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Wildflower_dey joined April 05, 2016
32 years old female
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Posted by spaceship
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I agree. I had to shout on him saying you senstive little boy i am not your mama.

Laughing I have to try that one! Honestly, I want us to work but my fucking God; it's like I'm dating another woman only he's a million times more feminine than any woman I've ever met.
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But it hurt him like anything. After i said that he had tears in his eyes and he said he hates me. Now he has gone back to his shell and i am not pampering him anymore.
I went through the same thing and i realized cancer men don't mean what they say. And the guy even accepted it.
I agree. I had to shout on him saying you senstive little boy i am not your mama.
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Posted by SirHorns
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You need a lot of patience with the Cancers. You need to deal with their past, their daily crying but at the end they somehow are so cute and adorable you will feel that they need you so automatically you will care for them/ compromise and so on. Trap trap full trap.

Do you enjoy being trapped though?

I am a scorpio i like how i have to chase him. They are tough ones to be with initially. Cancers become too close to you. They won't seem like strangers or somebody whom you can detach so soon. They will hold on to you someway or the other just to keep you. So if any other sign men i would have just walked off but cancers are sensitive even though they are selfish or whatever you can't just walk off.

I'd attribute the daily crying to some other sign in the chart because I rarely cry daily, not unless something really upsetting recently happened, and it's rare for anyone to see me cry, I have to have full trust or close to it before someone gets to see me cry. Being close to someone is easy, though, because reading them is usually very easy, and that means knowing/understanding someone more than they've ever felt understood (the down side is Cancers want to be understood this way and few are able to deeply understand/accept).
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Daily crying i meant cancers have too many things going on in their mind. They need to enjoy the present.
Posted by piscespoppy
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Awesome you guys. Lets see if he is player, i am a player too Winking
Now i am out of his claws and i don't fear losing him. Lets see what is he upto. Big Grin


Hey, 16 years with mine, still in love with his ex frst two years didn't know what he wanted, well you show him sweet, you bring it girl, go! You'll see, he wants a strong lady who loves him who will laugh with him put up with his moods and mother him sometimes when he is in sweet. Mode, but its not easy if you are too sensitive ?
What do you want? If you want him, show him being strong and totally shutting him out! But make sure you tell him how you feel first x
Simple !

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Yeah i totally agree with you. I am going to be strong and sorted. He actually likes me when i know what i want.
Posted by SirHorns
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You need a lot of patience with the Cancers. You need to deal with their past, their daily crying but at the end they somehow are so cute and adorable you will feel that they need you so automatically you will care for them/ compromise and so on. Trap trap full trap.

Do you enjoy being trapped though?
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I am a scorpio i like how i have to chase him. They are tough ones to be with initially. Cancers become too close to you. They won't seem like strangers or somebody whom you can detach so soon. They will hold on to you someway or the other just to keep you. So if any other sign men i would have just walked off but cancers are sensitive even though they are selfish or whatever you can't just walk off.
You need a lot of patience with the Cancers. You need to deal with their past, their daily crying but at the end they somehow are so cute and adorable you will feel that they need you so automatically you will care for them/ compromise and so on. Trap trap full trap.
Posted by SirHorns
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I am dealing with this cancer guy and all i will say is that too much emotional drama. They are always confused and they want to keep everybody happy which is very irritating because practically its not possible.

Ouch. It's hard to learn/accept that you can't please everyone. When did you learn this lesson? Hopefully he'll get the message soon.
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Yeah i hope he does. The problem is cancer people are usually the most loved and adored sun signs because they are cute, family type and they believe in strong friendships. So for them everybody whom he loves or is close to should also be close to each other and everybody else. For example if he loves his friend and i like the cancer guy so i should like his friend too. So if there is a situation where he has to choose me or the friend he will just back off. His mind will just freeze and he will whine. So either the friend or me one of us will have to compromise. And then he will be safe and he will think awesome now both are happy. Thats his way to handle things.
I am dealing with this cancer guy and all i will say is that too much emotional drama. They are always confused and they want to keep everybody happy which is very irritating because practically its not possible.
Oh god i swear they are so whiny. I feel more masculine and stronger than him Tongue
According to me, there is a particular type that we like, the type from whom you get a sexual vibes. We long for deep love and everything intense. We want a guy who speaks from the bottom of his heart and means every fucking thing he says. We hate indecisive men. THE CONFUSING PART IS who loves to dominate. Well the answer is we like the men to take the lead by keeping in mind all our needs and our priorities. If the man knows that i hate a particular friend of his and if he has invited that person, then yeah all cool, until the parties over. Also we hate men who can't keep their words.
We like loyal men and one advice too much honesty is not good with scorpio women because even if you tell her about something which you think might make her jealous then better never say it because even if you're honest we will still be very jealous and feel insecure. So just be loyal and be quiet about stuff (as in don't talk about your female colleagues and bla bla).
We don't have a particular body type that we like but yeah we like sporty guys whether be thin or masculine. I usually like guys whose arms are strong and who hug really well. We are extremist either yes or no. Nothing in between. So if you are a confused person and have difficulty deciding stuff stay away.
Awesome you guys. Lets see if he is player, i am a player too Winking
Now i am out of his claws and i don't fear losing him. Lets see what is he upto. Big Grin

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