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Rockyroad- I'm sorry you went through that too! It seems that we may be dealing with the same man lol!
I really don't get it. Maybe it's the aqua in me, but if I say something... I mean it. If I don't want someone in my life, they are gone. If I want someone in my life, I will bend over backwards to keep them. This "I hate them" then "let me kiss their ass" is so baffling and mind boggling.
Oh well. It sucks and still somewhat hurts. But I hope he feels that his decision was worth it.
I really don't get it. Maybe it's the aqua in me, but if I say something... I mean it. If I don't want someone in my life, they are gone. If I want someone in my life, I will bend over backwards to keep them. This "I hate them" then "let me kiss their ass" is so baffling and mind boggling.
Oh well. It sucks and still somewhat hurts. But I hope he feels that his decision was worth it.
Aquarius & Watercup- In my experience men do that because it seems easier to blame the woman. If you notice in today's society, if a man is caught cheating, no one (usually) says squat to the man. Nope. it's the girls fault. She pursued him, she weakened him, she lied to him, she seduced him. What a lot of these women don't realize, if the man had any feelings/respect at all, that woman couldn't have done anything to ruin a relationship.
I realize I'm doing the pot calling the kettle black here. It's just disappointing when you think of someone so highly like I did him, and then you realize... oh wait... you were wrong.
I realize I'm doing the pot calling the kettle black here. It's just disappointing when you think of someone so highly like I did him, and then you realize... oh wait... you were wrong.
pinklibra- The issue, is some of these women are his friends. Some are not, but some are. I understand that the lines are easy to blur in those areas, but a majority of the women were his friends before anything else.
I do appreciate your aspect though. What is strange... is he did do that when we got together. The reason I never demanded to see his friends, is that we are two different ethnicities. While he never hid me, and would go out of his way to show he was with me while walking around his town, I also understood that a lot of his friends disliked me because of my race. While I understand that didn't matter to him, and shouldn't matter at all, it unfortunately did matter. The way I was stared at while I was out with him was very haunting, and honestly made me hate going out with him around town during the day. At least at night I couldn't see their stares.
But you are correct in that he hasn't shown me the respect I needed to see. He did good in some areas, but I would've gladly traded all the money, door openings, yes ma'ams, and always being available to me to just have him show me respect by not bothering with those chicken heads.
I do appreciate your aspect though. What is strange... is he did do that when we got together. The reason I never demanded to see his friends, is that we are two different ethnicities. While he never hid me, and would go out of his way to show he was with me while walking around his town, I also understood that a lot of his friends disliked me because of my race. While I understand that didn't matter to him, and shouldn't matter at all, it unfortunately did matter. The way I was stared at while I was out with him was very haunting, and honestly made me hate going out with him around town during the day. At least at night I couldn't see their stares.
But you are correct in that he hasn't shown me the respect I needed to see. He did good in some areas, but I would've gladly traded all the money, door openings, yes ma'ams, and always being available to me to just have him show me respect by not bothering with those chicken heads.
I'm confused - You're making it sound like you're completely over him. If that's the case, then what does any of this matter? If you find him boring, and uninteresting, then why even be talking to him at all? Unless you're intent is to be friends?
I would just blatantly say "Hey, you're a nice guy, but it's just not there for me romantically." The door for friendship is always open - and you're not coming across as a bitch either.
But honestly I'm getting a jealousy vibe from you.
I would just blatantly say "Hey, you're a nice guy, but it's just not there for me romantically." The door for friendship is always open - and you're not coming across as a bitch either.
But honestly I'm getting a jealousy vibe from you.
Do you really want someone who can play the fence like that to give in?
Well thank you guys.
It does seem to be that they like drama. In the time frame that I knew my libra, he had gotten into two fights because of his friends, and had them beg him for money countless times. But he still wants to continue that life path. Which is so odd - he had told me prior he had cut a lot of people out of his life because they weren't even going to go anywhere in their life.
Are libra's just naturally liars? Not necessarily by choice, but because they are trying to always appease each side?
It does seem to be that they like drama. In the time frame that I knew my libra, he had gotten into two fights because of his friends, and had them beg him for money countless times. But he still wants to continue that life path. Which is so odd - he had told me prior he had cut a lot of people out of his life because they weren't even going to go anywhere in their life.
Are libra's just naturally liars? Not necessarily by choice, but because they are trying to always appease each side?
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Anything is appreciated.
Anything is appreciated.
Maybe it's just me, but I don't pursue. So he may not intentionally be playing games with you, it may just be he isn't pursuing.
I'm also weird about people that like me. I have to basically like them first. If I don't like them first, and I find out they like me, I get really weird and distance. Mainly because I don't want to hurt their feelings.
I'm also weird about people that like me. I have to basically like them first. If I don't like them first, and I find out they like me, I get really weird and distance. Mainly because I don't want to hurt their feelings.
Livingon- Doo tell...
It's silly to be so hung up on him. Logically I know it's dumb and silly. Emotionally I'm like "Noooooooooooooo"
It's silly to be so hung up on him. Logically I know it's dumb and silly. Emotionally I'm like "Noooooooooooooo"
Thank you Back... I had done so, but he made his choice.
Apparently one of my friends had a discussion with him. He agreed that what he did was wrong, and that he cares still. But I'm so confused... if he knows it was wrong and still cares then why this drama?
Libra men man...
Apparently one of my friends had a discussion with him. He agreed that what he did was wrong, and that he cares still. But I'm so confused... if he knows it was wrong and still cares then why this drama?
Libra men man...
Well thanks for all the responses...
I'm trying to cut him out, but damn. :/
I'm trying to cut him out, but damn. :/
I just don't know if I can do it on my own. It's absolutely sad, I get it. I've never been in this situation before. Normally I can cut ties pretty well lol. So I feel very vulnerable and confused as to what is going on.
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