virgoroxmysox joined June 13, 2006
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i broke up with my Virguy today. I'm a Virgirl and we'd been dating for over a year. the details of why we broke up are kinda confusing so i won't go into it but i know i did the right thing. it was going anywhere and we weren't on the same page about stuff. and he started not treating me very good. he wouldn't pay for me and expected me to do things for him but wouldn't give back in return. so i ended it. the only thing is that i secretly wish he'll come back to me. i hope he will. i read my horoscope and it said that on the 30th i might think about getting back with an old relationship that still haunts me. maybe i will. but in order to accept him back in my life, he has to make changes and so do i. so it'll take some time. but this is so hard. he invited me to go to the mall with him tomorrow and i said yes at first but then i turned him down because i didn't think it was a good idea since we just broke up. i want him to come back to me later after he realizes that i'm serious and that i'm not going to wait around for him forever. oh, i'm so sad. he came over tonight for some frozen burritos because he had no food and i owed him some money so he said it made it even. soo awkward saying goodbye.
can we not focus on the sex for just one second? that's not even the important thing here. he's touched my boobies, i've touched his weaner, it's all good. he assures me everything's going good in our relationship and i know he's thought about marriage with me. oh whatever, no one here has ever had a virgo-virgo relationship so you don't know nothin. why do i bother?
well, we haven't had sex for religious reasons but we've done pretty much everything else. the problem is not that he's not satisfied. okay, but still.... are virgo's usually so afraid of commitment?
i've been dating this virguy for over a year and i myself am a virgo. but although he says everything going great and yes, our relationship is good, he still is weird about marriage. i brought it up once a few months ago and he just doesn't really talk much about it. then a couple weeks ago i accidently sent a text to him meant for someone else that said "no ring yet 
" so now he teases me about it. but it's kinda mean because he jokes and teases about how i want a ring. but i really do! i mean, come on it's been a year and we've never had sex and i love him. what more does he need? so does anyone know why he isn't wanting marriage? am i doing something wrong? i don't think it's because i'm being too pushy. i'm not really. it's normal to talk about a possible future together after a year of dating right?
" so now he teases me about it. but it's kinda mean because he jokes and teases about how i want a ring. but i really do! i mean, come on it's been a year and we've never had sex and i love him. what more does he need? so does anyone know why he isn't wanting marriage? am i doing something wrong? i don't think it's because i'm being too pushy. i'm not really. it's normal to talk about a possible future together after a year of dating right?yeah, i'm in a virgo-virgo relationship and it was kinda hard to start it because i had to ask him out first. he's slow at making the first move. oh well. we hit some rough spots in our relationship but i think we've got it pretty much worked out now. you have to make adjustments and learn how to handle a virguy. i think i annoy him easily but i've learned what he wants and needs and i do them. now he's so sweet to me and just laughs at my ditsyness. ah, i love him.
I'm dating this Virguy and I myself am a Virgurl. Actually we share the same birthday just 4 years apart. We've been dating off and on for 9 months. At first I have to admit we went through a rocky start. It had to do with my own insecurities and not being honest with my feelings. Him taking everything I did and analyzing it and finding only negative things. Bla bla bla. I thought it would never work. We finally broke up and realized that we couldn't live without each other. We got back together a little hesitantly and now we're so in love it's driving me crazy. We haven't had sex yet though. We both believe in waiting for marriage but um, the physical aspect of our relationship is addicting and very very good. I love my Virguy and I think our compatability, although not perfect, is very good. And based on our physical contact so far, the sex will be amazing. He's really good at communicating what he wants and knows exactly what I want. We can talk about anything. He loves cats just as much as I do and that's rare! We move so slow in relationships though. And we both have our jealous moments. I kept thinking he was flirting with girls but he just tells me he's a nice guy. Now I know he is. He's very loyal to me and very sensitive. But doesn't take any crap from me either. Which is a good thing. Anyway, those who say Virgo-Virgo doesn't work, you're all wrong. I'm proof that if you put effort into it, you will get a great relationship and a lot of passion!
i don't know for sure if getting back together and trying to work on our relationship will eventually lead to us getting married or not. there's still a possibility that we would break up again. it's hard because i think too much about stuff like this and since i'm thinking and not talking, i'm not always rational. my sister says i'm making decision based on my emotions and not rational thought. she says that relationships should be easy in the beginning and then might get hard after like 4 months or something. well, it wasn't easy in the beginning. and even while we were dating, he kept in contact with so many girls and still flirted. but he totally denies being a player and acts like i'm not trusting enough in him. is it normal for a guy to keep talking to a bunch of girls while dating another? the reason why i'm giving him a break is because i know he felt like i wasn't into the relationship as much as he was and was afraid of us breaking up so he was just keeping his options open. sorry i'm so confusing to listen to!
So i broke up with my boyfriend who's also a virgo. but he was a little surprised because i hadn't talked about the issues i had with our relationship and i didn't really let him know what i wanted him to change really. i realized that i had been trying to solve all these problems in my own head for months and then when i came up with a final decision that we weren't right for each other, i just sprang it on him. after talking for a few hours, he told me that he had actually thought about having the same conversation with me. but said that he felt like i was giving up at the first sign of distress and that we never tried to overcome anything. what if he's right? i never opened up to him and never felt comfortable with sharing my true feelings but what if i had? would that have developed into true love? or is the reason why i didn't open up with him because we're just not compatible or something? and also, there's not really any going back now i guess because i already broke up with him once before and we got back together. and virguys probably won't get back with a girl for the third time, right? suck. i'm dumb and don't know what i want. but hey, it was my first long-term relationship. i made mistakes but i learned. but if he took me back, would it just end again? brahn, don't just say that's what i get for dating a virgo. you don't even know, ok. virgo and virgo can be awesome.
i don't know if you all read susan miller's monthly horoscopes on astrologyzone.com, but i do. and this month's theme was that a relationship was going to be put to the test and very possibly have a break up. i'm a virgo currently dating a virgo, (yeah, we're born on the same day) and i am on the verge of a break up. has anyone else been experiencing this kind of thing this month? the good thing though is that at the end of the month, so right now, virgos should have a new beginning in life and ready to get something even better than they lost. and for months i've been torn about my VirGuy and not knowing what to do. and now it's finally time i admit that this will never lead to marriage and i'm just wasting his time that he could better spend with someone else. he's 24 and getting ready for that and i'm only 20 so i don't want to keep this relationship going if i can't love him without reservation. anyway, breaking up is a scary thing and i'm probably going to do it tonight. aaah! breathe... anyone know the best way to break up with a Virgo? coming from a Virgo. two virgos breaking up with each other? ok, i'm gonna go cry now.
yep. the yelling, possibly slamming doors... exactly how i am. and i don't like it, but it's me at my worst, honestly. but in our defense, i have to say that when virgos get mad, they only get mad for a little bit and then they just bounce back and kinda go back to normal. i don't usually say i'm sorry either and that pisses people off. me and my Vguy are awesome that way. our fights come and go so fast that it's like, "woah, what just happened? meh."
1. How do you react when you are annoyed to the point of suicide?
i let the person know that they're annoying and i might say something rude in the hopes that they'll shut up or something.
2. What goes through your minds when you are interested in someone and the other person doesn't like you back?
that sucks. but if they don't like you back, what are you gonna do? if you tried too hard, it would be forcing it and you don't want someone to be with you out of obligation...
3. What is your worst fear?
public humiliation of the worst kind
4. What do you want to do when someone embarasses you?
hide under a rock and wait for the embarassment to pass and then come out again and act like nothing happened.
5. What do you want to do when someone offends you or a family member?
i want to offend them back or their family members. make them feel really small and just walk away. i guess revenge.
6. What do you think about revenge?
it's not a good thing, for sure, but i want it too often.
i let the person know that they're annoying and i might say something rude in the hopes that they'll shut up or something.
2. What goes through your minds when you are interested in someone and the other person doesn't like you back?
that sucks. but if they don't like you back, what are you gonna do? if you tried too hard, it would be forcing it and you don't want someone to be with you out of obligation...
3. What is your worst fear?
public humiliation of the worst kind
4. What do you want to do when someone embarasses you?
hide under a rock and wait for the embarassment to pass and then come out again and act like nothing happened.
5. What do you want to do when someone offends you or a family member?
i want to offend them back or their family members. make them feel really small and just walk away. i guess revenge.
6. What do you think about revenge?
it's not a good thing, for sure, but i want it too often.
all this talk about virgo-virgo relationships and i still don't really get a good answer. well, my relationship so far has had it's ups and downs. see, i haven't gotten to the sex yet so i can't really add my 2 cents on that but we definitely understand each other very well. we have an amazing bond and we're both really into each other. the down sides are boredom and pickiness i think. ya, we can be pretty boring sometimes. the problem is that we're both shy so neither of us are great conversationalists so our phone conversations aren't very long. but when we chat online, it goes on forevor! and we say anything and everything we want to each other easily. but a long term relationship is what i'm looking for here and i want to be aware of what to expect from it. course, no one on here can really give me that. there's only like 10 people so i'm not getting a big enough sample size and half of the people aren't even virgos! what's up with that? just kidding, i like hearing from the non-virgo community.
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i broke up with my Virguy today. I'm a Virgirl and we'd been dating for over a year. the details of why we broke up are
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i've been dating this virguy for over a year and i myself am a virgo. but although he says everything going great and ye
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I'm dating this Virguy and I myself am a Virgurl. Actually we share the same birthday just 4 years apart. We've been dat
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So i broke up with my boyfriend who's also a virgo. but he was a little surprised because i hadn't talked about the issu
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i don't know if you all read susan miller's monthly horoscopes on astrologyzone.com, but i do. and this month's theme was that a relationship was going to be put to the test and very possibly have a break up. i'm a virgo currently dating a virgo, (yeah, w
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So what happens when two virgos really like each other? is there hope for us? my virgo boy, sorry, "Vguy" is an awesome guy and i really like him a lot. we talk online every night because we are across the country from each other right now and both work l
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Virgo
What is a Virgo-Virgo relationship like? I hear different things. It's great because you're so much alike or it's bad because there's no balance. What is the compatibility in your words?
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