Posted by BullShitPosted by UmiSays
Happy b day
2nd this
Happy burfday!!click to expand
Posted by UmiSays
Happy b day
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by victoriagemini
@moonartist umm how many posts u done? Let's count...point is this a forum for venting..but I'm guessing u should know that
Probably a lot of posts since I've been on dxp for a few years, but none of them have been redundant threads whining about some guy, or anyone else because I don't entertain or keep around those kinds of people in my life. You specifically posted this thread with a question which suggests you wanted advice, not a bunch of pats on the back for "venting". Also, venting is different than whining.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchPosted by victoriagemini
Good 2 heartless bitches can leave this topic ..just what I wanted.
I'm not throwing a pity party...the original start to the thread was why did he wish me Happy bday when we are nothing and all of you are saying stop obsessing?,
He wished you a happy birthday, because it´s your birthday. Probably facebook reminded him or whatever.
When you have calmed down and matured, you´ll realize, that it means next to squad that he wished you a happy birthday. I mean it´s friednly but that´s about it. It´s not some elaborate plan.
This is just gonna be a hard time for you, and that´s just how it is. We all grow stronger from hard times, and we never learn anything when we do everything right, so you have to make mistakes to evolve and learn.
Come back and read this in about 10 years and you´ll see why everyone is telling you, that you´re obsessing.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuch
If you talked to him in a calm manor about all of this, maybe you could get a little growth. To tell him, that you thought the two of you had something going and now you feel stupid and hurt. That´s perfectly allowed. Right now you´re letting this thing with him totally ruin you and your birthday. Go spend it with some nice people and think about this later.