I've entertained the thought for years now of being with one aqua guy, but never was sure what he feels. we don't live in the same country any longer, but since we are both trevelers and move often, I never saw this as a problem in the future, since I always kept him in my heart as someone who could become 'the love'. However, I saw him couple of days ago, and got the feeling he liked our friend more, I decided to never contact him again. Am I so wrong in my ubrupt decision? any opinion... I'm a virgo...
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Mar 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 5038 · Topics: 65
'...got the feeling he liked our friend more,...'
feeling???? or was it obvious coz he was giving her alot of attention????
he was giving her lot of attention, I left early, he didn't even offer to wait for a taxi with me(we were in a club) and he stayed with her. he phoned me the second day, just to chat, I was very surprised...he is here in Italy only a week or so, I don't think he has any attantion of seeing me, not the way I want to anyway, that is a little bit more personal...so confused..
well, this sounds right... up to now, I just don't think we managed to read each other well. I think his reasons for doing things are complex, even though everything he doeas seems effortless and casual. he now builds and sells properties. I on the other hand am a scientist, a researcher. I know we are like night and day, but everything about him was quiet and slow, it was not that when I saw him I fell in love, we know each other for years, I even had a thing with his friend, some ten years ago.
sorry if everything is upside down, but I write as it comes.
deep down I think my train has passed and there is no other coming, but there is that little bit of hope... to act? I really don't like to push things, I mean just the fact that I'm here on this site, means that I'm scared to loose the idea of him, and that the reality is probably that he, as u said had put me long ago in the 'friends' category. and letting go at the end of the day is the only thing I can do (by the way, I say this and than whish that someone tells me that not all is lost, bla bla, because that belief that maybe one day...gives u that energy to go on. as u can see I'm confused..
if u have anything to add, I appreciate it, if not thanx anyway.xx
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
My aqua has gone away..that is, i havent heard from him for a while and i dont know where he is/what he is up to. Im not going to ask him these questions, simply because he should learn to improve his communication skills!! Is the best thing to do just wait until i hear from him? Only recently he mentioned marriage and living together, but i brushed it off in a kind way, because i felt like he was only testing my reaction to the suggestions. He is 30, i am 24. Could this be why he has gone?