"""we all want, above all, to be heard - but not merely to be heard. We want to be understood - heard for what we think we are saying, for what we know we meant."" when I met my Leo it only made me realize why it never worked out with anyone else. loving someone was never made to be an easy task .. it takes a lot of time, patience and effort to make things work. ""happily ever after"" is for idealists and dreamers and not realists and critical thinkers."