Leo/Virgo Cusps- Cusp of Exposure!

Hello fellow cusps.
I sometimes find it hard being the cusp of exposer, being born Aug 22, 1993, I have only found one other cusp like me.
Yet we still have many differences. I would just like to have on other person understand how difficult it is to be
introverted and extroverted when you don't want it to happen. At times I can be introverted when I least need it to be happening.
I also find it very difficult to find someone to be compatible with, I'm way to picky with when it comes to love. They say that
we mostly go on logic when it comes to love, but thats something i would have to disagree with. I mean yes I do think about the
situation, but my emotions always take over my logic, which is something i have a huge problem with. I usually am the life of the party,
but depending on how I feel I could be the wallflower. another problem I have is the fact that I am so generous and so passive, people
think that they have the right to walk all over me. By that time I become very introverted and I have no way of fighting back, I just let
it happen. But when it comes to relationships my leo explodes and I be come very dominant and bossy, but I do not like that trait about me.
When I am someones friend I am sweet, nice, and wanting to be of service, I dont get it. help? :/