Getting bored with virgo! (Page 2)

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by firywetair

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I went out with a Virgo, he bored me to death. I broke up with him 3 times.

I had read about all those compatiblity between aqua n virgo saying things like it can be best or worst. i din't bother and chose to accept the best part and ignore the worst part since i valued our relation more than that. but now what i read seems more true than not since whats happening between us is just extremes of good and bad. the good part is the best and bad part is the worst. its a roller coaster!

Find a good place in your relationship, avoid the conflicts for awhile, focus your energy on other things -- instead of on him or the relationship. Try that for awhile, see how you feel.

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The way i like to handle is to just retreat for sometime without any interaction with the concerned person..and let time and slow thought process bring clarity to how to deal with the situation..now retreating itself becomes another issue for him...what would happen when a person is already trying to solve a problem and a new problem in the same area crops up..isn't it overwhelming..but last night when we spoke i did not speak much he wanted to know y i did not say anything coz i have seen the consequences of expressing before..he was upset and said that i get back to him when i wish to talk..n disconnected..but i know that its easy for him to say that and if i actually take some days to get back..within those days ill have emotional blackmailing texts coming in..i can't have peace basically!

Posted by ceu
I am an Aquarius, aquapiscescusp.

ahhh ok, cuz I was getting bored 😛

Posted by firywetair
I am married to this virgo for almost 2 years and already feel like the relationship is dying. I feel so bored with him. What about your experiences aquas?

I was getting to know this Virgo guy. Had fun conversations (mostly it was me i think lol) he was very secretive. He wouldn't answer my questions and avoid them at times. I met him for the first time and he really bored me. He mumbled half the time and the conversation wasn't going anywhere at all. Its odd because my sister is a Virgo and I get along with her great. She's soo bubbly and chatty. So I dunno I guess every Virgo is different.

Its prob best to chat to him. Or if you think of things, ways to spice things up. Maybe that will open him up a bit more?

Virgos are only interesting to me as case studies. Massive, immature alter egos that walk 10 feet in front of them. Always talking about themselves in almost a third person perspective, but never really showing who they say they are. Most Virgos I know are very service oriented towards others, but in their private life tend to live in the shade. Hissy fits, drama queens..esp the males, they constantly fight to get out of their own oppression. I know 3 that love to be pissed on..;/

I agree with CC. Try every possible way to make things work. If all fails, then cut ties. You only have 1 life so make sure your happiness comes first. Or else you will be in misery and depressed forever, leading to much harsher life. So learn your lesson the hard way ! This applies to anyone, Virgo or not. Virgo and Aquarius is a big NO NO ! This is from history and many couples I have seen.

Sometimes, when one thing doesn't work, it doesn't mean it won't work forever. MAYBE YOU SHOULD WAIT FOR THE RIGHT TIMING. 🙂

I don't find Virgo men boring.

TWI ARE THEY LIVING VIRGOS OR DEAD THE DEAD ONES ARE MORE INTERESTING

I like the virgo mind. The way they weigh out all the angles and possibilities, much like a cap. It's fun to run theory and ideas past them. They make good sounding boards. You can get into some really fun discussions with them. Ah, well, but caps and virgos are very pratical people.

I can see how an aqua who needs more constant stimulation can get bored with a virgo stuck in a routine. Aqua just needs to draw out the fun, intellectual side and encourage the virgo's adventurous spirit. Virgo needs to realize aqua needs more excitement and less routine.

Posted by truecap
I like the virgo mind. The way they weigh out all the angles and possibilities, much like a cap. It's fun to run theory and ideas past them. They make good sounding boards. You can get into some really fun discussions with them. Ah, well, but caps and virgos are very pratical people.

I can see how an aqua who needs more constant stimulation can get bored with a virgo stuck in a routine. Aqua just needs to draw out the fun, intellectual side and encourage the virgo's adventurous spirit. Virgo needs to realize aqua needs more excitement and less routine.

i like the virgo energy too. Mostly sun/moon energies/rising. i love routine, as well, the strong stability. if a person needs cray cray, then that person themselves should have cray cray already in their head and don't need outside interference. LOL i guess those are for the extroverts who need outside interference for cray crayness.

Plus the brilliancy! -whew- better than any air sign brilliance. That's why virgos are no.1 richest LMAO
but caps, they give them the run for the money! earth sign energies are just awesome.

I can see how an aqua who needs more constant stimulation can get bored with a virgo stuck in a routine. Aqua just needs to draw out the fun, intellectual side and encourage the virgo's adventurous spirit. Virgo needs to realize aqua needs more excitement and less routine.

ARE FIND A CAPRICORN

Posted by james tate
I can see how an aqua who needs more constant stimulation can get bored with a virgo stuck in a routine. Aqua just needs to draw out the fun, intellectual side and encourage the virgo's adventurous spirit. Virgo needs to realize aqua needs more excitement and less routine.

ARE FIND A CAPRICORN

One thing that is consistent with aquarius that astrologers have liked to brag about, is BRAINS.

LOL

Riggghttt. Like, "we" just know who has it. And who lacks it. LMAO...how elitist is that? That's so funny.

Taters, you got some brains? *takes a piece out like hannibal lector* Mmmm...chewy....bit on the dry side....not bad not bad at all...Ohhh what's this? Sheep stuff, and wool...*ppppftt*

Richard Gere and Carey Lowell split after 11 years. It's being speculated that she wanted to socialize with friends (as most aquarius) but he wanted to hideout and be alone at home. Yet he was also too friendly with other females, specifically Dianne Lane. What a contradiction, it's proof that aquarius and virgo doesn't work after all.

Posted by namesake1
Richard Gere and Carey Lowell split after 11 years. It's being speculated that she wanted to socialize with friends (as most aquarius) but he wanted to hideout and be alone at home. Yet he was also too friendly with other females, specifically Dianne Lane. What a contradiction, it's proof that aquarius and virgo doesn't work after all.

awww that's too bad. Most celebs don't stay long together, but a few of them do. Mel Gibson one saddened me.

Like Denzel washington/Paula, Sting and his Cap wife, ect.

What proof? That's about the lamest thing i've ever heard. No offense.

Guess we'll have to tell Sarah Palin the Aquarius to get her Double Virgo man out of the house then huh?

also read that Catherine Zeta Jones split with her hubby too.

Nooooo!!! i just checked.....Vampire Diaries Paul Wesley and his wife split too.
And Nina and....Vampire Diaries Ian Somerhalder? O_O

George Clooney and Stacy Kiebler....ehhhh well, it's not like we weren't expecting it. >_>

I am married to this virgo for almost 2 years and already feel like the relationship is dying. I feel so bored with him. What about your experiences aquas?

Ask yourself-

-WHY did you marry him? What are the reasons you gave yourself to marry someone who you perceive to be boring?

You seem to expect more from what actually is therein lies the problem. Didn't take the time to really understand him did you? before jumping in heh?(Abit rash dont you think?) Think life is a bed of roses do you? and Now you are realising WTF is going on and oh before you start blaming him for marrying you take a big look at yourself for for agreeing to be marryed to such a 'boring' guy.

Sheesh, why now, why this? Thats what happens when you dont take time to understand yourself or others before making huge decisons, very immature, don't you think?

Sounds like you still need to grow up and its only until you do that you realise virgo man is not boring but really decent and you lucky to have such a guy

This also depends on type of relationship you guys are actually having and what you willing to settle for, woek out try ways of not being boring, he may think of you as boring and that is why you yourself feel bored, like reflecting his emotions or something, anyway if you have tried everything to work this marry and it could be that you are incompatible with him.

Or it could be you have learnt all there is with him and that is why you 'bored' with him

also why you so afraid of realising and facing what actually is instead what you wish it to be?

Another helpful suggestion would be to stop looking toward him for amusement and amuse yourself by yourself.

I know a ppl who get very bored with ppl in general and have a tendency to boredom from pretty much anything and everything- finds alot of ppl, places and situations extremely boring (its like your going a million miles an hour and everyone is in slow motion), now in saying that this person has learnt that just coz you perceive things to be boring doesnt mean that they really are, its just that everything operates a different level at diff times to yourself etcetc and its until you realise this then you will always look to others to help you not be bored

its the responsibility of the ppl to keep themselves amused but not at the expense of hurting others to keep amused, if you can master this you are doing well

Try to find like minded ppl, keep from being bored- sit with yourself and be 'bored' with yourself
, I dont know I guess just forget that and try to see it differently, maybe you are trying to seek validation from someone on the board to let know that this is exactly what you already know.

Posted by mfwb55
Another helpful suggestion would be to stop looking toward him for amusement and amuse yourself by yourself.

I know a ppl who get very bored with ppl in general and have a tendency to boredom from pretty much anything and everything- finds alot of ppl, places and situations extremely boring (its like your going a million miles an hour and everyone is in slow motion), now in saying that this person has learnt that just coz you perceive things to be boring doesnt mean that they really are, its just that everything operates a different level at diff times to yourself etcetc and its until you realise this then you will always look to others to help you not be bored

its the responsibility of the ppl to keep themselves amused but not at the expense of hurting others to keep amused, if you can master this you are doing well

Try to find like minded ppl, keep from being bored- sit with yourself and be 'bored' with yourself
, I dont know I guess just forget that and try to see it differently, maybe you are trying to seek validation from someone on the board to let know that this is exactly what you already know.

Yep. I'm telling you...these people (in general) look for EXTERNAL stimulation...the extroverts...needing sky diving and external action from outside forces. They NEED it...it's their nature. If they can't keep themselves entertained....they can't help it. They just don't have it in them. Just twiddle your thumbs then, or kick rocks outside.

Posted by james tate
I can see how an aqua who needs more constant stimulation can get bored with a virgo stuck in a routine. Aqua just needs to draw out the fun, intellectual side and encourage the virgo's adventurous spirit. Virgo needs to realize aqua needs more excitement and less routine.

ARE FIND A CAPRICORN

Heck yeah!

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by mfwb55
Another helpful suggestion would be to stop looking toward him for amusement and amuse yourself by yourself.

I know a ppl who get very bored with ppl in general and have a tendency to boredom from pretty much anything and everything- finds alot of ppl, places and situations extremely boring (its like your going a million miles an hour and everyone is in slow motion), now in saying that this person has learnt that just coz you perceive things to be boring doesnt mean that they really are, its just that everything operates a different level at diff times to yourself etcetc and its until you realise this then you will always look to others to help you not be bored

its the responsibility of the ppl to keep themselves amused but not at the expense of hurting others to keep amused, if you can master this you are doing well

Try to find like minded ppl, keep from being bored- sit with yourself and be 'bored' with yourself
, I dont know I guess just forget that and try to see it differently, maybe you are trying to seek validation from someone on the board to let know that this is exactly what you already know.

Yep. I'm telling you...these people (in general) look for EXTERNAL stimulation...the extroverts...needing sky diving and external action from outside forces. They NEED it...it's their nature. If they can't keep themselves entertained....they can't help it. They just don't have it in them. Just twiddle your thumbs then, or kick rocks outside.

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Wouldn't people like this need someone in their life to keep them "grounded"? A voice of reason. A calm figure to settle them down? Someone to offer stability and dependability? A person to go to that will maintain the sanity? A beacon in the whirlwind of life?

Posted by truecap

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by mfwb55
Another helpful suggestion would be to stop looking toward him for amusement and amuse yourself by yourself.

I know a ppl who get very bored with ppl in general and have a tendency to boredom from pretty much anything and everything- finds alot of ppl, places and situations extremely boring (its like your going a million miles an hour and everyone is in slow motion), now in saying that this person has learnt that just coz you perceive things to be boring doesnt mean that they really are, its just that everything operates a different level at diff times to yourself etcetc and its until you realise this then you will always look to others to help you not be bored

its the responsibility of the ppl to keep themselves amused but not at the expense of hurting others to keep amused, if you can master this you are doing well

Try to find like minded ppl, keep from being bored- sit with yourself and be 'bored' with yourself
, I dont know I guess just forget that and try to see it differently, maybe you are trying to seek validation from someone on the board to let know that this is exactly what you already know.

Yep. I'm telling you...these people (in general) look for EXTERNAL stimulation...the extroverts...needing sky diving and external action from outside forces. They NEED it...it's their nature. If they can't keep themselves entertained....they can't help it. They just don't have it in them. Just twiddle your thumbs then, or kick rocks outside.

Wouldn't people like this need someone in their life to keep them "grounded"? A voice of reason. A calm figure to settle them down? Someone to offer stability and dependability? A person to go to that will maintain the sanity? A beacon in the whirlwind of life?

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Good point, but what a person needs and what a person wants.....are usually two different things.

I WANT millions of dollars. I only NEED ten for lunch! 😉