So, are you a Scorp? This one is both sun and rising, not getting
around it she be a Scorp.
I was told by a friend of hers to expect to wait 6 months for her
to come around.
So, wth? Is that true? You would torture for 6 months? Ouch.....
heh
ok
Well am I ruined now for any hope because I did call?
Aries, female, dyke, etc be me
lol, I just left a first message saying hey, how are you? Gimme a call,
hope to hear from you soon.
Week of silence.
Call again, Hi, hope you are well just thinking about you. Hope to hear
from you soon.
Now almost 3 weeks of silence.
Clueless as I look at the naked pics she gave me. Clueless
as I walk to my car across the grass (we burned it pretty good)
to my car. Clueless as I look at my broken bed frame. Clueless.
She asked me if I said "I love you" when we were kinda fighting.
Well, hell she asked me that after she dumped me. I said "no,
I did not say that." Cuz I didn't say that. But I do. Grrr.
Sick puppy I am.
"Not to piss you off, but you asked for advice. You could have made her mad without even realizing it and you might never know. It's a defense response I have. It's not right. But that's what I do to avoid being hurt further."
In my heart, I know this is what is going on. Nothing else makes sense!
Thus have been thinking and thinking and talking and anything to understand
this. She won't call me back, so how on earth do I communicate with her?
Can't as I feel like even if I finally understand what I said wrong so we can
talk about it?
This is what I think happened: I casually mentioned over coffee in the a.m.
about a certain subject. Noted that a gal I know said so and so about it, ya
know, gave advice. The Scorp said nothing and just stared at me for a while.
Then said "Well, that is not true, blah blah blah is true." Christ , it was
about technical advice!
Anyhoo, it was a innocent thing, but I can't forget the look she gave me during
the silence after I said that. And shit hit the fan several hours later. But
then we had great makeup sex. Then we talked on a Sunday for like a half an hour
and nothing made me think she would never call me again.
*cries*
So then, Scorps are just chicken shit and won't come out
and say, "Hey, this isn't working, have a nice life?"
No instead you lead people on? Why?
Come on, I am not totally wet behind the ears. I pretty
much got the hint after a week. But at the same time, silly
me, was "concerned" as if you talk to someone several times
a week for a few months, then get this weird treatment you
wonder? Hey they ok? Are they making a cry for help? Are
they on the floor and can't get up? lol
Really, that is just the shits. Nothing at all in the last
conversation led me to believe she would just drop off the face
of the earth.
Yeah, if we had only been together a few days or a few weeks,
it would be no biggy. But it was a few months and SHE was the
one talking about marriage. Then, just turned.
sorry for the double post, hit enter instead of tab.
New here, how do I get rid of the first topic? ty
going to be brief and to the point.
Why in the hell would a Scorpio not return
my call in TWENTY SIX days now?
Last call was pleasant enough. I called 2 more
times and left a message each time a week after
each time.
NOTHING, NADA, ZIP
And no she is not dead, I woulda heard about that.
Do you Scorps do the silent treatment wanting to
simply piss people off and get a reaction?
Or do you really want us to just go away?
If ya just wanted us to go away, why say "call
ya later"
Bastages, the lot of ya!!!! :}
ps, I am hurting hella bad