VIRGOVIXEN37 joined August 14, 2008
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I have to say I agree enthusiastically...we have evolved to what we are now which does feel like we are bonding closer and gaining an understanding of each other but there are still elements of the way we were that we are taking into the evolution of us...or the foundation of our relationship which was based on mutual and reciprocal feelings , though we still have issues, as all relationships that will need to be tended to in time and will hopefully be another growth process, I think the first year is a learning grounds for most relationships, as a person if you had not been in one in awhile you may still be learning to be in a relationship while maintaining self as well..it's is a process...your message is so true P-Angel....
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I QUESTION HIS SINCERITY AS WELL....I'VE BEEN TOLD THAT DUE TO THE VAGRANCIES OF THE PISCES CHARACTER THAT YOU DO FLIRT ALOT AND SOMETIMES CROSS BOUNDARIES, THE RISK IS EXCITING BUT YOU TAKE IT NO FURTHER, WHEN THE REALITY HITS, YOU BACK AWAY(ACTUAL AFFAIR) ALSO, YOU BECOME EASILY BORED WITH PREDICTABILITY..THOUGH I CRAVE STABILITY AS A VIRGO, I WILL FEEL THAT WAY SOMETIMES TOO...I LIKE TO TOSS THINGS UP,MAKE IT FRESH AGAIN,MAYBE I HAVE PISCES IN MY CHART...ANYBODY WILLING TO CHART ME OR US? I'M 9/2/70 12:03PM HE IS 2/25/1978 5:27 AM
SINCE I'VE FOCUSED ON ME MORE THINGS HAVE BEGUN TO TAKE A TURN BACK TO THE WAY IT WAS BEFORE WE HAD PROBLEMS....I JUST FEEL THAT IS PART OF BEING WITH A PISCES...YOU HAVE TO BE HOT/COLD AND ONCE IN AWHILE LUKEWARM...
I QUESTION HIS SINCERITY AS WELL....I'VE BEEN TOLD THAT DUE TO THE VAGRANCIES OF THE PISCES CHARACTER THAT YOU DO FLIRT ALOT AND SOMETIMES CROSS BOUNDARIES, THE RISK IS EXCITING BUT YOU TAKE IT NO FURTHER, WHEN THE REALITY HITS, YOU BACK AWAY(ACTUAL AFFAIR) ALSO, YOU BECOME EASILY BORED WITH PREDICTABILITY..THOUGH I CRAVE STABILITY AS A VIRGO, I WILL FEEL THAT WAY SOMETIMES TOO...I LIKE TO TOSS THINGS UP,MAKE IT FRESH AGAIN,MAYBE I HAVE PISCES IN MY CHART...ANYBODY WILLING TO CHART ME OR US? I'M 9/2/70 12:03PM HE IS 2/25/1978 5:27 AM
SINCE I'VE FOCUSED ON ME MORE THINGS HAVE BEGUN TO TAKE A TURN BACK TO THE WAY IT WAS BEFORE WE HAD PROBLEMS....I JUST FEEL THAT IS PART OF BEING WITH A PISCES...YOU HAVE TO BE HOT/COLD AND ONCE IN AWHILE LUKEWARM...
THAT DOES MAKE SENSE AND I DO BELIEVE HE LOVES ME BUT THERE IS A BIG QUESTION OF LOYALTY AND LOYALTY IS BIG FOR ME AND I WOULD SAY MOST VIRGOS....HE HAS THIS HABIT OF BEING FLIRTATIOUS WITH HIS FEMALE FRIENDS IN WHICH 99% OF HIS FRIENDS ARE FEMALES AND THERE ARE TIMES HE CROSSES THE LINE...IT IS SEXUAL IN NATURE OR HE WILL START SPENDING ALOT OF TIME COMMUNICATING WITH THEM BY TEXT OR THE INTERNET AND BECOME NEGLIGENT OF ME...WHEN I'M AROUND HE AVOIDS THE COMPUTER OR HIS PHONE BUT I HAVE SEEN TEXT WHERE HE IS TELLING THEM THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL OR FLIRTING SEXUALLY WITH EXES OR OTHER WOMEN HE HAS MEET ON THE NET...ALSO HE LIVES WITH HIS PARENTS AND HIS REALLY CLOSE WITH HIS MOM, WHICH I APPRECIATE IN HIM AND I AM CLOSE WITH HER AS WELL BUT AS OF LATELY HE WANTS TO INCLUDE HER IN THINGS WE DO OR WILL TELL ME NO ABOUT DOING SOMETHING BUT THEN CHANGE HIS MIND IF HIS MOM BRINGS IT UP OR HE CAN INCLUDE HER IN SOMEWAY....FOR INSTANCE, I MENTIONED I WAS GOING TO START RIDING MY BIKE AND HE SAID HE WOULD GET ONE AS WELL, I ASKED HIM TO GO GET HIS BIKE SATURDAY AND HE SAID OH THAT'S GOING TO HAVE TO WAIT TILL NEXT MONTH...I GO TO SEE HIM YESTERDAY AND HE'S LIKE MY MOM WANTS TO RIDE BIKE'S AND WE ARE GOING THIS WEEKEND TO GET BIKE'S....HUH? WHAT IS THAT? THESE LIL THINGS ARE REALLY STARTING TO GET TO ME...I GIVE HIM MORE THAN ENOUGH SPACE AND I AM NOT A JEALOUS PERSON...FLIRTING IS NATURAL, I DO IT AS WELL BUT THERE SHOULD BE BOUNDARIES...FOR EVERYONE INCLUDING HIS MOM!! HIS LACK OF LOYALTY AT TIMES MAKE ME QUESTION HIS LOVE FOR ME, VIRGO'S HAVE TO BE THE ONE AND ONLY & I'M WILLING TO ERGO THE FLIRTING AS LONG AS IT DOES NOT TURN INTO SOMETHING MORE...HOW DO I GET THIS ACROSS ALONG WITH THE ISSUE OF TELLING ME NO ABOUT SOMETHING BUT CHANGING HIS MIND WHEN HIS MOM IS WILLING OR INCLUDED?
*though I understand...correction
He says he loves me, but he has done somethings to hurt me, thought I understand why he did the things...it's my nature to distance myself from someone if they do as a means of self-protection and he senses this and is all of the sudden more attentive and affectionate, he went out of his way last week to hunt down a WII that I've been wanting and has been sold out in most stores...but last nite I was at his house and I just am not into him right now and left after only a few hours, I called to let him know I got home at his request and right afterwards he texted me a msg saying that"YOU'VE BEEN GONE ONLY 15 MINS AND I MISS U ALREADY, WHY IS THAT? I replied"I dunno you tell me" He replied I guess I kinda likes ya a lot...the day before I texted him just to say I love him and he replied...I luv you more! All of this is sweet and he has been sweet like this for the good part of our relationship(almost a year we started dating 9/07, he asked me to be exclusive 10/07) and he has told me many times before that he loved me.
We had problems the past few months and the sweetness was less frequent along with his interest in me.....though he would say things from time to time like "your the one".
I just don't know if he is just being like this because he senses the distancing or it is sincere...honestly, I'm at the point that I don't wanna talk it about, he did one major thing and several lil things that are annoying the hell of out me and I'm not sure at this point what it is I want(him or the relationship) but I've changed my focus from us to me.
We had problems the past few months and the sweetness was less frequent along with his interest in me.....though he would say things from time to time like "your the one".
I just don't know if he is just being like this because he senses the distancing or it is sincere...honestly, I'm at the point that I don't wanna talk it about, he did one major thing and several lil things that are annoying the hell of out me and I'm not sure at this point what it is I want(him or the relationship) but I've changed my focus from us to me.
HOW WILL HE ACT? NOT JUST OPINIONS,ACTUAL EXPERIENCES AND ANY PISCES MAN'S ACTUAL SCENARIO WOULD BE MOST HELPFUL....
I'M NOT ASHAMED TO ADMIT THAT WHAT YOU SAY MAKES SO MUCH SENSE...YOUR REPLIES TO MY FIRST POST WERE THE TRUTH AND MADE ME SEE THINGS FROM ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE...AT THE TIME I WAS HURTING AND IT WAS HARD TO TAKE IN BUT THANKS P-ANGEL!!!
DOES ANYONE THINK IT MAKES A PISCES INSECURE IF THE PERSON THEIR INVOLVED WITH STARTS PULLING AWAY OR FOCUSING LESS ATTENTION TO THEM OR THE RELATIONSHIP?....MY BOYFRIEND OVER THE PAST WEEK JUST HAS TEXTED ME ALOT WONDERING WHAT I'M DOING OR WHY I HAVE NOT HAD MUCH TO SAY.
I'VE JUST BEEN FOCUSED ON ME AND MY WELL BEING & WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY.
I HAVE TO SAY IT FEELS SO GOOD, I FEEL WE ARE ALL RESPONSIBLE FOR ARE OWN HAPPINESS NO MATTER WHAT CIRCUMSTANCES YOU ARE GOING THRU YOU CAN STILL MAKE A CHOICE TO BE HAPPY AND GET ON WITH LIFE.
DOES ANYONE THINK IT MAKES A PISCES INSECURE IF THE PERSON THEIR INVOLVED WITH STARTS PULLING AWAY OR FOCUSING LESS ATTENTION TO THEM OR THE RELATIONSHIP?....MY BOYFRIEND OVER THE PAST WEEK JUST HAS TEXTED ME ALOT WONDERING WHAT I'M DOING OR WHY I HAVE NOT HAD MUCH TO SAY.
I'VE JUST BEEN FOCUSED ON ME AND MY WELL BEING & WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY.
I HAVE TO SAY IT FEELS SO GOOD, I FEEL WE ARE ALL RESPONSIBLE FOR ARE OWN HAPPINESS NO MATTER WHAT CIRCUMSTANCES YOU ARE GOING THRU YOU CAN STILL MAKE A CHOICE TO BE HAPPY AND GET ON WITH LIFE.
some errors I'm multi-tasking sorry
As a Virgo..I am more open and want to discuss what's wrong or what's going on in my life...I do push people away when they have hurt me or I feel I can't trust them anymore...it's a slow but surely process and eventually I wipe my hands clean of them...I have to say that unlike what I found in pisces I try to discuss, work out or warn that there is a problem, I found that with pisces I know,they have a problem or hrt by something and will simply hold it against you by slighting you or being vindictive without you really knowing what is wrong...which I find unfair, the person who did the wrong should always be given the opp to make amends or atleast be aware of what is going on...often times it could be a matter or perception or something that can be rectified easily,that just makes it worst.
PULLING AWAY, DIVERTING ATTENTION ELSEWHERE, FOCUSING ON YOURSELF...ETC.
CAN I GET OTHER'S EXPERIENCES...NOT OPINION!! EITHER YOU'VE DONE THIS TO A PISCES MAN OR HAD IT DONE TO YOU...
INTERESTED IN REACTIONS AND RESULTS.
CAN I GET OTHER'S EXPERIENCES...NOT OPINION!! EITHER YOU'VE DONE THIS TO A PISCES MAN OR HAD IT DONE TO YOU...
INTERESTED IN REACTIONS AND RESULTS.
DID YOU KNOW THAT ALOT OF SERIAL KILLERS ARE COINCIDENTALLY PISCES?
I HAVE TO AGREE THE MORE THEY ARE REJECTED AND THE MORE PAIN THEY SUFFER, IT TENDS TO MAKE THEM EVIL & CRUEL, EVEN TO THEIR LOVED ONES!!!
SADISM IS THEIR OUTLET!!
BUT ONCE YOU KNOW THAT AND ACCEPT IT THEN YOU WILL KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM....PAY THEM NO ATTENTION,IGNORE THEM....THEY LOVE THAT!! IF YOU EAT FROM THE NASTY BUFFET THEY WILL KEEP SERVING IT!!
I HAVE TO AGREE THE MORE THEY ARE REJECTED AND THE MORE PAIN THEY SUFFER, IT TENDS TO MAKE THEM EVIL & CRUEL, EVEN TO THEIR LOVED ONES!!!
SADISM IS THEIR OUTLET!!
BUT ONCE YOU KNOW THAT AND ACCEPT IT THEN YOU WILL KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM....PAY THEM NO ATTENTION,IGNORE THEM....THEY LOVE THAT!! IF YOU EAT FROM THE NASTY BUFFET THEY WILL KEEP SERVING IT!!
PAY THEM NO MIND AT ALL...THE MORE YOU CHASE THE FASTER THEY SWIM!!
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HOW WILL HE ACT? NOT JUST OPINIONS,ACTUAL EXPERIENCES AND ANY PISCES MAN'S ACTUAL SCENARIO WOULD BE MOST HELPFUL....
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PULLING AWAY, DIVERTING ATTENTION ELSEWHERE, FOCUSING ON YOURSELF...ETC. CAN I GET OTHER'S EXPERIENCES...NOT OPINION
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I was recently diagnosed with cancer,I have been with my boyfriend for less than a year. Ever since, he has been acting
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