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I don't know what to do anymore. Capricorn boyfriend. (Page 2)
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He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
M
Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...
That's not always the case with us (Sags).
This is the problem with mutables, we come and go as we please and expect people to stick around lol The ones that do, are the ones who usually end up getting us. Consistency is really the key with Sagittarius. I don't see this as much of an issue, if she can back off a little and be a little more secure that things will be fine.click to expand
God no
Sounds like a one way street. Life is too short to stick around for someone
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
M
Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...
That's not always the case with us (Sags).
This is the problem with mutables, we come and go as we please and expect people to stick around lol The ones that do, are the ones who usually end up getting us. Consistency is really the key with Sagittarius. I don't see this as much of an issue, if she can back off a little and be a little more secure that things will be fine.
God no
Sounds like a one way street. Life is too short to stick around for someoneclick to expand
I'm basing my opinion on what the OP has said from the previous times. Not just this one. But either way she will know soon enough. It will either get better or go down hill from here. 2 months top, and things should be clear as day for her.
Obviously doesn’t give a shit about how you feel or he would have met you halfway he’s getting a kick out of your pain. There is nothing left to talk about .
Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
M
Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...
That's not always the case with us (Sags).
This is the problem with mutables, we come and go as we please and expect people to stick around lol The ones that do, are the ones who usually end up getting us. Consistency is really the key with Sagittarius. I don't see this as much of an issue, if she can back off a little and be a little more secure that things will be fine.click to expand
You don't see the heavy emotional texts as much of an issue? That's good to hear. Honestly there have been times in the past when I sent him even heavier texts and he came back to me after I gave him space (Touchwood) I'm really worried this time coz coz all this (me being clingy and doing things he doesn't like) has been happening for quite a few days now and I'm afraid he's lost patience with me now. I hope he hasn't though. I so hope😭😭
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
M
Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...click to expand
That's not always the case with us (Sags).
This is the problem with mutables, we come and go as we please and expect people to stick around lol The ones that do, are the ones who usually end up getting us. Consistency is really the key with Sagittarius. I don't see this as much of an issue, if she can back off a little and be a little more secure that things will be fine.
God no
Sounds like a one way street. Life is too short to stick around for someone
I'm basing my opinion on what the OP has said from the previous times. Not just this one. But either way she will know soon enough. It will either get better or go down hill from here. 2 months top, and things should be clear as day for her.
Didn't you advice me to wait like 2-3 weeks? 😢
Posted by Gobby
Has anyone asked her what her Venus is? I really can't be bothered to wade through this thread...
Taurus
Posted by LaPetiteEtoile
I’m a little confused because it looks like she’s talking about herself as not being the OP and she’s a Sag with a Taurus Venus which is impossible. I don’t really want to go back and re read.
Pisces sun
Aries Moon
Taurus Venus
I think?
Posted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by LaPetiteEtoile
I’m a little confused because it looks like she’s talking about herself as not being the OP and she’s a Sag with a Taurus Venus which is impossible. I don’t really want to go back and re read.
Pisces sun
Aries Moon
Taurus Venus
I think?
Why is she talking about herself like she’s a Sag?!?click to expand
I’m not really sure? Maybe I read it wrong. Will check back again
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He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
M
Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...
Didn't you advice me to wait like 2-3 weeks? 😢click to expand
Yes, 2 to 3 weeks is good, but you will know the status of things soon enough, If they don't get back on track after the space.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LaPetiteEtoile
I’m a little confused because it looks like she’s talking about herself as not being the OP and she’s a Sag with a Taurus Venus which is impossible. I don’t really want to go back and re read.
Pisces sun
Aries Moon
Taurus Venus
I think?click to expand
True
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by LaPetiteEtoile
I’m a little confused because it looks like she’s talking about herself as not being the OP and she’s a Sag with a Taurus Venus which is impossible. I don’t really want to go back and re read.
Pisces sun
Aries Moon
Taurus Venus
I think?
Why is she talking about herself like she’s a Sag?!?
I’m not really sure? Maybe I read it wrong. Will check back againclick to expand
You're right. That's what it is. My boyfriend is Cappricorn Venus, Sag sun, and Aries moon
Posted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by LaPetiteEtoile
I’m a little confused because it looks like she’s talking about herself as not being the OP and she’s a Sag with a Taurus Venus which is impossible. I don’t really want to go back and re read.
Pisces sun
Aries Moon
Taurus Venus
I think?
Why is she talking about herself like she’s a Sag?!?click to expand
Am I really?
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He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
M
Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...
Didn't you advice me to wait like 2-3 weeks? 😢
Yes, 2 to 3 weeks is good, but you will know the status of things soon enough, If they don't get back on track after the space.click to expand
I hope they do. Please wish me luck. I quoted you in another comment, too. Did you read that?
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He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
M
Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...
I do not think so.
It takes a few seconds to answer a textclick to expand
Yes but a person's emotional state matters too. I guess I wasn't being receptive of his need for space.
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He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
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Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...
I do not think so.
It takes a few seconds to answer a text
Yes but a person's emotional state matters too. I guess I wasn't being receptive of his need for space.click to expand
So be receptive now and leave the guy alone...
Posted by FantaPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by LaPetiteEtoile
I’m a little confused because it looks like she’s talking about herself as not being the OP and she’s a Sag with a Taurus Venus which is impossible. I don’t really want to go back and re read.
Pisces sun
Aries Moon
Taurus Venus
I think?
Why is she talking about herself like she’s a Sag?!?
Am I really?
In one of your posts you quoted Saggurl and the quote screwed up, so it looks like you're saying what she was saying.click to expand
Sorry you lost me. May b I missed something
"You don't see the heavy emotional texts as much of an issue? That's good to hear. Honestly there have been times in the past when I sent him even heavier texts and he came back to me after I gave him space (Touchwood) I'm really worried this time coz coz all this (me being clingy and doing things he doesn't like) has been happening for quite a few days now and I'm afraid he's lost patience with me now. I hope he hasn't though. I so hope😭😭"
My answer-
I didn't say that. Everyone wants to be cared for, so it's not a big deal. Too much of it is sometimes, it can get overwhelming. It's nice that you miss him. BUT, he needs to miss you.
I do wish you luck. Hopefully, with space, it will get clearer for the both of you. Space will either let you let go or make you miss the person (for anyone).
Which is why I mentioned that you would have your answer to the whole relationship in a couple of months. Whether it will be done or not.
My answer-
I didn't say that. Everyone wants to be cared for, so it's not a big deal. Too much of it is sometimes, it can get overwhelming. It's nice that you miss him. BUT, he needs to miss you.
I do wish you luck. Hopefully, with space, it will get clearer for the both of you. Space will either let you let go or make you miss the person (for anyone).
Which is why I mentioned that you would have your answer to the whole relationship in a couple of months. Whether it will be done or not.
Posted by saggurl88
"You don't see the heavy emotional texts as much of an issue? That's good to hear. Honestly there have been times in the past when I sent him even heavier texts and he came back to me after I gave him space (Touchwood) I'm really worried this time coz coz all this (me being clingy and doing things he doesn't like) has been happening for quite a few days now and I'm afraid he's lost patience with me now. I hope he hasn't though. I so hope😭😭"
My answer-
I didn't say that. Everyone wants to be cared for, so it's not a big deal. Too much of it is sometimes, it can get overwhelming. It's nice that you miss him. BUT, he needs to miss you.
I do wish you luck. Hopefully, with space, it will get clearer for the both of you. Space will either let you let go or make you miss the person (for anyone).
Which is why I mentioned that you would have your answer to the whole relationship in a couple of months. Whether it will be done or not.
I get it, thanks. Now I'm gonna just wait and hope for him to come back to me like he always has in the past🤞 Hope I find the patience to wait. Thanks for all your help. You're a good person 🙂
Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
"You don't see the heavy emotional texts as much of an issue? That's good to hear. Honestly there have been times in the past when I sent him even heavier texts and he came back to me after I gave him space (Touchwood) I'm really worried this time coz coz all this (me being clingy and doing things he doesn't like) has been happening for quite a few days now and I'm afraid he's lost patience with me now. I hope he hasn't though. I so hope😭😭"
My answer-
I didn't say that. Everyone wants to be cared for, so it's not a big deal. Too much of it is sometimes, it can get overwhelming. It's nice that you miss him. BUT, he needs to miss you.
I do wish you luck. Hopefully, with space, it will get clearer for the both of you. Space will either let you let go or make you miss the person (for anyone).
Which is why I mentioned that you would have your answer to the whole relationship in a couple of months. Whether it will be done or not.
I get it, thanks. Now I'm gonna just wait and hope for him to come back to me like he always has in the past🤞 Hope I find the patience to wait. Thanks for all your help. You're a good person 🙂click to expand
You're welcome and good luck! I hope it works out! 🤗
Posted by bad_at_usernames
Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
Ok gurl you really need to chill tf out.
When you first posted about your man not being responsive you made it sound like hes ghosting you.
But that really isn't the case.
He's communicated with you that he is extremely busy atm and even went as far as to tell you the exact date when he'll be more available.
In light of that texting him repeatedly and asking him to call you does seem a bit needy.
Going forward my advice would be to text only 1x per day (or less). And these texts should be of a nature where he doesn't need to respond back. Like, "good morning, hope you are clinging to your sanity in quarantine. Have a great day"
You know, encouraging light messages. Don't dreg up your past offenses.
Also work on trusting your partner. He said he's busy with work. Believe him.
It doesn't mean he's avoiding you because of a misstep he told you he's forgiven.
I'm also pisces sun, aries moon, and Taurus venus.
And I can sometimes get in my head when the communication isn't constant and start thinking the worst. I think its the Taurus ven. We crave the constant affection and connection.
Posted by ItsSupes2Posted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83
He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundariesclick to expand
....and admitting they’re in the wrong 😐
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernames
Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
Ok gurl you really need to chill tf out.
When you first posted about your man not being responsive you made it sound like hes ghosting you.
But that really isn't the case.
He's communicated with you that he is extremely busy atm and even went as far as to tell you the exact date when he'll be more available.
In light of that texting him repeatedly and asking him to call you does seem a bit needy.
Going forward my advice would be to text only 1x per day (or less). And these texts should be of a nature where he doesn't need to respond back. Like, "good morning, hope you are clinging to your sanity in quarantine. Have a great day"
You know, encouraging light messages. Don't dreg up your past offenses.
Also work on trusting your partner. He said he's busy with work. Believe him.
It doesn't mean he's avoiding you because of a misstep he told you he's forgiven.
I'm also pisces sun, aries moon, and Taurus venus.
And I can sometimes get in my head when the communication isn't constant and start thinking the worst. I think its the Taurus ven. We crave the constant affection and connection.click to expand
I agree with you 100% . I"m just going to give him space now and wait for him to reach out. I've also signed up for therapy now. I'm hoping that'll help 🙂 Thanks.
Sounds like a two way abusive relationship.
In a perfect world you'd get a life and he'd care more about your feelings.
In a perfect world you'd get a life and he'd care more about your feelings.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
"You don't see the heavy emotional texts as much of an issue? That's good to hear. Honestly there have been times in the past when I sent him even heavier texts and he came back to me after I gave him space (Touchwood) I'm really worried this time coz coz all this (me being clingy and doing things he doesn't like) has been happening for quite a few days now and I'm afraid he's lost patience with me now. I hope he hasn't though. I so hope😭😭"
My answer-
I didn't say that. Everyone wants to be cared for, so it's not a big deal. Too much of it is sometimes, it can get overwhelming. It's nice that you miss him. BUT, he needs to miss you.
I do wish you luck. Hopefully, with space, it will get clearer for the both of you. Space will either let you let go or make you miss the person (for anyone).
Which is why I mentioned that you would have your answer to the whole relationship in a couple of months. Whether it will be done or not.
I get it, thanks. Now I'm gonna just wait and hope for him to come back to me like he always has in the past🤞 Hope I find the patience to wait. Thanks for all your help. You're a good person 🙂
You're welcome and good luck! I hope it works out! 🤗click to expand
Thanks so much 🙂
Posted by Basorexia
Sounds like a two way abusive relationship.
In a perfect world you'd get a life and he'd care more about your feelings.
Yeah but it's not.
From one Pisces sun to another Pisced sun....
RELAX!
Give the man space! I know us Pisces can be very overwhelming to the spouses. We need either a spouse who can take it all inor a spouse who can man up and tell us straight to relax and stop being dramatic. I know with Sags, they take their time answering, they also move at their own pace, theydo the chasing. Not otherway around. If he cares about you, he will contact you.
Am also talking to a Sag, he told me right off.... dont go too fast! Dont give it all away right at the start. I let him control the pace. Yes its difficult but it is how it is.
Also, 1 tip.... when you tell a guy you need to talk about something, they lock up...and will worry what they done wrong. Next time, just send it in text. Or wait till time is ok. But do not tellahead of time thatyou need to talk. It scares them off and make em shut down.
But seriously girl... RELAX! ... get help for your anxiety. Its the best gift you can give yourself and for your relationship. I also have anxiety and panic disorder. I gotten therapy for it and helped me greatly.
RELAX!
Give the man space! I know us Pisces can be very overwhelming to the spouses. We need either a spouse who can take it all inor a spouse who can man up and tell us straight to relax and stop being dramatic. I know with Sags, they take their time answering, they also move at their own pace, theydo the chasing. Not otherway around. If he cares about you, he will contact you.
Am also talking to a Sag, he told me right off.... dont go too fast! Dont give it all away right at the start. I let him control the pace. Yes its difficult but it is how it is.
Also, 1 tip.... when you tell a guy you need to talk about something, they lock up...and will worry what they done wrong. Next time, just send it in text. Or wait till time is ok. But do not tellahead of time thatyou need to talk. It scares them off and make em shut down.
But seriously girl... RELAX! ... get help for your anxiety. Its the best gift you can give yourself and for your relationship. I also have anxiety and panic disorder. I gotten therapy for it and helped me greatly.
Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Basorexia
Sounds like a two way abusive relationship.
In a perfect world you'd get a life and he'd care more about your feelings.
Yeah but it's not.click to expand
Its not but you can still try.... to get a life.
And if things don't get better...give up trying with him?
Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Fanta
Do you keep saying he's Capricorn dominant so you can use that as an excuse for why he's ignoring you?
No offense, but you sound like a mess, as in, your posts sound like your head/heart space is all fucked up and volatile. You're desperately trying to convince him you're okay now, but you're not even convincing us. I think you need to stop. Let it go and refocus on the bigger issue...your emotional state. I say this as someone who has been in similar states.
I'm sry I couldn't understand what you said. Convince about what? Okay as in only me okay or him and I okay? What do I do just stop loving him, give up on him?click to expand
Reread it UNTIL you understand.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by Arielle83Posted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by ItsSupes2Posted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83
He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom
Yeah it’s suffocating
I find it selfish and controlling. I run the fuck away from people that push themselves on me. You know you won’t have any freedom or long term happiness because you’ll always have to make the clingy person happy. Needy people are miserable without sucking the life out of someoneclick to expand
Well now I've apologized for everything I've done more than once, chased him enough so he knows I care and am now waiting for him to contact out. There you have it, his long term happiness and what he wants.
Posted by saggurl88
"You don't see the heavy emotional texts as much of an issue? That's good to hear. Honestly there have been times in the past when I sent him even heavier texts and he came back to me after I gave him space (Touchwood) I'm really worried this time coz coz all this (me being clingy and doing things he doesn't like) has been happening for quite a few days now and I'm afraid he's lost patience with me now. I hope he hasn't though. I so hope😭😭"
My answer-
I didn't say that. Everyone wants to be cared for, so it's not a big deal. Too much of it is sometimes, it can get overwhelming. It's nice that you miss him. BUT, he needs to miss you.
I do wish you luck. Hopefully, with space, it will get clearer for the both of you. Space will either let you let go or make you miss the person (for anyone).
Which is why I mentioned that you would have your answer to the whole relationship in a couple of months. Whether it will be done or not.
Hey. Hope you're doing good today. Many ppl are advising me to wait for him to text me whereas you advised to drop a text in 2-3 week. I'm not sure what to do. In the past I've texted him after a few days and he's replied but I've still had to persuade him into getting completely normal. Only after a few more days since my text does he become his normal affectionate self. Thank God he does though🙏At this point, I do not have the courage to text and still see him distant and persuade him further. That'll just make me veryyyy sad. But you said they also want consistency. So will he get further mad or angry or whatever he's feeling right now if I don't text him myself?
Posted by Arielle83Posted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by ItsSupes2Posted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83
He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedomclick to expand
Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernames
Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
Ok gurl you really need to chill tf out.
When you first posted about your man not being responsive you made it sound like hes ghosting you.
But that really isn't the case.
He's communicated with you that he is extremely busy atm and even went as far as to tell you the exact date when he'll be more available.
In light of that texting him repeatedly and asking him to call you does seem a bit needy.
Going forward my advice would be to text only 1x per day (or less). And these texts should be of a nature where he doesn't need to respond back. Like, "good morning, hope you are clinging to your sanity in quarantine. Have a great day"
You know, encouraging light messages. Don't dreg up your past offenses.
Also work on trusting your partner. He said he's busy with work. Believe him.
It doesn't mean he's avoiding you because of a misstep he told you he's forgiven.
I'm also pisces sun, aries moon, and Taurus venus.
And I can sometimes get in my head when the communication isn't constant and start thinking the worst. I think its the Taurus ven. We crave the constant affection and connection.click to expand
Is it possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost all interest in me after I bugged him too much when he wanted space?
Have you put his chart up anywhere?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Have you put his chart up anywhere?
I don't know his exact chart. All I know is that he's sag sun, cap Venus and either Aries or Taurus moon
Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShine
Have you put his chart up anywhere?
I don't know his exact chart. All I know is that he's sag sun, cap Venus and either Aries or Taurus moonclick to expand
Just get his date time and place
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShine
Have you put his chart up anywhere?
I don't know his exact chart. All I know is that he's sag sun, cap Venus and either Aries or Taurus moon
Just get his date time and placeclick to expand
I don't know the time, I know the other two things. But anyway I don't know if I wanna go that deep into astrology.
Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShine
Have you put his chart up anywhere?
I don't know his exact chart. All I know is that he's sag sun, cap Venus and either Aries or Taurus moon
Just get his date time and place
I don't know the time, I know the other two things. But anyway I don't know if I wanna go that deep into astrology.click to expand
...i don’t blame you, it can be too revealing, especially the transits
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShine
Have you put his chart up anywhere?
I don't know his exact chart. All I know is that he's sag sun, cap Venus and either Aries or Taurus moon
Just get his date time and place
I don't know the time, I know the other two things. But anyway I don't know if I wanna go that deep into astrology.
...i don’t blame you, it can be too revealing, especially the transitsclick to expand
Yes and anyway I believe much more in God that he'll put everything in the right place for our relationship again irrespective of what astrology says. I just allow myself to come here to calm my nerves a bit.
Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShine
Have you put his chart up anywhere?
I don't know his exact chart. All I know is that he's sag sun, cap Venus and either Aries or Taurus moon
Just get his date time and place
I don't know the time, I know the other two things. But anyway I don't know if I wanna go that deep into astrology.
...i don’t blame you, it can be too revealing, especially the transits
Yes and anyway I believe much more in God that he'll put everything in the right place for our relationship again irrespective of what astrology says. I just allow myself to come here to calm my nerves a bit.click to expand
💚
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by MyStarsShine
Have you put his chart up anywhere?
I don't know his exact chart. All I know is that he's sag sun, cap Venus and either Aries or Taurus moon
Just get his date time and place
I don't know the time, I know the other two things. But anyway I don't know if I wanna go that deep into astrology.
...i don’t blame you, it can be too revealing, especially the transits
Yes and anyway I believe much more in God that he'll put everything in the right place for our relationship again irrespective of what astrology says. I just allow myself to come here to calm my nerves a bit.
💚click to expand
❤❤
Posted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83Posted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by ItsSupes2Posted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83
He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom
Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?
He might not love the intensity.
I think you should focus on yourself and what you want in life and what makes you happy, BESIDES HIM.
He might come back when he sees you don’t need him.click to expand
Thank you 🙂 Do you think that he'd also be feeling all of this is messed up as much as I feel it is? Would he be thinking too much about WTF is going on and if there's something wrong in the relationship or he'd be chilled out right now thinking all is fine, she's just giving me space FINALLY and I'll go back when I feel like it?
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He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom
Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?
He might not love the intensity.
I think you should focus on yourself and what you want in life and what makes you happy, BESIDES HIM.
He might come back when he sees you don’t need him.click to expand
Other ppl tell me I should be consistent with him. It's all getting me too confused.
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He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom
Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?
He might not love the intensity.
I think you should focus on yourself and what you want in life and what makes you happy, BESIDES HIM.
He might come back when he sees you don’t need him.
Thank you 🙂 Do you think that he'd also be feeling all of this is messed up as much as I feel it is? Would he be thinking too much about WTF is going on and if there's something wrong in the relationship or he'd be chilled out right now thinking all is fine, she's just giving me space FINALLY and I'll go back when I feel like it?
Out of both those options, what do you honestly think he’s feeling/thinking? Be honestclick to expand
That I'm a mess and I don't deserve to be trusted anymore. I feel this one moment. The other moment I feel like all is fine he's just taking some space and he'll come back to me soon.
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He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom
Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?
He might not love the intensity.
I think you should focus on yourself and what you want in life and what makes you happy, BESIDES HIM.
He might come back when he sees you don’t need him.
Other ppl tell me I should be consistent with him. It's all getting me too confused.
How old are those people?
Do they have successful long term relationships?
Do they know him? Do they know you?
Do they hate men ?
Can they be single?click to expand
I don't know. It was saggurl. You're answering for a capricorn and she's answering for a sag. She thinks he's behaving like a sag you think he's behaving like a capricorn.
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He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom
Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?
He might not love the intensity.
I think you should focus on yourself and what you want in life and what makes you happy, BESIDES HIM.
He might come back when he sees you don’t need him.
Thank you 🙂 Do you think that he'd also be feeling all of this is messed up as much as I feel it is? Would he be thinking too much about WTF is going on and if there's something wrong in the relationship or he'd be chilled out right now thinking all is fine, she's just giving me space FINALLY and I'll go back when I feel like it?
Out of both those options, what do you honestly think he’s feeling/thinking? Be honest
That I'm a mess and I don't deserve to be trusted anymore. I feel this one moment. The other moment I feel like all is fine he's just taking some space and he'll come back to me soon.
I’d go with both those thoughts and focus on yourself.click to expand
So you feel the same way I feel?
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He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom
Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?
He might not love the intensity.
I think you should focus on yourself and what you want in life and what makes you happy, BESIDES HIM.
He might come back when he sees you don’t need him.
Thank you 🙂 Do you think that he'd also be feeling all of this is messed up as much as I feel it is? Would he be thinking too much about WTF is going on and if there's something wrong in the relationship or he'd be chilled out right now thinking all is fine, she's just giving me space FINALLY and I'll go back when I feel like it?
Out of both those options, what do you honestly think he’s feeling/thinking? Be honest
That I'm a mess and I don't deserve to be trusted anymore. I feel this one moment. The other moment I feel like all is fine he's just taking some space and he'll come back to me soon.
I’d go with both those thoughts and focus on yourself.
So you feel the same way I feel?
Ya but if you push him, he’ll move away more. You got to focus on yourself and make him see you don’t need him. Then he’ll feel safe to come back.click to expand
I've never experienced this with a man......it feels like dealing with a frightrened child or animal, not a grown man. It's really quite dysfunctional....
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He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom
Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?
He might not love the intensity.
I think you should focus on yourself and what you want in life and what makes you happy, BESIDES HIM.
He might come back when he sees you don’t need him.
Thank you 🙂 Do you think that he'd also be feeling all of this is messed up as much as I feel it is? Would he be thinking too much about WTF is going on and if there's something wrong in the relationship or he'd be chilled out right now thinking all is fine, she's just giving me space FINALLY and I'll go back when I feel like it?
Out of both those options, what do you honestly think he’s feeling/thinking? Be honest
That I'm a mess and I don't deserve to be trusted anymore. I feel this one moment. The other moment I feel like all is fine he's just taking some space and he'll come back to me soon.
I’d go with both those thoughts and focus on yourself.
So you feel the same way I feel?
Ya but if you push him, he’ll move away more. You got to focus on yourself and make him see you don’t need him. Then he’ll feel safe to come back.click to expand
I hope he does soon. Wish me luck. Thanks for your help 🙂
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He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.
Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries
I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.
The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.
But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom
Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?
He might not love the intensity.
I think you should focus on yourself and what you want in life and what makes you happy, BESIDES HIM.
He might come back when he sees you don’t need him.
Thank you 🙂 Do you think that he'd also be feeling all of this is messed up as much as I feel it is? Would he be thinking too much about WTF is going on and if there's something wrong in the relationship or he'd be chilled out right now thinking all is fine, she's just giving me space FINALLY and I'll go back when I feel like it?
Out of both those options, what do you honestly think he’s feeling/thinking? Be honest
That I'm a mess and I don't deserve to be trusted anymore. I feel this one moment. The other moment I feel like all is fine he's just taking some space and he'll come back to me soon.
I’d go with both those thoughts and focus on yourself.
So you feel the same way I feel?
Ya but if you push him, he’ll move away more. You got to focus on yourself and make him see you don’t need him. Then he’ll feel safe to come back.
I've never experienced this with a man......it feels like dealing with a frightrened child or animal, not a grown man. It's really quite dysfunctional....
Neither have I, but I’ve been with extremely suffocating and controlling people that refuse to give spaceclick to expand
The lesser of two evils.....or not?
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