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Lol I'm not considering him. Just curious about the behavior as he's the first Pisces I've dealt with. Just a question.
Lol no. Why, does yours?
I am a cancer female and I met a pisces male recently. We were drawn to each other immediately. They first day we met, we spent an entire day together and acted very couple-like. The night ended with a kiss and nothing more because I was not comfortable with a one night stand. As it turns out, they next day I found out he had a girlfriend of TWO YEARS. He never once mentioned his relationship to me.
After that day, I kind of forgot about him and chalked it up a loss and moved on. Recently he contacted me to see each other again. He said cheating is not something he normally does but has never had someone like me come along. He's a bit cocky and I'm very uncomfortable with how easily he can cheat on his girlfriend. Are Pisces typically able to cheat without a moral conscious? Is this a characteristic of the sign or just a bad apple?
He seemed like such a great person when I met him, but it's certainly a red flag that he is ok with being unfaithful.
After that day, I kind of forgot about him and chalked it up a loss and moved on. Recently he contacted me to see each other again. He said cheating is not something he normally does but has never had someone like me come along. He's a bit cocky and I'm very uncomfortable with how easily he can cheat on his girlfriend. Are Pisces typically able to cheat without a moral conscious? Is this a characteristic of the sign or just a bad apple?
He seemed like such a great person when I met him, but it's certainly a red flag that he is ok with being unfaithful.
Posted by LetltBPosted by yourmoonbaby
Sorry--guess a simplified question would be why would a scorp pressure you into commitment and relocating only to change his mind when it becomes a possible reality?
Because you HAVEN'T relocated yet. Back up the "shit or get off the pot" WITHOUT the ultimatum, get a job, make the move.
ACTIONS...and nothing less. Most Scorpio's see actions as the real thing.click to expand
I appreciate the brutal honesty and it makes perfect sense. I needed someone to lay it to me straight. Actions speak louder than words.
Sorry--guess a simplified question would be why would a scorp pressure you into commitment and relocating only to change his mind when it becomes a possible reality?
Cancer's always remember their past and tend to think of it very fondly. Any relationship they held dear that didn't work out they will harbor and always have some sort of regret. If he's still contacting you, you're still on his mind and probably always have been. What you do with that information is up to you. He will continually try to contact you in small ways until you put one foot forward as well. Contacting you is like testing the waters to see if you still care too. But he will be much to hesitant to jump in the deep end and expose all of his feelings without knowing it's safe.
So what do you think...? What would make a scorpio man go from 100% intensity of wanting to be together and then getting cold feet? And why would he lead me on for so long? Do you think his excuse of not being "good enough" is just a cop-out so he can remain single? Is this all another scorpio ???test??? Any insight helps. It pains me to let a connection like this go but I don't want to seem desperate by continually reaching out if he's done. The strangest part is that he tells me, my family, his friends and other girls that he still loves me and will never get over me. Sometimes I think his brain is messed up.
to be with him and he still lived his life as a man-child. He voiced that his greatest fear in life is growing up, so anything having to do with that (relationships, moving, marriage, house) all scare him to death. He said that I'm way out of his league and when me moving actually became a reality he realized that he is not the best thing for me right now. Mind you--he still contacts me and lets me know he loves me, no girl will ever replace me, and he will find me in the future so that he can marry me.
I'm confused and very upset at his behavior. Although, part of me just thinks its karma and he turned the tables on me after I was scared to commit. I??ve tried out to reach out in a kind and understanding way to let him know he is a positive influence in my life and I do want him to remain a part of it. I told him the only reason i pushed for a relationship was because I thought that was what HE always wanted--and out of a fear of losing him I was willing to make a sacrifice and move for him. Lately he has been really quiet and it doesn't seem like he wants me to be a part of his life. I think he is finally done. It kinda feels like I got punkd?? haha.
Also--I guess this is a 180 not a 360
I'm confused and very upset at his behavior. Although, part of me just thinks its karma and he turned the tables on me after I was scared to commit. I??ve tried out to reach out in a kind and understanding way to let him know he is a positive influence in my life and I do want him to remain a part of it. I told him the only reason i pushed for a relationship was because I thought that was what HE always wanted--and out of a fear of losing him I was willing to make a sacrifice and move for him. Lately he has been really quiet and it doesn't seem like he wants me to be a part of his life. I think he is finally done. It kinda feels like I got punkd?? haha.
Also--I guess this is a 180 not a 360
Hi all-
So I have been seeing this Scorpio man for a year and half. We met through mutual friends but the relationship has always been romantic and never friendly. In fact, he told me he will just be "just my friend" because he has too many feelings for me. Anyway, we have yet to become official due to a variety of reasons (long distance, career changes, relocation and past relationships). The hesitance was mostly on my part because I had vocalized that I was still not over the 4 year relationship I had recently gotten out of at the time. There was a lot of risk involved in starting something new and I wasn't ready to make anything official yet. My Scorpio struggled with that (obviously) and always pushed me to get over my ex and be together with him. From the first day I met my Scorpio, he told me that he loved me, wanted to marry me and requested that I moved to his city to give the relationship a real shot. For a very long time, I continued to push him away--not because I didn't love him, but because I felt like his intensity was pulling me out of my crab-like shell so quickly. And I wasn't ready for it yet.
Our relationship has had a lot of "break ups" due to the frustration of being so far apart and me not being ready to commit. However, after our hiccups we always come back to each other to apologize and admit how much we love each other and don't want to let a connection like this go. It seemed like every fight was a test and only made us stronger after. Eventually I got over my past relationships and we knew that the only way we could make things work is if I would relocate--which he had been asking me to do since day one. In the spring, I decided that it was time to take things seriously and I finally agreed to begin job searching in the city he lived. I told him that essentially we had to sh*t or get off the pot when it came to our relationship. We had to get out of the limbo we were in, otherwise, we would begin to hold each other back from letting anyone else in our lives. My Scorpio interpreted this as an ultimatum (my fault) and he got cold feet. He started to push me away and said that moving wasn't what was best for me and my career. Essentially, he ended things but did it in a very confusing way. He was emotionally distraught over the fall out. He told me he cried and he loved me and wanted to marry me someday--but right now he just wasn't mature enough to be he man that I deserved. He said he would feel guilty if I moved solely just
So I have been seeing this Scorpio man for a year and half. We met through mutual friends but the relationship has always been romantic and never friendly. In fact, he told me he will just be "just my friend" because he has too many feelings for me. Anyway, we have yet to become official due to a variety of reasons (long distance, career changes, relocation and past relationships). The hesitance was mostly on my part because I had vocalized that I was still not over the 4 year relationship I had recently gotten out of at the time. There was a lot of risk involved in starting something new and I wasn't ready to make anything official yet. My Scorpio struggled with that (obviously) and always pushed me to get over my ex and be together with him. From the first day I met my Scorpio, he told me that he loved me, wanted to marry me and requested that I moved to his city to give the relationship a real shot. For a very long time, I continued to push him away--not because I didn't love him, but because I felt like his intensity was pulling me out of my crab-like shell so quickly. And I wasn't ready for it yet.
Our relationship has had a lot of "break ups" due to the frustration of being so far apart and me not being ready to commit. However, after our hiccups we always come back to each other to apologize and admit how much we love each other and don't want to let a connection like this go. It seemed like every fight was a test and only made us stronger after. Eventually I got over my past relationships and we knew that the only way we could make things work is if I would relocate--which he had been asking me to do since day one. In the spring, I decided that it was time to take things seriously and I finally agreed to begin job searching in the city he lived. I told him that essentially we had to sh*t or get off the pot when it came to our relationship. We had to get out of the limbo we were in, otherwise, we would begin to hold each other back from letting anyone else in our lives. My Scorpio interpreted this as an ultimatum (my fault) and he got cold feet. He started to push me away and said that moving wasn't what was best for me and my career. Essentially, he ended things but did it in a very confusing way. He was emotionally distraught over the fall out. He told me he cried and he loved me and wanted to marry me someday--but right now he just wasn't mature enough to be he man that I deserved. He said he would feel guilty if I moved solely just
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