Virgolady

I am talking to a Taurus but he seems more difficult than i expected. He pulls the famous bull's "disappearing act" but he doesnt pick up any of the big hints i leave him or even when i actually SAy it. I know his Venus is in Gemini, and what i read match

How do you show a Taurus male you're interested? I'm 19 and I haven't been interested in dating til now and have even been trying to flirt but I guess he just isn't picking it up? I don't want to scare him away.