Yeah, Shit got stirred on the Wknd. Its not that we are not in love its because we are really busy with other things happening in our lives. His mind has been elsewhere - we talked on the weekend & hugged & had some real good kissing time

I still am not sure where we are at but I hope its somewhere good.
when we were talking about travel I told him when we go travelling I want to have at least one month travelling on my own & he said in that case we have to write down what we both get up too & put it in a box & we are not allowed to look at it untill our 50th wedding anniversary & if either of us looks at it before then than there will be devorce papers in the bottom & thats it! Ha
So I guess it means he is still serious about us. Just either have to ride this out or have a break - dont know - we are both going away for easter - hes going one end & I am going the other so maybe that will be good for us.

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Cheers UC.
Couple of things thou - its only been 2 years & we have already separated for 4 months durring this time when I moved to Sydney.
We had been living together prior to this as well but we were living with his frat boy flatmates (who used to film us sleeping & tea bag my bf who also thought it was funny!! NOT FUNNY) I moved out when mr man was being a slut & that caused me to go off the deep end too & he said in typical Aqua/boy(not man)fashion "I dont know what I want". Allot of other shit went down too so I took off to Sydney. I missed my family & allot of my mates were back in the GC & Mr man & I realllly missed each other & were visiting each other every other week so he said hed move down for me (originally he moved half way accross QLD to be with me) He said he wanted us to live together. Long Long story but all in all I moved back up & we have been living together on our own for the last 8 months. Most of it has been bliss up till lately.
Yes, he has asked me to marry him (I said in the future yes I would marry him but not right now - HE DIDNT HAVE A RING THOU) & we have talked about having kids in the future & he wants to build our first home together. We are both working full time & studying and have goals - we both want to travel allot more b4 having kids or anything like that too.

Is it a faze or something deeper....

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