I don't know what to do anymore. Capricorn boyfriend. (Page 3)

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He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.

Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.

Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.

Think of him as running away from your needs.

The more you push, the more he will create distance.

It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.

Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.

Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.

I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.

No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.

When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.

Capricorn’s are the absolute worst when it comes to respecting people’s boundaries

I haven’t found that to be true in my experience.

The ones Pisces influenced like to bait and poke.

But her bf is a sag so I’m guessing he’s just running away from her because she’s infringing on his emotional freedom

Is is possible that he doesn't love me anymore and has lost absolutely all interest in me?

He might not love the intensity.

I think you should focus on yourself and what you want in life and what makes you happy, BESIDES HIM.

He might come back when he sees you don’t need him.

Thank you 🙂 Do you think that he'd also be feeling all of this is messed up as much as I feel it is? Would he be thinking too much about WTF is going on and if there's something wrong in the relationship or he'd be chilled out right now thinking all is fine, she's just giving me space FINALLY and I'll go back when I feel like it?

Out of both those options, what do you honestly think he’s feeling/thinking? Be honest

That I'm a mess and I don't deserve to be trusted anymore. I feel this one moment. The other moment I feel like all is fine he's just taking some space and he'll come back to me soon.

I’d go with both those thoughts and focus on yourself.

So you feel the same way I feel?

Ya but if you push him, he’ll move away more. You got to focus on yourself and make him see you don’t need him. Then he’ll feel safe to come back.

I've never experienced this with a man......it feels like dealing with a frightrened child or animal, not a grown man. It's really quite dysfunctional....

Neither have I, but I’ve been with extremely suffocating and controlling people that refuse to give space
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Is it fair to expect space from one particular person when they can clearly see your interactions with other people going on as usual and are thinking that all is fine between you both. How do they know when you're expecting space and when not?