perhaps even jupiter
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lmaooo I guess this was supposed to rile me up? Didn't work if that's the case. Try for some comprehension. I never said I was a Gemini.Anyways...back at the topic at hand. The only thing you guessed right is that I have a Libra moon.
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Okay, so I'm a big time music junkie & I like to bond with people over music. Plus, I'm always on the hunt for new bands to listen to.
My Top 10
10. Flyleaf
There's a debate on whether or not this a Christian band. I've never heard of any of the bands saying whether they were or not, although I can see how some of their songs can be interpreted as such. Regardless, I love the deep lyrics and the lead singer's voice. Favorite song is "Sorrow".
09. Red Hot Chili Peppers.
I love this band so much! I like how their songs sometimes sound like soft rock, grunge or funk rock like Sublime. Favorite song is "Other Side".
08. Sublime
Need I say much? Good stoner music & hilarious. My favorite song is the whole "40oz To Freedom" album
07. Coheed And Cambria
This band isn't that mainstream, but they still have made a name for themselves. Coheed is kind of an acquired taste. The lead singer sounds female and the lyrics are random unless you've read The Amory Wars. Yep, they writes stories & then write songs based off the stories. I find this band pretty unique & intriguing. Favorite song "Delirium Trigger".
06. Lacuna Coil
What can I say? Completely unique sound here. I've recently discovered this band & instantly fell in love with it. All of them thus far. I'm anticipating their new album "Broken Crown Halo".
05. Bring Me The Horizon
What can I say? I love modern scream...sue me. lol. Favorite song "House of Wolves"
04. Otep
Otep is an experimental/A.D.D core metal band with a female singer who is openly lesbian & a fierce animal rights activist which made me fall head over heels for this band. It never stops amazing me that a woman does those gutturals. I like the fact that I can actually make out what is being said in the songs (unlike a lot of metal bands) and the lyrics are quite clever. Fun Fact: Otep is an anagram for poet and also happens to be lead singer's name. Yes, there's a woman out there named "Otep". Favorite song: "Rise Rebel Resist"
03. Led Zeppelin
Doesn't need much of an explanation. This band actually deserves every ounce of its popularity & praise. I find a lot of Led Zep songs to be relaxing, intelligent & inspiring. Favorite song "Kashmir".
02. Tool
This band will take your mind places.
&&&&& finally *drum roll*
01. A Perfect Circle
Absolutely Flawless. Profound, intellectual, clever, relaxing, deep. Maynard Keenan's cover of "Imagine" is better than the original by The Beat
My Top 10
10. Flyleaf
There's a debate on whether or not this a Christian band. I've never heard of any of the bands saying whether they were or not, although I can see how some of their songs can be interpreted as such. Regardless, I love the deep lyrics and the lead singer's voice. Favorite song is "Sorrow".
09. Red Hot Chili Peppers.
I love this band so much! I like how their songs sometimes sound like soft rock, grunge or funk rock like Sublime. Favorite song is "Other Side".
08. Sublime
Need I say much? Good stoner music & hilarious. My favorite song is the whole "40oz To Freedom" album
07. Coheed And Cambria
This band isn't that mainstream, but they still have made a name for themselves. Coheed is kind of an acquired taste. The lead singer sounds female and the lyrics are random unless you've read The Amory Wars. Yep, they writes stories & then write songs based off the stories. I find this band pretty unique & intriguing. Favorite song "Delirium Trigger".
06. Lacuna Coil
What can I say? Completely unique sound here. I've recently discovered this band & instantly fell in love with it. All of them thus far. I'm anticipating their new album "Broken Crown Halo".
05. Bring Me The Horizon
What can I say? I love modern scream...sue me. lol. Favorite song "House of Wolves"
04. Otep
Otep is an experimental/A.D.D core metal band with a female singer who is openly lesbian & a fierce animal rights activist which made me fall head over heels for this band. It never stops amazing me that a woman does those gutturals. I like the fact that I can actually make out what is being said in the songs (unlike a lot of metal bands) and the lyrics are quite clever. Fun Fact: Otep is an anagram for poet and also happens to be lead singer's name. Yes, there's a woman out there named "Otep". Favorite song: "Rise Rebel Resist"
03. Led Zeppelin
Doesn't need much of an explanation. This band actually deserves every ounce of its popularity & praise. I find a lot of Led Zep songs to be relaxing, intelligent & inspiring. Favorite song "Kashmir".
02. Tool
This band will take your mind places.
&&&&& finally *drum roll*
01. A Perfect Circle
Absolutely Flawless. Profound, intellectual, clever, relaxing, deep. Maynard Keenan's cover of "Imagine" is better than the original by The Beat
****no offense in advance****
Why is it that Gemini & Aquarians are supposed to be compatible? I generally do not get along with them. Too wishy-washy, petty, everything is about them, always wanting to rehash the past, they seem to be a sucker for apologies instead of letting bygones be bygones. Even when they're wrong they expect you to apologize or if something happened years ago they will want an apology. I'm not above saying sorry to someone, but I rarely do because I act accordingly & know when someone is just trying to manipulate. I mean...seriously...how is the most loyal sign supposed to get along with lest loyal sign? Do Aquarian females go better with Libra males and male Aquarians go better with Gemini? Or does my Pisces rising have something to do with it?
PS- When someone does apologize to them, they still act like assholes. It's like they see apologies as a form of weakness & like to rub it in your face. Dx
Why is it that Gemini & Aquarians are supposed to be compatible? I generally do not get along with them. Too wishy-washy, petty, everything is about them, always wanting to rehash the past, they seem to be a sucker for apologies instead of letting bygones be bygones. Even when they're wrong they expect you to apologize or if something happened years ago they will want an apology. I'm not above saying sorry to someone, but I rarely do because I act accordingly & know when someone is just trying to manipulate. I mean...seriously...how is the most loyal sign supposed to get along with lest loyal sign? Do Aquarian females go better with Libra males and male Aquarians go better with Gemini? Or does my Pisces rising have something to do with it?
PS- When someone does apologize to them, they still act like assholes. It's like they see apologies as a form of weakness & like to rub it in your face. Dx
Black Hole Sun By Soundgarden (=
Posted by fishinamaize
What Scenic said, also on the flip-side there's a lot of people 18+ who can't handle break-ups well, and I don't know if anyone is really "ready" for pregnancy and/or abortions at any age.
When I was 19, I had a girlfriend who was a little more than a year younger than I. That meant for a few months I was 19 while she was 17. Tbh, it felt really weird when I thought about, kind of made me uncomfortable. But mostly I didn't actually think about, or worry about it, so it didn't really matter. And in retrospect, I don't think it did matter at all. It's whatevs; high school romances AREN'T really relevant imo.
Nothing to feel weird about. I know people who have gone to the military at 16-17 and in the military you will most def not be coddled and treated like a helpless infant. Oh no. lol
Posted by duchessedenemours
I can't believe anyone would find that creepy, in fact most cases would be thrown out if they are 16+.
Instead of focusing on the age, focus on how he treats her. If he's not a creep, it's not creepy.
It's also kinda funny how mores change. 16 year old women were marrying people commonly at one time and now they are "children incapable of having a relationship". Delayed maturation... Evolution 101.
Me either. It really perplexes me that some people out there cannot distinguish the difference of two teenagers being together and a old man or woman who prowls around schools itching to snatch a defenseless five year old and abuse them in all kinds of sadistic ways. Not even close to being the same thing and to even consider that just how depressingly and alarmingly stupid some folks are these days. He bf is not a creep. I can tell by the way he looks at her that he has genuine feelings for her and vice versa. Back in the old days people did commonly marry around sixteen. My grandparent married at that age back in the 1940s and they are still together to this day. I find their marriage inspiring to be honest.
Posted by size zero superhero
In most regions in Northern America, 16 is the age of consent(and in many areas, beyond it). In some states, 13 or 14 is the minimum age of consent.
Seems highly improbable that somebody would find it necessary to blow the whistle on an 18-y/0 with a 16 y/o girlfriend. In theory it COULD happen, but quite honestly, it isn't likely.
...unless of course, the poor girl has helicopter-parents with a vendetta against her barely-elder boyfriend. Obviously not worth the risk involved, unless both parties are planning to book it & move overseas
My parents are fine with it. As a matter of fact they didn't bat an eye at his. They like him a lot and I like him a lot. He's a very descent person. I've observed him and I don't see any abnormal behaviors in him at all.
Posted by tiki33
"The state we reside in says it is fine. So, I don't see the big fuss. He's not registered as a sex offender & I highly doubt he will be."
Vanna why not say that to begin with. If it's fine in your state then there really isn't much to discuss about this issue.
If people you know think it's wrong well they have a right to have their opinion about it.
I know people have opinions, but factually and in reality 18 + 16 doesn't = pedophilia. The definition of pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder where an individual has sexual desires for a prepubescent child which means age 11 or younger. 16 isn't prepubescent anymore and actually the minimum age that someone can be diagnosed as pedophile is *drum roll* 16. Also there is scientific evidence that a 16 year old can make critical decisions, however their brains are not developed and neither is a 18 year olds. As a matter of fact (key word fact) and 18 year old brain and a 16 year old brain is identical whether it is male or female. Now unless someone is mentally handicapped, they know right from wrong at that age. 16 is too old to be coddled and I can't buy that they don't know right from wrong. That mentality is very dangerous and in away perpetuates the notion that these young adults can literally get away with murder. Also don't think it is accurate for someone 16 years of age to be considered a "child" any longer because they can pretty much fend for themselves, they just have limited privileges. Granted an 18 year old has many privileges, but many of those privileges they cannot handle. I think voting age should be raised to twenty-one, 18 year olds should not be town mayors; that should be exclusive to people who are at least 30 to run a town/city. No disrespect towards soldiers, but 18 year old shouldn't be joining the military...I also think that should be for people in their twenties. I'm just heated about this because I think folks should really get facts instead basing their opinions off of wishy-washy laws. Accusing someone of something as heinous as pedophilia is a heavy accusation. I consider this guy family and I am fiercely protective over my family as well as my friends.
Posted by krysrenee7
When it comes to age appropriate relations, it really doesn't matter what your opinion is IF the law in your state disagrees with you lol
If the law was that a 16 year old dating an 18 year old was unacceptable, it wouldn't matter if you disagreed until you were blue in the face. You'd be arguing your way into a jail cell.
If the law allows it, then it's most likely fine.
Besides, let's be realistic here. They're both too young for love anyways. They're most likely NOT gonna last anyways.
The only thing those 2 can offer each other at 16 & 18 is immaturity. All they're gonna do is hang out a lot, talk on the phone a lot, make out a lot & experiment with "bases" a lot. Hell the same would be true if they were both the same age lol
The state we reside in says it is fine. So, I don't see the big fuss. He's not registered as a sex offender & I highly doubt he will be.
Posted by Scenic
I think the ages on that law need to be adjusted. Indeed, there's really not much of a difference between a 16 year old and 18 year old. If you ask a lot of kids nowadays when they first became sexually active, many would probably say before the age of 16, anyway. As long as the person isn't significantly older then I don't think there's automatically anything to worry about. And, the parents already approve which is a good thing. You always see on those law shows that the angry parents are the ones who go to the police and get evidence against the non-minor for statutory rape simply because they don't like the idea. Haha
Thanks for viewing this topic with rationality. I agree 16 & 18 is like two high school students. Now it is completely different for someone who is sixteen to date & sleep with someone who 21+ then it starts to get a creep factor. People who are in thirties seeking out teenagers even if that teen is 18 is creepy & I'll even say wrong in my opinion.
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