How long did it take to get in a relationship with your Aquarius ?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by goldrockett on Monday, January 9, 2017 and has 15 replies.
Just curious. I'm dating an Aquarius guy now and it'll be 3 months soon. I'm getting crap from ppl saying I should be in a relationship with them by now but honestly , everyone is different.
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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Look. One thing I learned about people is no two people are alike therefore no relationship will be either. As far was what people say, I have NEVER heard that. 3 months is way too soon. I mean you're just touching the surface of a person why on earth would you jump into one.

When I was dating my ex it took us 10 months to be official. Was talking to a Leo and it took over a year for me to finally decide that it's what I wanted. Unfortunately, neither relationship worked out.

I'm not one to jump in quick into a relationship. I try to avoid the heartbreak of attachment when dealing with people. Breakups are messy and hurtful. If i'm just dating you with no 'official' label. It makes walking away a lot easier. Call me a coward, but it's just the way I am.

Aquarius will take their time in getting to know their potential SO. We want to make sure you're worthy of us sacrificing our freedom for you. This takes a lot of thinking time.
I sooooo agree with you !! 3 months is too soon. I'm listening to these ppl basically bashing me bc they think he's playing me or whatever bc 3 months " is too long to be dating ". I'd rather take my time as yourself to make sure this would be something that'd last a long time as well. I don't handle breakups well myself.

So I understand completely. Me still being in the picture with my Aquarius 3 months in is a good sign to me.
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10 years for me to get a real commitment (but I didn't wait around for him; went out on dates, even slept with other people, just never found one that made me feel how he did). Together now for almost 30 years.
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Posted by sultrykitty
10 years for me to get a real commitment (but I didn't wait around for him; went out on dates, even slept with other people, just never found one that made me feel how he did). Together now for almost 30 years.
Awww that's great love !! I hope that for myself , I hear that when they commit , they're committed. Hopefully that's true with my guy
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Posted by goldrockett
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Look. One thing I learned about people is no two people are alike therefore no relationship will be either. As far was what people say, I have NEVER heard that. 3 months is way too soon. I mean you're just touching the surface of a person why on earth would you jump into one.

When I was dating my ex it took us 10 months to be official. Was talking to a Leo and it took over a year for me to finally decide that it's what I wanted. Unfortunately, neither relationship worked out.

I'm not one to jump in quick into a relationship. I try to avoid the heartbreak of attachment when dealing with people. Breakups are messy and hurtful. If i'm just dating you with no 'official' label. It makes walking away a lot easier. Call me a coward, but it's just the way I am.

Aquarius will take their time in getting to know their potential SO. We want to make sure you're worthy of us sacrificing our freedom for you. This takes a lot of thinking time.
I sooooo agree with you !! 3 months is too soon. I'm listening to these ppl basically bashing me bc they think he's playing me or whatever bc 3 months " is too long to be dating ". I'd rather take my time as yourself to make sure this would be something that'd last a long time as well. I don't handle breakups well myself.

So I understand completely. Me still being in the picture with my Aquarius 3 months in is a good sign to me.
Aquas don't like wasting our time or energy on anyone. (unless they just want to have sex and are 'players). but they don't show irregular consistency for three months. If we go out on a date with you and we don't feel that connection we will make half ass excuses to see you again. 3 months is definitely a good sign. don't listen to what other people say. follow your heart.

whats your sign btw?
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Well we have been intimate in the midst of dating for 3 months. But we did talk last night a bit and he told me that he likes where things are going and that he really likes me a lot. I'm following my heart but I'm so anxious for things to get deeper between he and I. I am a Taurus

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Posted by goldrockett
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Posted by goldrockett
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Look. One thing I learned about people is no two people are alike therefore no relationship will be either. As far was what people say, I have NEVER heard that. 3 months is way too soon. I mean you're just touching the surface of a person why on earth would you jump into one.

When I was dating my ex it took us 10 months to be official. Was talking to a Leo and it took over a year for me to finally decide that it's what I wanted. Unfortunately, neither relationship worked out.

I'm not one to jump in quick into a relationship. I try to avoid the heartbreak of attachment when dealing with people. Breakups are messy and hurtful. If i'm just dating you with no 'official' label. It makes walking away a lot easier. Call me a coward, but it's just the way I am.

Aquarius will take their time in getting to know their potential SO. We want to make sure you're worthy of us sacrificing our freedom for you. This takes a lot of thinking time.
I sooooo agree with you !! 3 months is too soon. I'm listening to these ppl basically bashing me bc they think he's playing me or whatever bc 3 months " is too long to be dating ". I'd rather take my time as yourself to make sure this would be something that'd last a long time as well. I don't handle breakups well myself.

So I understand completely. Me still being in the picture with my Aquarius 3 months in is a good sign to me.
Aquas don't like wasting our time or energy on anyone. (unless they just want to have sex and are 'players). but they don't show irregular consistency for three months. If we go out on a date with you and we don't feel that connection we will make half ass excuses to see you again. 3 months is definitely a good sign. don't listen to what other people say. follow your heart.

whats your sign btw?
Well we have been intimate in the midst of dating for 3 months. But we did talk last night a bit and he told me that he likes where things are going and that he really likes me a lot. I'm following my heart but I'm so anxious for things to get deeper between he and I. I am a Taurus

Are you anxious because you wish for it too or because you're afraid it might?
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I'm anxious bc I'm wishing for it. I've been single for a long time and unsuccessful in relationships. He's the first guy I've dealt with and things still look good. I'm just hoping we get to that point
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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by goldrockett
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Posted by goldrockett
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Look. One thing I learned about people is no two people are alike therefore no relationship will be either. As far was what people say, I have NEVER heard that. 3 months is way too soon. I mean you're just touching the surface of a person why on earth would you jump into one.

When I was dating my ex it took us 10 months to be official. Was talking to a Leo and it took over a year for me to finally decide that it's what I wanted. Unfortunately, neither relationship worked out.

I'm not one to jump in quick into a relationship. I try to avoid the heartbreak of attachment when dealing with people. Breakups are messy and hurtful. If i'm just dating you with no 'official' label. It makes walking away a lot easier. Call me a coward, but it's just the way I am.

Aquarius will take their time in getting to know their potential SO. We want to make sure you're worthy of us sacrificing our freedom for you. This takes a lot of thinking time.
I sooooo agree with you !! 3 months is too soon. I'm listening to these ppl basically bashing me bc they think he's playing me or whatever bc 3 months " is too long to be dating ". I'd rather take my time as yourself to make sure this would be something that'd last a long time as well. I don't handle breakups well myself.

So I understand completely. Me still being in the picture with my Aquarius 3 months in is a good sign to me.
Aquas don't like wasting our time or energy on anyone. (unless they just want to have sex and are 'players). but they don't show irregular consistency for three months. If we go out on a date with you and we don't feel that connection we will make half ass excuses to see you again. 3 months is definitely a good sign. don't listen to what other people say. follow your heart.

whats your sign btw?
Well we have been intimate in the midst of dating for 3 months. But we did talk last night a bit and he told me that he likes where things are going and that he really likes me a lot. I'm following my heart but I'm so anxious for things to get deeper between he and I. I am a Taurus

Are you anxious because you wish for it too or because you're afraid it might?
I'm anxious bc I'm wishing for it. I've been single for a long time and unsuccessful in relationships. He's the first guy I've dealt with and things still look good. I'm just hoping we get to that point
It seems really good! no pressure girl! Just be patient (i know you can be ms. taurus) and be there for him. work on building an emotional connection with him. help him tear down those walls he has surrounding his heart. once you do....you will have it at your disposal and by then it will be too hard to let you go.
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I'll work on connecting with him emotionally bc his heart is what I want !! I know I can cater to him the way he needs and I'm excited that we're on a good path so far so I'm hoping to come back and have a great testimony to share with you guys lol.
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I would be interested to know each of your Moon signs..
Mine is in Capricorn , his , I'm not sure. His birthday is 1/24/87
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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Look. One thing I learned about people is no two people are alike therefore no relationship will be either. As far was what people say, I have NEVER heard that. 3 months is way too soon. I mean you're just touching the surface of a person why on earth would you jump into one.

When I was dating my ex it took us 10 months to be official. Was talking to a Leo and it took over a year for me to finally decide that it's what I wanted. Unfortunately, neither relationship worked out.

I'm not one to jump in quick into a relationship. I try to avoid the heartbreak of attachment when dealing with people. Breakups are messy and hurtful. If i'm just dating you with no 'official' label. It makes walking away a lot easier. Call me a coward, but it's just the way I am.

Aquarius will take their time in getting to know their potential SO. We want to make sure you're worthy of us sacrificing our freedom for you. This takes a lot of thinking time.
That's awesome !!! 10 months or a year??? Were u dating other people in the process? Did you have the exclusive talk?
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10 years for me to get a real commitment (but I didn't wait around for him; went out on dates, even slept with other people, just never found one that made me feel how he did). Together now for almost 30 years.
Omg ten years !!! So during that time did you know if he was dating other people too?
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Posted by goldrockett
Just curious. I'm dating an Aquarius guy now and it'll be 3 months soon. I'm getting crap from ppl saying I should be in a relationship with them by now but honestly , everyone is different.
I like to keep new relationships close to my chest. I want to spend all my energy getting to know the person to see if we are a good fit, not gossip with friends and over share. Having others expectations just complicate things.

With the exception of my sister, I tell her everything. She's my sounding board.
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Posted by sultrykitty
10 years for me to get a real commitment (but I didn't wait around for him; went out on dates, even slept with other people, just never found one that made me feel how he did). Together now for almost 30 years.
Omg ten years !!! So during that time did you know if he was dating other people too?
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He was, and neither of us liked that the other was!! His daughter (from someone else) was conceived at year 5.

Not saying it was completely healthy, but yeah...

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Posted by sultrykitty
10 years for me to get a real commitment (but I didn't wait around for him; went out on dates, even slept with other people, just never found one that made me feel how he did). Together now for almost 30 years.
U r a typical leo...

"always the bridesmaid and never the bride"... leo females do not seem to have high standards.

They would put up with "dating" a guy on and off for 10 years plus and no commitment..... but endlessly "sleeping around" with people...

I know a lot of leos who are just like this.... Such a waste
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Hmmm...but we are happy now and been together longer than most people stay married. I don't feel like I missed out. So what's your real point?

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by sultrykitty
10 years for me to get a real commitment (but I didn't wait around for him; went out on dates, even slept with other people, just never found one that made me feel how he did). Together now for almost 30 years.
U r a typical leo...

"always the bridesmaid and never the bride"... leo females do not seem to have high standards.

They would put up with "dating" a guy on and off for 10 years plus and no commitment..... but endlessly "sleeping around" with people...

I know a lot of leos who are just like this.... Such a waste
Hmmm...but we are happy now and been together longer than most people stay married. I don't feel like I missed out. So what's your real point?

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lol

she disses leo but she has leo energy herself.


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Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by sultrykitty
10 years for me to get a real commitment (but I didn't wait around for him; went out on dates, even slept with other people, just never found one that made me feel how he did). Together now for almost 30 years.
U r a typical leo...

"always the bridesmaid and never the bride"... leo females do not seem to have high standards.

They would put up with "dating" a guy on and off for 10 years plus and no commitment..... but endlessly "sleeping around" with people...

I know a lot of leos who are just like this.... Such a waste
Hmmm...but we are happy now and been together longer than most people stay married. I don't feel like I missed out. So what's your real point?



lol

she disses leo but she has leo energy herself.


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And I have less Leo influence in my chart than she does, I think. LOL

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