aqua and leo and libra
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by baby76 on Sunday, April 12, 2009 and has 10 replies.
i am an aqua girl. the man who is crazy about me is a loe and the guy who i am CRAZY about is a libra. i don't have any other feeling for the loe besides friendship but he insists on waiting for me to decide when i am ready for a relationship with him. i broke things off with him last november but he still says that he has not moved on. i am in love with this libra who i have been off and on with for 12 years. he gives me mixed signals and i don't know which way to respond.(he is leaving for iraq in 6 weeks for the second time for 4-6 months). for the last month he has taken me on numerous dates, different functions and our co workers have seen us out. he called or texted me evetyday. countless times per day.last week he told me that he wanted to keep things simple. he has not called or texted me since.when i text him he is always busy. is this a karma type thing because how i am toward the leo.
^ I would never wanna think karma works that way, because how could it be fair?
He's leaving for Iraq. He focusing on his job. I was in a relationship with an Aries (now we are engaged) and he pulled the same crap. He didn't want to leave me behind to worry about him and such. It was BS because I worried anyway but he still pulled away from me and eventually broke it off. He came around though.
I don't think it's your fault. Talk to him
I don't think it's your fault. Talk to him
i texted him today and asked when could i see him. he said when you have time let me know. i guess this weekend we will be seeing each other. maybe this will be our time to talk about a few things. i don't want our conversation to seem like a confrontation so any suggestions how i should start off the conversation? it's totally different when we are face to face.
I don't have anything important to say pertaining to the thread or anything in general other than that Sagittarius89 is stupid sexy. What are you doing on a loner's messageboard.
^ Stupid eh?
Well I am 19
^ Mean eh.
Well, I think it comes down to what you REALLY want out of a relationship with someone else. It's understandable that anyone you've been involved with for 12 years is not just someone you can forget about tomorrow. But then again, this Leo is only in your life b/c somewhere a long the line, you invited him in. Weigh your options. What do you want?
Do you want the Libra whom you've known for almost a decade, whom you can truly say you know all the flaws-and-all, who you know what he's capable of & what his priorities are? Do you want the Libra even though his focus may be on forming a better life for himself more than forming a stronger relationship with you? Do you want this Libra who you can't seem to keep attached to you (the way you truly want a commitment to be)? The very fact that your Libra is giving you mixed signals is a clear sign that he's either 1) emotionally detached himself from the relationship (and the only reason he's still around a little bit is so he can slowly ween himself away from you for good) or 2) Somewhere a long the line, he's confused as to if it's worth it continuing on with you long-term. Being in Iraq & being in that kind of environment changes people, alot of times for the worse. Is this Libra the man that you truly want, will wait for no matter what & who you truly believe will always cherish a commitment with you or are you only starting to lean towards the Leo b/c he's the only one paying you the attention that you truly want right now?
Do you want the Leo who may not be your cup of tea (which is explainable since 75% of your heart is attached to someone else), but at the same time is clearly showing you more than your Libra that he puts you 1st & values everything about you? Do you want the Leo who keeps holding on to you even though he might sense rejection, the same way your Libra is making you feel? Do you want your Leo who might be everything you're looking for, if you'd just make up your mind about what you want & actually give him the chance to show you that he can do just as much (if not more) for you than your Libra?
Part of the reason this Leo may not be that "UMPH" for you is b/c you're still emotionally unavailable & truly don't want to see anyone else as better or the better choice. Once you come out of that "blindness" you'd be suprised at how much you missed out on
Do you want the Libra whom you've known for almost a decade, whom you can truly say you know all the flaws-and-all, who you know what he's capable of & what his priorities are? Do you want the Libra even though his focus may be on forming a better life for himself more than forming a stronger relationship with you? Do you want this Libra who you can't seem to keep attached to you (the way you truly want a commitment to be)? The very fact that your Libra is giving you mixed signals is a clear sign that he's either 1) emotionally detached himself from the relationship (and the only reason he's still around a little bit is so he can slowly ween himself away from you for good) or 2) Somewhere a long the line, he's confused as to if it's worth it continuing on with you long-term. Being in Iraq & being in that kind of environment changes people, alot of times for the worse. Is this Libra the man that you truly want, will wait for no matter what & who you truly believe will always cherish a commitment with you or are you only starting to lean towards the Leo b/c he's the only one paying you the attention that you truly want right now?
Do you want the Leo who may not be your cup of tea (which is explainable since 75% of your heart is attached to someone else), but at the same time is clearly showing you more than your Libra that he puts you 1st & values everything about you? Do you want the Leo who keeps holding on to you even though he might sense rejection, the same way your Libra is making you feel? Do you want your Leo who might be everything you're looking for, if you'd just make up your mind about what you want & actually give him the chance to show you that he can do just as much (if not more) for you than your Libra?
Part of the reason this Leo may not be that "UMPH" for you is b/c you're still emotionally unavailable & truly don't want to see anyone else as better or the better choice. Once you come out of that "blindness" you'd be suprised at how much you missed out on
omg. krysrenee you are absolutely right.though i do not want the Leo i have had almost the same thoughts about the Libra that you have just brought to light. it was just confirmation. the Libra has put me through some terrible mental anguish and yet for years i have dealt with him off and on regardless. i feel like if he really wanted to have something long term with me he would have done it years back. i have finally realized that he will not give me what i want. to me he has not even given me a fair chance. it is my fault bcause i have allowed him to treat me like this for years. i have decided to move on. he is having a going away party sunday and i figured that it would be best if i didn't attend. i did ask for advice. i was told to ask him if he expected me to be there. but i do think that it would be a little much for me to handle. as bad as it is, he still does have my heart. he is the only man that has gotten to me like that.
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