Moscow clubs capitalize on lonely women starved for affection.

Women sitting alone together in a cafe would not give most observers pause, but in Russia, a group of women alone acts as a reminder of the country's deficiency in marriageable men. Lonely Russian women are commonplace in Moscow and other major Russian cities where men are dramatically outnumbered by the opposite sex. Mothers and daughters alike bemoan the lack of options available to them romantically. Men are not only scarce, but a good one is next to impossible to find.

Men in Russia are prone to alcoholism, unemployment, and abuse. Generations of women in Russia have witnessed the decline of the Russian man. Complaints about men's rudderless existence and poor treatment of women have become a mainstay for gatherings of women, whether at home, at work, or in a social setting. Wherever women gather, the subject of men is not far behind. Some of these women have taken to dressing the part of the jilted lover awaiting rescue, donning dramatic gowns, complete with stiletto heels as they await their knight in shining armor. A knight that few Russian women continue to believe in or have any hope left will actually materialize.

Most women regale past experiences with men with very few pleasant memories. Even women that have been fortunate enough to be involved in a romance, the love quickly sours and is often replaced by resentment, disillusionment, and unhappiness. Russian women wish to be wined and dined and made to feel special. However, even promising men disappoint these notions, causing women to grow hardened as their hope of love and happily-ever-after slowly fades.

The first experience with men a Russian woman remembers is usually her father. Unfortunately, most of these fathers were of no better than the men available for dating at present. Russian women are often raised bearing witness to drunken fathers, heavy drinking, financial insecurities due to lack of motivation to work, and verbal and physical abuse against their mothers. These formative memories create the foundation for a lifelong distrust of men in general, and each subsequent undesirable male encountered is further evidence that the female opinion of Russian men is justified.

To answer the demand for good, decent men, clubs have been emerging across Russia to provide women with the means the experiences they have long craved. One club, Marusia, has taken the concept a step further. Many clubs will have male-based entertainment for women to enjoy. Marusia offers services for women to be in close proximity, if not actual contact, with a desirable man. Women may pay between a few hundred to a couple thousand dollars for the privilege of cuddling with male employees for the experience of closeness and physical connection they cannot find elsewhere.

Starved for affection and love, some patrons of Marusia will request men to spend time with in private rooms. 50% of Russian women are single, with few prospects of a lasting relationship on the horizon. Marusia and clubs like it help these women fill a void, even for a few hours before they resume their search for men that can step into the role of lover, partner, and provider.

Many Russian women consider their future bleak, as the hopes of marriage and companionship become less likely. Some critics believe that these situations are, in some part, created by the women themselves, citing that Russian women are too obsessed with finances and fairy tales. It could be argued in their defenses, that as the lonely fates of these Russian women looms over their heads, cynicism increases and practicality prevail, and the romantic ideals of the past morph into merely desires to be cared for.

Russian women have begun to turn to mail order bride sites to find a husband . Companies like A Foreign Affair have been capitalizing on the demand for marriage minded husbands. Every month they bring groups of men to Russian and the Ukraine. The women attend what A Foreign Affair calls a social, hundreds of young beautiful Russian women attend these events with the hope to get the chances to meet one of 25 or so men that have traveled from the USA or Europe. 23 Year old Olga from Odessa says, "I have given up looking for a man in the Ukraine, I have no problem finding a date, but finding a man I would want to be the father of my children is a completely different thing. I want a man my children can admire and respect. I want a man that will be by friend, my soul mate and my lover"

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@RamOfPeace

I'm here for you, bae

Posted by enfant_terrible
@RamOfPeace

I'm here for you, bae

I flew through that trash city once or twice in my life, but I'll call/text/pm you when I feel the need for affection next time I'm in EU 😆

@OP

Controversial article posting is strongly encouraged on dxp, but it's seldom close to truth.

wow that's sad. it's because of all the men dying in wars, and so many soldiers taken away....

there's not enough to populate anymore, and the women are left with no man around. or less...



I remember reading about China having a HUGE problem with overpopulation of men over women...



Chinese men could emigrate to Russia or Russian women could go to China.

Austrailia I read has too many women too, '

China has a huge population....BILLIONS.



I remember DJ talking about the China man.....it seemed like he was promoting them.

it was a good cause perhaps (his Gemini mars/Libra mars fighting for the partnership cause?)

60 % , or 70 % men over ratio.....30 % women!!!

watch this video...

the guy in the video is complaining about Chinese women going for foreigners but that don't make any sense at all!!!!

especially if he said specificially that the men ratio is 70% percent OVER women....

there's just NOT ENOUGH women.

I guess the drive to sell yourself as a bride overseas makes sense now. I mean imagine Stalin as a father or lover :/

what when all these womenski discover DXP?

but I'm pretty sure the OP is just trying to advertize for his russian brides business

Yeah this seems like an advertisement for Russian women - whatever - I knew some guy that was into that and then she wanted to bring her entire family over - he worked hard, had a good job but not a lot of disposable income because he had a big house - after months of talking we finally hit the sheets - only for me to find out afterwards that he was into this russian girl who he took on vacation to the caribbean the year prior - hoping to go again some day again to get to know her better lol - I dumped his sorry ass and still think about that and hope he is getting what he deserves - that she moved here with all her family and was living in his house and now she's gone and the family is still there driving him insane LOL !