Gemini woman never cheats? your thoughts?

My Girlfriend is a Gemini and I always have doubts about her and I'm a sagittarius... but she always tells me everything and who she's with and also sends pictures... now I'm trusting her more... Many people are saying Gemini Cheats... is it only Gemini Man who cheats? My Gemini Woman have many friends that are guys but she always calls me, text me, or send pictures to prove she's safe and not doing something... Sometimes, I hate myself for doubting her... Sometimes I don't ask where she is but she tells me like... "Hey, is it ok if I go with my friends? we're having dinner"... now I don't know if some horoscope-izm about gemini is true... because I really think she ain't cheating... what are you thoughts?

I think it's an individual's choice and not really a sign thing. I mean, altho it's said that gems are prone to cheating, but it really comes down to choosing to do so, or not.

Astrology is more of a guideline, letting us know what we're capable of. I'm sure that there are some qualities of a sagittarius that you really don't identify with... It's really up to the individual to choose what to do with those guidelines.

Anyway, that's just my 2 cents...

Posted by misslissa
I think it's an individual's choice and not really a sign thing. I mean, altho it's said that gems are prone to cheating, but it really comes down to choosing to do so, or not.

Astrology is more of a guideline, letting us know what we're capable of. I'm sure that there are some qualities of a sagittarius that you really don't identify with... It's really up to the individual to choose what to do with those guidelines.

Anyway, that's just my 2 cents...

Agreed.

Really tired of this stereotype about Geminis >_>

Sorry all geminis I know are flighty and cheats.... Still it's a choice.

It is a matter of one's inner feelings that determine ones behaviours.
So nothing is written in stone.

It is a matter of one's inner feelings that determine ones behaviours.
So nothing is written in stone.

Posted by unknownlegend
My Girlfriend is a Gemini and I always have doubts about her and I'm a sagittarius... but she always tells me everything and who she's with and also sends pictures... now I'm trusting her more... Many people are saying Gemini Cheats... is it only Gemini Man who cheats? My Gemini Woman have many friends that are guys but she always calls me, text me, or send pictures to prove she's safe and not doing something... Sometimes, I hate myself for doubting her... Sometimes I don't ask where she is but she tells me like... "Hey, is it ok if I go with my friends? we're having dinner"... now I don't know if some horoscope-izm about gemini is true... because I really think she ain't cheating... what are you thoughts?

Dude, don't be so naive. This young Gem that was with me was always saying to me when she will meet with her friends, but it doesn't mean anything. She said that she is always friend with her ex bf's, so imagine how it looks like? He texts her at 3 AM to come to his place, to watch a game. She said that to me, but she was in some miniskirt, and went to his place like that...come on man, I can imagine what it looked like...it was 9 PM, and they were also drinking. He bedded her for sure. I saw also a lot of sexy messages from her other guy "friends". She also said that when her "friends" get drunk, they call her to say how she is beautiful, and other stuff...and that is friendship? Plus, she only have male friends.
Maybe your situation is different, maybe she is more mature, but, only when their interest is really high on you, then they will not cheat, but I don't think that it lasts so long, they can easily switch to someone else, like you never had anything. It's normal to them.

Posted by exxtasyx
This is so crazy. I can't believe everyone thinks Gemini's are cheaters. LOL. Why would you think she's cheating unless she's given you a reason to think that? Come on now. x

Because others think they know us better than they really do.

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Posted by unknownlegend
My Girlfriend is a Gemini and I always have doubts about her and I'm a sagittarius... but she always tells me everything and who she's with and also sends pictures... now I'm trusting her more... Many people are saying Gemini Cheats... is it only Gemini Man who cheats? My Gemini Woman have many friends that are guys but she always calls me, text me, or send pictures to prove she's safe and not doing something... Sometimes, I hate myself for doubting her... Sometimes I don't ask where she is but she tells me like... "Hey, is it ok if I go with my friends? we're having dinner"... now I don't know if some horoscope-izm about gemini is true... because I really think she ain't cheating... what are you thoughts?

Dude, don't be so naive. This young Gem that was with me was always saying to me when she will meet with her friends, but it doesn't mean anything. She said that she is always friend with her ex bf's, so imagine how it looks like? He texts her at 3 AM to come to his place, to watch a game. She said that to me, but she was in some miniskirt, and went to his place like that...come on man, I can imagine what it looked like...it was 9 PM, and they were also drinking. He bedded her for sure. I saw also a lot of sexy messages from her other guy "friends". She also said that when her "friends" get drunk, they call her to say how she is beautiful, and other stuff...and that is friendship? Plus, she only have male friends.
Maybe your situation is different, maybe she is more mature, but, only when their interest is really high on you, then they will not cheat, but I don't think that it lasts so long, they can easily switch to someone else, like you never had anything. It's normal to them.

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I think I will have to disagree with you on that My Fellow Sagitarian... The only difference between your gemini and mine is that when she feels that I'm worried that she would hang out with her guy friends she brings me along... and she always take pictures and sometimes she cancels her trips.. that's the only difference... I'm actually believing her and I already confronted her if she wants to tell me something and she said none... I'm just so inlove with her right now we're always laughing when we're together and I don't know what could go wrong... I just want to be happy with her right now... if she cheat on me I'll post on this board... but right now we;re on cloud 9... Maybe because it's her family... I met all of her relatives already and when she introduced me to her grandfather and grandmother they were always her ideal relationship... I think she wanted us to be like that... inlove and loyal... she told me she don't want to feel ignored or cheated on... Maybe Gemini's are all the same signs but they are not actual

Well, in that case, everything seems OK. There is definitely difference between Gems born in May, and June. Those in May seems to be more loyal, but ofc, ascendant also play a big role in that. I just say that many Gem's have tendencies to easily switch you for someone else, and move on. And their disappearing act can be really annoying. I mean, they easily get bored, even if they were hooked from the start. And if you believe her 100% , then you wouldn't have many doubts and many different topics about her.

They often cause doubt because of their behavior. Between Gems and Sags there is definitely chemistry from the start, but how long it will last, depends on many important aspects in your chart. So, it's basically hit or miss. Good for short or long term. I just don't see point when it's short and sweet, why they start making excuses like they want to see you if they don't, and then they just disappear. Is it so hard to be honest, and to say I'm not interested anymore, than some bs excuses.
But to be completely honest, I quickly get bored too, especially when everything is very easy, no challenge, or when someone is dumb/boring, or playing games, so I'm not a saint either. Once I get bored, or irritated, there is no coming back...I just lose interest in that person.

I'm a gemini and was with a sag for 3 yrs and never cheated. Gemini's like to flirt but when we truely care about someone we would never even consider cheating, with us flirting is just a bit of fun and nothing to take seriously. Sag's are also known to cheat so I wouldn't think too much into it.

Posted by unknownlegend
My Girlfriend is a Gemini and I always have doubts about her and I'm a sagittarius... but she always tells me everything and who she's with and also sends pictures... now I'm trusting her more... Many people are saying Gemini Cheats... is it only Gemini Man who cheats? My Gemini Woman have many friends that are guys but she always calls me, text me, or send pictures to prove she's safe and not doing something... Sometimes, I hate myself for doubting her... Sometimes I don't ask where she is but she tells me like... "Hey, is it ok if I go with my friends? we're having dinner"... now I don't know if some horoscope-izm about gemini is true... because I really think she ain't cheating... what are you thoughts?

I haven't had time to read the whole thread but let me answer the question as a core Gem. Yes I have cheated. Twice. With the person I was in love with, I did it as revenge (we had a really bad month for a patch, I was 22, and he left the country for an urgent project without telling me and didn't return my call for weeks). But I was so in love with him I called him to tell him the very next morning and never really got over the guilt. He was a scorpio. He forgave me because he knew he was to blame for neglecting me (he is now in therapy for workaholism). I still believe years later that I am in love with him though we arne't really destined to be together. Perhaps in another life. The other man I cheated on I didn't care about but he was such an amazing boyfriend that I couldn't leave him, and I liked the feeling of being loved and taken care of. Yes, I judge myself for that one. The point I am making is this - Geminis are more honest and real with someone that they love than even they realize. That's what soulmates are. If she cheats on you and leaves you or hides it from you, she isn't the right girl for you, a true lifelong relationship requires complete honesty in these aspects, you need to be able to accept the good, bad and ugly sides of each other. So why would you try and hold on to her?
PS - These things happened years ago, I have made my peace with my actions, I offer them here as an honest look inside a 20-something Gemini that may help unknownlegend with his situation, not for open panel judgement from anyone else.

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Posted by unknownlegend
My Girlfriend is a Gemini and I always have doubts about her and I'm a sagittarius... but she always tells me everything and who she's with and also sends pictures... now I'm trusting her more... Many people are saying Gemini Cheats... is it only Gemini Man who cheats? My Gemini Woman have many friends that are guys but she always calls me, text me, or send pictures to prove she's safe and not doing something... Sometimes, I hate myself for doubting her... Sometimes I don't ask where she is but she tells me like... "Hey, is it ok if I go with my friends? we're having dinner"... now I don't know if some horoscope-izm about gemini is true... because I really think she ain't cheating... what are you thoughts?

I haven't had time to read the whole thread but let me answer the question as a core Gem. Yes I have cheated. Twice. With the person I was in love with, I did it as revenge (we had a really bad month for a patch, I was 22, and he left the country for an urgent project without telling me and didn't return my call for weeks). But I was so in love with him I called him to tell him the very next morning and never really got over the guilt. He was a scorpio. He forgave me because he knew he was to blame for neglecting me (he is now in therapy for workaholism). I still believe years later that I am in love with him though we arne't really destined to be together. Perhaps in another life. The other man I cheated on I didn't care about but he was such an amazing boyfriend that I couldn't leave him, and I liked the feeling of being loved and taken care of. Yes, I judge myself for that one. The point I am making is this - Geminis are more honest and real with someone that they love than even they realize. That's what soulmates are. If she cheats on you and leaves you or hides it from you, she isn't the right girl for you, a true lifelong relationship requires complete honesty in these aspects, you need to be able to accept the good, bad and ugly sides of each other. So why would you try and hold on to her?
PS - These things happened years ago, I have made my peace with my actions, I offer them here as an honest look inside a 20-something Gemini that may help unknownlegend with his situation, not for open panel judgement from anyone else.

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Yah I get your point she's so honest and also I'm her first official boyfriend and her father is so jealous because I got her attention. This is all new to her parents and they also told me I'm the first guy she introduced and I'm happy about that... she also told me that when I tried doubting her she was sad because she's not like the girls I dated who cheated on me. I think it depends on how she was raised by her parents and not by the sign... She was born may 21 and she's like a Gemini T

I never introduced anyone I wasn't dead sure of to my parents. Its a big deal to most girls (and most boys) that are raised right, irrespective of nation or sunsign. Just remember, if she does something that is a deal breaker for you, she wasn't meant for you, nor you for her. You'll be surprised how much true love can endure.

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I never introduced anyone I wasn't dead sure of to my parents. Its a big deal to most girls (and most boys) that are raised right, irrespective of nation or sunsign. Just remember, if she does something that is a deal breaker for you, she wasn't meant for you, nor you for her. You'll be surprised how much true love can endure.

Thank you for that kind advice I appreciate it I was also shocked when she introduced me to her parents and she got jealous over a past lover of mine asking so many questions. I assured her that I really love her and the girl she was jealous with is in the past. When her father told her to break up with me she cried on the phone and said she really really loves me and she was hurt by what her father said... There was also a time when I always doubted her because of her sign and she confronted me and said "I'm just sad that you don't trust me when I always tell you everything I do and whom I with, and where I was... I'm not like your other girlfriends or ex who cheated on you. I'm not that kind of girl" oh let me remind you I'm her first official boyfriend... her last was when she was in highschool and now we're both working and we're on our 20's I'm her first kiss as well.. she's so conservative.

Gemini Woman and Pisces Male. Steer clear of these two.

That's a stereotype. Anyone could get bored to a boring relationship even the water signs themselves. It's just that people have different ways of dealing with it. Others would cheat or some others will just leave or break the relationship. There are a lot of water signs who cheat as well. But it's true that most MAY Geminis are more stable and loyal than the other geminis maybe because of the Taurus influence. I have Venus in Taurus and I never cheated on anyone. Gemini are capable of commitment and are loyal especially to those they really love.

However, to the OP, Sagittarius can be more of a cheater than Gemini. This is another stereotype, of course, but also from experience, I know a lot of Sag who cheated just because they want to experience everything. They couldn't settle because the grass is always greener on the other fence. Sag could commit but always short-term. Geminis would flirt which is easy to be accused of cheating by a jealous partner but it takes something for them to really cheat on their partner. Geminis are not shallow lovers especially the mature ones. Obviously, un-evolved and immature young Geminis especially the male ones could cheat but it's not a rule. Sag wants to be out there and experience everything , and that includes different lovers. I would be more wary of a Sag. Just my opinion, though, through experience with Sags.

Well, yeah, it's true that Sags want to experience everything, to have many different experiences through various situations, including risky ones. That's how we are wired I guess. And it's also true that we're best on short term, 'cause in long term, I always have a feeling of missing something, and I cannot turn back time, so I don't like to feel caged. I quickly lose interest when I'm too familiar with someone in a relationship. Especially if there is some routine, and nothing new. I'm always excited when there is something new on my sight, and sometimes I take a load of numbers just to prove to myself that I can...silly ego boost.

Although I never cheated when I was in a rl, but I always flirted, and that is nothing bad. Unless there is physical contact with other person, it's not cheating. We all flirt here and there sometimes, nothing bad.
But Gems also quickly get bored, sometimes even quicker than Sags. And I also noticed that May Gems are usually more loyal and better for long term than those in June. But again, it all depends on many things.

I'm a Gemini sign Sagittarius moon Gemini Venus. Maybe it's because of my Sagittarius moon, but I have never found a Sagittarius unfulfilling to me.

I think the fact that she is checking in with you is showing that she actually cares. Uncaring gemini wouldnt say anything at all. Especially when we know how much we brood over things in our mind we wouldn't want the people we care about to constantly ponder mercilessly.

I think her cheating (or contemplating cheating) would be her staying out more often than not. Or purposely avoiding you 24/7. Idk my Sagittarius moon always breaks up with the person before that happens.

She introduce you to her parents and all that so that means she is taking you seriously but you are not. If you keep doubting her and harass her all the time when she was honest towards you then mate expect her in leaving you soon because Geminis will get suffocated when they feel they are tied down. There is no place for suspicion and jealously in a honest relationship.

I am a Gemini women and I have never cheated within a reletionship its just not in me to do that! I'm not sure if it a horoscope thing or just a firm inbuilt loyalty! X

Posted by unknownlegend
My Girlfriend is a Gemini and I always have doubts about her and I'm a sagittarius... but she always tells me everything and who she's with and also sends pictures... now I'm trusting her more... Many people are saying Gemini Cheats... is it only Gemini Man who cheats? My Gemini Woman have many friends that are guys but she always calls me, text me, or send pictures to prove she's safe and not doing something... Sometimes, I hate myself for doubting her... Sometimes I don't ask where she is but she tells me like... "Hey, is it ok if I go with my friends? we're having dinner"... now I don't know if some horoscope-izm about gemini is true... because I really think she ain't cheating... what are you thoughts?

But you both have the same reputation though?
Sags are known hoe bags.
Should your Gem girl worry about you?