Aqua male in love (Page 3)

Posted by WaterCup
U might notice seeing number 11 everywhere, looking at the watch & its always 11 o'clock or sumthing past 11- ur being connected to higher vibrations, its wake up time!

I see 11:11 or 1:11 all the time! I never noticed it before, but now, whether it is in the morning or at night, I see it! 🙂

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Ppl were looking for Osama for many yrs, but he got caught in 20-11 & he did his crime on the 11th day, can sumbody plz scream SYNC!

SYNC! 🙂

@firewaterearth.. I understood u the 1st time, i mentioned the dream sites bcoz that's about the only place where every single thing is explained. The ladybug might be a message, understanding it u might need to decode the symbolism of the ladybug. A little farfetched maybe, but yet its worth checking out

Nikki welcome to Spookiland, a place where your hair will learn to stand without hairspray. LOL, i crack myself up sumtimes. Sleep tight oh you residents of Looneyville.

Posted by WaterCup
@firewaterearth.. I understood u the 1st time, i mentioned the dream sites bcoz that's about the only place where every single thing is explained. The ladybug might be a message, understanding it u might need to decode the symbolism of the ladybug. A little farfetched maybe, but yet its worth checking out

You cannot just look at one significant thing in a dream-it all of the symbolisms added up that make the determination of the dream.
If you dream of a house, a man, a smile, the sun and death-you will need to look at ALL of the meanings and apply them to your life. Learn from your dreams and embrace them. They mean ALOT! 🙂

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Nikki welcome to Spookiland, a place where your hair will learn to stand without hairspray. LOL, i crack myself up sumtimes. Sleep tight oh you residents of Looneyville.

You are right there with us WaterCup!!! 🙂

I've got permanent residency, a Spookiland green card.

On a serious note, firewaterearth will hopefully find her answers, u can't ignore these things forever- 1stly they tap, then knock & lastly they bang loudly. She'll be very welcomed in Spookiland.

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I've got permanent residency, a Spookiland green card.

Does that mean I have one too?!?!? LOL. I feel like I am the founding memeber!

Posted by 1urbanicblue
hey about that lady bug thing. i am always finding them around, and i set them free. they're always going inside my house through my back door garden.

then i looked up the symbolism due to this thread meninging the ladybug and the other topic of symbols. and it is said that your true love is close by.

Hi 1Urban-Here is what I found on ladybugs "This tiny little beetle brings with it a powerful message. Because the life cycle of the adult ladybug is short it teaches us how to release worries and enjoy our lives to the fullest. When it appears in our life it is telling us to "let go and let God. The Ladybug teaches us how to restore our trust and faith in the great spirit. When the ladybug appears, it is telling us to get out of our own way and allow the great spirit to enter into our lives."
So in essence you are right, it is about love, but SELF love.

@nikki.. We will make u mayor. Mayor Nikki, sounds about right.

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@Tbird-your night conversations will come again. Trust me! Mine have stopped for a few days now, but they always come back. I believe were are trying to make them stop & to stop thinking/feeling for them, to be normal in a way. Its a dif expeirence but I think we need to embrace it, not resist. Its supposed to happen this way! Im still baffled myself but now that I know what is happening, its not so bad nemore.
The signs are everyway? See, its supposed to b this way. I always thought I was crazy too, bcus I saw signs every where too. I still do! So lets b crazy together! 🙂

The signs come everyday... every freaking fracken day.

Yep they can throw us both in the looney bin together! 😆

What are your signs? I will share more of mine if you are willing to share to. 🙂 They are not bad, but frequent. All day, all night! He is the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing I think of when I go to sleep.
Looney bin, HERE WE COME!

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For instance he loves Sam Adams and Guiness (types of beer) and I love Bud. He was making fun of me cause he's a beer snob and the next day I was like ok no more aqua (trying to distance myself) and don't you freaking know a huge Guiness truck rolls by me when I'm stopped at a red light.

When I was at school on Wed I said okay no more aqua (then I think to myself alright this is the cue for the sign) I was in the computer lab I usually don't pay attention to others beside my computer screen and I had an urge to look to the guy sitting next to me and don't you know he was wearing the same EXACT shirt that he has... (I laughed in my head and said figures).

Please don't tell me about lady bugs. About a week or two ago I was at school sitting outside having a smoke, listening to music (as always) and I closed my eyes and started to meditate, feeling the warmth of the sun and the wind blowing in my hair. I opened my eyes and there was lady bugs everywhere, next to me and on me. Like at least 10 of them. Keep in mid it's early Nov. They aren't around this time of year. I looked around on campus and they were only in the spot I was sitting at...strange.

He's the first thing on my mind in the am and l

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He's the first thing on my mind in the am and last thing in the pm.

We were walking to get food and a couple passed by us... the female's arm was interlocked with the males. The aqua and I were walking side by side not touching but walking close to each other. When I saw them I longed to do that... but I've read aqua's don't like PDA so I just kept it to myself then he said softly you can do that if you want. I was in my head so I just said do what? He didn't reply he just got quiet.

It didn't hit me what he was talking about until the next day. Can aqua's do that with any and everyone? As a fish I'm so used to reading people but I can't read him...not yet anyways but he could just pluck that out of my head...strange. No one ever was able to do that before. He wasn't even looking at me either.

Funny thing is that I keep telling myself to detach because he's an aqua and my fishy senses were tingling that he would disconnect from me because we have been getting close (well in my eyes). Because we text every day and been on 6 dates in 3 weeks. No we haven't been intimate, but he has been affectionate by opening doors, offering the last bite of shared food, taking me out to dinner and exposing me to his favorite dish (eel, which I tried and liked), cuddled with me, hugs me every time before we leave each other, run his finger through my hair (once), when we ate dinner he only looked at me (which was strange I'm so used to him looking at everyone that passes by), we both smoke (the exact same cigarettes) and I always loose my lighter so he already had his lite and mine was out instead of him just giving his lighter he gave me the cig out of his mouth and took mine and lite and smoked it, sang to me (we were watching 2 musicals, his idea not mine I swear lol), teases me, we did made out (once, I can't believe I posted that) etc...

So anyways he started to pull away after our last date. He doesn't initiate conversations anymore, we don't talk as much anymore like we did before. I know aqua's are aloof hell that's fine because I'm a fish and I LOVE my space and I don't want him to be around my as $ all day everyday and I want him to be a man and have his own life. My god that would be sad if he didn't. I have loads of Virgo in my chart as well as pisces and Taurus. If you want to see my chart it's on my profile again anyways. I want him to be free because that's how I want to be treated. I'm not the normal pisces in a lot of aspects but I am in other ways. Also some days I more mermaid than others...today is a mermaid day. So I HAVE to ask this.

We haven't had the talk yet... you know the one. I don't know if we are actually dating or in a relationship. I know with aquas things are just expected to be known but I HATE to assume anything. That's why I love science...you can't assume crap...I digressed sorry...again freaking mermaid mode.

I know he's pulling away from me but I do not know why. I don't know if he just wants his personal space, he's busy as heck (he's in college too), he has lost interest or if he's testing me. I want to ask him but I don't want too scare him off...that would suck on 50 11 different levels. We connect on every freaking level... I mean every. CONT.

I'm a Taurus in venus so taking it slow is not only welcomed it's most certainly desired and needed. So I don't mind taking my time I want to be friends first and see where it goes.

I know you guys are saying wait didn't you want to pull back...he's doing it for you.. yeah I know it's stupid and contradicting again this is how I'm a mermaid. I don't encroach on his space and I'll text him only once and if he doesn't reply I'll leave it be and when he gets back to me... we will pick it up where we left off. He apologizes and says that he was busy (lol yeah I know classic aqua response) and I tell him he doesn't need to explain himself (cause I truly believe that, live your life aqua) and that's cool, no worries.

With him pulling back and me doing the initiating for the last week. I don't know if he's sending me signals if he's done, disinterested, wants a break from me, or if he just wants his space. I don't want to chase him and I don't want him to think oh yeah I got her no reason to bust my butt, because honestly he doesn't have me yet until we have that talk. I do have other suitors so it's not a biggie to pursue them but I don't because I want him. I just don't know what action to take. I don't want to keep initiating the conversation and he's like leave me alone.

I just honestly don't know what to do... I could very well just be on freak out mode today again very mermaid today. But can you guys offer any advice? I know it will be just leave him alone and see if he comes back (which is what my senses are telling me and I've done for a day) but I've read on sites that if you don't contact them it can piss them off. I'm at a loss right now on the appropriate action to take. I think he's interested because all of our interactions but I've also read that aqua's can be interested one second and in the next they could be like bored and walk away with no qualms. So I'm kind of in limbo right now.

I want to ask him but I don't want too scare him off...that would suck on 50 11 different levels.

Wow... I didn't notice this until just now but I posted the number 11. lol

Posted by tbird
I want to ask him but I don't want too scare him off...that would suck on 50 11 different levels.

Wow... I didn't notice this until just now but I posted the number 11. lol

Hi T!!!! So happy to hear from you!! By the looks of things you are doing alot of thinking!!! & taking ME time! Good for you!!! Sorry for typos, im on my cell.
I will share my signs, but wont go into detail (again im on my phone!!) Lol.
1. Im hearing our song where ive never heard it before. 2. My ex Aqua loves Superman. I see others wearing the tshirt, hear the theme song, see the movie while channel surfing on tv. 3. I smell him. Not his cologne, but his scent. 4. I see words, hear words, that hes said. 5. I hear his name, see his name. Someone i just met last week, yeh, his name was his!!!
There is alot more, but you know what I mean.
To answer your ?, in my expierence, Aquas will show you all if the actions yours is taking. They will pull back when they need space. If he is your twin flame, he will do it more & more, like mine does. Its like they feel more for you, freak out & run!!! If its just a space thing, he will cme back. He will txt you when he is out of his cave & out of his head. An Aqua values friendship as an equivalant to a romantic relationship. & you have the best mindset thinking friends first!! My advice, ask him where you are. But only once. If he freezes, or stumbles on his words, lean back. Assure him you were just curious & its no big thang your nothing more than friends, but hes your best friend. If hes open ( mature Aqua) hell be honest about how he feels. He may b angry, he may be happy (they are air signs, able to float between mind and heart) but at least youll know how he feels. When an Aqua is thinking, hes not speaking & when there speaking there not thinking. You look at their actions, dont listen to their words. I recently contacted my ex. He told me to stop texting him after a few texts back & forth. When hes in his head, he will not text back. & he may feel what hes saying in txt is right, but hes txting me back u see. We have a tie that binds us. His actions to me, say more than his words. What do i do...i lean back. I leave him alone. I care enuff about him to do so.
I am dating in the mean time. You ask why? Bcus i know m in his heart & hes in mine. We r both "awakening" & in this lifetime or the next, im thankful to love/have loved & mo

St importanrly to learn. We have a strong tie that binds us, whether in this lifetime or the next. We may not have the physical but our souls know. (Hence the signs). Remember to love him, & hold him in your heart without attachment & pray for you. Youd b suprised what happens.
Keep me posted!

Thanks for the welcome back! =D

Yeah he usually does reply... I would say 96% of the time he does. When he didn't he would always apologize. This is the first time he hasn't replied in such a long time.

I'm very not in mermaid mode today which is good... my Virgo is in the forefront of my mind. I sent him a message just asking about his Thanksgiving so we can go from there... we will see if the responds or if he's just done.

Posted by tbird
Thanks for the welcome back! =D

Yeah he usually does reply... I would say 96% of the time he does. When he didn't he would always apologize. This is the first time he hasn't replied in such a long time.

I'm very not in mermaid mode today which is good... my Virgo is in the forefront of my mind. I sent him a message just asking about his Thanksgiving so we can go from there... we will see if the responds or if he's just done.

If he replies 96% of the time, he will respond eventually to the text you said about his Thanksgiving. Give him some time. He seems to be "in his mind & needs his space."
🙂

I sent him a message another message that pretty much said this...

I really haven't dated much and if silence is a rule then I would assume your not into this fully. If that's your way of telling me I will adhere to your wishes.

I probably put him on freak out mode or go to hell mode but I had to say it. I don't want to lose him but if he can't take me saying this to him...then he's not right for me in the end. I HAVE be able to say what I need to say and for him to be able to understand and respect that.

I've never said this before or hinted at it. I don't think I'm being clingy or forceful I just want him to know how it is. So yeah. At least now I know how to proceed. I may or may not have messed it up. *shrugs shoulders* meh what can I do.

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Posted by tbird
Thanks for the welcome back! =D

Yeah he usually does reply... I would say 96% of the time he does. When he didn't he would always apologize. This is the first time he hasn't replied in such a long time.

I'm very not in mermaid mode today which is good... my Virgo is in the forefront of my mind. I sent him a message just asking about his Thanksgiving so we can go from there... we will see if the responds or if he's just done.

If he replies 96% of the time, he will respond eventually to the text you said about his Thanksgiving. Give him some time. He seems to be "in his mind & needs his space."
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I didn't see that until just now. OH well... guess I should move on. I may of fudged this one up. Score one for the mermaid. lol

@T- another thing I have learned about Aquas. They play by their rules. Life, money, success, failures & dare I say..love. You didnt fudge nething up by being WHO you are. If its meant to be, it will be. Take care of you. ALL of you. Rise up and just breathe ok? Everything in life happens for a reason. Just give him space, bcus thats who HE is! Lol. Gotta love them Aquas!!

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@T- another thing I have learned about Aquas. They play by their rules. Life, money, success, failures & dare I say..love. You didnt fudge nething up by being WHO you are. If its meant to be, it will be. Take care of you. ALL of you. Rise up and just breathe ok? Everything in life happens for a reason. Just give him space, bcus thats who HE is! Lol. Gotta love them Aquas!!

LOL thanks! Yeah I didn't fudge it up... he contacted me. Tis all good. 🙂

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@T- another thing I have learned about Aquas. They play by their rules. Life, money, success, failures & dare I say..love. You didnt fudge nething up by being WHO you are. If its meant to be, it will be. Take care of you. ALL of you. Rise up and just breathe ok? Everything in life happens for a reason. Just give him space, bcus thats who HE is! Lol. Gotta love them Aquas!!

LOL thanks! Yeah I didn't fudge it up... he contacted me. Tis all good. 🙂

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Yehhhh!!!! Our minds play tricks on us, they make us freak out internally & project unnecessary reactions! Keep up the positive thoughts!! 🙂

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@T- another thing I have learned about Aquas. They play by their rules. Life, money, success, failures & dare I say..love. You didnt fudge nething up by being WHO you are. If its meant to be, it will be. Take care of you. ALL of you. Rise up and just breathe ok? Everything in life happens for a reason. Just give him space, bcus thats who HE is! Lol. Gotta love them Aquas!!

LOL thanks! Yeah I didn't fudge it up... he contacted me. Tis all good. 🙂

Yehhhh!!!! Our minds play tricks on us, they make us freak out internally & project unnecessary reactions! Keep up the positive thoughts!! 🙂

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*gigglesnort* yes and when they come back and tell you everything is fine. You just are like Oh....I was doing that for no reason. Well excuse me while I wipe this egg off my face. lol

I have noticed that he's responding now within 5 mins and he usually waits a while and he initiated an email today. So that's good. So that email was multifunctional! Gotta love high efficiency!

T- can I wipe the egg off my face too!?!? I do that all the time....lol!
My ex told me not to contact him. However, like I said previously, he texts me back. Normally "when hes done" he doesnt. Now, Im not contacting him.
He wants space, he got it!
I had a date last night. & I had a huge sign. During dinner, I heard our song (ex Aqua & our song!), on a date! Needless to say I am a wee bit freaked!!
Hope you are not so much! 🙂

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T- can I wipe the egg off my face too!?!? I do that all the time....lol!
My ex told me not to contact him. However, like I said previously, he texts me back. Normally "when hes done" he doesnt. Now, Im not contacting him.
He wants space, he got it!
I had a date last night. & I had a huge sign. During dinner, I heard our song (ex Aqua & our song!), on a date! Needless to say I am a wee bit freaked!!
Hope you are not so much! 🙂

*hands tissue* here you go hun... it's clean I promise lol

Nope he kicked up the communication BIG time. We talked all day today. He initiated the conversation again.

I know you were like ahh make it stop! lol

Yes, MAKE IT STOP!! It hurt. 😢 Dating is hard, but I feel I have to do it. I don't know why-distraction probably. *sigh
I hope it just goes away or the new guy makes me happy. Doubtful-I am miserable inside. 😢
WOW! So he is contacting you alot? Good! I am happy for you!!!! 🙂 🙂

Posted by NikkiMse1978
Yes, MAKE IT STOP!! It hurt. 😢 Dating is hard, but I feel I have to do it. I don't know why-distraction probably. *sigh
I hope it just goes away or the new guy makes me happy. Doubtful-I am miserable inside. 😢
WOW! So he is contacting you alot? Good! I am happy for you!!!! 🙂 🙂

Yeah after the "talk" he's been replying in 5 mins so that's really good. Yesterday we texted for hours... like 9 hours. We had a debate and I won. lol He got quiet and said something like it's not the same and that was it. I started dying laughing. He's such an aqua sometimes...stubborn. But I like a man who has conviction 😉

I haven't seen him in over a week but we are supposed to connect tomorrow. I'm looking forward to hanging out. I like his personality. He makes me laugh so hard and other people just turn around at look at me cause I'm laughing to hard and I can be loud too when I laugh. I try not to be but it just comes out that way. Plus a gigglesnort now and then but hasn't happened in front of him yet.

Yes dating is very hard... it sucks but it can be good too. I just hate the uncertainty of it, the in me hates uncertainty. Aww I hope you feel better hun... or maybe the aqua will step up.

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Yes, MAKE IT STOP!! It hurt. 😢 Dating is hard, but I feel I have to do it. I don't know why-distraction probably. *sigh
I hope it just goes away or the new guy makes me happy. Doubtful-I am miserable inside. 😢
WOW! So he is contacting you alot? Good! I am happy for you!!!! 🙂 🙂

Yeah after the "talk" he's been replying in 5 mins so that's really good. Yesterday we texted for hours... like 9 hours. We had a debate and I won. lol He got quiet and said something like it's not the same and that was it. I started dying laughing. He's such an aqua sometimes...stubborn. But I like a man who has conviction 😉

I haven't seen him in over a week but we are supposed to connect tomorrow. I'm looking forward to hanging out. I like his personality. He makes me laugh so hard and other people just turn around at look at me cause I'm laughing to hard and I can be loud too when I laugh. I try not to be but it just comes out that way. Plus a gigglesnort now and then but hasn't happened in front of him yet.

Yes dating is very hard... it sucks but it can be good too. I just hate the uncertainty of it, the in me hates uncertainty. Aww I hope you feel better hun... or maybe the aqua will step up.

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What talk did you have-if you don't mind my asking? I am happy to hear you are getting along so well. What Aquas should realize is that if they give a little, we give a little. It is always one sided when we give, and they give NOTHING in return. *sigh One day I am hoping mine will "step up" as you say, but I really doubt it. I know what we are, but I cannot wait anymore. Hence, the dating. It is rough for sure, bcus the ex Aqua is always in my mind. But I feel it is something I need to do.

I hope you have a wonderful time with your Aqua today! 🙂 And don't do anything I wouldn't do. 😉

Posted by 1urbanicblue
Nikki, i hope you go out and date and get your mind off your ex aqua. =)

you sound like a wonderful person who has plenty to give. to an aqua, out of sight is out of mind. ( i read that somewhere too) lol but anyway, your heart wants to 'chase' and it's that part horse in sag that wants to chase i think?
use the upper part to rationalise this.
i'm not saying don't lose hope, but if you involve yourself in other activities, even getting to know other people, join clubs, and have fun. time is the key here.

btw, is your ex aqua with anyone?

@1Urban-I am out dating to get my mind off of him. But he is everywhere! I went out with the gentlemen I am seeing on Sat night. And my and the ex Aqua song was playing.
I can date, as I have been, but it does not help. I am also in boxing now, so I am keeping myself busy.
TY for the compliment! I am quite fabulous if I do say so myself 🙂
Can you elaborate "to an aqua out of sight out of mind." I do not beleive that one bit. *sigh sorry!
It may be my horse that wants to chase, but now I am not. I have not made contact and I refuse to!
Time? What do you mean by that?
I do not beleive he is with anyone. A month ago he told me he was..I asked if he slept with anyone (we had a very open relationship you see) and he said "I was. But don't worry. It's over now. She went crazy." I asked him about her and he said it is over anyway.
As for now..I have no idea. I know he did in the summer (trying to forget about me as he said) but that didn't last either. The thing is, they will never be ME.
Opinion?

Urbanicblue good to see u back, tell me, what is that thing on your avatar? I think my squint is back, been talking to a libra, they have that effect on me. LOL

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about the reference to time. well, hmm never mind.

oh- so you had an open relationship?

hmmm well, i can't help you with that. the concept is something that another aqua with those views would recognize.

im in the philosophy of live and let with, of how other ppl wanna live their life.

however with me, i'm very possessive, and if you're not mine, and i'm not yours, forget it.

even the thought gives me dark thoughts. and my eyes start to narrow. i dont like that kind of relationship. lol

well, good luck anyway.

but i think, personally your aqua has moved on. even if he is not with anyone. he's just not ready. maybe in time he will be ready but in the meantime, you should worry about you.

I know what you mean about time...that time heals, time will go on, blah, blah, blah. LOL.
No, not open where we were with others and the other didn't know. Open as in we talked about anything and everything. Does that clarify it?!? 🙂
How can you be moved on and just not ready? To me that is a contradiction. LOL.

Oh, ok. I used to date 1 (libra), thats why i get disturbed when i get in contact with one. It was good. My best friend is a taurus, so your theory is spot on. Its Speedy Gonzalez vs the snail. Lol. I love venus influenced ppl, cupid just shoots & shoots.

Lol, my husband is ruled by mars, but i'm sure that his moon belongs to a pack of marshmallows. He doesn't know his birth time, so everything says aries with venus in taurus. We have our little flare ups, but he hates conflicts, i'm the more dominant one to be honest with u. My moon, mars, saturn & pluto are all in scorp in my 8th house. My planets are in the 8th(scorp), 9th(sadge) & 10th(cap) houses, so pluto aspects almost everything. He really bows down to that & i have respect for him bcoz he also respects me.

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Oh, ok. I used to date 1 (libra), thats why i get disturbed when i get in contact with one. It was good. My best friend is a taurus, so your theory is spot on. Its Speedy Gonzalez vs the snail. Lol. I love venus influenced ppl, cupid just shoots & shoots.

there IS something to astrology, somehow....even though i try to remain half out of it. there are some things that don't add up.

but yeah, scorpio ruled by mars/pluto, very true = is attracted brutally to libra and taurus.

or hate them.

but you're married to a mars ruled man, which is interesting.

Nikki, i dont know what to say to you.

he just sounds like he's moved on.

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1Urban-he very well could have. However, we always find each other. He admitted it. And he asked if I saw signs this last time to. Which I told him I do. He said he did to. And his sudden new found interest in astrology...hmmmm...awakening maybe?
We will see. I can still love him, hold him in my heart-without attachment, and wish him the best. Like I do. My last text to him was this, "Just remember there is someone out there who genuienly cares about you. Have a good work out and stay out of trouble. 🙂"
He told me I am the only one who does genuienly care about him. 🙂

Posted by WaterCup
Oh, ok. I used to date 1 (libra), thats why i get disturbed when i get in contact with one. It was good. My best friend is a taurus, so your theory is spot on. Its Speedy Gonzalez vs the snail. Lol. I love venus influenced ppl, cupid just shoots & shoots.

The guy I am seeing now is a Libra. It scares me a little. My son's father was a Libra who cheated on me, but when we broke up he said we were in an open relationship anyway. *pshht, jerk!
The new Libra is going a wee bit too fast for me. I think it is karma. But still, can we say scary!?!?!? LOL.

Nikki if u dont want him, give him to me! Lol. He likes u already & i like him already. What a douche your ex was. Sheesh

Urbanicblue what are your planets(moon to mercury)? Just out of interest. I sense a lot of goat, ur too serious sumtimes. I have a goat mercury, i get the seriousness.

Posted by WaterCup
Nikki if u dont want him, give him to me! Lol. He likes u already & i like him already. What a douche your ex was. Sheesh

Water-you know why it isn't going to work!! 🙂 I feel horrible, but in the mean time I am going to enjoy his company. Unless he tell me we are in an open relationship, forget it! LOL.

Enjoy then, ur brave, i give u that

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Enjoy then, ur brave, i give u that

Uh Oh! Why do I need to be brave? Just because I had a bad experience with a Libra, and I am freaked by them, doesn't mean it will be bad. He has taken me on 3 lovely dinners, flowers twice, and chocolate covered strawberry "roses" deliverd to my house. 🙂 Seeet yes, overhwhelming, maybe. Hehehe

I hope you don't mind my jumping in here as i've been reading all of your information (which has been very helpful, thank you) can you describe to me the information overload feeling that you experience? What happens to me is that its almost like we are communicating on so many levels that what is actually said gets misconstrued, or i forget the conversation and then later once i have sat down i am able to digest it all and realize wth occurred when we spoke. I do not have this problem with anyone else nor have i ever had this kind of problem with anyone else. I've tried to explain it to friends, but i don't really even know how to explain what happens other than the term information overload, because that is exactly what it feels like, like an overload to my entire system.

Posted by firewaterearth
All of the sudden in the past 2 months, my Ex's mail has started coming back to my house. He hasn't lived here in over a year. Yet, his mail shows up and then a couple of weeks later he shows up for his latest apology. At first I thought it was a coincidence and I told him to forward his mail. But, now I think he might have done it on purpose. I just got more mail for him yesterday. Whatever. lol.

Fire-Could even be a "heavenly" mix up with the post office? Divine intervention. 🙂 🙂
Does he always apologize? Mine never did!!!

Posted by firewaterearth
I do not think that we are twin flames. It's more like the movie X-Men First Class. I am Professor X and he is Magneto. lol.It's a mentor-student association and he is determined to reel me back in...until I help him reach the next level and then he will promptly disappear and come back when he's ready for the next lesson. WTF. I am counting the days until he deploys and all will be quiet again in my life again. 🙂

Exactly! HE is the one who has the lesson to learn. It seems you are in the right mind thinking with that one!
Too bad he does not see it like that. They just keep coming back and they think it is us! They should look a little deeper. I knew I was right when I finally saw that it wasn't me, but my Aqua ex who really is the crazy one! LOL.

Posted by taurusgeminicusp
I hope you don't mind my jumping in here as i've been reading all of your information (which has been very helpful, thank you) can you describe to me the information overload feeling that you experience? What happens to me is that its almost like we are communicating on so many levels that what is actually said gets misconstrued, or i forget the conversation and then later once i have sat down i am able to digest it all and realize wth occurred when we spoke. I do not have this problem with anyone else nor have i ever had this kind of problem with anyone else. I've tried to explain it to friends, but i don't really even know how to explain what happens other than the term information overload, because that is exactly what it feels like, like an overload to my entire system.

Hi TarusGeminicusp! We do not mind at all! WELCOME! 🙂
Information overload to me is almost exactly like what you describe. Not only do I hear him speak to me, but I answer in my voice, he can ask or answer in mine and vice versa. This occurs for me in the early morning or at night right before I go to sleep. I do hear him speak to me throughout the day, but it is not as strong. Usually during the day I feel him.
And the miscommunications in conversations ALWAYS happened to me! We would have a conversation and later, he could recall word for word what was said, when I am like, "I did not say that!" It happened time and time again beleive me!
For the info overload it also comes in because not only do you experience the above but you have signs happening all around you! You hear music, hear people, hear names, see names, see things (symbols of rememberance or reflection to that person. For an example my ex loved Superman-so gues what I see ALL THE TIME!), smell them ( I can smell my ex-not his cologne, but his actual scent), your body/soul/spirit/heart FEELS them! I know when my ex is by his parents (their house is 5 housese away from mine) becaue I feel his presence.
A big sign I am experiencing now is hearing our song when I am out! I went on a date last Sat and our song happended to play!!! Coincidence, I think not!! LOL.
I went and bought candy canes for work yesterday-guess what brand they were....BOB'S!!! (His name is Bobby)
This is the info overload with which we speak! Do not be scared. Embrace it and see what happens! :O

"What talk did you have-if you don't mind my asking? I am happy to hear you are getting along so well. What Aquas should realize is that if they give a little, we give a little. It is always one sided when we give, and they give NOTHING in return. *sigh One day I am hoping mine will "step up" as you say, but I really doubt it. I know what we are, but I cannot wait anymore. Hence, the dating. It is rough for sure, bcus the ex Aqua is always in my mind. But I feel it is something I need to do.

I hope you have a wonderful time with your Aqua today! And don't do anything I wouldn't do. "

I don't mind hun... pretty much was more of a statement saying that if he's not talking to me I will think he is not interested and if this is way of telling me I will follow suit. This wasn't emotional or bitchy pretty much these are the facts. He told me that if he didn't want to see me he will say so. After that he pretty much replies all the time and started initiating like he used to.

I can understand that...if he didn't reply I would of moved on for sure. It's not I don't like him but I'm not going to pine away about the guy even though I really, really do like him. I mean A LOT. I'm not clingy and I give him is space. I'm not in his crack and I don't want him to be up mine. So I think he pretty much got the jist of that.

Oh we didn't do anything. No kissy face lol. We held hands once in public (shock and awe) and a hug goodbye. I think he wanted to kiss but I didn't go there.

All of the sudden in the past 2 months, my Ex's mail has started coming back to my house. He hasn't lived here in over a year. Yet, his mail shows up and then a couple of weeks later he shows up for his latest apology. At first I thought it was a coincidence and I told him to forward his mail. But, now I think he might have done it on purpose. I just got more mail for him yesterday. Whatever. lol.

He could be doing this as an excuse to see/contact you. That's what my mermaid sense are saying. If the mail is forwarded then it should go to his new address. Strange that he's been gone for that long and all of a sudden his mail is coming to you. I think he's just trying to reconnect.

Are you receptive to his advances?

"I hope you don't mind my jumping in here as i've been reading all of your information (which has been very helpful, thank you) can you describe to me the information overload feeling that you experience? What happens to me is that its almost like we are communicating on so many levels that what is actually said gets misconstrued, or i forget the conversation and then later once i have sat down i am able to digest it all and realize wth occurred when we spoke. I do not have this problem with anyone else nor have i ever had this kind of problem with anyone else. I've tried to explain it to friends, but i don't really even know how to explain what happens other than the term information overload, because that is exactly what it feels like, like an overload to my entire system."

That happens to me. We talk a lot and there is so much going on and I'm in my head sometimes (I have loads of Virgo in my chart and I'm a mermaid) so I'm in my head a lot. When I get home and I'll analyze the whole meeting and I'll be like crap I didn't get that meaning until now, that's what he meant. Case and point: I posted this earlier he replied to what I was thinking in my head, but I was so into my thoughts when he said it I didn't know what he was talking about because I didn't say anything. So I was like hmm what was random at the time. But when I got home I figured it out, then said damn it I missed my opening! lol