Leo/Virgo Cusps- Cusp of Exposure!

Im a leo/virgo and want to know about being with another cusp sign March 21st. 22 years we have been together, married 10 of those years, but have had a bumpy relationship. Does anyone know about our signs together? Why we dont want to leave each other but do. Cant stand being with out him, but when I think about some of the things we have been through together wonder how could i even think twice of getting back with this man. But love so many things about him.
Help!!!!