Can someone help me to understand what is going on in his Aquarian mind?
Appreciate any Aquas who can give me some understanding of this because I am so confused by this guy I don't know whether he is just a manipulative person or whether I am not understanding him correctly. I am a Scorpio sun / Scorpio Venus / Mars Leo. He ...
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@Mr_Pinchy
Don't worry you won't end up like him. You've got self awareness. Your post made me laugh.
Don't worry you won't end up like him. You've got self awareness. Your post made me laugh.
It's interesting on the Aqua / Scorpio match question.
I have dated a lot of signs and I find the Cancers and Scorpios feel very familiar and intense but also maybe too much of the same thing. I got on very happily with Taurus but I also feel like it lacked a mental electricity.
I dated one Aqua when I was much younger, and we were very deeply in love. It was definitely an old skool romance kind of situation and I think part of me was always a mystery to him and vice versa but the connection was ethereal in a way. We would just sit in silence and the eye contact would tell us all we needed to know. I think he found safety in me and drowned a little in my emotions. I was patient and compassionate with him in a way I am not naturally so with others. We broke up because we were so young at the time, but it took both of us 10 years or more to get over it. I saw his Mom last year and she said to me "gosh, you were so, so in love it took him so long to ever get over it". I felt the same. He actually married a Scorpio woman 17 years later so maybe it was the same kind of connection.
This Aqua is different because the connection is there but the willingness is lacking. I do have that same sense of gentle patience with him though. I am very tolerant of him in ways I would not normally be and I find that an interesting observation. Quite often over the past year it's amazed me that after the circumstances we have been in it's kind of weird that we even still talk much less connect! Yet, he seems to continually make a special exception for me and vice versa.
It can be an amazing, soul level match but I think only if you can overcome the initial hurdle and it requires both to compromise. He has to accept my emotional intensity and outbursts of feeling and emotionally laden analysis and love those things about me and I have to patiently tolerate his wandering soul and welcome it back without anger.
It has potential to be beautiful I think.
With any relationship though it always starts with a choice!
I have dated a lot of signs and I find the Cancers and Scorpios feel very familiar and intense but also maybe too much of the same thing. I got on very happily with Taurus but I also feel like it lacked a mental electricity.
I dated one Aqua when I was much younger, and we were very deeply in love. It was definitely an old skool romance kind of situation and I think part of me was always a mystery to him and vice versa but the connection was ethereal in a way. We would just sit in silence and the eye contact would tell us all we needed to know. I think he found safety in me and drowned a little in my emotions. I was patient and compassionate with him in a way I am not naturally so with others. We broke up because we were so young at the time, but it took both of us 10 years or more to get over it. I saw his Mom last year and she said to me "gosh, you were so, so in love it took him so long to ever get over it". I felt the same. He actually married a Scorpio woman 17 years later so maybe it was the same kind of connection.
This Aqua is different because the connection is there but the willingness is lacking. I do have that same sense of gentle patience with him though. I am very tolerant of him in ways I would not normally be and I find that an interesting observation. Quite often over the past year it's amazed me that after the circumstances we have been in it's kind of weird that we even still talk much less connect! Yet, he seems to continually make a special exception for me and vice versa.
It can be an amazing, soul level match but I think only if you can overcome the initial hurdle and it requires both to compromise. He has to accept my emotional intensity and outbursts of feeling and emotionally laden analysis and love those things about me and I have to patiently tolerate his wandering soul and welcome it back without anger.
It has potential to be beautiful I think.
With any relationship though it always starts with a choice!
Posted by MondayMorning@MyStarsShine would give you her stories about aquas, xmas, pub, food and bin lol
It's interesting on the Aqua / Scorpio match question.
I have dated a lot of signs and I find the Cancers and Scorpios feel very familiar and intense but also maybe too much of the same thing. I got on very happily with Taurus but I also feel like it lacked a mental electricity.
I dated one Aqua when I was much younger, and we were very deeply in love. It was definitely an old skool romance kind of situation and I think part of me was always a mystery to him and vice versa but the connection was ethereal in a way. We would just sit in silence and the eye contact would tell us all we needed to know. I think he found safety in me and drowned a little in my emotions. I was patient and compassionate with him in a way I am not naturally so with others. We broke up because we were so young at the time, but it took both of us 10 years or more to get over it. I saw his Mom last year and she said to me "gosh, you were so, so in love it took him so long to ever get over it". I felt the same. He actually married a Scorpio woman 17 years later so maybe it was the same kind of connection.
This Aqua is different because the connection is there but the willingness is lacking. I do have that same sense of gentle patience with him though. I am very tolerant of him in ways I would not normally be and I find that an interesting observation. Quite often over the past year it's amazed me that after the circumstances we have been in it's kind of weird that we even still talk much less connect! Yet, he seems to continually make a special exception for me and vice versa.
It can be an amazing, soul level match but I think only if you can overcome the initial hurdle and it requires both to compromise. He has to accept my emotional intensity and outbursts of feeling and emotionally laden analysis and love those things about me and I have to patiently tolerate his wandering soul and welcome it back without anger.
It has potential to be beautiful I think.
With any relationship though it always starts with a choice!
Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.click to expand
Posted by GeminiGirl052388Yes, Im beginning to notice some of this in his words and actions. Do aquas ever test u to see how much you trust them or how you handle space? I’m probably overthinking things. I know he’s incredibly busy with work lately. I just wonder if this is a relationship test for both of us. To see if we can handle it because he probably will be busy for awhile.Posted by pinkbird03Honestly, dont believe Saweetz. Lol she doesnt know what shes talking about. She didnt grow strong from meeting the aqua. if she was, she wouldnt be taking crap from the man.Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.
On the other hand, compy was right that they love strong women. Women with a life that revolves outside of the relationship. Have a career of your own, friends of your own. And well, be prepared because if he feels weak as a man, he will turn to you for comfort and pull strength and excitement from you.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03i think if they're men, and if they have capricorn they have a plan for their future.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Yes, Im beginning to notice some of this in his words and actions. Do aquas ever test u to see how much you trust them or how you handle space? I’m probably overthinking things. I know he’s incredibly busy with work lately. I just wonder if this is a relationship test for both of us. To see if we can handle it because he probably will be busy for awhile.Posted by pinkbird03Honestly, dont believe Saweetz. Lol she doesnt know what shes talking about. She didnt grow strong from meeting the aqua. if she was, she wouldnt be taking crap from the man.Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.
On the other hand, compy was right that they love strong women. Women with a life that revolves outside of the relationship. Have a career of your own, friends of your own. And well, be prepared because if he feels weak as a man, he will turn to you for comfort and pull strength and excitement from you.click to expand
i dont know about other types.
for me i notice that my man needs more space than i do, and that's fine for me. but he's always with me kind of thing.
so basically no "cramping my style " kind of thing.
like being all up into your butt 24/7 ....do your own thing even when you're committed.
they say do your own thing when the guy hasn't committed and is out there and you're waiting for him...
but then i dont believe that saying because how the hell is he gonna commit to you? he's never gonna cause he left.
Posted by lisabethur8Mine is Capricorn cusp and he’s committed to mePosted by pinkbird03i think if they're men, and if they have capricorn they have a plan for their future.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Yes, Im beginning to notice some of this in his words and actions. Do aquas ever test u to see how much you trust them or how you handle space? I’m probably overthinking things. I know he’s incredibly busy with work lately. I just wonder if this is a relationship test for both of us. To see if we can handle it because he probably will be busy for awhile.Posted by pinkbird03Honestly, dont believe Saweetz. Lol she doesnt know what shes talking about. She didnt grow strong from meeting the aqua. if she was, she wouldnt be taking crap from the man.Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.
On the other hand, compy was right that they love strong women. Women with a life that revolves outside of the relationship. Have a career of your own, friends of your own. And well, be prepared because if he feels weak as a man, he will turn to you for comfort and pull strength and excitement from you.
i dont know about other types.
for me i notice that my man needs more space than i do, and that's fine for me. but he's always with me kind of thing.
so basically no "cramping my style " kind of thing.
like being all up into your butt 24/7 ....do your own thing even when you're committed.
they say do your own thing when the guy hasn't committed and is out there and you're waiting for him...
but then i dont believe that saying because how the hell is he gonna commit to you? he's never gonna cause he left.click to expand
I think you’re right that he’s planning for the future. I’ve been patient so far but I miss him because it’s the weekend and he’s working. He’s sweet though. He sends me pictures of exactly what he’s working on and where he is sometimes. I don’t even ask for it. That’s his way of checking in. Posted by GeminiGirl052388That’s a good idea. Maybe I’ll suggest a date night soon. But not yet. Right now is an important time I think. He explained some of it to me but I think I’d honestly have to shadow him at work to see exactly how his life is because it’s complicated. He explained that he’s a completely different person at work than he is when he’s not there. Sooo I need to just be patient and not get the weekend blues lolPosted by pinkbird03Some people call it a test. For me its more like getting comfortable from his side that he didnt think he needs to be always be there and available for his partner. I did have that issue at one point and I threw tantrums lol I was young and the relationship was new. Not good. What I learned though, was asking my aqua ex first if he is ok. After that he asked me why i am asking and I said I just felt like he has been too busy lately and sometimes I miss us having time to spend together. I mentioned that if he is definitely busy at work, I understand but please consider maybe a date night or vacation together so we can catch up with each other. Not forcing him ofcourse. Aqua men like their space and they can be quite competitive too so at work, they wanna focus. But of course being in a relationship, it cant always be like that. So managing time for each other is something that should also be taken care of.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Yes, Im beginning to notice some of this in his words and actions. Do aquas ever test u to see how much you trust them or how you handle space? I’m probably overthinking things. I know he’s incredibly busy with work lately. I just wonder if this is a relationship test for both of us. To see if we can handle it because he probably will be busy for awhile.Posted by pinkbird03Honestly, dont believe Saweetz. Lol she doesnt know what shes talking about. She didnt grow strong from meeting the aqua. if she was, she wouldnt be taking crap from the man.Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.
On the other hand, compy was right that they love strong women. Women with a life that revolves outside of the relationship. Have a career of your own, friends of your own. And well, be prepared because if he feels weak as a man, he will turn to you for comfort and pull strength and excitement from you.
I said this before but in the end, my ex agreed that wednesday is date night no matter how busy the week is. That way he can focus 100% on his job or what he needed to do all week but Wednesday is for me. Its our time to talk, have dinner together, make love.click to expand
Posted by MondayMorningi personally would never recommend aquarius venus and scorpio venus together.
Ha ha, he's no George Clooney.
He has some amazing personal qualities, it's a shame he doesn't choose to give people any real chance for proper connection.
or aqua venus with any other than fire/air
and scorpio with earth/water.
wth the ego, (sun) at least you will have some idea of both of you ..of what you want out of life goals...and if they are the same and no complaints the rest should be GOOD.
however, in personal relationsihp...you'll have some problems with the loving..
he has pisces mars so you'll like that very much. and you have leo mars which is great...lots of fire mars with air sun and air moon combo, sometimes double air.
but i cant help but think that air and water combo is not gonna be good enough for you in the love relationship. you're having difficulties right now too.
but who knows...his water mars and his moon and houses might help.
also i'll give you an example..
my double father in law was married to a capricorn sun (trine) and they got together because they were in college and they had the same political views, i bet she noticed him because he followed the same ideals...but when it came to personal relationship they clashed big time that he (he is scorpio venus/Scorpio mars scorpio mercury) hated her in the end. he can't stand her ways.
and it has mostly to do with financial too. and she's just not very close, you can't get close in a huggy huggy way. there's a distance.
let me tell you, it is scorpio in the end that hates more!!!!!
and aquarius is gonna just forgive forgive and they dont understand WHY? they do, but they can't change their ways.
with his current, it's a water/earth venus and an AIR SUN.... they said to me (both of them) that they wouldnt be able to work together in an environment but in their homelife, they love eachother lots and she is CLINGY as hell. like go together alot like sardines in a can.
water venuses, like cancer and pisces and scorpio, they are like....CLING ON suffocating you with love and that's awesome to me. snug snug snugllleeee!! huggy huggy. lmao.
edit - earth venus is good too, because they show love and water venus APPRECIATES it.
well of course i dont see that personally with my father in law and his wife, but they are always together. and one thing i note, she FOLLOWS him, like he is the leader.
which he likes ALOT.
like i said it maybe good...but in the long term.... you need that water OR earth venus. because they understand your love stye.
your Leo mars might love that aqua venus, so i dont know how it works. sometimes it is a wide orb and your leo mars is right on his aqua sun. and his pisces mars on your scorpio sun.
so yes air sun and water sun is good as long as you have SAME life goals..
but your LOVE department...might be a problem. i wish you luck!!!
like i said, you have LEO mars...so that changes and he has pisces mars. but you'd have to go to a professional astrologer to find out your houses ect.
oh this is just for males though. (especially if they are more INTENSE)
it maybe different for females like yourself.
edit
here is a good example of a couple that has different LIFE GOALS... they clash and ultimately divorce.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-4910206/Fergie-opens-split-Josh-Duhamel.html
he wants her to simmer down on the career and have more babies and be more homebody,
he told her he wanted like six kids or something...and they had one.
when her Duchess album became a successs that's when the marriage started getting worse.
https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/4756949/fergie-didnt-want-to-divorce-husband-josh-duhamel/
it maybe different for females like yourself.
edit
here is a good example of a couple that has different LIFE GOALS... they clash and ultimately divorce.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-4910206/Fergie-opens-split-Josh-Duhamel.html
he wants her to simmer down on the career and have more babies and be more homebody,
he told her he wanted like six kids or something...and they had one.
when her Duchess album became a successs that's when the marriage started getting worse.
https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/4756949/fergie-didnt-want-to-divorce-husband-josh-duhamel/
Posted by pinkbird03do you have fun hobbies?? besides astrologyPosted by GeminiGirl052388That’s a good idea. Maybe I’ll suggest a date night soon. But not yet. Right now is an important time I think. He explained some of it to me but I think I’d honestly have to shadow him at work to see exactly how his life is because it’s complicated. He explained that he’s a completely different person at work than he is when he’s not there. Sooo I need to just be patient and not get the weekend blues lolPosted by pinkbird03Some people call it a test. For me its more like getting comfortable from his side that he didnt think he needs to be always be there and available for his partner. I did have that issue at one point and I threw tantrums lol I was young and the relationship was new. Not good. What I learned though, was asking my aqua ex first if he is ok. After that he asked me why i am asking and I said I just felt like he has been too busy lately and sometimes I miss us having time to spend together. I mentioned that if he is definitely busy at work, I understand but please consider maybe a date night or vacation together so we can catch up with each other. Not forcing him ofcourse. Aqua men like their space and they can be quite competitive too so at work, they wanna focus. But of course being in a relationship, it cant always be like that. So managing time for each other is something that should also be taken care of.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Yes, Im beginning to notice some of this in his words and actions. Do aquas ever test u to see how much you trust them or how you handle space? I’m probably overthinking things. I know he’s incredibly busy with work lately. I just wonder if this is a relationship test for both of us. To see if we can handle it because he probably will be busy for awhile.Posted by pinkbird03Honestly, dont believe Saweetz. Lol she doesnt know what shes talking about. She didnt grow strong from meeting the aqua. if she was, she wouldnt be taking crap from the man.Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.
On the other hand, compy was right that they love strong women. Women with a life that revolves outside of the relationship. Have a career of your own, friends of your own. And well, be prepared because if he feels weak as a man, he will turn to you for comfort and pull strength and excitement from you.
I said this before but in the end, my ex agreed that wednesday is date night no matter how busy the week is. That way he can focus 100% on his job or what he needed to do all week but Wednesday is for me. Its our time to talk, have dinner together, make love.click to expand
keeping your mind busy with other stuff like sewing, painting pumpkin faces, or cleaning, cooking,....
is always good. even photoshopping on the computer. lol
Posted by AerialViewHaha, and even worsePosted by MondayMorning@MyStarsShine would give you her stories about aquas, xmas, pub, food and bin lol
It's interesting on the Aqua / Scorpio match question.
I have dated a lot of signs and I find the Cancers and Scorpios feel very familiar and intense but also maybe too much of the same thing. I got on very happily with Taurus but I also feel like it lacked a mental electricity.
I dated one Aqua when I was much younger, and we were very deeply in love. It was definitely an old skool romance kind of situation and I think part of me was always a mystery to him and vice versa but the connection was ethereal in a way. We would just sit in silence and the eye contact would tell us all we needed to know. I think he found safety in me and drowned a little in my emotions. I was patient and compassionate with him in a way I am not naturally so with others. We broke up because we were so young at the time, but it took both of us 10 years or more to get over it. I saw his Mom last year and she said to me "gosh, you were so, so in love it took him so long to ever get over it". I felt the same. He actually married a Scorpio woman 17 years later so maybe it was the same kind of connection.
This Aqua is different because the connection is there but the willingness is lacking. I do have that same sense of gentle patience with him though. I am very tolerant of him in ways I would not normally be and I find that an interesting observation. Quite often over the past year it's amazed me that after the circumstances we have been in it's kind of weird that we even still talk much less connect! Yet, he seems to continually make a special exception for me and vice versa.
It can be an amazing, soul level match but I think only if you can overcome the initial hurdle and it requires both to compromise. He has to accept my emotional intensity and outbursts of feeling and emotionally laden analysis and love those things about me and I have to patiently tolerate his wandering soul and welcome it back without anger.
It has potential to be beautiful I think.
With any relationship though it always starts with a choice!click to expand
Gambling addiction, compulsive lying, drug addiction and more
But that is just my experience
The latest I heard of an aqua guy in the village I live in..... married a woman who is madly in love with him and told his ex he did it for tax reasons. He is still tryIng to get his ex into bed. He can't commit to save his life
He is in his 50s
He describes himself as a "headfvck"
Lol
I do think we have very similar life goals in general I think. We're compatible on politics, family, retirement, the kinds of things we both like doing. The tricky part would probably be the day to day love languages but I have figured out from knowing him that he expresses his love in a different way to me. I do it verbally, he does it by acts of service. So doing things for you and being practically supportive.
I have heard him speak to his children when they're scared or worried it and it was quite similar to how he was with me when I was sick. No flowery words, but supportive and gentle. I don't know if it would work, but I'd like to try.
I am just trying to decide whether what I need to do right now is withdraw and become unavailable from his life for a while or just remaining a steady constant with no pressure. I definitely don't want him to take me for granted and now he knows he can have me I don't want that to have a negative impact or to mess with my own head.
I have heard him speak to his children when they're scared or worried it and it was quite similar to how he was with me when I was sick. No flowery words, but supportive and gentle. I don't know if it would work, but I'd like to try.
I am just trying to decide whether what I need to do right now is withdraw and become unavailable from his life for a while or just remaining a steady constant with no pressure. I definitely don't want him to take me for granted and now he knows he can have me I don't want that to have a negative impact or to mess with my own head.
Posted by MyStarsShinei'm sure you still have more "headfvck" stories about us lol but what about the good ones?Posted by AerialViewHaha, and even worsePosted by MondayMorning@MyStarsShine would give you her stories about aquas, xmas, pub, food and bin lol
It's interesting on the Aqua / Scorpio match question.
I have dated a lot of signs and I find the Cancers and Scorpios feel very familiar and intense but also maybe too much of the same thing. I got on very happily with Taurus but I also feel like it lacked a mental electricity.
I dated one Aqua when I was much younger, and we were very deeply in love. It was definitely an old skool romance kind of situation and I think part of me was always a mystery to him and vice versa but the connection was ethereal in a way. We would just sit in silence and the eye contact would tell us all we needed to know. I think he found safety in me and drowned a little in my emotions. I was patient and compassionate with him in a way I am not naturally so with others. We broke up because we were so young at the time, but it took both of us 10 years or more to get over it. I saw his Mom last year and she said to me "gosh, you were so, so in love it took him so long to ever get over it". I felt the same. He actually married a Scorpio woman 17 years later so maybe it was the same kind of connection.
This Aqua is different because the connection is there but the willingness is lacking. I do have that same sense of gentle patience with him though. I am very tolerant of him in ways I would not normally be and I find that an interesting observation. Quite often over the past year it's amazed me that after the circumstances we have been in it's kind of weird that we even still talk much less connect! Yet, he seems to continually make a special exception for me and vice versa.
It can be an amazing, soul level match but I think only if you can overcome the initial hurdle and it requires both to compromise. He has to accept my emotional intensity and outbursts of feeling and emotionally laden analysis and love those things about me and I have to patiently tolerate his wandering soul and welcome it back without anger.
It has potential to be beautiful I think.
With any relationship though it always starts with a choice!
Gambling addiction, compulsive lying, drug addiction and more
But that is just my experience
The latest I heard of an aqua guy in the village I live in..... married a woman who is madly in love with him and told his ex he did it for tax reasons. He is still tryIng to get his ex into bed. He can't commit to save his life
He is in his 50s
He describes himself as a "headfvck"
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Posted by GeminiGirl052388True. I need to keep him on his toes!Posted by pinkbird03Yes. Getting clingy and emotional at this kind of stage wont work well. I tried it hahaha so remain calm, be a good woman and be strong. Also learn new things so there is something new that you can talk to him about. Then hes gonna start missing having you around a lot because he will get excited with the "newness"Posted by GeminiGirl052388That’s a good idea. Maybe I’ll suggest a date night soon. But not yet. Right now is an important time I think. He explained some of it to me but I think I’d honestly have to shadow him at work to see exactly how his life is because it’s complicated. He explained that he’s a completely different person at work than he is when he’s not there. Sooo I need to just be patient and not get the weekend blues lolPosted by pinkbird03Some people call it a test. For me its more like getting comfortable from his side that he didnt think he needs to be always be there and available for his partner. I did have that issue at one point and I threw tantrums lol I was young and the relationship was new. Not good. What I learned though, was asking my aqua ex first if he is ok. After that he asked me why i am asking and I said I just felt like he has been too busy lately and sometimes I miss us having time to spend together. I mentioned that if he is definitely busy at work, I understand but please consider maybe a date night or vacation together so we can catch up with each other. Not forcing him ofcourse. Aqua men like their space and they can be quite competitive too so at work, they wanna focus. But of course being in a relationship, it cant always be like that. So managing time for each other is something that should also be taken care of.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Yes, Im beginning to notice some of this in his words and actions. Do aquas ever test u to see how much you trust them or how you handle space? I’m probably overthinking things. I know he’s incredibly busy with work lately. I just wonder if this is a relationship test for both of us. To see if we can handle it because he probably will be busy for awhile.Posted by pinkbird03Honestly, dont believe Saweetz. Lol she doesnt know what shes talking about. She didnt grow strong from meeting the aqua. if she was, she wouldnt be taking crap from the man.Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.
On the other hand, compy was right that they love strong women. Women with a life that revolves outside of the relationship. Have a career of your own, friends of your own. And well, be prepared because if he feels weak as a man, he will turn to you for comfort and pull strength and excitement from you.
I said this before but in the end, my ex agreed that wednesday is date night no matter how busy the week is. That way he can focus 100% on his job or what he needed to do all week but Wednesday is for me. Its our time to talk, have dinner together, make love.
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Posted by lisabethur8I was just shopping online the last hour 😁Posted by pinkbird03do you have fun hobbies?? besides astrologyPosted by GeminiGirl052388That’s a good idea. Maybe I’ll suggest a date night soon. But not yet. Right now is an important time I think. He explained some of it to me but I think I’d honestly have to shadow him at work to see exactly how his life is because it’s complicated. He explained that he’s a completely different person at work than he is when he’s not there. Sooo I need to just be patient and not get the weekend blues lolPosted by pinkbird03Some people call it a test. For me its more like getting comfortable from his side that he didnt think he needs to be always be there and available for his partner. I did have that issue at one point and I threw tantrums lol I was young and the relationship was new. Not good. What I learned though, was asking my aqua ex first if he is ok. After that he asked me why i am asking and I said I just felt like he has been too busy lately and sometimes I miss us having time to spend together. I mentioned that if he is definitely busy at work, I understand but please consider maybe a date night or vacation together so we can catch up with each other. Not forcing him ofcourse. Aqua men like their space and they can be quite competitive too so at work, they wanna focus. But of course being in a relationship, it cant always be like that. So managing time for each other is something that should also be taken care of.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Yes, Im beginning to notice some of this in his words and actions. Do aquas ever test u to see how much you trust them or how you handle space? I’m probably overthinking things. I know he’s incredibly busy with work lately. I just wonder if this is a relationship test for both of us. To see if we can handle it because he probably will be busy for awhile.Posted by pinkbird03Honestly, dont believe Saweetz. Lol she doesnt know what shes talking about. She didnt grow strong from meeting the aqua. if she was, she wouldnt be taking crap from the man.Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.
On the other hand, compy was right that they love strong women. Women with a life that revolves outside of the relationship. Have a career of your own, friends of your own. And well, be prepared because if he feels weak as a man, he will turn to you for comfort and pull strength and excitement from you.
I said this before but in the end, my ex agreed that wednesday is date night no matter how busy the week is. That way he can focus 100% on his job or what he needed to do all week but Wednesday is for me. Its our time to talk, have dinner together, make love.
keeping your mind busy with other stuff like sewing, painting pumpkin faces, or cleaning, cooking,....
is always good. even photoshopping on the computer. lolclick to expand
Shopping is one of my biggest hobbies. Sometimes I go to social networking mixers, I paint, always cleaning lol, love football (went to an nfl game on the oct 15th, get my nails done, play around with photography/photo projects, dinner and drinks a lot and travel sometimes. I do so much more in the summer though. Need more fall/winter hobbies!!
Posted by MondayMorningwhat's his moon sign?
I do think we have very similar life goals in general I think. We're compatible on politics, family, retirement, the kinds of things we both like doing. The tricky part would probably be the day to day love languages but I have figured out from knowing him that he expresses his love in a different way to me. I do it verbally, he does it by acts of service. So doing things for you and being practically supportive.
I have heard him speak to his children when they're scared or worried it and it was quite similar to how he was with me when I was sick. No flowery words, but supportive and gentle. I don't know if it would work, but I'd like to try.
I am just trying to decide whether what I need to do right now is withdraw and become unavailable from his life for a while or just remaining a steady constant with no pressure. I definitely don't want him to take me for granted and now he knows he can have me I don't want that to have a negative impact or to mess with my own head.
well if you feel it's gonna be good, and he feels the same way. then that's good.
you have to experience it for yourself.
Posted by pinkbird03lolPosted by lisabethur8I was just shopping online the last hour 😁Posted by pinkbird03do you have fun hobbies?? besides astrologyPosted by GeminiGirl052388That’s a good idea. Maybe I’ll suggest a date night soon. But not yet. Right now is an important time I think. He explained some of it to me but I think I’d honestly have to shadow him at work to see exactly how his life is because it’s complicated. He explained that he’s a completely different person at work than he is when he’s not there. Sooo I need to just be patient and not get the weekend blues lolPosted by pinkbird03Some people call it a test. For me its more like getting comfortable from his side that he didnt think he needs to be always be there and available for his partner. I did have that issue at one point and I threw tantrums lol I was young and the relationship was new. Not good. What I learned though, was asking my aqua ex first if he is ok. After that he asked me why i am asking and I said I just felt like he has been too busy lately and sometimes I miss us having time to spend together. I mentioned that if he is definitely busy at work, I understand but please consider maybe a date night or vacation together so we can catch up with each other. Not forcing him ofcourse. Aqua men like their space and they can be quite competitive too so at work, they wanna focus. But of course being in a relationship, it cant always be like that. So managing time for each other is something that should also be taken care of.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Yes, Im beginning to notice some of this in his words and actions. Do aquas ever test u to see how much you trust them or how you handle space? I’m probably overthinking things. I know he’s incredibly busy with work lately. I just wonder if this is a relationship test for both of us. To see if we can handle it because he probably will be busy for awhile.Posted by pinkbird03Honestly, dont believe Saweetz. Lol she doesnt know what shes talking about. She didnt grow strong from meeting the aqua. if she was, she wouldnt be taking crap from the man.Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.
On the other hand, compy was right that they love strong women. Women with a life that revolves outside of the relationship. Have a career of your own, friends of your own. And well, be prepared because if he feels weak as a man, he will turn to you for comfort and pull strength and excitement from you.
I said this before but in the end, my ex agreed that wednesday is date night no matter how busy the week is. That way he can focus 100% on his job or what he needed to do all week but Wednesday is for me. Its our time to talk, have dinner together, make love.
keeping your mind busy with other stuff like sewing, painting pumpkin faces, or cleaning, cooking,....
is always good. even photoshopping on the computer. lol
Shopping is one of my biggest hobbies. Sometimes I go to social networking mixers, I paint, always cleaning lol, love football (went to an nfl game on the oct 15th, get my nails done, play around with photography/photo projects, dinner and drinks a lot and travel sometimes. I do so much more in the summer though. Need more fall/winter hobbies!!click to expand
really? shopping is your hobby?
you're gonna make the network shopping channel so happy
what do you buy? or do you jsut watch?
football games sound fun, my sister and her husband does that alot, they go to football games and sport games together, but not as much before they had their baby. That's what they did before when they were dating.
what do you do in the winters?
Posted by lisabethur8I bought some clothes 😁Posted by pinkbird03lolPosted by lisabethur8I was just shopping online the last hour 😁Posted by pinkbird03do you have fun hobbies?? besides astrologyPosted by GeminiGirl052388That’s a good idea. Maybe I’ll suggest a date night soon. But not yet. Right now is an important time I think. He explained some of it to me but I think I’d honestly have to shadow him at work to see exactly how his life is because it’s complicated. He explained that he’s a completely different person at work than he is when he’s not there. Sooo I need to just be patient and not get the weekend blues lolPosted by pinkbird03Some people call it a test. For me its more like getting comfortable from his side that he didnt think he needs to be always be there and available for his partner. I did have that issue at one point and I threw tantrums lol I was young and the relationship was new. Not good. What I learned though, was asking my aqua ex first if he is ok. After that he asked me why i am asking and I said I just felt like he has been too busy lately and sometimes I miss us having time to spend together. I mentioned that if he is definitely busy at work, I understand but please consider maybe a date night or vacation together so we can catch up with each other. Not forcing him ofcourse. Aqua men like their space and they can be quite competitive too so at work, they wanna focus. But of course being in a relationship, it cant always be like that. So managing time for each other is something that should also be taken care of.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Yes, Im beginning to notice some of this in his words and actions. Do aquas ever test u to see how much you trust them or how you handle space? I’m probably overthinking things. I know he’s incredibly busy with work lately. I just wonder if this is a relationship test for both of us. To see if we can handle it because he probably will be busy for awhile.Posted by pinkbird03Honestly, dont believe Saweetz. Lol she doesnt know what shes talking about. She didnt grow strong from meeting the aqua. if she was, she wouldnt be taking crap from the man.Posted by saweetz1988Can you explain this some more? In what ways did you get stronger? I sort of feel like that’s what’s going on now with my bf because he’s working non-stop lately and I’m just being patient and letting him stay focused. Usually though, I’m kinda needy. I mean as a cancer, that comes natural.Posted by compyYeb this is very true. They only love strong women.... after a while don't expect that nice treatment for long hehehe ... they want to know u can handle life crisis all on your own.. they want a whole person not a half... seriously I have grown to b so omg , strong since meeting this Aqua.. the fire just keep coming coz he secretly pushes that side out of me. God knows how he did it, but Mayve now he's regretting it lol... Aqua is crazy, one min they want u to b strong the next min they r kind of sad if u r too strong or stronger than them...
They nurture you if they think you are vulnerable. They like strong women. So, don;t rely on them in the future. Be strong, for yourself. They are extra.
On the other hand, compy was right that they love strong women. Women with a life that revolves outside of the relationship. Have a career of your own, friends of your own. And well, be prepared because if he feels weak as a man, he will turn to you for comfort and pull strength and excitement from you.
I said this before but in the end, my ex agreed that wednesday is date night no matter how busy the week is. That way he can focus 100% on his job or what he needed to do all week but Wednesday is for me. Its our time to talk, have dinner together, make love.
keeping your mind busy with other stuff like sewing, painting pumpkin faces, or cleaning, cooking,....
is always good. even photoshopping on the computer. lol
Shopping is one of my biggest hobbies. Sometimes I go to social networking mixers, I paint, always cleaning lol, love football (went to an nfl game on the oct 15th, get my nails done, play around with photography/photo projects, dinner and drinks a lot and travel sometimes. I do so much more in the summer though. Need more fall/winter hobbies!!
really? shopping is your hobby?
what do you buy? or do you jsut watch?
football games sound fun, my sister and her husband does that alot, they go to football games and sport games together, but not as much before they had their baby. That's what they did before when they were dating.
what do you do in the winters?click to expand
I love to shop for jewelry, things for my Home, gifts for people, everything. I love to go to craft fairs, malls, outlets, etc. my bf says he loves to shop, but we have only gone to a liquor store and yep, he enjoys buying whatever looks good lol it’s good we both have similar views on almost everything.
@lisabethur8 I just went to check the moon sign and realised I'd put in his birth year wrong the first time. Duh. He is actually:
Sun, Aquarius
Moon, Sag
Mercury, Cap
Venus, Sag
Mars, Sag
I have gotten quite down about it over the course of the day. I think this is probably just not going to happen because I put it out there and I haven't had a positive response on it. I think if his intention was to date me he would have said so by now.
I have a gut feeling that he has a magnetic draw and attraction to me, and a tender liking, but he doesn't see me as a future potential. I think if he did, he would have done something more about it and not be dating anyone else.
It might just be one of those things where I really care about someone but have to say goodbye and get over it!
Sun, Aquarius
Moon, Sag
Mercury, Cap
Venus, Sag
Mars, Sag
I have gotten quite down about it over the course of the day. I think this is probably just not going to happen because I put it out there and I haven't had a positive response on it. I think if his intention was to date me he would have said so by now.
I have a gut feeling that he has a magnetic draw and attraction to me, and a tender liking, but he doesn't see me as a future potential. I think if he did, he would have done something more about it and not be dating anyone else.
It might just be one of those things where I really care about someone but have to say goodbye and get over it!
Posted by MondayMorningtoo bad there aren't any male aquas here ....with alot of sag. (i think aerialview is dominant sag but he's a double aqua with lots of pisces)
@lisabethur8 I just went to check the moon sign and realised I'd put in his birth year wrong the first time. Duh. He is actually:
Sun, Aquarius
Moon, Sag
Mercury, Cap
Venus, Sag
Mars, Sag
I have gotten quite down about it over the course of the day. I think this is probably just not going to happen because I put it out there and I haven't had a positive response on it. I think if his intention was to date me he would have said so by now.
I have a gut feeling that he has a magnetic draw and attraction to me, and a tender liking, but he doesn't see me as a future potential. I think if he did, he would have done something more about it and not be dating anyone else.
It might just be one of those things where I really care about someone but have to say goodbye and get over it!
there's only Justagirl with that much sag....
and worse case scenerio...
with that much sagittarius and you having that much scorpio...
eww. not good.
he gonna RUN away from your clingyness.
we have a scorpio sun cousin (my hsuband's side) who is female she got Scorpio sun, Scorpoi venus Leo mars..cancer moon.
just that natally...and she ran after this guy...to another country, even though he got himself another girlfriend to show her off to her face. but she said to the family members that he will CHANGE his mind.
my mother in law and his aunties who were all involved and knew this.... were all shaking their heads.
and hopefully that she comes to her senses.
it took years...and the man never changed his mind.
she came back eventually. and married a clingier man who stayed with her and took care of the children and home and she got to do whatever she wanted professionally. it is a good working loving relationshp.
with that much sagittarius and you having that much scorpio...
eww. not good.
he gonna RUN away from your clingyness.
we have a scorpio sun cousin (my hsuband's side) who is female she got Scorpio sun, Scorpoi venus Leo mars..cancer moon.
just that natally...and she ran after this guy...to another country, even though he got himself another girlfriend to show her off to her face. but she said to the family members that he will CHANGE his mind.
my mother in law and his aunties who were all involved and knew this.... were all shaking their heads.
and hopefully that she comes to her senses.
it took years...and the man never changed his mind.
she came back eventually. and married a clingier man who stayed with her and took care of the children and home and she got to do whatever she wanted professionally. it is a good working loving relationshp.
Posted by AerialViewGreat funPosted by MyStarsShinei'm sure you still have more "headfvck" stories about us lol but what about the good ones?Posted by AerialViewHaha, and even worsePosted by MondayMorning@MyStarsShine would give you her stories about aquas, xmas, pub, food and bin lol
It's interesting on the Aqua / Scorpio match question.
I have dated a lot of signs and I find the Cancers and Scorpios feel very familiar and intense but also maybe too much of the same thing. I got on very happily with Taurus but I also feel like it lacked a mental electricity.
I dated one Aqua when I was much younger, and we were very deeply in love. It was definitely an old skool romance kind of situation and I think part of me was always a mystery to him and vice versa but the connection was ethereal in a way. We would just sit in silence and the eye contact would tell us all we needed to know. I think he found safety in me and drowned a little in my emotions. I was patient and compassionate with him in a way I am not naturally so with others. We broke up because we were so young at the time, but it took both of us 10 years or more to get over it. I saw his Mom last year and she said to me "gosh, you were so, so in love it took him so long to ever get over it". I felt the same. He actually married a Scorpio woman 17 years later so maybe it was the same kind of connection.
This Aqua is different because the connection is there but the willingness is lacking. I do have that same sense of gentle patience with him though. I am very tolerant of him in ways I would not normally be and I find that an interesting observation. Quite often over the past year it's amazed me that after the circumstances we have been in it's kind of weird that we even still talk much less connect! Yet, he seems to continually make a special exception for me and vice versa.
It can be an amazing, soul level match but I think only if you can overcome the initial hurdle and it requires both to compromise. He has to accept my emotional intensity and outbursts of feeling and emotionally laden analysis and love those things about me and I have to patiently tolerate his wandering soul and welcome it back without anger.
It has potential to be beautiful I think.
With any relationship though it always starts with a choice!
Gambling addiction, compulsive lying, drug addiction and more
But that is just my experience
The latest I heard of an aqua guy in the village I live in..... married a woman who is madly in love with him and told his ex he did it for tax reasons. He is still tryIng to get his ex into bed. He can't commit to save his life
He is in his 50s
He describes himself as a "headfvck"
Lolclick to expand
Very romantic (both the ones i was with)
Interestingly eccentric
Will that do?
For now
?Being with an older aqua, who used to do the push and pull initially, give him his own space!! Do your thing but when you talk, show him your feelings and show him you're always there when he needs someone. These men are the sweetest once they fall for you, but in person. They aren't good at communicating via text or phone so understand that and accept it. I was straight up from the beginning and set clauses that I won't even kiss a man till we are exclusive. He says till this day (8 months later) that he respects me because I'm the most committed woman with self respect he knows. Be strong, ambitious and talk to him about your career goals. And it's ok to call and text him first. I didn't always let him chase. Just go with your gut and don't play mind games. But be a strong lady!
Posted by MyStarsShineuhm not enough.Posted by AerialViewGreat funPosted by MyStarsShinei'm sure you still have more "headfvck" stories about us lol but what about the good ones?Posted by AerialViewHaha, and even worsePosted by MondayMorning@MyStarsShine would give you her stories about aquas, xmas, pub, food and bin lol
It's interesting on the Aqua / Scorpio match question.
I have dated a lot of signs and I find the Cancers and Scorpios feel very familiar and intense but also maybe too much of the same thing. I got on very happily with Taurus but I also feel like it lacked a mental electricity.
I dated one Aqua when I was much younger, and we were very deeply in love. It was definitely an old skool romance kind of situation and I think part of me was always a mystery to him and vice versa but the connection was ethereal in a way. We would just sit in silence and the eye contact would tell us all we needed to know. I think he found safety in me and drowned a little in my emotions. I was patient and compassionate with him in a way I am not naturally so with others. We broke up because we were so young at the time, but it took both of us 10 years or more to get over it. I saw his Mom last year and she said to me "gosh, you were so, so in love it took him so long to ever get over it". I felt the same. He actually married a Scorpio woman 17 years later so maybe it was the same kind of connection.
This Aqua is different because the connection is there but the willingness is lacking. I do have that same sense of gentle patience with him though. I am very tolerant of him in ways I would not normally be and I find that an interesting observation. Quite often over the past year it's amazed me that after the circumstances we have been in it's kind of weird that we even still talk much less connect! Yet, he seems to continually make a special exception for me and vice versa.
It can be an amazing, soul level match but I think only if you can overcome the initial hurdle and it requires both to compromise. He has to accept my emotional intensity and outbursts of feeling and emotionally laden analysis and love those things about me and I have to patiently tolerate his wandering soul and welcome it back without anger.
It has potential to be beautiful I think.
With any relationship though it always starts with a choice!
Gambling addiction, compulsive lying, drug addiction and more
But that is just my experience
The latest I heard of an aqua guy in the village I live in..... married a woman who is madly in love with him and told his ex he did it for tax reasons. He is still tryIng to get his ex into bed. He can't commit to save his life
He is in his 50s
He describes himself as a "headfvck"
Lol
Very romantic (both the ones i was with)
Interestingly eccentric
Will that do?
For nowclick to expand
real examples.
like good things he has done for you.
c'mon give us an appreciation
Posted by AerialViewYour poor ego ♒️ LolPosted by MyStarsShineuhm not enough.Posted by AerialViewGreat funPosted by MyStarsShinei'm sure you still have more "headfvck" stories about us lol but what about the good ones?Posted by AerialViewHaha, and even worsePosted by MondayMorning@MyStarsShine would give you her stories about aquas, xmas, pub, food and bin lol
It's interesting on the Aqua / Scorpio match question.
I have dated a lot of signs and I find the Cancers and Scorpios feel very familiar and intense but also maybe too much of the same thing. I got on very happily with Taurus but I also feel like it lacked a mental electricity.
I dated one Aqua when I was much younger, and we were very deeply in love. It was definitely an old skool romance kind of situation and I think part of me was always a mystery to him and vice versa but the connection was ethereal in a way. We would just sit in silence and the eye contact would tell us all we needed to know. I think he found safety in me and drowned a little in my emotions. I was patient and compassionate with him in a way I am not naturally so with others. We broke up because we were so young at the time, but it took both of us 10 years or more to get over it. I saw his Mom last year and she said to me "gosh, you were so, so in love it took him so long to ever get over it". I felt the same. He actually married a Scorpio woman 17 years later so maybe it was the same kind of connection.
This Aqua is different because the connection is there but the willingness is lacking. I do have that same sense of gentle patience with him though. I am very tolerant of him in ways I would not normally be and I find that an interesting observation. Quite often over the past year it's amazed me that after the circumstances we have been in it's kind of weird that we even still talk much less connect! Yet, he seems to continually make a special exception for me and vice versa.
It can be an amazing, soul level match but I think only if you can overcome the initial hurdle and it requires both to compromise. He has to accept my emotional intensity and outbursts of feeling and emotionally laden analysis and love those things about me and I have to patiently tolerate his wandering soul and welcome it back without anger.
It has potential to be beautiful I think.
With any relationship though it always starts with a choice!
Gambling addiction, compulsive lying, drug addiction and more
But that is just my experience
The latest I heard of an aqua guy in the village I live in..... married a woman who is madly in love with him and told his ex he did it for tax reasons. He is still tryIng to get his ex into bed. He can't commit to save his life
He is in his 50s
He describes himself as a "headfvck"
Lol
Very romantic (both the ones i was with)
Interestingly eccentric
Will that do?
For now
real examples.
like good things he has done for you.
c'mon give us an appreciationclick to expand
Be back later when I can remember some
Hmmmmmm. 🤔
Posted by MyStarsShineI'll keep my eyes on this thread 👀👀Posted by AerialViewYour poor ego ♒️ LolPosted by MyStarsShineuhm not enough.Posted by AerialViewGreat funPosted by MyStarsShinei'm sure you still have more "headfvck" stories about us lol but what about the good ones?Posted by AerialViewHaha, and even worsePosted by MondayMorning@MyStarsShine would give you her stories about aquas, xmas, pub, food and bin lol
It's interesting on the Aqua / Scorpio match question.
I have dated a lot of signs and I find the Cancers and Scorpios feel very familiar and intense but also maybe too much of the same thing. I got on very happily with Taurus but I also feel like it lacked a mental electricity.
I dated one Aqua when I was much younger, and we were very deeply in love. It was definitely an old skool romance kind of situation and I think part of me was always a mystery to him and vice versa but the connection was ethereal in a way. We would just sit in silence and the eye contact would tell us all we needed to know. I think he found safety in me and drowned a little in my emotions. I was patient and compassionate with him in a way I am not naturally so with others. We broke up because we were so young at the time, but it took both of us 10 years or more to get over it. I saw his Mom last year and she said to me "gosh, you were so, so in love it took him so long to ever get over it". I felt the same. He actually married a Scorpio woman 17 years later so maybe it was the same kind of connection.
This Aqua is different because the connection is there but the willingness is lacking. I do have that same sense of gentle patience with him though. I am very tolerant of him in ways I would not normally be and I find that an interesting observation. Quite often over the past year it's amazed me that after the circumstances we have been in it's kind of weird that we even still talk much less connect! Yet, he seems to continually make a special exception for me and vice versa.
It can be an amazing, soul level match but I think only if you can overcome the initial hurdle and it requires both to compromise. He has to accept my emotional intensity and outbursts of feeling and emotionally laden analysis and love those things about me and I have to patiently tolerate his wandering soul and welcome it back without anger.
It has potential to be beautiful I think.
With any relationship though it always starts with a choice!
Gambling addiction, compulsive lying, drug addiction and more
But that is just my experience
The latest I heard of an aqua guy in the village I live in..... married a woman who is madly in love with him and told his ex he did it for tax reasons. He is still tryIng to get his ex into bed. He can't commit to save his life
He is in his 50s
He describes himself as a "headfvck"
Lol
Very romantic (both the ones i was with)
Interestingly eccentric
Will that do?
For now
real examples.
like good things he has done for you.
c'mon give us an appreciation
Be back later when I can remember some
Hmmmmmm. 🤔click to expand
the saga is unravelling a bit tonight 
I sent him a message to see how he was and for the first time since I met him he actually spoke to me about what he was feeling properly. He said he went on a date tonight and he was miserable. He said he is lonely and feels like he is getting relationships wrong / hurting people and that he thinks he needs a therapist more than a date.
I told him that I was going to be open that I wanted to be with him, and for him to give it a chance. And he said I was a lovely person and he didn't want me to go away but he DID NOT say "Ok, me too".
So I think that was my answer! I feel pretty sad about it but I am also glad I have a direct answer.
I sent him a message to see how he was and for the first time since I met him he actually spoke to me about what he was feeling properly. He said he went on a date tonight and he was miserable. He said he is lonely and feels like he is getting relationships wrong / hurting people and that he thinks he needs a therapist more than a date. I told him that I was going to be open that I wanted to be with him, and for him to give it a chance. And he said I was a lovely person and he didn't want me to go away but he DID NOT say "Ok, me too".
So I think that was my answer!
I feel pretty sad about it but I am also glad I have a direct answer.Posted by lisabethur8i don't have lots of pisces. only two.Posted by MondayMorningtoo bad there aren't any male aquas here ....with alot of sag. (i think aerialview is dominant sag but he's a double aqua with lots of pisces)
@lisabethur8 I just went to check the moon sign and realised I'd put in his birth year wrong the first time. Duh. He is actually:
Sun, Aquarius
Moon, Sag
Mercury, Cap
Venus, Sag
Mars, Sag
I have gotten quite down about it over the course of the day. I think this is probably just not going to happen because I put it out there and I haven't had a positive response on it. I think if his intention was to date me he would have said so by now.
I have a gut feeling that he has a magnetic draw and attraction to me, and a tender liking, but he doesn't see me as a future potential. I think if he did, he would have done something more about it and not be dating anyone else.
It might just be one of those things where I really care about someone but have to say goodbye and get over it!
there's only Justagirl with that much sag....click to expand
Posted by MondayMorningIf he met with you, took care of you without sex, he probably really likes you. Just maybe he has some concerns. I think he will come back once he has made up his mind. Dont panic! Keep your cool.
Appreciate any Aquas who can give me some understanding of this because I am so confused by this guy I don't know whether he is just a manipulative person or whether I am not understanding him correctly. I am a Scorpio sun / Scorpio Venus / Mars Leo. He is an Aqua sun / Aqua Venus / Mars Pisces.
Basically, we met about a year ago and dated for a few months and and off. The attraction was very strong between us (especially on his side) and we got on great in general, but basically we butted heads on the terms of our relationship. I won't lie - I think I was possessive and demanding (sorry I am Scorpio, we do this) but I think he was also a bit unreasonable in expecting total freedom at the same time as sharing my bed which I was no way going to accept.
He had a lot of angst about whether or not he could commit to exclusivity with me - for whatever reason he saw this as a HUGE deal. He said I wanted too much too soon. Maybe I did, but at the same time I am not sleeping with any guy who is dating other women and that isn't negotiable.
He was pretty vocal about his various doubts moving forward. He was worried I was too intense (I am intense I admit). He was worried our relationship was too sexual without enough connection mentally. These doubts made me a bit angry at the time - we'd been dating a few weeks and had 5 or 6 dates and he definitely avoided too much intimacy emotionally. I always felt like I was trying to get closer to him and couldn't.
In the end, we split for a month and then he came back asking to see me again, he almost committed to trying dating me exclusively but then he panicked and disappeared on me without saying goodbye. I let him go without a word - his choice!
Six months passed and he sent me a message to tell me he had treated me disrespectfully and had been "a dick" and he was sorry for it. I accepted his apology and told him I hoped he was well. He said he felt maybe we had jumped into sex because the attraction was so strong and maybe we should have been friends first. I agreed. He said he got spooked, and he was just really truly sorry for it.
Over the next six months, he kept talking to me. He opened up quite a lot and I guess we became friends. He told me he hadn't been exclusive with anyone for years and found the idea made him feel trapped. Sometimes he told me he thought about me a lot and felt "nostalgic". Sometimes he told me that he fantastized all the time about me. Sometimes he asked me out, sometimes as friends or sometimes asked me to take a romantic trip away with him for a weekend so we could get to know each other.
I refused to see him because the truth is that I actually really like him and didn't want to get hurt. I felt like he rejected me once and now all he wanted was more of the great sex. I felt pretty sure if I did agree to see him, we'd end up in bed and then he'd disappear again.
Then I was really sick one day, feeling really low and sorry for myself, and he texted me that night by chance and when I said how I was feeling he just showed up at my house (first time seeing him for a year) and he basically took care of me.
He got me hot drinks, he brought food, he cleaned up, he held my hand and let me sleep on his chest and he just kept kissing me and stroking my face and hair. He didn't try anything sexual but he was incredibly kind and affectionate. We had a really intimate talk where he opened up on lots of stuff that was very personal and I honestly felt like I was falling in love that night.
I asked him why he did that for me, given the zero possibility of sex, and he said it was because I was a "nice person" and he said caring for people practically was his way of showing he cared about them and he wanted me to know that despite him behaving like a dick generally, he did like me a lot.
During that night he asked if we could do some things together as friends - like play sports or take a trip or swim together. He literally does NOT have women friends, so it was nice he wants to hang out but I also wondered a bit if this means he is no longer attracted to me romantically! ?? We did kiss, but that's all.
Since that night, 5 days has passed and I haven't heard a word from him and it made me feel really sad and confused.
What is all this about? I am just honestly confused about what this guy wants from me. For a long time I thought it was sex, but I don't understand why he came over to play nurse only to ignore me after. Is this some kind of jerk here or am I missing something?
Posted by MondayMorning
He phoned me today to ask how I was. He told me he had a bad date last night and wasn't sleeping well.
I said to him "I actually think we would be really great together" and he said "really?" (Seemed suprised ) and i said "yes".
So first of all he weirdly didn't seem to know I wanted to be with him and second he wasn't really considering me as a potential romantically. Or it seemed that way!!
Then he said "interesting. You're a really good friend and I feel strong physical desire for you but is that enough?"
So I don't know what the heck to make of that but I guess he sees me as a friend he's attracted to but that's all.
OH dear. T_T
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by MondayMorningtoo bad there aren't any male aquas here ....with alot of sag. (i think aerialview is dominant sag but he's a double aqua with lots of pisces)
@lisabethur8 I just went to check the moon sign and realised I'd put in his birth year wrong the first time. Duh. He is actually:
Sun, Aquarius
Moon, Sag
Mercury, Cap
Venus, Sag
Mars, Sag
I have gotten quite down about it over the course of the day. I think this is probably just not going to happen because I put it out there and I haven't had a positive response on it. I think if his intention was to date me he would have said so by now.
I have a gut feeling that he has a magnetic draw and attraction to me, and a tender liking, but he doesn't see me as a future potential. I think if he did, he would have done something more about it and not be dating anyone else.
It might just be one of those things where I really care about someone but have to say goodbye and get over it!
there's only Justagirl with that much sag....click to expand
Omg Aqua with that much sag? The two most signs who r very hard to pin down. Girl just run now. I don't think he can ever give u want you crave and desire ever. . you can do so much better. Good luck!
Posted by saweetz1988Posted by lisabethur8Posted by MondayMorningtoo bad there aren't any male aquas here ....with alot of sag. (i think aerialview is dominant sag but he's a double aqua with lots of pisces)
@lisabethur8 I just went to check the moon sign and realised I'd put in his birth year wrong the first time. Duh. He is actually:
Sun, Aquarius
Moon, Sag
Mercury, Cap
Venus, Sag
Mars, Sag
I have gotten quite down about it over the course of the day. I think this is probably just not going to happen because I put it out there and I haven't had a positive response on it. I think if his intention was to date me he would have said so by now.
I have a gut feeling that he has a magnetic draw and attraction to me, and a tender liking, but he doesn't see me as a future potential. I think if he did, he would have done something more about it and not be dating anyone else.
It might just be one of those things where I really care about someone but have to say goodbye and get over it!
there's only Justagirl with that much sag....
Omg Aqua with that much sag? The two most signs who r very hard to pin down. Girl just run now. I don't think he can ever give u want you crave and desire ever. . you can do so much better. Good luck!click to expand
he almost got justin timberlake's placements.
except justin has capricorn venus and his wife is all air, except for sun pisces. lol
so i can not imagine......
Posted by lisabethur8Hahaha lol. OMG Justin Timberlake? Drool . Haha. His wife is all air? Yeah air n sag go well togheee. I like the combo.Posted by saweetz1988Posted by lisabethur8Posted by MondayMorningtoo bad there aren't any male aquas here ....with alot of sag. (i think aerialview is dominant sag but he's a double aqua with lots of pisces)
@lisabethur8 I just went to check the moon sign and realised I'd put in his birth year wrong the first time. Duh. He is actually:
Sun, Aquarius
Moon, Sag
Mercury, Cap
Venus, Sag
Mars, Sag
I have gotten quite down about it over the course of the day. I think this is probably just not going to happen because I put it out there and I haven't had a positive response on it. I think if his intention was to date me he would have said so by now.
I have a gut feeling that he has a magnetic draw and attraction to me, and a tender liking, but he doesn't see me as a future potential. I think if he did, he would have done something more about it and not be dating anyone else.
It might just be one of those things where I really care about someone but have to say goodbye and get over it!
there's only Justagirl with that much sag....
Omg Aqua with that much sag? The two most signs who r very hard to pin down. Girl just run now. I don't think he can ever give u want you crave and desire ever. . you can do so much better. Good luck!
he almost got justin timberlake's placements.
except justin has capricorn venus and his wife is all air, except for sun pisces. lol
so i can not imagine......click to expand
@Saweetz1988 you’re such a cutie!
@MondayMorning I’m going through what you’re going through right now, but I’m the Aqua and he’s the Scorp. If you straight told him your intentions and he didn’t respond... then I’d back off. If he has a strong reaction to you backing off it’s because he misses you and wants you around. If he just lets it be and looking for the next best thing then let him go because that’ll hurt you in the end.
Posted by MondayMorningSounds like Aquarius alright. Scared of commitment, emotionally distant, and hospitable when you need it.
Appreciate any Aquas who can give me some understanding of this because I am so confused by this guy I don't know whether he is just a manipulative person or whether I am not understanding him correctly. I am a Scorpio sun / Scorpio Venus / Mars Leo. He is an Aqua sun / Aqua Venus / Mars Pisces.
Basically, we met about a year ago and dated for a few months and and off. The attraction was very strong between us (especially on his side) and we got on great in general, but basically we butted heads on the terms of our relationship. I won't lie - I think I was possessive and demanding (sorry I am Scorpio, we do this) but I think he was also a bit unreasonable in expecting total freedom at the same time as sharing my bed which I was no way going to accept.
He had a lot of angst about whether or not he could commit to exclusivity with me - for whatever reason he saw this as a HUGE deal. He said I wanted too much too soon. Maybe I did, but at the same time I am not sleeping with any guy who is dating other women and that isn't negotiable.
He was pretty vocal about his various doubts moving forward. He was worried I was too intense (I am intense I admit). He was worried our relationship was too sexual without enough connection mentally. These doubts made me a bit angry at the time - we'd been dating a few weeks and had 5 or 6 dates and he definitely avoided too much intimacy emotionally. I always felt like I was trying to get closer to him and couldn't.
In the end, we split for a month and then he came back asking to see me again, he almost committed to trying dating me exclusively but then he panicked and disappeared on me without saying goodbye. I let him go without a word - his choice!
Six months passed and he sent me a message to tell me he had treated me disrespectfully and had been "a dick" and he was sorry for it. I accepted his apology and told him I hoped he was well. He said he felt maybe we had jumped into sex because the attraction was so strong and maybe we should have been friends first. I agreed. He said he got spooked, and he was just really truly sorry for it.
Over the next six months, he kept talking to me. He opened up quite a lot and I guess we became friends. He told me he hadn't been exclusive with anyone for years and found the idea made him feel trapped. Sometimes he told me he thought about me a lot and felt "nostalgic". Sometimes he told me that he fantastized all the time about me. Sometimes he asked me out, sometimes as friends or sometimes asked me to take a romantic trip away with him for a weekend so we could get to know each other.
I refused to see him because the truth is that I actually really like him and didn't want to get hurt. I felt like he rejected me once and now all he wanted was more of the great sex. I felt pretty sure if I did agree to see him, we'd end up in bed and then he'd disappear again.
Then I was really sick one day, feeling really low and sorry for myself, and he texted me that night by chance and when I said how I was feeling he just showed up at my house (first time seeing him for a year) and he basically took care of me.
He got me hot drinks, he brought food, he cleaned up, he held my hand and let me sleep on his chest and he just kept kissing me and stroking my face and hair. He didn't try anything sexual but he was incredibly kind and affectionate. We had a really intimate talk where he opened up on lots of stuff that was very personal and I honestly felt like I was falling in love that night.
I asked him why he did that for me, given the zero possibility of sex, and he said it was because I was a "nice person" and he said caring for people practically was his way of showing he cared about them and he wanted me to know that despite him behaving like a dick generally, he did like me a lot.
During that night he asked if we could do some things together as friends - like play sports or take a trip or swim together. He literally does NOT have women friends, so it was nice he wants to hang out but I also wondered a bit if this means he is no longer attracted to me romantically! ?? We did kiss, but that's all.
Since that night, 5 days has passed and I haven't heard a word from him and it made me feel really sad and confused.
What is all this about? I am just honestly confused about what this guy wants from me. For a long time I thought it was sex, but I don't understand why he came over to play nurse only to ignore me after. Is this some kind of jerk here or am I missing something?
Justin Timberlake?! ha ha.
Okay so, another day passed and there was a shift in him and he started to speak to me very affectionately, calling me by the same pet names he uses for his grown up daughter. Affection is something I have only ever seen him demonstrate to his children, he is usually a pretty cold fish so this felt authentic.
He called to thank me for being there for him and speaking to him, and this is really unlike him. When we dated we barely spoke about anything "important" or "deep" and if I tried he ran a mile and didn't call me for a week so this is a new version of him where I think we are actually becoming proper friends and that makes me feel good.
He said he has booked in time with his therapist. This is kind of amazing. A year ago I was telling him the way he lived his life was kinda sad and he was reacting in total denial about it and now he's agreeing with me and wants to change it.
I feel like he's letting his walls down completely around me, and it feels nice because he would never do that before.
Anyway, he asked me if I would go on a date with him this week, so we have one booked this week. Not saying it will work out, maybe he does just want to be friends I really don't know but I feel better about it anyway.
Okay so, another day passed and there was a shift in him and he started to speak to me very affectionately, calling me by the same pet names he uses for his grown up daughter. Affection is something I have only ever seen him demonstrate to his children, he is usually a pretty cold fish so this felt authentic.
He called to thank me for being there for him and speaking to him, and this is really unlike him. When we dated we barely spoke about anything "important" or "deep" and if I tried he ran a mile and didn't call me for a week so this is a new version of him where I think we are actually becoming proper friends and that makes me feel good.
He said he has booked in time with his therapist. This is kind of amazing. A year ago I was telling him the way he lived his life was kinda sad and he was reacting in total denial about it and now he's agreeing with me and wants to change it.
I feel like he's letting his walls down completely around me, and it feels nice because he would never do that before.
Anyway, he asked me if I would go on a date with him this week, so we have one booked this week. Not saying it will work out, maybe he does just want to be friends I really don't know but I feel better about it anyway.
Posted by MondayMorningWords, words, words
Justin Timberlake?! ha ha.
Okay so, another day passed and there was a shift in him and he started to speak to me very affectionately, calling me by the same pet names he uses for his grown up daughter. Affection is something I have only ever seen him demonstrate to his children, he is usually a pretty cold fish so this felt authentic.
He called to thank me for being there for him and speaking to him, and this is really unlike him. When we dated we barely spoke about anything "important" or "deep" and if I tried he ran a mile and didn't call me for a week so this is a new version of him where I think we are actually becoming proper friends and that makes me feel good.
He said he has booked in time with his therapist. This is kind of amazing. A year ago I was telling him the way he lived his life was kinda sad and he was reacting in total denial about it and now he's agreeing with me and wants to change it.
I feel like he's letting his walls down completely around me, and it feels nice because he would never do that before.
Anyway, he asked me if I would go on a date with him this week, so we have one booked this week. Not saying it will work out, maybe he does just want to be friends I really don't know but I feel better about it anyway.
Been there twice
Don't fall for it
An astrologer friend of mine told me, in her experience most men, if they don't get a handle on themselves by their Uranus return (mid life crisis), they rarely do
Yeah, I can see we are very different. Every time I try and read him I get it totally wrong. He's a complete mystery to me, but then he says he feels the same about me so maybe we just totally confuse each other.
It's quite annoying that I am so attracted to someone I completely can't read or control. This is difficult for Scorpios, seriously!
It's quite annoying that I am so attracted to someone I completely can't read or control. This is difficult for Scorpios, seriously!
Posted by MyStarsShinethat's awful.Posted by MondayMorningWords, words, words
Justin Timberlake?! ha ha.
Okay so, another day passed and there was a shift in him and he started to speak to me very affectionately, calling me by the same pet names he uses for his grown up daughter. Affection is something I have only ever seen him demonstrate to his children, he is usually a pretty cold fish so this felt authentic.
He called to thank me for being there for him and speaking to him, and this is really unlike him. When we dated we barely spoke about anything "important" or "deep" and if I tried he ran a mile and didn't call me for a week so this is a new version of him where I think we are actually becoming proper friends and that makes me feel good.
He said he has booked in time with his therapist. This is kind of amazing. A year ago I was telling him the way he lived his life was kinda sad and he was reacting in total denial about it and now he's agreeing with me and wants to change it.
I feel like he's letting his walls down completely around me, and it feels nice because he would never do that before.
Anyway, he asked me if I would go on a date with him this week, so we have one booked this week. Not saying it will work out, maybe he does just want to be friends I really don't know but I feel better about it anyway.
Been there twice
Don't fall for it
An astrologer friend of mine told me, in her experience most men, if they don't get a handle on themselves by their Uranus return (mid life crisis), they rarely do
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i guess George Clooney got a handle of it by that middle age mark. *phew*
Posted by bittercupcakei remember reading the article on Justin Timberlake when he asked Jennifier out on a date, they were NOT friends...
Just be patient with him. Realize that Scorpios want a lover first, friend second. Aquarius want a friend first, lover second. You're coming at different angles and if you want total control (without him realizing it) of this relationship, then come at him through his perspective and in time, he will come at you with yours.
Aquarius aren't afraid of intensity or passion. We can actually handle it very well, I think the issue is coming on too strong when the Aquarius least expects it. We like small doses and when the time calls for it.
she turned him down several times but he was persistent. lol he really liked her energy i bet.
and she finally said yes. lol
so, no, if you read closely and notice, that other signs do this, and sometimes aqua doesn't.
my husband and i weren't friends at all, we met through company, and then hit it off, ops, meaning he asked me, cause he liked alot.
forgot to add, and friends stay in the FRIEND ZONE....
but then after marriage we are best friends of course, cause that's how it is.
ohhhh George Clooney may have been friendship-ing up with Amal Alamuddin when they were dating. lol
haha. eeeh. i dont think sooo...
ohhhh George Clooney may have been friendship-ing up with Amal Alamuddin when they were dating. lol
haha. eeeh. i dont think sooo...
Well we weren't friends first. At first we dated and he did pursue me and all that. I wasn't sure what went wrong at the time but I guess looking back he could not have done a relationship with anyone -it was just his head space.
Maybe if we'd met a year later it would have worked out different.
Anyway, we have our date tonight, and he just sent me a text to say "just a quick note to say I am really looking forward to tonight". Which was pretty sweet.
Maybe if we'd met a year later it would have worked out different.
Anyway, we have our date tonight, and he just sent me a text to say "just a quick note to say I am really looking forward to tonight". Which was pretty sweet.
Posted by bittercupcakeyeah i meant jessica. smh. lolPosted by lisabethur8Jennifer.? Or Jessica? But they had actually met before, they just weren’t friends. If we have our eyes set on you and we know we want you, sure. But most of the tim we need to ease up on things. Plus he has Sag moon so it makes him very forward.Posted by bittercupcakei remember reading the article on Justin Timberlake when he asked Jennifier out on a date, they were NOT friends...
Just be patient with him. Realize that Scorpios want a lover first, friend second. Aquarius want a friend first, lover second. You're coming at different angles and if you want total control (without him realizing it) of this relationship, then come at him through his perspective and in time, he will come at you with yours.
Aquarius aren't afraid of intensity or passion. We can actually handle it very well, I think the issue is coming on too strong when the Aquarius least expects it. We like small doses and when the time calls for it.
she turned him down several times but he was persistent. lol he really liked her energy i bet.
and she finally said yes. lol
so, no, if you read closely and notice, that other signs do this, and sometimes aqua doesn't.
my husband and i weren't friends at all, we met through company, and then hit it off, ops, meaning he asked me, cause he liked alot.
forgot to add, and friends stay in the FRIEND ZONE....click to expand
but they weren't friends though, they saw eachother and met, and he really wanted to be with her that's why he pursued her.
men pursue, that's really awesome on his part.
yeah that fire moon makes a man forward, and he got that aquarius mars. so strange but he doesn't come off weird or funky like the aquarius mars that is from Sasha Baron. Sasha Baron's aquarius mars is really funky, but i guess that's his comedian style ...still so weird.
even Justin Theroux's Aquarius mars doesn't come off weird.
i wonder if it's because of different aspects /placements.
@lisabethur8
@geminigirl052388
It worked! I gave him space for the most part. Just an occasional text here and there. Never bother him about working 14 hour days, not texting, and not calling. Then yesterday he talked to me throughout the day a little bit (which made me happy) and superisingly at night we actually talked two hours straight. His responses were instant. Well I may have used a little sexuality to prompt him.... it worked lol he was flirty and made sweet compliments and gave me the reassurance I was looking for!
@geminigirl052388
It worked! I gave him space for the most part. Just an occasional text here and there. Never bother him about working 14 hour days, not texting, and not calling. Then yesterday he talked to me throughout the day a little bit (which made me happy) and superisingly at night we actually talked two hours straight. His responses were instant. Well I may have used a little sexuality to prompt him.... it worked lol he was flirty and made sweet compliments and gave me the reassurance I was looking for!
Posted by pinkbird03jesus...what does he do when he has to work 14 hours day??
@lisabethur8
@geminigirl052388
It worked! I gave him space for the most part. Just an occasional text here and there. Never bother him about working 14 hour days, not texting, and not calling. Then yesterday he talked to me throughout the day a little bit (which made me happy) and superisingly at night we actually talked two hours straight. His responses were instant. Well I may have used a little sexuality to prompt him.... it worked lol he was flirty and made sweet compliments and gave me the reassurance I was looking for!
i remmber when i was with my 2nd ex, the super ambitioius one, and ironically the aqua one. lol
he had one of those fancy swancy titles for a job, but,
he really worked those 14 hour days and i was fine with it cause i was going to school and working too.
so it's gotta be some kind of job that requires his time ALOT.
https://hbr.org/2006/12/extreme-jobs-the-dangerous-allure-of-the-70-hour-workweek
Posted by aquarius_manBut i was talking about men in general, not particularly Aquarius onesPosted by MyStarsShinenah. as an aqua man myself, i will say its around the age of 30 that aqua males either get their shit together & grow up. or at all. 30 is not quite mid life crisis, is it.
An astrologer friend of mine told me, in her experience most men, if they don't get a handle on themselves by their Uranus return (mid life crisis), they rarely do
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Posted by aquarius_manPosted by pinkbird03Well I may have used a little sexuality to prompt him.... it worked lol he was flirty and made sweet compliments and gave me the reassurance I was looking for!yea. keep fishing for reassurance and see how far this gets you.click to expand
I don’t believe he knew I was looking for reassurance because I left him alone. Only really said things like good morning, how’s your week going, hope you have a nice day, etc. I waited it out to see if he was still interested in me because I was a little concerned by his lack of effort but I figured it was because of work and I didn’t nag or question him about it.
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