Fucking Fish

Arguing with a Pisces who is hiding his/her emotions is akin to slowly jamming hat pins dipped in hot sauce into your eyes while having a case of extreme diarrhea with inflamed hemorrhoids.

If you're upset, if you're confused, if you're angry, if you're having some emotional "whatever," I'd think a simple, "What's wrong?" would suffice but NOoOO!, not with water signs.

I could have sworn that yall were supposed to have a better understanding of your emotions than the rest of us. The reality is, you don't.



Take Cancer...moody. Ask a Cancer what's wrong with them and the answers will be short and dismissive.

Me: "What's wrong CRABBY?"

CRABBY: "Oh nothing. Not-a-thing. Nope."




Take Scorpio...insane. Ask a Scorpio what's wrong with them and you won't get far there either.

Me: "What's wrong you Insane-Muthafucka?"

Insane-Muthafucka: There won't be a response because they'll be too busy pouring bleach on your clothes and leaving poopacketprizes in your coat pockets.




Now fish...fucking fish! These muhfuckers take the cake...

Me: "What's wrong with you Fish?"

Fish: 1 Minute of Dead Silence.

Me: "Did you hear me? What's wrong? Are you ok?"

Fish: *sighs deeply*..."I don't know."

Me: "You've been acting differently lately. You know you can talk to me. What's wrong?"

Fish: "Well...*20 SEC PAUSE*...It's sort of like...*10 SEC PAUSE*...the ocean...*33 SEC PAUSE*...The ocean in its vast, expansiveness has varying hues when gazed upon under a moonlit sky...*STRAIGHT HORSESHIT*...but it's something like that."

Me: "What the fuck did you just say?"

Fish: "I don't know."

Me: "You don't know what you just said or you don't know what's wrong?"

Fish: *Sigh* "I wish I could tell you."

Me: "You can tell me muhfucker! SPIT IT OUT!? Is it that you don't know how you feel?"

Fish: "No. It's not that."

Me: "What is it then?"

Fish: "I don't know."

Me: "FUCK! So what was all that about the ocean and shit?"

Fish: "Well...*20 SEC PAUSE*...It's sort of like...*10 SEC PAUSE*...the ocean...*33 SEC PAUSE*...The ocean in its vast, expansiveness has varying hues when gazed upon under a moonlit sky...*STRAIGHT HORSESHIT*...but it's something like that."



UGH!

FUCKING FISH!

Translation: Catfish and I were arguing about something but we weren't arguing at the same time and I don't know if I should be mad or if he's mad or if I should even care cause I honestly tried to get at the root of it but got tired of circling the bowl.

I honestly am baffled, bewildered, befuddled and slightly bedazzled. I think we just had a non-argument argument. Ever had one of those?

Where your arguing about something but neither one of you truly knows what you're arguing about, if you truly should be arguing about it and at the same time, you know it's not worth arguing over?

I don't like swimming 😢 I like it better when Catfish is on land.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Hahahaha...

Sorry but that made me laugh 🙂

Trouble in paradise?

😢

not trouble.

he's being weird.

talking all cryptic and shit. it's driving me insane.

"Arguing with a Pisces who is hiding his/her emotions is akin to slowly jamming hat pins dipped in hot sauce into your eyes while having a case of extreme diarrhea with inflamed hemorrhoids."

That, madam, was hilarious. Perhaps next time you can put on ocean waves with gulls careening overhead.

"Stay Down", Mary J. Blige. That is it, that is all. 🙂

Posted by TasteOfChaos
😢

You want me to sprinkle a lil arsnic in his tank?

i think he was goth in a former life and therefore is technically already the walking dead and thus, this would have no effect.

Posted by Claire

Where you stood next to an ocean?? Understandable if so.

If not, maybe he was picturing the ocean in his mind and has a very good imagination. I think it's cute. 🙂

Where you even stood outside??

lol 🙂

the ocean... was a real statement by him.

as i've said before, sometimes fish folk "talk underwater." you understand what they're saying but why they're saying it and the relevance it has to the topic at hand is not always clear. they know what they're saying but to the listener it's like, really—? can you say that one mo' gin in plain english?

Your a Taurus? You should persist. Why don't you persist?

@VB, don't know if i know that MJB song. will have to check it out.

and yes, sometimes when i'm talking to him, i'm thinking, "that's beautiful! wait, are you fucking talking about me— should i be insulted? say that again...slowly this time. oh ok...i think i understand now...actually, i don't. why is the ocean 'vast?' ARE YOU CALLING ME FAT? am i the ocean or are you the ocean? UGH! i have no clue what you're talking about but i'm pretty sure you're talking about me so say it again and say it plain."

in the end, he's a fish and i'm a bull. i can be pretty cryptic myself but he has mastered it. i love the poetry, i love the depth, but sometimes i just want him to surface so that i can hear and see him clearly.

Posted by AA
Your a Taurus? You should persist. Why don't you persist?

aye nugglenuts!

how are you? i miss our random chats on yahoo.



and i meant, "the ocean..." was NOT a real statement by him. just used it to demo how it comes across to me.

It is annoying when a pisces wallows in his own self pity

random but informative.

Your pretty crypitc yourself tbh, but that's because you do what you do...

"i can be pretty cryptic myself"

HEY! i missed this 😛 SNAP!



sounds like sch a typical Pisces it's unreal. I'm quite simple so when i get trapped in one these shall we say, predicaments? I just laugh. lol cuz it's usually funy to me, and that's usually fine i hink

JESUS *puts pint glass down*

Maybe it's a manipulation tactic? Who knows but you shouldn't have to deal with it.


At the end of the day Pisces come across as all sweet and emotionally abused band innocent but as soon as you turn the corner their usually fucking the next person they see. Deception and shape shifting are their best weapons.

Next time he does that Caligula just be firm and tell him deal with it,

But if you like it then hey? who a, i to say what and what you don't like. I can the nice side tbh

except for P Angel, now she's got a nice pair of balls..

Posted by AA
Maybe it's a manipulation tactic? Who knows but you shouldn't have to deal with it.


At the end of the day Pisces come across as all sweet and emotionally abused band innocent but as soon as you turn the corner their usually fucking the next person they see. Deception and shape shifting are their best weapons.

Next time he does that Caligula just be firm and tell him deal with it,

But if you like it then hey? who a, i to say what and what you don't like. I can the nice side tbh

well the manipulation bit, i think there's something there.

all water signs manipulate others with their emotions. when they're in a dark space, they expand the clouds such that it's hard not to be in their dark shadows.

Catfish doesn't typically do this with me and I don't think he's doing it now. he is witholding something though because he's normally able to speak very clearly when asked.

Posted by ellessque
lol...it's true. *shrugs*

my pisces son's responses were often the same if I asked him what was wrong or something as simple as "what's on your mind?" and his brother has came to the conclusion his brother was the inventer of the word "emo" in a past life.

regardless...they are some of the best people walking this earth.

i think it makes Catfish feel bad because at times when he thinks he's being as transparent as possible, it comes out garbled to others. in my case, he probably thinks that i'm just being a dense, earth sign.

either way, i'm trying to walk a fine line of saying, "i'm not trying to criticize you but i need you to break this down for me more. THINK don't FEEL your way through your response. in short...be more virgo *shudders*"

all water signs are emotionally manipulative because as the OP states, when asked directly, "what the fuck is wrong with you," they respond with emotion instead of simple stating, "this is what's wrong." do they do it all the time? no. but during those times when they do not clearly express to their partner or to the person who is causing them emodistress what the problem is, they are being emotionally manipulative and we have a term for this...bitch.

Catfish has yet to do this in such a way that it has caused a problem. my pisces bff on the otherhand, i've witnessed her do it myself.

1. there's something wrong.

2. there's clearly something wrong because she's not speaking and emotionally/verbally/physically distant.

3. this distance creates tension.

4. instead of approaching the person she's upset with, she assumes, "you should know why i'm upset."

5. maybe the person knows or maybe they don't. maybe there's so much wrong right now that the person can't tell if it's the trash, the baby bottles in the sink or did they forget an anniversary—

6. when asked directly, "what's wrong with you?" you get a verbal/physical/emotional dodge.

verbal- stops talking, lies and says there's nothing wrong, speaks in riddles or emothreats
physical- goes to their room, isolates themselves physically in some way
emotional- crying or anger



what this does for a partner who cares is renders them helpless. they can't soothe the water sign because the water sign has create every barrier possible to resolve the issue...

you're upset. you won't tell me what's wrong. you won't let me see you. when we do talk, you begin crying or ranting. what the fuck am i supposed to do but be held hostage to your emotions? if i care about you, i care that you're hurting and i care that i'm the one causing that hurt and if i'm not clear as to what's going on, i will fall into the trap of trying to fix something that's not broken. the issue isn't the issue...there's something in the water.

Sometimes I can't precisely pinpoint a feeling or emotion, sometimes it's a combination of conflicting ones. And fishing it out is kind of like trying to capture a cup of water from that Pisces Ocean.. with a net. For this task, I have to locate my vessel, or at the very least a spoon... but where did I put it, damnit? And trust that I will find my dipping vessel.. or a spoon.. but it won't magically appear (VOILA!) just cuz you asked me to pinpoint what was going on. Right now I'm patting my pockets.. where DID I put that effing SPOON?! And while I'm frantically patting, you're getting more angry and upset because I'm still using that stupid net, the only tool I have right now... and I'm not "making sense".. it's not all neat, concrete, linear.. it's all so VAGUE and muddled! I'm doing my best to share it with you.. but I can tell I'm failing miserably. *sadface*

Trust that I can/WILL work most or all of it out myself. I'm fairly adept at this emotions thing.. feeling, if not expressing (CLEARLY!).. Been living with them all my life, understand and accept the slippery way they shift and move. I've got this, I can do it. Please just be patient a little longer, I know I'm confusing, I know I'm not like you...

You asked me, you showed care and concern... I feel loved! If only you don't get angry because I can't/won't do it the way you would.. oh, if only.. then you would be accepting me.. then I feel ADORED... and what's this? Oh, who needs a spoon? I can just cup my hands! Ahhhh.

DISCLAIMER - Pisces take TIME to let you in, to REVEAL our inner world to you (he's TRYING.. and WOW, that's awesome!).. and the length varies.. each person gets their own timeline, and most never reach the Finish Line. (Sorry.) He's a MAN on top of Pisces.. maybe he's NOT great at identifying emotions.. and maybe he's the kind of Fish that WON'T share his handful of water with you... I don't share with everyone, oh no. SO rare! Only the MOST special and beloved. Usually I'll sip it myself, quench my thirst and process it, and go on from there.. like nothing happened.. cuz nothing earth-shattering did! It's just a FEELING.. it's just THERE.. then it's gone or shifted or simply not URGENT. I won't hold onto it obsessively, that weird thing that happened when I was feeling "off" or "down" or "weird" and couldn't stop "speaking marine" and make you understand. But I'll love that you asked, that you cared. And you'll be one step closer to the Finish Line.

... TWO steps closer, if you didn't get angry and therefore make me feel bad or wrong for just being the way I am, just being different from you!

Also, I'd like to point out.. the Pisces Ocean is not merely blue or green.. it's not a definable color at all.. it's kaleidoscope.. and even if we scoop out a cupful or spoonful of our Water to share with you.. it's STILL going to be kaleidoscope! The Water didn't turn blue or green or clear just because it's a smaller amount... so the spoonful we share with you won't taste any different than the whole fathomless Ocean does!

Posted by Claire


In such a situation, you having the 'other persons view', would you be unsure as to whether or not you should decide they are being manipulative or not?

SEE!

TRANSLATE!

FUCK!

@Nefer,

Can I be your e-bitch?

Whenever you explain things, it becomes MUCH clearer.

It wasn't that I didn't understand what he was trying to communicate but it was muddled. It made me doubt if I was hearing him correctly. When I would get close, he's switch it on me. It was literally like he was speaking "underwater" and telling me the water was blue, then clear, then green...

Ironically, *sadface*...that's how we left it last night. I know he felt bad because he knew I was trying but he couldn't help me understand him better than he already had.

Maybe it's because you're a chick and can lay it out but he IS a MAN and will hedge for fear of being perceived as someone who does anything other than grunt and scratch things.

For those who have never dealt with a Pisces in-depth or intimately, this will make no sense. But for those of us who have, OMG! At times I feel like I need a support group...or some fish-bull translator...Nefer-on-Call.

Yesterday there was so much silence...on both our parts.


Me: When you brought up that incident again, after I apologized...twice, I don't think that's fair. You say it's evidence that I'm not considering your feelings but I do and have. There's no way for me to undo what I did. It was inconsiderate and given that particular issue, there's no way for me to make up for it. It's not something that I can improve upon. It was isolated but I feel like you've written this event on the slate of our relationship and I will be reminded of it for life. So yeah, I've given up trying to change your mind and I won't let you use it against me.

Him: Don't consider that incident. I do accept your apology. I was trying to make a point but that's not the point. We don't even need to talk about that anymore.

Me: Over now? It was less than an hour ago. It's what prompted this conversation. You lay a bomb at my feet and want me to forget it?

Him: Silence

Me: Silence...then, so what are we talking about?

Him: Silence



UGH!

^WATER!!!!

EEP!

Prince, you're a MAN and by default don't know what an emotion is.

lmao 😄

but vanity is a state of being, not an emotion. how much libra do you have in your chart 😛

SO glad I could help.. after I wrote it, I wondered if my "marine speak" and imagery would further muddy the waters. I speak the way I think, and have had to work HARD to learn to process, filter, and express it in a way more comprehensible to a non-Fish... but I simply cannot escape the imagery. I think in feelings, images, and abstracts.. swimming in that Pisces Ocean of everythingnothing.. they don't translate very well to a linear plane.

Tubby, I think you and Catfish are fantastic, truly. Plus, I love your quirky humor, LOVE the way you write it out, LOVE hearing the "other side" speak about it. Your relationship will never be remotely "EASY" (NO Pisces relationship ever is, not with ANY sign!!)... extra effort to understand each other's ways and means will be needed... but oh, you two have something that curls my toes!

Do tell.. IS he a Pisces Mercury?

Posted by caligula
lmao 😄

but vanity is a state of being, not an emotion. how much libra do you have in your chart 😛

How much LEO though? haha

I don't find most Libras overly vain (more often insecure underneath a friendly, social persona).. that would be unseemly and rude.. but Leos revel in their vanity 😉

No. I will have to look at his chart again but I know it's an Air sign. Either Aqua or Gem.

The "other worldly" responses don't bother me much. I discovered recently that the 2nd dominant sign in my chart behind Aries is Pisces. I have been told that I don't speak clearly but I can turn it on/off far more readily. So it only becomes a problem when he's contemplating his thoughts out loud and those thoughts have some relevance with respect to me.

Not the best example but...Like if someone is talking about how "all" women/men are bitches/dogs, and you're sitting there thinking, "Wait! I'm a woman! What the fuck are you trying to say—"

I know that he's thinking out loud and trying to let me in to his world. I don't want to make him feel as if he needs to shelter himself from my judgment (my confusion/sensitivity comes across as judgment) but I also don't want to be in a situation where he's trying to verbalize a problem that he hasn't identified clearly and I shut him down. Or worse, I continue doing behavior "xyz" which is prompting these thoughts and one day he says, "Eureka! Now I know why I fucking hate you! I'm leaving! OUT!"

I think, and I could be wrong, that's why Pisces men in particular (the women too) are notorious for abrupt departures. By the time they're able to see it clearly for themselves, they've already gathered enough "evidence" of the behavior that they feel there's no need to stay/work it out. For them, they have communicated "what's wrong" all along...their partner "should've known what's wrong" but the reality is, clueless!

In the beginning, the partner is most likely to try to make it better but will come to realize/believe/feel there's no point in swimming to the depths of because aint shit down there but more water and darkness. When Pisces sees clearly, it's easier for you to see clearly. Ultimately, the Pisces feels neglected/taken for granted by this lack of swimmability. The partner feels manipulated and exasperated for swimming all the way into the abyss only to surface with the same issues.

I don't see this for us as we communicate very well but when we don't like this rare occasion, I want it figured out...resolved and I want it done as close to the surface as possible. You can only chase a water sign but so far before you need to breathe.

libras are vain (to me). sure, there's a degree of insecurity about it but try to explain to them why someone doesn't worship them and it's like asking a doorknob to turn.

I think, and I could be wrong, that's why Pisces men in particular (the women too) are notorious for abrupt departures. By the time they're able to see it clearly for themselves, they've already gathered enough "evidence" of the behavior that they feel there's no need to stay/work it out. For them, they have communicated "what's wrong" all along...their partner "should've known what's wrong" but the reality is, clueless!

ZOINKS! That girl's a gee-nee-uss! THAT'S the EXACT reason I put myself upon the Herculean task of turning (kaleidoscope) Water into something others could see too, sand or mud or concrete or hell, even bubbles, whatever. Just something visible!.. I THOUGHT I was communicating VERY succinctly, VERY clearly.. but they weren't GETTING it, over and over and over.. and would call my (finally!) departure "abrupt" and "Unexpected".. it happened enough that I knew it was something *I* was doing ineffectively, something that had to be changed IF I wanted better communication.



PrincePisces.. Mmm let me rephrase - MOST PEOPLE are vain (admittedly to varying degrees, and those with NONE seem to also lack self-respect and esteem and confidence, etc.. damaged).. Leos are unashamed of their vanity (Like YOU, PP!). Libras are more likely to try to gloss their vanity, to balance it, to not be rude or uncouth (I say your Leeb girl has some FIRE in her Venus/Mars!)... Pisces are apt to say, "It's just part of me you need to accept" but feel bad if it hurt you - and maybe wonder if they're fucked up. Taurus.. "So? And your point is? Like it or lump it." teehee

Oh.. I read something wrong.. sorry.. ass-kissery does seem quite common with some Leebs.. they're people pleasers, try to make everyone happy.. esp young ones, before they learn that they can't please everyone and will go crazy if they try.

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Posted by caligula
@Nefer,

Can I be your e-bitch?

😕

TRAITOR!!!

😢

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You can BOTH have me. 😉

lol @Prince. I sort of know a libra like that. She won't shun ugly people. She just happens to align herself with beautiful people 😉

@Nefer, ok great. That's the last message I left him with. That I could see where this was going even if he couldn't. I sense that there is something in me that he would like me to correct but he's being too...accommodating? too piscean and he's unknowingly bending/wavering/sacrificing...seeing where he may be faltering instead of recognizing that the issue might also be within me.

He loves me and doesn't want to hurt me. He recognizes that I've had enough of that but just because I was hurt before doesn't mean that he's responsible for making me whole. It bothers me that he acts as if that's his responsibility. I have a role in this too!

I don't want him to bend alone. I don't want him to accommodate me unknowingly. If he's making an effort, I want to make one as well. Pisces does emotional solitude better than any other due to the 12 House and I know this type of reaction when I see it because I do it so well myself.

In other words, I don't want to lose my relationship tomorrow because I failed to understand the root of the problem today. I feel that if we can't correct these issues now, they will ultimately lead to our demise. I don't think he sees it that way. He's internalizing far too much and where it's natural for fish (climbing on crosses), that doesn't make it right.

Fish may be capable of sacrifice...doesn't mean they have to.

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Posted by caligula
@Nefer,

Can I be your e-bitch?

😕

TRAITOR!!!

😢

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you have your head in air.

i'm partial to "water heads" at the moment.

i might be able to fit you in every other, Other, OTHER weds night between 02:38-03:41 though.

or is it your Ass in the Air?


hmm...

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Posted by caligula
@Nefer,

Can I be your e-bitch?

😕

TRAITOR!!!

😢

you have your head in air.

i'm partial to "water heads" at the moment.

i might be able to fit you in every other, Other, OTHER weds night between 02:38-03:41 though.

I dont get it—

Why arent you worshipping me?

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because it smells fishy?

i suppose we could do that but i'm not sure what we would be wrestling over...

oh...sex?

eh 😛

Tubby.. I wouldn't be too concerned that this episode is a "nail in the coffin".. he SAID don't dwell on it (that's NOT chit chat or patronizing or glossing or just putting up with it.. when I say let it go, cuz I did.. I DID!).. like I said.. he showed you a cupped handful of Water.. you saw a bomb dropped at your feet (he was sooo moody and in his head and being an emo-bitch and so effing confusing!)... honest, it wasn't a bomb.. nothing blew up.. the moment has passed, it's not URGENT.. and it's not being held against you cuz we KNOW others struggle to "get" us... yes, it or something similar may resurface... but you will get more than one chance to "get it" with a Pisces.. we'll beat you (and us both) over the head with it, trying to get you to understand "what's wrong" or how this THING you say/do bothers us... if we're too damaged or can't communicate effectively and it gets lost in translation, sure it's like beating our head against a wall and we eventually jump stream.. felt like it took forever to reach that point to us.. to you it was so sudden..

.. but I doubt this will be an issue for you, beyond the garden-variety relationship type occasional Men & Women bumped heads and miscommunication stuff... you said Catfish doesn't often do this in his Ocean water-head kaleidoscope making-a-point-but-you-aren't-getting-it-I-give-up thing... you and he have generally good communication.. that TRUMPS the whole Pisces: "I've said it a million times a million ways and you should by now KNOW what the problem is! Good bye! *swish*" -- Non-Fish: "Tha Fuck just happened? Wait.. WHAT?! You never told me ANYTHING! None of it made sense! I thought everything was fine, you moody fuckin' fish! GRRR!"

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Posted by Claire


In such a situation, you having the 'other persons view', would you be unsure as to whether or not you should decide they are being manipulative or not?

SEE!

TRANSLATE!

FUCK!

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Translation: You are not me.. so can you REALLY say whether or not I'm actually being (intentionally) manipulative? Maybe you just aren't picking up what I'm throwing down. (Maybe it's simple miscommunication. Maybe it's me, maybe it's you, probably it's just both of us. Maybe we try another way? I'm down for that.. are you?)

Thanks Nefer.

ok, I'll relax.

It's a control issue on my part and I'm sure you understand that well with all of your TAU placements. If there's a problem, I want to fix it too because any weaknesses in the foundation threaten my security and ain't nothin about that kosher.

He did say let it go and I guess I have to trust that that's indeed what he would like for us to do. I just know for me that if you tell me to let something go and it comes back to slap me in the face months later, I begin to check out myself.

Either way, water signs are weird. Fishies are weirder.

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Posted by Claire


In such a situation, you having the 'other persons view', would you be unsure as to whether or not you should decide they are being manipulative or not?

SEE!

TRANSLATE!

FUCK!

Translation: You are not me.. so can you REALLY say whether or not I'm actually being (intentionally) manipulative? Maybe you just aren't picking up what I'm throwing down. (Maybe it's simple miscommunication. Maybe it's me, maybe it's you, probably it's just both of us. Maybe we try another way? I'm down for that.. are you?)

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nah, it's manipulation more often than not.

with maturity i've come to realize that women have a way about us that we create issues where there need not be any...in our youth. we want grand proclamations of love. we want the knight in shining armor who slays dragons and shit. so we create facsimiles of these fairytales with made up drama with immature "men" and subsequently wonder why he brought at .22 to slay 100ft dragon. wtf was he thinking?

there are times when there's drama in my current relationship that's based on a simple misunderstanding that i have to literally ask myself, "is your anger/frustration/sadness/drama" in this moment worth losing him? the answer is inevitably "no" and where the immature me would've prolonged the drama, the mature me picks up the phone and bridges the gap. the mature me, deals with it rather than complicates it with distances and bullshit.

in the end, intentionally or unintentionally, we have choices. mature folk recognize them and act upon them...for the betterment of themselves and their relationships. immature folk act blindly and wonder what the fuck went wrong.

HAHA Indeed on the heavy TAU.. another of my great challenges.. to loosen my iron control, to learn to just BE, to let some things flow, ride out the storm (in a teacup!) I can't run everything, though I'm capable it's exhausting and unnecessary and unmans my man!.. and everything doesn't need to be FIXED NOW DAMNIT! Pisces don't expect perfection (except maybe from ourselves?) and not everything is "broken" and needs fixed.. maybe we like this dynamic we have going on.. if it's a problem trust me, we'll let you know and it WILL resurface.

That's why people alternate between saying Fish are martyrs and stay too long.. and Fish are cold and disappear suddenly. We're BOTH.. depending on your pov, and if you were picking up on what we were throwing down.. sometimes outsiders see it more clearly.. "You martyr! You'll put up with anything!".. but if one doesn't see where the kaleidescope translation broke.. then it's as cold and sudden as a light switch

yeah, that's about the only thing he said clearly. he told me that if there was something that truly bothered him, he wouldn't pull punches. he reassured me of this a few times and where i believe he's being truthful in the moment, fishies aren't fixed 😛

all in all, i wish i had taken the time to delve into the depths of astrology years ago. i think before i was playing at it and in this relationship, i'm actually making a conscious effort to figure the other person out while simultaneously understanding myself...unjaded. i want the good times to remain and the "reality"/mundane times to be few. with him, i think all things are possible so we will see.

thanks Nefer. you have done it again and I know when I tell him about what you've said, he's going to echo my sentiment...

That's one fly ass bitch 😉

Danke!

and your manipulation.

so you're a passive aggressive bitch ian. glad you admit it.

which is why i said it.

back to the toilet you!

*flush*

My Pisces bff had an Aries moon (thank God)
He didn't pull this often shit...he would either just completely pretend nothing was wrong, or straight up tell me I wouldn't understand if he told me anyways. He didn't bother with all the cryptic nonsense.
(but I still know what you mean, and it's annoying as fuck.)


*shrugs*

I always just let him bask in it. I didn't have the time, or desire to prod. He came to realize this and started speaking his mind more.